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« Reply #1080 on: October 12, 2008, 09:47:54 pm »
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No-one has any problems this can only be a good thing
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« Reply #1081 on: October 13, 2008, 09:20:45 pm »
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Heh heh...I didn't think of it that way, but that is a very good point! 
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« Reply #1082 on: October 13, 2008, 11:19:45 pm »
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I did nearly get depressed again luckily Mark cheered me up. The guy we working for is such an asshole
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« Reply #1083 on: October 13, 2008, 11:56:47 pm »
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Any suggestions for easing tensions between me and my other half on a couple subjects? Politics for instance, almost always results in a fight...
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« Reply #1084 on: October 23, 2008, 10:24:33 am »
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Well I'd just tell my mom that it's my choice, I mean she can't decide everything for me right?

I always try not to scream and yell at her and when she does at me, I just tell her that she is talking too loud and that I won't talk to her if she continues like this.

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« Reply #1085 on: October 23, 2008, 12:31:43 pm »
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Quote from: Bianca on October 13, 2008, 11:56:47 pm   

Any suggestions for easing tensions between me and my other half on a couple subjects? Politics for instance, almost always results in a fight...

No one has the same view on everything.
Don't take the disagreement personally, subjects like politics shouldn't cause problems between the two of you, you're sharing your beliefs, it doesn't matter if you don't agree, just don't try and change what the other thinks.
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« Reply #1086 on: October 25, 2008, 10:41:14 pm »
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I thought of my grandma today and got a bit upset. December 3rd this yr will be yr since she died. I don't know how I will react I know I should get sad but maybe I will not.

Any ideas how to cope with anniversary of loved ones death?
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« Reply #1087 on: October 25, 2008, 11:10:49 pm »
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Still struggling with that one myself, Liz.  It has been 8 months since my dad died. 

It is important to remember that our sadness is normal. The loss of a loved one leaves a little hole which cannot be filled by anyone else. However, it is equally important to gently remind ourselves of all the good times & precious memories. I also try to remember that death isn't a good bye...it is really a see you soon.

I hope this helps a bit, Liz. I really do like the "feeling" you captured in your last poem. Very lovely and fitting. It is like they are still with us. 
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« Reply #1088 on: October 25, 2008, 11:12:22 pm »
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Thanks Culpie. I will take on board your advice, your a true friend
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« Reply #1089 on: October 27, 2008, 06:13:38 am »
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You have your memories of her Elizabeth, and I hope they comfort you on her anniversary.  Like Culpie says, it's natural to feel sad and it's not a final goodbye. Hope you are well, best wishes. 
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« Reply #1090 on: October 27, 2008, 05:24:47 pm »
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Thanks mary, I am well today, I will remember her like she was on the day
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« Reply #1091 on: November 29, 2008, 06:10:25 am »
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OK, this is probably me being an idiot but I need advice about this guy at college.

His name is James and he's really cool.  Anyway we swapped e-mails and numbers (as friends).  Then on Wednesday our lesson was cancelled so another guy at te college, Richard, invited us both to his house.  We went, then as we were walking to the bus James decided to wanted a burger so I said goodbye.  Then later that night I got this message from him "Hey its me.. And i had 2 cheese burgers! X" I replied "Two?  And I had to starve until I got home, that's not fair"

James:  "Hey i did offer to buy you one.. Cant have you going hungry *tongue sticking out smiley* x"

I'd like to point out I didn't actually realise he offered to buy me a burger

Me: "Damn the bus, next time I'm taking the offer! "

James: "See you no it makes sense *tongue sticking out smiley* what food do you like so i can make sure you don't go hungry x"

Me:  "Burgers ( ) and sandwiches, how about you (for when I have money)"

James: "I like italian such as pizza pasta and pub food.. Love restaurants but ill settle for a burger anyday x"

And that was that.  Then last night he text me again.

James: "Hey what you up to! Im at work really bored x!

Me: "Aww poor James!  I'm just writing (my life story) and listening to music, bet you wish our roles were reversed huh? x"  Now I had a few minutes deciding whether to put that x or not.

James: "Wish i was there with you lol x" It was now I got a little 

Me: "Aw, it's not that interesting trust me! x"

James: "Must be better than being herex"

I'm low on credit so I left it there but then at 10:21PM I got this message

James: "Anyway im home now yay and just wanna say i think your really nice x"

I don't know what to say in reply.  Am I over-reacting or what?
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« Reply #1092 on: November 29, 2008, 08:02:40 am »
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Vix:  I think it's called...flirting

I'm big on flirting, and I'm kinda jealous you're young and free and get to indulge in a bit of harmless flirtation.

Guess it all depends on if you like this guy (and I'm gathering that you do, at least a bit, from the fact that you're worrying over this issue)...

So I'd say go for it, say whatever you feel, but keep it humourous so the convo doesn't get to 'heavy' at this early stage.
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« Reply #1093 on: November 29, 2008, 08:06:18 am »
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Quote from: The Gemstar on November 29, 2008, 08:02:40 am   
Guess it all depends on if you like this guy (and I'm gathering that you do, at least a bit, from the fact that you're worrying over this issue)...
I think he's sweet and a little cute but I don't really know if I wanna go out with him...
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« Reply #1094 on: November 29, 2008, 08:19:23 am »
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Well, if I'm following you correctly, so far he hasn't officially "asked you out" - but it sounds as if he's working up to it...

The only problem is that if you rebuff him now, and then later decide you DO like him, the window of opportunity may have closed by then.

What do you know about him?  Have you guys had conversations that lead you to think he might be 'your type', or see the world in a similar way?  Like, if he's not into anything you enjoy, if he stands for something you are dead-set against, then it's probably a waste of time to pursue it.
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