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« Reply #75 on: May 02, 2005, 06:40:10 pm »
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LBG~ Well, at least now u know that she's annoying him too! at least now you don't have to worry about anything "forming" between them. If she just broke up with her boyfriend, she probably is just feeling unatractive or something at the moment, and is wanting someone to tell her, "no, you're pretty. and your boobs are awesome!" lol  perhaps you should try to set her up w/ some dude that will just sit and tell her how wonderful she is for a night or two... she might leave u and ur bf alone after that.

Laura~ Well, at least ya know he's not mad at you. That's a good start, right? good luck on trying to make him happy... guys have their fluctuating hormones too... lol. 

Monkey~ Your friend needs to find out sometime... the longer she goes out with him, the more attatched to him she'll become, and the harder the eventual break up will be. You may want to say something to her about it.  good luck.
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« Reply #76 on: May 03, 2005, 03:43:22 am »
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perhaps you should try to set her up w/ some dude that will just sit and tell her how wonderful she is for a night or two... she might leave u and ur bf alone after that.

That's a good idea- lol. Nah- she'll get back on the dating train soon hopefully.

Laura- Poor sam- all thjat pressure! I know a lad who nearly exploded trying to live upto his parents expectations like that. Hope he becomes less pissed off real soon. Exams are what- a month away?

Monkey- You really need to get him to tell her. If he hasn't got the guts to do that, then I hope he never pro-creates.
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« Reply #77 on: May 03, 2005, 07:27:06 pm »
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Monkey- You really need to get him to tell her. If he hasn't got the guts to do that, then I hope he never pro-creates.


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Monkey~ Your friend needs to find out sometime... the longer she goes out with him, the more attatched to him she'll become, and the harder the eventual break up will be. You may want to say something to her about it.  good luck. 

I know, all of that is true, but I dont think I have the heart to tell her! I know it might be worse not to tell her, but... I dont know. I think she's already hinting on to that. I think I might tell her, or make him tell her! Thanks again, you guys!! 
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« Reply #78 on: May 04, 2005, 04:42:05 pm »
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arg, guys. i'm so fed up w/ high school... yet, i really almost like the ditzy drama... but, it's all just so insane. Ok, well, we all know that i like Jesse, lol, if u've read any of my posts on here, u can gather that much. *to bring people who have forgotten up to date, i present the following*: I like Jesse, Jesse likes my friend, sam. Sam got really annoyed, and ultimately learned to despise Jesse. Jesse has two good friends, Dustin and Daniel, who seem to have "accepted" me easier than he has. I have to eat with these guys (jess, dustin, and daniel) at lunch, or i feel sad all day.  lol, i'm crazy.

ok, now i can tell my newer stuff. Jesse has stopped pestering Sam as much as he was. He didn't even talk to her at lunch today, even though she made sure he knew she was there because she made him get my attention for her. But he still loves her to death, because he was hugging on her and such at pop break. She then kept saying to me that she was changing her mind about things. I asked her what kind of things she was changing her mind on, and she said 'lots of things'... and said something about project prom... then sat there a minute, and said something about Jesse. and how she didn't get mad when he hugged her and such anymore. She was kinda beating around the bush and what not... but i didn't ask any further, because our friends that don't approve of jesse were right next to us. so i think she likes him again. lol  arg, high school girls, can't they ever make up their mind?

And Daniel got a girlfriend. I don't know why, but it really bothered me for some reason. Daniel is my boy. lol, see that?? my boy. I almost feel like Daniel and I have some kind of... thing. but neither of us will admit it. Daniel is an absolute sweetheart and i love him to death... and he cares more for me than Jesse, that's obvious. And, really, Daniel is the first person that i've ever claimed. lol, i've never called anyone "mine" before.  But, i just feel so conflicted. I still really like jess, and daniel's just my boy... he's my buddy. ... but i've never been so jealous of one of my buddy's girlfriends before. ... especially since she's never really around him much. She eats our lunch too, but not at our table. lol 

And, i saw ryan today... and he didn't say much at all to me. I guess he's not gonna ask me back out. *shrugs* well, i'd probly go with him... cause i like Ryan too, he's a good guy... but i don't think i could force myself to stop liking Jess... so i probly wouldn't be the best girlfriend in the world. 
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« Reply #79 on: May 05, 2005, 07:43:28 am »
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Ah- conflict is what gets us through high school! Lol.

Well hon, it looks like you may have to get ready to be jealous of another of your boys girlfriends. Sounds like Sam is crushing on Jesse. Is she likely to go with him even though she knows you fancy him?
Daniel= lost cause. If he's got a girl keep off him, 'cos I doubt he'd be happy if you didn't. You can still be mates tho, so it's not too bad huh?
Ryan- well, can't say anything 'cos he ain't been forthcoming. Lol. Going out with him may act as a kick up the arse for Jesse though- but that's not really moral.
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« Reply #80 on: May 05, 2005, 05:23:17 pm »
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Ah- conflict is what gets us through high school! Lol.
lol, yes, you're right. 


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Well hon, it looks like you may have to get ready to be jealous of another of your boys girlfriends. Sounds like Sam is crushing on Jesse. Is she likely to go with him even though she knows you fancy him?

Well, that's what i was thinking. And she said something about Jesse again today, i don't really remember what it was, but she asked me if i could believe that she was *o yeah, i remember* wasting her time to talk to him instead of her other friends... and i said, "yeah, because i think you like him." (i didn't say it mean or anything.) and she just kinda shook her head and said she didn't. I told her that i'd date him, but that's because i'm a commitment phobe (something i've recently discovered. ... lol.) and Jesse would be a good fling. But if you wanted a serious boyfriend, i wouldn't date him... nor would i advise anyone to date him if that's what you really wanted... cause he is DEFINATELY not for that. *shakes head viggerously*


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Ryan- well, can't say anything 'cos he ain't been forthcoming. Lol. Going out with him may act as a kick up the arse for Jesse though- but that's not really moral.

nah, i don't think i'll be dating ryan... even when he does see me, he doesn't really acknowledge me... if he does like me, lol, that's not the way to go about getting me.


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Daniel= lost cause. If he's got a girl keep off him, 'cos I doubt he'd be happy if you didn't. You can still be mates tho, so it's not too bad huh?

Well, that's what i thought. Which is why i don't talk to him when he's around her. She ate lunch over there today, so i sat at my other table... lol, i really missed them. I wanted to go over there, but i didn't want to intrude... and i really don't wanna start anything with this chick. I actually hadn't sat over there w/ them for the past couple days because of her. Yesterday, though, she sat at a different table, so i sat over there. He asked me why i hadn't been over there, and i told him it was because he's had a girl over there w/ him, and i didn't want her to think i was trying to steal him or something. and, uh, i kinda heard he didn't care all that much about her. ... and if u watch them together, you can tell that he doesn't... i mean, he likes her, but he acts like he could be completely satisfied w/out her. I still don't bother him when he's around her, but he seeks me out. Like today. He walked by the table i was sitting at and waved at me. Then he did the same thing in the hall... twice. We didn't actually speak... but one time in particular he walked up to me, poked both of my hands, and then took one and just held it. But the bell was about to ring and we just smiled and departed.

lol, i'm sorry if this post is really spaced out. I started it at 3:30... it's 5:20... and i've been typing on it randomly throughout that time. 

anyway, yeah. don't feel like saying anymore... it's 5:23 now... it's time to end this post. lol 
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« Reply #81 on: May 06, 2005, 03:42:19 am »
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What year are you all in? (Or age are you all should you be American!) You all sound like commitmentaphobes! Lol (No offense).

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He walked by the table i was sitting at and waved at me. Then he did the same thing in the hall... twice. We didn't actually speak... but one time in particular he walked up to me, poked both of my hands, and then took one and just held it. But the bell was about to ring and we just smiled and departed.
Hmm- wierd guy... sweet though.
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« Reply #82 on: May 06, 2005, 06:49:56 pm »
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What year are you all in? (Or age are you all should you be American!) You all sound like commitmentaphobes! Lol (No offense).

lol, i'm 16. They're all just turning 16. Jesse just turned 16 at the end of march, i think. And i believe Daniel turns 16 sometime this month... don't know about Dustin. And, yeah, i think we are. most guys are anyway, and i'm just afraid of dating a guy that i can't find an excuse to break up w/ him ... and then i have to marry him or something. I want to date a lot of people before i get really committed... and i sure don't wanna feel trapped in any kinda relationship where i feel like i can't talk to other boys. . . even if my talking could be considered flirting... lol, i wouldn't be a good serious girlfriend either. 

Ahh, and it turns out they were never actually dating... She asked him out, and wanted him to reply... he never did, and she just assumed they were going out. So she followed him around and such. He didn't want to be mean to her, so he didn't say anything. He was going to clear things up w/ her today at lunch, but he couldn't bring himself to tell her... he ended up getting someone else to, i think. I don't know, it was such a strange mess. 


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He walked by the table i was sitting at and waved at me. Then he did the same thing in the hall... twice. We didn't actually speak... but one time in particular he walked up to me, poked both of my hands, and then took one and just held it. But the bell was about to ring and we just smiled and departed.
Hmm- wierd guy... sweet though.

lol! you have no idea. They are very strange people. He did something similar to it today. I ended up walking right beside him and some girl in the hall, and he shook her hand. then he shook my hand, then he took my other hand and just held it as we walked down the hall. lol, then he tried to convince the other girl to let him hold her hand, but she refused. She said she didn't want to look like a wh*re. lol, it made me laugh. I tried to encourage her, i was like, "ahh, come on, he's trying to be a pimp." he's like, "yeah, i'm trying to be a pimp." lol, but she still wouldn't let him.

Honestly, though, if you met me and all of my friends, you would think us all very strange. lol, we're weird, random people. The kind that if you're not one of them, you think them scary. lol 
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« Reply #83 on: May 07, 2005, 12:59:08 pm »
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If you met my friends Jess you would be scared as well. If you met me you'd be scared. lol


Sam is acting weird again.

He had a 'gathering' around his house last night and instead of inviting me he invited just Mim and told her 'Not to bring anyone else'. How's that for a friend?


And I need some advice...well kind of. My friend is having an end of year 11 party next Tuesday on the 17th. And I've invited Chris, the boy who I've liked for ages. And I was wondering what to wear. One of my friends Chantel was telling me to 'Dress up, it's a party'. But I'm not too sure.

What look do you think I should go for? Any suggestions?
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« Reply #84 on: May 07, 2005, 08:36:53 pm »
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Laura - Hmm.. my advice would be to just wear something cute, but casual. Don't go all out with heels and a skirt or anything. But maybe some nice pants and a cute top. Be comfy, but I wouldn't necessarily go in like.. sweat pants, either.

Then again, I'm no fashion consultant. Ha.
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I have a boy problem.  I liked this one guy and then once  I found out that he liked me too and he was hanging around all the time and I all of a sudden didn't want him anymore.  It seems like whenever I like a guy and then they life me back I suddenly don't like them anymore and it is getting relly frustrating but I don't know how to change the way I feel.  Is this just me being stupid or what?  I would really appreciate it if any of you have ANY advice for me.


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I have a boy problem.  I liked this one guy and then once  I found out that he liked me too and he was hanging around all the time and I all of a sudden didn't want him anymore.  It seems like whenever I like a guy and then they life me back I suddenly don't like them anymore and it is getting relly frustrating but I don't know how to change the way I feel.  Is this just me being stupid or what?  I would really appreciate it if any of you have ANY advice for me.


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I'm not sure, but maybe it's because he starts hanhing around all the time because he likes you, you get to know him a little bit better and you start seeing things you don't like about him and you stop liking him?
But I've never been in a situation like that. I do know that when someone I don't like starts to like me a little bit too much, they start to annoy me for some reason...

Dunno, if the things i said help you... But I tried lol

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I have a boy problem.  I liked this one guy and then once  I found out that he liked me too and he was hanging around all the time and I all of a sudden didn't want him anymore.  It seems like whenever I like a guy and then they life me back I suddenly don't like them anymore and it is getting relly frustrating but I don't know how to change the way I feel.  Is this just me being stupid or what?  I would really appreciate it if any of you have ANY advice for me.


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It could be that u just like the thrill of the chase. And once they're no longer playing hard-to-get, it's not a challenge to you anymore... and you get bored? lol. Nah, i kinda know how that is. If i like a guy, and i feel like he likes me back, i start acting all funny. I start flirting with his friends (wtf??), and i tend to blow him off. ... it's the exact opposit of what i want to do, but it's just what i do. maybe you just get nervous at the prospect of getting in a serious relationship... and that turns you off so much that you somehow make yourself not like him anymore. ... or maybe i'm just making the situation very complex... lol, i've been at prom all night, just got 3 hrs of sleep this am... so i'm not really running on much brain power. 

I wouldn't worry, though, i don't think you'll always do that. I use to worry that i only wanted guys that were off the market, strictly for that fact... but daniel's not "off the market," and i still like him... lol, so you'll meet a guy someday that u'll like, he'll like you back, and u'll continue to like him. lol, don't worry about it. 
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« Reply #88 on: May 08, 2005, 03:47:13 pm »
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Quote from: Flummoxed. on May 07, 2005, 08:36:53 pm   

Laura - Hmm.. my advice would be to just wear something cute, but casual. Don't go all out with heels and a skirt or anything. But maybe some nice pants and a cute top. Be comfy, but I wouldn't necessarily go in like.. sweat pants, either.

Then again, I'm no fashion consultant. Ha.

Thank you Flummoxed. That was what I was thinking. I'm not a sparkly girl really.
I was thinking something like a dress over jeans with cowboy boots, or just a cute top (as you said) and jeans.

I don't want to look like I'm trying to impress him, because I'm not really. I have major issues right now.
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don't we all have

Laura: I would do what Flummoxed said


angelic devil; I have heard that before, i know a girl who does the same thing. Maybe you don't really like the guy but you just want to play 'hard to get' or maybe you DO like him a lot, but you're to scared to admit it difficult situation

Myself : I need good tips to go out, meet new people and get over my incredible jealousy because it is driving me insane!! thank you
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