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« Reply #1230 on: April 20, 2010, 07:38:20 am »
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Wow, lucky you Marit!

Rome is amazing, I've been there and everything is soooo beautiful and so impressive!

It's good to know your family in law (hihi how I love that word everything sounds so official then, but hey, you and Marius have been together for a pretty long time now) accepts you, it's kind of important that they like you, because it helps a huge deal when for example you're throwing parties or have dinner together. You won't have awkward moments then.
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« Reply #1231 on: April 20, 2010, 03:18:17 pm »
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Thats great to hear Marit, yeah must mean something if his family want you with them. They know your right for their boy
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« Reply #1232 on: September 18, 2010, 11:30:29 am »
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Awww, girls, come on! Don't any of you have anything to gush about anymore? I want to hear how it's going with you all!

So, as probably everyone know, we're enganged. So everything's going great with us
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« Reply #1233 on: September 18, 2010, 11:45:32 pm »
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Quote from: Marit on September 18, 2010, 11:30:29 am   

Awww, girls, come on! Don't any of you have anything to gush about anymore? I want to hear how it's going with you all!

So, as probably everyone know, we're engaged. So everything's going great with us

Me and Mark are still very happily married after 7 years and still in love after nearly 12 years together. Yesterday at pub for Taylor's birthday a girl said 'has anyone ever told you that you are so alike' to me & Mark - never heard that before. Mind you we do like the same things and doing things together maybe thats what she meant like we
a old married couple. lol

We be together forever till death do us part!!

Great to see you and Marius doing great together and bet you cant wait for the big day, eh
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« Reply #1234 on: September 19, 2010, 02:14:37 am »
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Aww, that's so sweet Liz. That's wonderful. That's what I want someday. ^^ XD.
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« Reply #1235 on: November 03, 2010, 10:51:15 pm »
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^^^  That IS sweet Liz <3 

Me, I'm not really the "gushing type".   Besides, I've been with my husband for 20 years now (married for 17, two teenagers) so there's not much to gush about, LOL. 

However we must be doing something right because we rarely have HUGE fights... and those little annoying quirks that everyone has haven't yet annoyed us to the point where we can't stand being in the same room as each other.

Plus, we share an obsession with music and we both act really immature  er, young for our age... and like to have fun talking in silly voices and generally making fools of ourselves - so I guess that works.
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« Reply #1236 on: November 04, 2010, 11:33:08 pm »
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Aww, that's so cool That's awesome. ^_^

The funny thing is, I was just looking for this thread when you posted here, lol. I kinda wanted to tell you guys a little about my new (and first, and hopefully last ^^) bf. I know you've heard me talk about him alot, but I just wanted to describe him.

So, he's about 6 foot 1, and yet he's only almost 16. He's 6 inches taller than me. He's got black hair, and dark brown eyes, and an amazing smile. He's beautiful ^^ And he's absolutely sweet, and kind, and has a GREAT sense of humor.

So... we don't actually go out on official dates yet... for one reason because neither of us can drive yet, lol. But we're practically dating...I know he really loves me, and he tells me that he thinks we're meant to be together. I really really hope so

Sorry for gushing... but I guess that's what this thread's all about, lol. I just thought I should describe him to you guys (:
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« Reply #1237 on: November 05, 2010, 06:18:44 am »
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^^Aw that's so sweet!

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months now and everything is still going good

We haven't had real fights yet, just some random... well... me being kinda annoyed by him and telling him and him making it up to me, lol.

We're doing pretty good, I'm his first real girlfriend and he's my first real boyfriend, so we've had our struggles, not really knowing what to expect and not knowing what the other expected from the other, but we've talked about it and everything and everything goes pretty well

It's just that sometimes... I'm kind of insecure (does he really like me? what if he meets another girl that is way nicer, prettier and everything? and all that jazz) and because of that insecurity I need a lot of attention, just to make sure I know he loves me and I know he misses me when we're not together. I put a lot of meaning in him sending me texts or calling me but I also put a lot of meaning in him NOT sending me texts or calling me. Because when he doesn't, it sometimes feels as though he doesn't miss me as much as I miss him. We've talked about it a lot and I know he DOES miss me when we're not together and I know that he DOES want me to be with him, but he doesn't really think of texting or calling, because it doesn't mean as much to him. He'd rather just see me. I told him that I should be less demanding when it comes to that and I told him he should just text or call me more often... And after I've told him, he does and I get these sweet texts, with him telling me he loves me and he wants to be with me... but then after a while, he doesn't text me anymore and we're back at the beginning again...

That's kinda annoying to me... But other than that, everything is going great
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« Reply #1238 on: November 09, 2010, 06:24:53 pm »
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^^^  elijah fan - Your boyfriend sounds divine.  

And Pam, I'm so happy things are working out for you and your guy. <3

That first year (or two) is usually when you just want to be with your partner ALL the time.  And I guess everyone is kind of insecure in their relationship at first, so it's hard not to be too demanding.

But lots of guys... and even many girls... need to have a bit of space so we don't end up feeling smothered by our 'other half' (weird expression to begin with!

Most of us girls have had the displeasure of being involved with a clingy possessive boyfriend.  (I mean, it's nice to have attention, but who needs a stalker right?)... so it's a fine line.

That's another thing that's good about Rory, my husband.  He's genuinely interested in what I do, but he doesn't go overboard asking too many questions about where I've been or who with.  Both of us have always gone out with other - platonic - friends, without making a big deal about it, or living 'in each other's pocket' all the time, which is great, coz otherwise you could end up feeling crowded and like you don't even exist outside of the other person.

* Note:  I say the above ^ in the context of my own 20 year relationship, not judging anyone else's.
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« Reply #1239 on: November 24, 2010, 03:50:38 am »
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I'm in a huge fight with my boyfriend right now... And I'm not sure we're gonna last...

Last Friday we went to go bowling with our friends and everything was nice and everything. When he took me home (2.15 at night) I had the worst headache and he asked me like 3 times do you want me to text you when I get home? (He knows I want to know he returned home safely) and I ofcourse said yes, please!

It wasn't untill 3 o clock that I started to get worried. His house is like a 10 minute drive from my house and he still hadn't text me... So I started to get worried and I called him. It went straight to voice mail so obviously his phone was turned off. I was so scared, I even woke up my dad at like 4.00 because I was so worried. My dad told me to get some sleep because there's nothing we can do right now, for all we know he could be in bed. So I tried to get some sleep, but obviously I've been up all night. The next morning I started calling his house phone, but for a while nobody answered. Eventually he answered at like 11.00 and I was soooo mad at him! He told me his phone had broken and he couldn't get my number from it. I was so angry, because his dad and sister both have my cell number! He said yeah but I didn't want to wake them up... I was like WTF, I woke up my dad for you?! I haven't slept all night, while you probably slept like a baby! And besides there's something like a computer so you could've just sent me an email or soemthing

Anyways, he didn't know what to say or how to make it up and in my anger I said "Well, figure it out!" and I hung up. So that Saturday and Sunday and Monday he has been texting me like crazy, I felt the guilt in his texts. Then we agreed on seeing each other yesterday night, because I'm still not over it and he just doesn't talk about it anymore. He said okay and we were supposed to meet up. Like 10 in the morning he texts me: "Babe, I'm supposed to go carting tonight, I totally forgot, but I've got to go because it's my internship!" So I was sooo angry, because it's only a night out and it's not a big deal. So I told him I wanted him to come to me, but in the end he did go to the place and left me alone. He told me he'd come to me after that, but when he texted me he was home and if he could come to me, it was already 11 in the night, so I told him he couldn't come.

You know what hurts me most? He chose something that is NOT important at all over me. He said it may be his future working place, so he had to go. But All he ever does about that place is complain that he hates it and everything and doesn't EVER want to work there. So basically he's rather investing time in something he's got no future in, and he's willing to let the person he DOES have a future with just stay at home.

I feel so bad, I'm so sad and it hurts so much. Worst thing... My parents already disliked him. And because they saw me like this last night and because I've been cursing at him for doing this, they hate him even more. Especially my mother. My mother wants me to break up with him. I really want to stay with him, I want to talk it over and I want him to work for me. I want to fight for this, because in the end it will be worth it. But it's kind of impossible with a mother like mine.

Oh gosh... This is so long but I HAD to get it off my chest... I'm so hurt....
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« Reply #1240 on: November 24, 2010, 06:00:45 am »
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I don't know what you want from this, if you want people to agree or disagree with you.

Of course, I do feel your pain. It always feels bad to have your boyfriend choosing something else. But again, do you really want him to always cancel everything he does, just to be with you? I've been with guys like that, and in the end, it get's pretty suffocating.

And the phone thing. I've been stressed like that too. And of course, he could have gotten on his computer and sent you a life sign. But still, I would say that you overreacted a bit. And he seems like a sweet guy, for not giving up on you. Because a lot of guys would go "Oh, well, if that's how you're going to behave, then I don't want to do this anymore. It was just a stupid text!"

I hope you figure out what you want, though.
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« Reply #1241 on: December 01, 2010, 04:53:17 am »
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I broke up with my boyfriend last Sunday. My dad didn't trust him so I told him to get me evidence he's not a good person and he did. He made someone follow him and we then found out my boyfriend sees girls behind my back and lies to me about who he was with.

We don't know how far it went, but we know that he danced with one girl (he did that in front of me, because he wanted to "have fun" and it "didn't mean anything") and he hugged and kissed one girl on the lips.

I broke up with him, because the trust is completely gone, and without trust, you can't be in a relationship. Also, he broke a couple of rules in our relationship: No lying, no dancing with other people, no kissing on the lips and tell the other what happened, so nothing has to be a secret.

It hurts so bad! We've been together for almost 10 months now, I know, not a long time... But everything I hear, read, see, feel and smell reminds me of him. Everywhere I go, he goes, because we go to the same bars and same clubs. I cry all day long and I'm physically sick. My period came one and a half week early and my head is exploding. I'm a wreck.

This morning my cousin took all of the things I got from my boyfriend and he went to give them back. I texted my boyfriend explaining that it wasn't because I'm not happy with it, but because it's easier to move on when I don't have to look at the presents. I know, it was the stupidest thing to EVER do!! I shouldn't have done it, because I have to move on. He texted back that he had an amazing time with me, that I'm the first girl he actually loved and cared this much for. That he loves me and that he'll never be able to forget me and that he will look after me and that something happens he'll be there for me.

On the one hand it did me good, because he told me how heartbroken he is and that he hasn't been out of the house since, but on the other hand it makes me want to go back even more. And that's not supposed to be happening...

Oh well... I hope this pain goes away soon... I can't deal with this...
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