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Dr. Temperance Brennan
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1215 on: September 17, 2008, 03:37:25 pm »
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About that moving in question. I'm 17, becoming 18 in November. Next autumn are Marius and I going to move together. I have to move a long way from home to go to university, so he's moving with me!
But here at home are we living from each other. We both still live with our parents.
But I love him so much! We've soon been together for a year. My gift for him was tickets to see R.E.M when they where in Oslo some weeks ago. He was so happy! 
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1216 on: September 24, 2008, 04:22:03 pm »
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I'm back home, with Adam over the road again!
Life is aces
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1217 on: October 28, 2008, 08:50:43 pm »
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Hey girls. Its been a while...and needless to say, things with me and Mark aren't goin very well. I'm in need of some advice.
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1218 on: October 28, 2008, 09:03:18 pm »
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Hey Bianca, whats the problem, maybe I can help 
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1219 on: October 28, 2008, 09:11:45 pm »
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Well, for the third time this year, Mark's lied to me. It's taking a major toll on us. Most recent, he said that he canceled classes when he didn't. And he kept it up for quite sometime. His parents found out and I began to suspect it a couple weeks back. Figured he'd start goin to class again and didn't. And now, I can't see him except for Tuesday and Thursday nights.
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1220 on: October 28, 2008, 09:36:02 pm »
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That isn't good as trust is the most important thing in a relationship for it to work. Have you had a heart to heart with him, a proper talk? Maybe you could both speak together in counselling/safe enviroment with professional. Are you going out or married?
You need to sit down with him and talk this problem through for the both of you it would be best
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1221 on: October 28, 2008, 11:16:11 pm »
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We've been dating for a bit over three years. And the most of this started happening earlier this year. The catch, we're also engaged. The strain is so much worse this time. I started writing him when he was in Chem tonight. I don't have the heart to give it to him. Yet again, I don't have a way of really communicating with him currently.
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1222 on: November 02, 2008, 12:41:22 pm »
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Theres only one thing you can do, and that's talk to him about it. Let him know your concerns, ask him if there is a reason behind the behaviour that is bothering you, and see if you can sort it out.
Give him a call and tell him you need to speak to him. He will make the effort to meet with you if he knows that it is something that is important to you. If you're getting married you need to sort out little things like this before they blow into something more serious that won't be made better as easily.
Don't write him a letter, or email, or just speak about it over the phone. When problems like this crop up you need to talk about it in person to sort things out. Letters generally don't make the situation any better.
Good luck. I hope it all works out for you 
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1223 on: November 02, 2008, 09:51:49 pm »
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He and I managed to talk and hang out on Thursday after his chem test. Things seem to be doing better. For now. Called him randomly Friday, which I can't tell totally surprised his mom, he came into work yesterday to see me, and when he talked today, I told him my health insurance was getting cut, and he didn't show too much emotion. Or when I told him how much my med is without insurance. To amount what he said was, nice. That's it. I see him again on Tuesday, we'll see how it goes this time.
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1224 on: February 03, 2009, 02:37:12 pm »
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gosh, i wish i had a boyfriend. never had one in my life! not even a guy friend.  idk...i'm having this dance on friday in my school and some dude named chris said he wanted to ask me something...hmmm.  haha, he is soooo tall though! he is taller than my dad!! 
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1225 on: February 08, 2009, 07:19:53 pm »
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So, after two in an half months of trying to fix things. We called it quits about this time last month. On the bright side, I did find someone new very shortly after and he's nothing short of very sweet.
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1226 on: February 08, 2009, 08:45:52 pm »
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Quote from: Bianca on February 08, 2009, 07:19:53 pm
So, after two in an half months of trying to fix things. We called it quits about this time last month. On the bright side, I did find someone new very shortly after and he's nothing short of very sweet.
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aww, i am sorry about that.  thats good that you found someone else!  haha, i'm happy and sad for you at the same time.
as for me...nothing. no boys. ugg.
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1227 on: February 25, 2010, 03:53:08 am »
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*Revives thread*
So, how's everyone and their partners?
Marius and I have been together for almost two and a half years now, and lived together for six months, and it's been really great! He's the best ever and we get closer and closer to eachother each day. Yes, we do have our fights, but nothing that's destroying the beautiful thing we have together.
We've even started discussing churchs, without anything else being decided
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1228 on: February 25, 2010, 05:52:29 am »
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Sorry to hear that Bianca, hope this relationship works out better for you both
Congratulations Marit & Marius on a great relationship
Well, me and Mark are still going strong nearly eleven years and two months down the line. Married nearly seven years and within that marriage have lived together in our flat gone on working holiday and lived with my parents again for nearly a year In our time together everything has been thrown at us but we have got through it together. I believe our working holiday actually made us closer even though we have always been close, you get what I mean. I guess because we were traveling and it was all new experience for us.. Who knows what the future holds for us but as long we are together till death parts us, we will be both be happy
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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1229 on: April 15, 2010, 10:23:25 am »
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No gushing since February? I'm dissapointed, girls!
I'm going to Rome for a week in May with Marius! It's with his family, so his parents pay the whole trip and we'll be travelling with them and Marius' two brothers and the wife and daugther of the oldest. It'll be great!
And I think it's really cool that they invited me with them! It makes me feel really accepted by them, which is great!
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