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Re:Gushing about your partner
« Reply #1200 on: April 20, 2008, 06:49:20 am »
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Lincoln is quite a way from London. It's between Sheffield and Nottingham.
Yesterday was another awesome day. There was a block party where he lives on Friday night, and so naturally we spent all day yesterday in bed nursing hangovers. Once they'd cleared though we were so hyperactive from all the coke and fanta we had drunk. (Doubt the fish and chips lunch and pizza tea helped) up til 3am just giggling like lunatics whilst watching 'Britains got talent'. Aces.
Aw, sorry you can't be with Alan on your 1 year Coz. I couldn't be with Adam on ours either cos he was in Sweden that weekend. I'm sure you'll make up for it on another day  hehe.
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« Reply #1201 on: June 11, 2008, 10:31:11 am »
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oops, we landed on the second page, so it's high time to gush a bit.
I had the most amazing day with my bf yesterday. We both had off from work because our pupils had to study for the exam, so in the afternoon we went swimming. Which was amazing because th pool was completely empty so we had it all for ourselves.
In the evening we went to watch 'what happens in vegas', which was a mediocre film, but I didn't care, because we made out most of the time  . It was so romantic, we went to the same cinema on our first date and I'm so happy we are together.
How is it going with your boyfriends/girlfriends?
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« Reply #1202 on: June 11, 2008, 04:48:52 pm »
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Aww, that sounds great Artanis!
Marius and I are great. Been together for over 8 months now! 
And we've started talking about moving to Trondheim together when I start to study at the university. Yes, it's two years ahead, but still 
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« Reply #1203 on: June 12, 2008, 08:05:41 am »
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Aw sounds like a great day Artanis.
Marit, talks of moving in together after 8 months, wow that must be going really well, I'm really happy for you
Meanwhile... I am alone.
Boo hoo. Summer sucks. I've not had chance to visit him, and he's not had chance to visit me yet either. And worse still, I'm about to start a full time job which will make seeing him even trickier to sort out  Hopefully we'll be able to sort something on weekends soon cos I miss him ooooodles!
It's his 21st birthday in early September, and I've been trying to think about what I could do for it.
At the moment I'm thinking a weekend away together. I'm debating between Dublin, Amsterdam, or maybe somewhere in Spain. (Paris or Venice would have been good too, but I'm going to both places with a friend a week later so don't want to spoil it for myself lol)
That's the only idea I've had so far... can you guys think of anything else (or as an addition) I could do for it? I wanna spoil him rotton cos I love him that much
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« Reply #1204 on: June 12, 2008, 11:32:41 am »
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Marit: glad everything is going so well with Marius.
Taf: a weekend sounds so romantic. Amsterdam is cool. I have always wanted to go to Barcelona, but didn't have the chance yet, I think that's great as well. And a little warmer than Amsterdam .
You could also maybe surpire him with a champagne breakfast, that's something I would really love .
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« Reply #1205 on: June 16, 2008, 03:59:36 am »
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Things between Allan and I haven't been so great... the distance thing is getting really stressful - we've been together for over a year now, I thought he would be living here by now, and it sucks being committed to someone but not being able to share any experiences with them because they live so far away, GRR 
We're working on it though. We have a good thing going, I'm not sure I'd want to throw it away.
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« Reply #1206 on: June 16, 2008, 05:55:12 am »
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Quote from: Artanis on June 12, 2008, 11:32:41 am
Taf: a weekend sounds so romantic. Amsterdam is cool. I have always wanted to go to Barcelona, but didn't have the chance yet, I think that's great as well. And a little warmer than Amsterdam ..
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Yeah, I think I will have to do some price checking. Income is questionable atm, and I have a costly hol with a girlfriend coming up that I still don't know if I can afford lol. 
He's in Malia with the lads at the moment. Rang me last night at a delightful 2am (Did I wake you? No shit!!! lol) apparently any girl that comes up to him he just tells them he's married and they can't get away quick enough.
He's well trained
Sorry things are getting a little difficult at the moment Coz, but I understand it's not easy doing long distance. How often do you get to see each other?
Maybe it's just a rough patch every relationship goes through and it's made worse by not being around each other?
I know when me and Adam have little tiffs it's like a 100 times worse when we're not together. 
Hope things work out for yous twos.
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« Reply #1207 on: June 17, 2008, 05:14:40 am »
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Maybe, but it's our first rough patch so I'm totally worried. We see each other once a month but it's just not enough - if I'm committed to him, I want him to be around so I am constantly reminded of why I am committed, why I love him so much.
Plus, I have a crush on a workmate which isn't making things easy I know crushes aren't unusual for most people in relationships, but they're unusual for me so I don't know how to handle it... I not stupid enough to cheat or anything like that but I still feel guilty because I feel really awesome every time I talk to my workmate, he's a great guy and he makes me feel so good. My boy would make me feel good if only he was here.
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« Reply #1208 on: June 17, 2008, 09:06:36 am »
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Is it only once a month because that's as much as you CAN see each other, or because one or both of you just isn't making the effort?
It's important in these kind of relationships that you are both willing to go out of your way and make an effort for each other. Is there no way at all that one of you could move closer to the other? Would either of you be happy or willing to do that for the relationship (I understand moving would distrupt relationships with friends and family and it's a big thing to do for just one person)
Long distance relationships aren't easy. I couldn't do it. So I kind of understand what you're going through. It's an unfortunate circumstance that can drive people apart when they would be absolutely fine if they were together all the time.
But don't give up. Chances are you will pull through this rough patch and things will be fine again. But you need to talk about trying to see each other more, by doing that you will soon see if things are going to work out or not.
I really hope they do for you, Coz
And I wouldn't worry about the crush. It's understandable that you will notice other people around when you're not seeing your boyfriend that often. But it doesn't mean anything really. Just don't let it come between either you and your boyfriend or you and the other guy, or you could be in for some trouble...
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« Reply #1209 on: June 26, 2008, 12:47:15 am »
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Hey all! It's been a while... but I'm glad to hear everyone is still doing well.
Taf, a weekend away sounds like so much fun! (If you can afford it, of course...) If not, even just planning a weekend closer to home doing things you wouldn't normally do can be a fun (and much cheaper) option.
Marit, congrats on 8 months! That's exciting.
Coz, sorry to hear about the trouble... I hope you guys can work it out! And havin a little crush on a friend isn't horrible - it's happened to me before. Just make sure you don't get too wrapped up in it!
Dave and I are still doing great. I haven't seen him as often as I would have liked this summer thanks to our respective jobs, but it's okay. We're pretty solid in our relationship. Which is good, because I leave for NZ in a little over a week! Ah. I have a feeling we're going to be spending the next week pretty much attached at the hip...
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« Reply #1210 on: June 27, 2008, 07:20:06 pm »
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I have just had the best few days ever!
Me and Adam went to the city we go to uni in for a few days (he needed to pick work up, I needed books for my dissertation). We were there Wednesday to Friday, and it was just fab!
I love him so much, I've not laughed as much as I did this week in ages. Missing him loads now. And I have to go to bed tonight with no one to cuddle
Hurry up September!!! lol
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« Reply #1211 on: August 23, 2008, 07:53:05 pm »
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It's okay, things between Allan and I are better than ever now! Thanks for your support guys.
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« Reply #1212 on: August 25, 2008, 03:26:53 pm »
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Glad to hear everything worked out Coz.
I'm going to Adam's next week for his 21st birthday.
And then 2 weeks later I'll be moving back to Lincoln to be with him for a year yay!
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« Reply #1213 on: September 07, 2008, 04:34:07 am »
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Hey guys,
I'm glad to read everything is going so well with your boyfriends!
Mine is still the sweetest boy in the world :-). We went on a perfect vacation to Greece. So romantic! Strolls along the beach, boat trips, swimming and relaxing. It was just heaven.
Now school started again and we're back in our daily routine of teaching, which means we don't see each other that much, which pains me, but if I read how some of you guys have to miss their beloved ones, I'm a very lucky girl indeed.
I hope that we are going to discuss moving in together quite soon. My bf isn't so enthusistic than I am but that's just because his parents just let him do what he wants whilest mine are still terribly strict (I'm 23 for gods sake!) and they still want to know where I am with who at all time...
Hopefully we live together next summer vacation, that would be nice, but I don't want to force anything, certainly not for the wrong reasons... (what do you guys think?, do you already live together?)
I'm very curious to hear your stories,
see you!
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« Reply #1214 on: September 07, 2008, 05:01:02 am »
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I was reading the posts I had here..
OMG I was a total idiot to love that guy! I was so out of my mind! honestly I feel ashamed of saying those things last year! he was such a... 
I have no boyfriend and I'm not happy about it! sometimes I feel so bored, I think a guy can fill this vacancy but there's no one still!
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