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The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« on: December 21, 2010, 09:08:08 pm »
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #1 on: December 22, 2010, 08:17:04 pm »
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I need help with this. After he called Sebastian keeps texting me.
It's not funny. It's getting annoying and I don't know what to do.
Especially because he is so adamant that I liked him back and still do. Maybe I did something to make him think I did?
I don't even know anymore. Some of the things he says makes it seem like I might have lead him on at some point. I didn't mean to, I swear.
It's just a great big mess. I told him I like someone else and he won't shut up about that either, it's just hopeless.
Yes, it is sort of sweet that he still likes me after all this time and all the times I've rejected him. But it's creepy for the exact same reasons.
I have no problem with being there for him as a friend, I know he needs one right now, but I don't want to hear about how we owe it to ourselves to see if there's more. There isn't. I don't know how to get my point across without hurting his feelings.
Any ideas? I'd appreciate any and all help.
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #2 on: December 23, 2010, 06:46:16 pm »
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Ih, not a fun situation at all!
If it was me, I would probably just tell him to leave me alone if he couldn't accept the fact that I just wanted to be friends. Pushing yourself into something you don't want to is considered will-rape, and that's not a good thing to live with later.
I hope you figure it out! And that he soon will accept that you aren't interested in anything more than just being friends!
Gah. People are soooo grateful sometimes! I've gotten into a tradition where I go to Marius to eat some buns and drink hot chocolate on the morning on Christmas eve. Unfortunately do I have a good friend who's birthday is on Christmas eve. She and another friend decided in October that they would invite a few people to celebrate on the morning aswell. They told me this on Sunday, and expected me to drop all my plans and go there. Now have I made it possible (after lots of stress) for me to go there for thirty minutes or so, before I go to Marius. But nobody've said anything about how nice that is. Is it wrong of me to expect a little thankfullness?
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #3 on: December 23, 2010, 07:20:03 pm »
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Thank you for the help.
I think the smartest thing would be to just let it go and agree
that we want different things from our friendship and that we probably shouldn't see each other until he can accept that.
He even told me that he didn't care if I started seeing someone else, he'd still keep this up. That is creepy, right?
I really thought we were past this, I never thought I'd have to do this all over again.
It's not wrong of you at all. Friends are important, but I think family should come first at Christmas. You made time for them even if it caused you stress and they should appreciate that. You're an amazing friend, don't let it get you down 
Christmas movie recommendation (that has nothing to do with Christmas)
Tron: Legacy. It is an amazing movie. I saw it twice in less than 24 hours 
I was really glad to see it build so flawlessly on the first one, but still work so well as a stand alone movie.
And I was totally impressed by Olivia Wilde, holding her own against Jeff Bridges, that's impressive.
I took Louise to see it and she usually doesn't like sci-fi, but she enjoyed this. So it's good even for those of you who aren't sci-fi nuts
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #4 on: December 24, 2010, 08:20:48 am »
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I guess we have to take several trips to your job during Christmas, then 
Guess what! I didn't even get a "Thank you" for driving out there and stressing my ass off. Well, that was the last year for me!
But Marius' family were super happy and told me how wonderful it was of me to come
And, yes, that is really creepy! That's stalkerish, actually!
Going to church soon! And then to hell/my aunts Christmas dinner. Not exactly looking forward to it, but we don't have to do the dishes, so I'll live
And then it's home for gifts! And tomorrow it's Christmas lunch here and then dinner at Marius' place. Hello working out after Christmas!
Hope you girls are having a good day!
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #7 on: December 30, 2010, 07:54:28 am »
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Tron was epic!
Are you sure Sebastian doesn't read this forum, by the way?
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #8 on: December 31, 2010, 10:23:45 pm »
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Quote from: Marit on December 30, 2010, 07:54:28 am
Are you sure Sebastian doesn't read this forum, by the way?
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He might. But I hadn't even told you two about this, and I slipped up and told him. It's not that big of a deal to me, but I didn't want him to know.
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #9 on: January 03, 2011, 12:01:03 pm »
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I feel like such a bad friend now I wasn't here to give my (not-worth-much-at-all) advice 
It sounds like what's happening here is exactly what happened to me a few months ago (even the confusing we liked them too bit). You remember when I told you guys that guy kept calling and if I didn't pick up he'd come round?
My adive is tell him to stop, and if he doesn't change your number and tell people that know both of you if they give him your new number you'll delete them (and get a new number).
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #11 on: January 06, 2011, 03:23:48 pm »
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I've been great thanks I have started a love affair with my new phone  (And a few celebrities )
How are you??
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Re:The One And Only GLEAH Thread Part Five! PLEASE READ THE FIRST PAGE
« Reply #13 on: January 07, 2011, 04:37:47 am »
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It might be that you're working too much.
I now have a Samsung Tocco Lite.
Ooh what kind of phone are you getting?
So you guys know age difference in a relationship doesn't bother me at all, but for some reason when I found out James Woods and Danielle Panabaker (his daughter on Shark) hooked up I was a little weirded out.
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