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Does he like me? I need help here!
« on: April 19, 2004, 10:54:15 pm »
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there's this guy that I like alot, and we are really good friends, like we hang out all the time...and the other day we were alone at his house watching LotR(omg he's perfect lol) and i was sitting on his bed, and he came over and sat like RIGHT next to me...and we were like playing around and we started wrestling and like play fighting and lots of touchy feely for about an hour, and the rest of the day we were flirting and touchgin eachother alot and ya!
Ok next day it was us and our other friend. long story short he was touching my leg(like high up) cuz we were playing this game and then i noticed he put his shirt over his...thing(lol) and then he put one hand over it while the other hand cont. to feel up my leg(but in a non obvious way cuz it was a game, but u wern't suposed to feel up the leg lol)anyways he got a boner lol i was pretty sure...and then ya all my friends say he likes me but i really really wanna kno!
help me out PLEASE i'd be so greatful!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2004, 11:07:20 pm »
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It seems obvious that he's attracted to you, but does he really like you? Interesting question. And you like him, right? I don't think there's any reason to suspect he doesn't. With all the flirting and touchy-feely stuff, it doesn't really leave much for me to doubt. What you need to ask yourself -- and this is really important, based on this "game" of yours -- is whether he's actually interested in you, or just interested in getting you to sleep with him. (With boys, you never know.)
One thing I must ask: What exactly was involved in this game, if you think it justifies his feeling you up and giving himself a boner?
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #2 on: April 20, 2004, 10:45:28 am »
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well, if it is from what you've stated there, i think he's desparately in love with you!
haha, no... but without a doubt, if this 'behaviour' just changed, from like first friends to this, you have a big chance he just fell in love with you.
now it's up to you to let him know you feel the same (or don't)
so good luck!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #3 on: April 20, 2004, 10:51:43 pm »
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ok, well the game was just where i try and get a bouncy ball from him, and it involved like wrestling and stuff...and ya beleive me he knows i like him...and today he was like playing footsie wiht me on the couch, and i caught him smiling at me wen i wasnt looking...and then my friend was like trying to hit me witha ruler(dont ask y lol shes just weird that way) and he was like protecting me, and when she said "You r protecting her!" he stopped, but then he'd do it again!
also: he is not using me for sex lol he's only had liek two girl friends and that was in grade 8. he's really shy and unless sumone asked him and pulled it out of him that he liekd me he wouldnt just walk up and tell one of his other friends. so he's shy and if he did like me, he wouldnt tell me.
so if i dont ask him out, nothing will ever happen probally...but im so scared!
What does all this mean? I want to ask him out so bad but I have a fear of rejection! im going crazy here!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #4 on: April 20, 2004, 11:56:18 pm »
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awww! I sounds to me like puppy love!  go ahead and ask him out!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #5 on: April 20, 2004, 11:57:18 pm »
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ask him out ju!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #6 on: April 21, 2004, 01:02:39 am »
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ya, god ju, ask him out! I've told you like a million times already! How many more people do you need to tell you that he obviously likes you???
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #7 on: April 21, 2004, 05:41:42 am »
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i will!
ask him out silly!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #8 on: April 21, 2004, 11:18:20 am »
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I think he likes you! Aawww that's soooo sweet 
If your not sure about his feelings for you just talk to him about it.
If you really like him go ahead and ask him out!
Wish you all the best!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #9 on: April 21, 2004, 12:10:47 pm »
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well what I deciced im going to do is get my friends to ask if he likes anyone, and casually ask if he likes me lol I'll tell how things go!
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #11 on: April 21, 2004, 10:17:33 pm »
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Quote from: ElijahFan@14 on April 21, 2004, 12:10:47 pm
well what I deciced im going to do is get my friends to ask if he likes anyone, and casually ask if he likes me lol I'll tell how things go!
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No, bad idea! That's such a high-school thing to do, ask a friend to ask a boy if he likes you.  Just ask him yourself.
And um, I hate to keep raining on your parade here, but none of the stuff you've told us about what he's doing to you (the flirty, touchy-feely stuff) is spelling out "shy" to me. What do you mean "shy?" What part of "shy" includes playing footsie and wrestling with you touching your thigh? I'm sorry, I just don't buy it.
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #12 on: April 21, 2004, 10:23:24 pm »
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Quote from: PHF1138 on April 21, 2004, 10:17:33 pm
Quote from: ElijahFan@14 on April 21, 2004, 12:10:47 pm
well what I deciced im going to do is get my friends to ask if he likes anyone, and casually ask if he likes me lol I'll tell how things go!
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No, bad idea! That's such a high-school thing to do, ask a friend to ask a boy if he likes you. Just ask him yourself.
And um, I hate to keep raining on your parade here, but none of the stuff you've told us about what he's doing to you (the flirty, touchy-feely stuff) is spelling out "shy" to me. What do you mean "shy?" What part of "shy" includes playing footsie and wrestling with you touching your thigh? I'm sorry, I just don't buy it.
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I totally agree with you, Rhoda. Like in my past, this guy's friends would keep asking me if I like their friend. I'd always nonchalantly laugh because everyone ALWAYS asked me that. I was naive and didn't know how he had felt about me. Though, I did not like him that way, but I shouldn't have laughed.
As Rhoda said, if you really feel compelled to go out with him, then ask him yourself.
I know, I don't see that as shy either. That isn't shy if he's feeling you up.
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #13 on: April 21, 2004, 11:14:43 pm »
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Quote from: ElijahFan@14 on April 20, 2004, 10:51:43 pm
ok, well the game was just where i try and get a bouncy ball from him, and it involved like wrestling and stuff...and ya beleive me he knows i like him...and today he was like playing footsie wiht me on the couch, and i caught him smiling at me wen i wasnt looking...and then my friend was like trying to hit me witha ruler(dont ask y lol shes just weird that way) and he was like protecting me, and when she said "You r protecting her!" he stopped, but then he'd do it again!
also: he is not using me for sex lol he's only had liek two girl friends and that was in grade 8. he's really shy and unless sumone asked him and pulled it out of him that he liekd me he wouldnt just walk up and tell one of his other friends. so he's shy and if he did like me, he wouldnt tell me.
so if i dont ask him out, nothing will ever happen probally...but im so scared!
What does all this mean? I want to ask him out so bad but I have a fear of rejection! im going crazy here!
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Ermm...may I ask how old you are? Playing bouncy ball is all fun, but I don't imagine that it involves touching ones leg and I'm pretty sure it doesn't involve Mr. Johnson (although he's a nasty little rebel.)
I don't know if he likes you, I can't say. I'm not saying he just wants you for sex, but I just feel that you're being perhaps a little naive about the situation. If I've insulted you, I'm sorry. The fact is, our good friend Mr. Johnson is quite fond of girlies and sex for that matter. A man getting an erection has really nothing to do with whether or not he has a wee crush on you or not. Sure, you can feel flattered that you get his old jibbles going, but don't say, "Oh he must like me!" That's sort of silly. Some guys like play you know...play...
Damn them all to shnell! But anyways, he may like you, but I think you should look into this some more. And please, don't get a friend to ask a friend to ask a friend to ask a janitor to ask a librarian to ask a neandrathal to ask Little Tom-Tom (I have no idea what your significant others name is.) Do it yourself, you'll gain so much more respect from him.
Either way, good luck. 
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Re:does he like me? I need help here!
« Reply #14 on: April 22, 2004, 09:51:26 pm »
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Quote from: PHF1138 on April 21, 2004, 10:17:33 pm
Quote from: ElijahFan@14 on April 21, 2004, 12:10:47 pm
well what I deciced im going to do is get my friends to ask if he likes anyone, and casually ask if he likes me lol I'll tell how things go!
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No, bad idea! That's such a high-school thing to do, ask a friend to ask a boy if he likes you. Just ask him yourself.
And um, I hate to keep raining on your parade here, but none of the stuff you've told us about what he's doing to you (the flirty, touchy-feely stuff) is spelling out "shy" to me. What do you mean "shy?" What part of "shy" includes playing footsie and wrestling with you touching your thigh? I'm sorry, I just don't buy it.
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by shy i mean he doesnt talk about who he likes with people...yah lol thats what i meant...
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