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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4965 on: March 30, 2011, 09:00:59 am »
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Haha yeah sorry I was gonna explain everything I meant in that post but I felt like crap that day and then just forgot to edit 
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Quote from: Young&Desperate 4Attention{DA} on March 02, 2011, 12:39:13 pm This one Wednesday he told me we should hang out that weekend and I said yeah I wanna see Black Swan! He told me he didn't care so much and that we'd go. Then I asked him if he had money and he came to the conclusion he didn't have any. So we didn't make any further plans.
That Saturday he texted me asking me if I was going to go out that night and I said no. He told me: "Oh, shame! My dad gave me 100 euros so I'm pooling with my colleages and I wanted to see you".
At first I wasn't mad at all, just happy for him. But then all of the sudden the thought came to my mind that I was kind of being replaced by his co-workers? I mean... The original plans were us together seeing a movie and all of the sudden he's out with other people. |
But your original plans fell through, so what was he gonna do, stay home even though he got another offer and a win-fall? He did invite you along.
Quote from: Young&Desperate 4Attention{DA} on March 02, 2011, 12:39:13 pm | Then the next week I asked him what he was gonna do that weekend and he said I'm out with my co-workers, seeing Black Swan. And that's where I snapped, because obviously he didn't think of me the first time and now he was gonna see a movie I REALLY wanted to see. So I told him calmly that I was disappointed and that I felt like he didn't care enough about me to, because he had forgotten, or at least not thought of me, twice and that I felt let down. |
Don't take this the wrong way but even though he's your friend it's not his job to invite you out every time he goes out or goes somewhere you might like. Just because you wanted to see the movie doesn't mean he can't go and see it without you.
Quote from: Young&Desperate 4Attention{DA} on March 02, 2011, 12:39:13 pm | He totally went nuts on me, shouting at me and all and just being a complete d*ck about it all, when I was trying to tell him calmly how I felt. All of the sudden (when I started to raise my voice as well, haha) he said: Yeah I am a d*ck, but don't hang out with me, okay?! |
OK so yeah he over-reacted a little (going by what you said) but he probably feels pressured by you. I've had friends like that and they really get to you.
Quote from: Young&Desperate 4Attention{DA} on March 02, 2011, 12:39:13 pm | That hurt me so bad, because obviously he doesn't care. A couple of days later I couldn't really keep it inside and I told him to tell me when he has a day off so we could talk and he said yeah text me what you think, nothing will change my mind, I didn't do nothing wrong who the hell do you think you are for telling me how to spend my time and money blabla. |
Credit to you for being the grown-up and making the first move to sort it out. But he has a point, as far as I can see, he didn't do anything wrong and it's his money to do with as he pleases.
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4966 on: March 30, 2011, 05:38:51 pm »
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it feels like a have months to finish off everything, yet its only weeks. and those weeks are going FAST! 
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4967 on: April 06, 2011, 03:31:54 pm »
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Holy Crap! It's Jess!
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4968 on: April 07, 2011, 01:46:09 pm »
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Always nice to be appreciated...  
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4969 on: April 16, 2011, 02:44:28 pm »
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Quote from: Danny~desu on February 15, 2011, 04:10:01 am
ugh, i have so much work to do! documentary to finish and submit to the BFI, essays to start writing/planing for, Film scripts to submit. But its my birthday weekend coming up so none of that will get done
Manchester here i come 
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Just noticed you were in my hometown there - if I hadnt been in NZ we could have met up 
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4970 on: April 17, 2011, 05:48:47 pm »
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Quote from: miss sixty on April 16, 2011, 02:44:28 pm
Quote from: Danny~desu on February 15, 2011, 04:10:01 am
ugh, i have so much work to do! documentary to finish and submit to the BFI, essays to start writing/planing for, Film scripts to submit. But its my birthday weekend coming up so none of that will get done
Manchester here i come
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Just noticed you were in my hometown there - if I hadnt been in NZ we could have met up
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I tend to travel around when I have free time/ finding filming locations. plus I do like Manchester
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4971 on: April 19, 2011, 05:12:06 pm »
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Wow, it's been a while, lol. Thanks for your thought, Vix!
It wasn't like he invited me along with them, it was just that if I happened to be around he'd wanted to see me. And I was angry, because we'd originally planned out to spend time together and I didn't know he had money and I'm not one to keep asking people to go out with me when I know they have to say no because they have no money, you see. And then he blamed ME for not asking him to do something, when I didn't even know he was in the position to even do something. You see, that's what pissed me off.
Anyway, after like 5 weeks of not talking to each other, he texted me and asked if I wanted to talk. Right now. It was like 11.30 at night and my first thought was YES PLEASE. But then I remembered how he kept me waiting 5 freaking weeks, so I said no not now, it's late. So we set up a date to talk and he came over and apologized for the way he treated me. I apologized and we came to the conclusion it was just something small that had blown up. which it was. Of course, I overreacted a little, but he did too. We both did, but we both understand our own reactions and each others. So I think we're cool now. We've been hanging out and it's the same old thing again. Thank God.
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4972 on: April 23, 2011, 05:34:09 pm »
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Quote from: Danny~desu on April 17, 2011, 05:48:47 pm
when your then again let me know if its after June and we could meet up!
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4973 on: May 08, 2011, 11:01:53 pm »
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I'm so happy right now. ^^ I still feel very thankful after what happened today.
... even cried in front of everyone. I don't care.
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4974 on: May 12, 2011, 08:35:44 pm »
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I miss A&F  Alot. I can't wait till the summer when I'll have so much free time. Lately things have been so busy I hardly have time to do anything. I'll be on here alot more then (: Promise. I'll also finally be learning to drive then... things are changing.
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4975 on: May 18, 2011, 02:04:48 pm »
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Yea... I shouldn't do this to you, but I love you. I don't want to be without you... We belong together and you know that...
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4976 on: May 27, 2011, 03:32:54 am »
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34 today! Off to Loro Parque a Zoo in Tenerife for the day
Hope everyone is well? 
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4977 on: June 01, 2011, 07:22:22 am »
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Quote from: miss sixty on May 27, 2011, 03:32:54 am
34 today! Off to Loro Parque a Zoo in Tenerife for the day
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Sorry it's a bit late, but hope you had a wonderful birthday, Elizabeth!
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Re:Say it Here - What's On Your Mind - Part 4
« Reply #4979 on: June 16, 2011, 02:54:48 am »
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Don't know whether I should be worried or hysterical with laughter. It's 2:00 AM. My sister and her friends are prank-calling random restaurants in town.
*tries not to lol all over the place*
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