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« Reply #15 on: November 19, 2003, 11:52:54 pm »

That how I see it too, Madeliane. Somewhere in my level headedness,  I do see it that way. I know what you mean about telling ppl of this Lij fixation. Only my best friend knows, and she just being patient with me! bless her!

I have been trying to get away more, on weekends yes, I try to go out more. But, it's always a relieve to come back, yes. I am still trying to find that mental strength to try to leave the board come the New Year. Maybe if that isn't possible, try to spend less time.

I guess I do need to finally address this whole thing, for myself, even if I don't get to tell it to those around me. I find it even too difficult
to tell them. I want to tell them what ppl say about my writing, but I can't bring it up, becos then I'd have to say I have a fixation to a Lij board. I try to keep everything about this a secret as much as possible. I don't know  if they do really know. maybe I don't care.

anyhow, thanks. Madeliane, in some strange way, I do feel slightly better.  LOL. Now, I'm going to watch TRL everynight just to see if the hobbit guys are on!
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« Reply #16 on: November 19, 2003, 11:54:48 pm »


Quote from: Myen-Li on November 19, 2003, 11:52:54 pm   

I am still trying to find that mental strength to try to leave the board come the New Year.

Leave the board entirely?
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« Reply #17 on: November 19, 2003, 11:57:58 pm »

That's why I say I'm going to try. I find its too difficult, as I've made some really nice and good friends here. So, leaving entirely, would mean leaving the friends I"ve made. maybe not entirely, as I said, to spend less time, if I can help it. 
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« Reply #18 on: November 20, 2003, 12:03:53 am »

Well, maybe just going on hiatus for one full week to see if you can do it.  See how you cope with that?  Maybe you just need a jolt, a shock to the system.  It's very easy to maintain the routine of coming here...

Whenever you do decide to leave, make sure you reward yourself in some way.  Buy yourself a new CD, take a drive to somewhere you've never been, or have extra special food.  Be good to yourself.

You like female singer-songwriters, right?  That's basically all I listen to, so I could give you a few recommendations! 
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« Reply #19 on: November 20, 2003, 12:04:14 am »

Thanks for the chat, Madeliane. I going to have to go off now! thanks again! it was good to talk like that.
PS. yes, I like that, about the singers. talk soon! 
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« Reply #20 on: November 20, 2003, 12:04:47 am »

I've only just checked here and... well... Solsk, I will be incredibly sad should you decide to leave permanently, although having said that, I understand your reason for doing so. It can reach a point where being 'in love' with a celebrity (i.e. having more than a month-long crush but nothing that can be honestly identified as true love) can be so exhausting, so terrifying and so draining. Sometimes you just want to get away from it all so much and because of what you feel, you can't.

I wish I could give you the remedy, honey, but I just don't know. It's good to come here because you get to spend time with people who feel the same about Lij. Plus, it's a beneficial way to experiment with your writing ability. Most of the fanfic writers here just use Elijah's name and certain character traits, it's more of a side-hobby connected to him than something FOR him, or to bring you closer TO him, if you see what I mean. Maybe you should try writing some non-Lij fics and posting them in writer's messageboards elsewhere, just to build up some extra support someplace else.

(Not that I am telling you and your writing to leave... never... just thinking of ways I can to help!)

All in all, can I just give you a hug?

*hugs*

There we go. The world is better now.
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« Reply #21 on: November 20, 2003, 12:13:32 am »

The world is not necessarily better!


Quote from: Isentiere on November 20, 2003, 12:04:47 am   

Most of the fanfic writers here just use Elijah's name and certain character traits, it's more of a side-hobby connected to him than something FOR him, or to bring you closer TO him, if you see what I mean.

But... but... that doesn't apply to YOUR stories, does it?    It's not just his name!!  I refuse to belieeeeve.
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« Reply #22 on: November 20, 2003, 12:36:41 am »

No, you're right, the world is not better, only it's better to look at when someone is stood with you viewing it the same way.

And LOL, what the hell does that smiley mean? It looks like the girl in 'Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,' Violet Beaureguard, who ate the bubblegum before it was ready and what, was it a giant blueberry she turned into?!

The Elijah in my fics is the Elijah I want him to be. I've never met him, so I've no concept of how accurate that is, but from what I've read and heard, that's the Elijah I perceive Elijah Wood to be. If that makes sense!

Anyway, what would you know? You only read the bits in which he's naked!

Incidentally, the Elijah I perceive him to be looks good naked, too.
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« Reply #23 on: November 20, 2003, 12:44:15 am »


Quote from: Isentiere on November 20, 2003, 12:36:41 am   

No, you're right, the world is not better, only it's better to look at when someone is stood with you viewing it the same way.

I agree, although I was actually referring to the porn! 


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And LOL, what the hell does that smiley mean? It looks like the girl in 'Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,' Violet Beaureguard, who ate the bubblegum before it was ready and what, was it a giant blueberry she turned into?!

LOL!!!!  It's an embarrassed smiley!  It is blushing.



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but from what I've read and heard, that's the Elijah I perceive Elijah Wood to be. If that makes sense!

Oh, honey, that makes sense.    But what exactly makes you think he'd do the "do me on the desk" scene?  Because, btw, that was so hot. 
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« Reply #24 on: November 20, 2003, 01:05:05 am »

Look. You laughed so hard your head fell off. Don't take the piss.

Why were you blushing, because people now know about your inner pervert who is rapidly moving to the exterior?

I think he'd do that scene because he's male. Because he's male, because in my head (for this story at least) he has a thing about teachers on account of the fact he never attended school and finds the whole concept fascinating. Because his pretty girlfriend was there. Because her words made him horny. Because no-one else was around. Because a variety of places is good to keep your sex-life surprising and they have been together for a year now... Because he loves her.

Because I thought it was hot as an idea.

But thanks - I like to know what people like - it gives me ideas for next time!! I'll happily work in suggestions people may have if they're in character and fit!!
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« Reply #25 on: November 20, 2003, 01:14:52 am »

Okie dokie.  I was just wondering if there was some kind of sexual fantasy reference in an interview that I was unaware of. 

And, as an idea, that was most definitely hot  I think that was my favorite scene in the whole story.  Worth a second, third, fourth... *ahem*... read!
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« Reply #26 on: November 20, 2003, 01:23:00 am »

I'm not aware of any of his sexual fantasies. I only f*cking wish! But hey, if anyone else knows and wishes to share them... I'm happy to accommodate!!

Pleased you liked the desk scenario... wasn't sure how it would go down but it seemed to go well! Read as many times as you can - people are requiring angst so angst is on the way and uh... with what I have in mind, there's not really a lot of sex that can take place. At least, not between those two!!
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« Reply #27 on: November 20, 2003, 01:27:37 am »


Quote from: Isentiere on November 20, 2003, 01:23:00 am   

I'm not aware of any of his sexual fantasies. I only f**k**g wish! But hey, if anyone else knows and wishes to share them... I'm happy to accommodate!!

Well, aside from generic lesbian fantasies, I can't help ya there.  Silly boys. 

I bet you anything though, he is submissive.  Franka was a bigger person, and... something tells me he likes strong women. 
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« Reply #28 on: November 20, 2003, 01:35:20 am »

Do you think? I see your point and I hate to say I agree, only I wish it weren't true. I much prefer the idea of him being the dominant one, LOL. We know he likes mentally strong women, maybe (or this might be wishful thinking!) he likes to counter-balance that by being the dominant force in the bedroom?
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« Reply #29 on: November 20, 2003, 01:45:58 am »

Well, see, in my case, Lij is not physically capable of dominating me.  I would have to let him, and probably help him along. 

That's why I like seeing him depicted as strong and overpowering in fan fiction, because someone else is imagining and describing it for me.  I get so far as, "He threw her down on the bed," and then crack up, because as I always say, he'd have to get a running start to do it to me!
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