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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #60 on: April 28, 2005, 09:52:16 am »
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Sorry to say thisa Jess- but the lad you're pinning over sounds like a total rat-ass. I know you can't help who you pine over, but if he is like you've described him, I think you're better trying to move on. It'll happen- you just got to accept that it can. Not saying it'll be quick, easy or without relapses, but it will. Unless you want to spend the rest of your high school days waiting for him to wake up and see the light, in which case, each to their own.
I like the sound of Ryan. I think you should forgo the date BUT ask if he wants to go as friends to see if you two can have a night out together with no pressure and actually keep a conversation going and stuff. That way you can look objectivly at if you're compatable or not. Then if it goes well, you may find yourself suprised and liking it...
Plus, tell your friends that you're touched that they want to know so much about you, but could they please leave you to make your own decisions where love is concerned unless you ask for the advice!
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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #61 on: April 28, 2005, 03:52:42 pm »
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Quote from: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 28, 2005, 09:52:16 am
Sorry to say thisa Jess- but the lad you're pinning over sounds like a total rat-ass. I know you can't help who you pine over, but if he is like you've described him, I think you're better trying to move on. It'll happen- you just got to accept that it can. Not saying it'll be quick, easy or without relapses, but it will. Unless you want to spend the rest of your high school days waiting for him to wake up and see the light, in which case, each to their own. |
lol, awww... that's a bit harsh. He's really not a bad guy, or i wouldn't like him. Some people don't like him... but that's because he's crazy--and can be quite loud at times. lol, but i like that about him. He's absolutely one of the most fun people to hang around i've ever met. He really is quite sweet, he's outgoing, he's funny, he's really cute, and he's really nice. But he is a boy. that means he likes what they do: sex, video games, and whatever other stupid things they can find to entertain themselves. *shrugs* that's just what they are, i guess.
arg, i guess we'll have to see what tomorrow brings... ya never really know with all the crazy ppl i know, lol. 
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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #65 on: April 29, 2005, 11:25:20 pm »
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Quote from: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 29, 2005, 03:48:16 am
I just re-read and I do sound harsh don't I? Lol- I'm direct that's my problem! I still think you should wean yourself off the guy, but if you like him, I suppose he sounds better now you've described him fully. Maybe... |
He really is getting a lot better... since he's gotten/getting over his Sam obsession, he's starting to interact with me a lot more like he use to. He's one of those people ya either love or ya hate... lol, i'm on the love side. He seems to be warming up to me... *shrugs* guess we'll see how it goes, eh? lol, and i don't mind your directness... i have just been posting pretty negative things about him.
ahh well, i've got two situations that all i can do is wait and watch how they turn out. *shrugs* who knows?
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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #66 on: April 30, 2005, 01:51:12 pm »
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Good luck Jess- hope something works out! Lol.
Ok- this is a first. I gotta problem.
I've been going out with my boyf for 7 months now, and it's going great. He isn't the problem.
We've just got some new people at the place we both work, and he casually mentioned one was pretty (I don't think she is, but he's going out with me, so he must not know what pretty is). Well, I took the mick out of him (like the loving girlfriend I am- lol) and it seems to have gone around work. Now people keep bringing it up, and all I wanna do is forget it (I got accused of wearing make-up today just to impress him and keep his eyes off her. hello- I'm never without my make-up!). I'm starting to become quite jealous of this girl, even though I know he wouldn't do anything. It's more her I'm worried about. She keeps going all flirty around him (today, he said she walked out of the toilets and there was only him there doing a job, and she goes 'This blouse is too tight 'cos I've got huge boobs' and proceeded to practically shove them in his face) which he's uncomfortable with, and it's none too pleasant for me to hear about either. So- I need advice. Is there any way I can tell her to back off (bearing in mind I hardly know her and will have to work with her- so yelling "keep your f-ing hands off my boyfriend!" will not go down well!) and also any way I can kick my jealously- cos I do not want to get to the point where he can't even talk to her without me turning into the green eyed monster.
Help!
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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #67 on: April 30, 2005, 04:03:20 pm »
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Monkey - Yay! I'm so glad things work out (for the most part, at least). Happy to have helped!
Jess - So Jesse's being a little more friendly towards you now? That's probably a good sign, considering he does know you've got a little thing for him. Be careful though - don't jump into anything (including conclusions) too fast. But good luck! So far, things are sounding good!
As for the Ryan business.. don't stress yourself over it. Just see how things go. Who knows, maybe he won't have the guts to ask you out again anyway. Just cross that bridge when you come to it.
LegolasBuzzgirl - Hmm.. that's a tricky one! Jealousy is a hard monster to tame, especially if you might have reason to be jaelous. No sane girl is ever completely comfortable with another girl flirting shamelessly with their guy.
I think you first of all need to talk seriously with your boyfriend. You said you took the mick out of him (heehee, I love that phrase!) when he made that comment about her. But did you talk to him about it otherwise? Maybe one reason you're finding yourself so jealous is that you're afraid he might actually fall for all the crap this other girl is doing.
Talk to him; tell him she's really bothering you. It seems like you guys have a pretty good relationship, so I'm sure he'll be able to assure you that he's not interested in this girl (he doesn't sound like it at all). Once you get some reassurance from him, maybe you'll be able to deal with her a little better.
As far as talking with her.. that's hard. I personally don't know what I would do. Because, as you said, you have to work with her, so yelling at her wouldn't be a very wise move. But she also shouldn't be allowed to get away with what she's doing, either. Hmmm. And on the other hand, if you just talk to her quietly about it, that could encourage her (unfortunately some people are like that). Does she seem one of these types? That would keep it up just to get under your skin?
I think the first step should be talking with your boyfriend. See what you can work out from there.
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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #69 on: May 01, 2005, 08:52:45 pm »
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Well, I have this friend. The same friend which I asked about in Jackie's advice thread. Well, she claimed that she thought that I was pissy and that it was best to leave me alone. Hmm. This sounds like a terrible excuess. Anyways, since our school has grown, some kids eat lunch in the sixth grade cafeteria. And I was in there, and one of her friends snorted at me and said, "Jazmine, what are you doing here?" I had been sitting there for the past week when she was in the Keys, but she said it as if I wasn't wanted. Pff. And even though she swore that she was my friend, I can't help but wonder what her excuess would be that time. Everytime I try to talk to her she's like, "Leave me alone." So, I told her that I would bring her in a box of cookies (how gulliable .) and she started talking to me. I think she doesn't like me because I'm not being her charity case. And I'm pretty sure she runs her mouth.
Basically, this is the third time I've questioned our friendship and I've had it. This other girl named Ariel is 100x cooler. And my friend is mad at her too, but I don't see how.
I'VE f*ckING HAD IT.
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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #72 on: May 02, 2005, 01:16:58 pm »
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Quote:| Nothing I can do about the 'being single' thing though. |
Oh yes you can  ahum
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Re:The A+F agony aunts.
« Reply #74 on: May 02, 2005, 04:48:08 pm »
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hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a problem again. you see, you know how I told you my BFF and that guy were going out now? well, it turns out... he was just joking when he asked her! he told me later online that he was just messing around when his friend was over, and she took it seriously! now, since my BFF said yes, the guy has to be her BF. so, just now my BFF kept saying, "he's not acting like he likes me! he doesnt even look at me!" and toher things like that. I really really wanna tell her that he wasnt serious, but I'm too afraid of hurting her! i told the guy to tell her, but he wont! i dont know what to do! I feel so bad for my BFF!!!  Thanks!
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