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« Reply #1095 on: November 29, 2008, 09:10:54 am »
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I thought I'd just send a casual message saying something like 'You're cool too, for a guy anyway ' You know, try to keep it light and airy
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« Reply #1096 on: November 29, 2008, 09:23:59 am »
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Cool, sounds like plan.

Oh wait!  Unless he thinks that means you're not "into guys" haha!
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« Reply #1097 on: November 29, 2008, 09:26:50 am »
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Hehe I think he's already made that assumption
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« Reply #1098 on: November 29, 2008, 09:34:47 am »
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I think not.  He's texting you isn't he?  And trying to find out what food you like (wouldn't wanna make a blunder on a first date )  Unless I'm missing something?
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« Reply #1099 on: November 29, 2008, 09:38:27 am »
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I mean that he's made the assumption I'm into men, sorry I wasn't clear.
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« Reply #1100 on: November 29, 2008, 01:14:56 pm »
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I'm so useless at flirting that I don't know why I;m trying to give you advice - but go Victoria! He seems nice and really friendly - even if you just go out as friends then who knows what might happen? Good luck! 
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« Reply #1101 on: December 01, 2008, 06:30:41 am »
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Okay there are two options here:

He's either always like this with girls, I mean, some of my friends do this to girls, just because they wanna be friends you know. He's interested in you as a person, not really you in a romantic way. He wants to get to know you and he already likes you.

OOOOOOR (my favourite part ) He's pretty much hooked up on you. Yep yep, he might be interested in you and trying to figure out as much as possible. You should just flirt, I mean, it's fun!! And when he texts you, you don't always have to respond immediately... keep him waiting

I love flirting, it's basically my life lol

I do have problems with this guy though... His name's Vincent and we've dated a couple of times, we kissed and I told him I like him alot, maybe even more than just liking and he told me he likes me too but that he is not sure whether he wants a GF or not, but that we should hang around loads and he'll figure things out. So I want to do that, obviously but since he's busy with some sort of exams at school he doesn't have time for me till Christmas holidays. That's okay though, it's sad but not the big thing I kinda get frustrated with myself, I'm so insecure when it comes to HIM!! I never get insecure when it comes to guys, but I want him to like me so bad, that I really just don't know how far I can go... it's so annoying! Thanks for letting me vent, lol

Ooooh I can't believe this... Last Friday we had this big party and we kissed again and we danced very intimately, but now he doesn't answer any of my messages and he doesn't even know I'm not at school.. he's being impossible right now!!
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« Reply #1102 on: December 01, 2008, 09:17:02 am »
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Quote from: Young&Desperate 4Attention{DA} on December 01, 2008, 06:30:41 am   
Okay there are two options here:

He's either always like this with girls, I mean, some of my friends do this to girls, just because they wanna be friends you know. He's interested in you as a person, not really you in a romantic way. He wants to get to know you and he already likes you.
Of course this is a possibility, but the way our conversations sound made/makes me think it's not so much.


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OOOOOOR (my favourite part ) He's pretty much hooked up on you. Yep yep, he might be interested in you and trying to figure out as much as possible. You should just flirt, I mean, it's fun!! And when he texts you, you don't always have to respond immediately... keep him waiting
IF this is what is happening I don't wanna flirt with him for the sake of it.  James is a really sweet guy and if he does like me then I don't want to lead him down the garden path, it could really hurt him.  I don't know his past with girls (just as he doesn't know my past with guys), I don't want to lead him on which is what I would be doing if I constantly flirted with him knowing how he feels.
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« Reply #1103 on: December 01, 2008, 09:43:40 am »
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Well, Flirting is not really that bad... I mean, it's not like you're drivin him crazy, it's just the little things... And it can really make your friendship with him better. You just need to draw a line and not cross it, you know. Best friends flirt with each other to get close.

But I know what you mean. But isn't it the best thing to flirt with someone and have them flirting back with you? Isn't it a big fat egoboost? Come on, you can't tell me it isn't nice...
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« Reply #1104 on: December 02, 2008, 02:48:13 am »
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tomorrow is a year since my grandma died. I do not feel too bad considering, we shall see how i feel tomorrow 
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« Reply #1105 on: December 06, 2008, 06:19:13 am »
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Good luck with your boys Vic and Pamela!

Elizabeth, hope you coped OK. If you need to chat, do send a PM. 
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« Reply #1106 on: December 10, 2008, 04:37:45 am »
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Don't know what I was worried aout as I coped perfectly fine on the day. Apart from nearly crying when we got fired. Thanks for your concern mary
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« Reply #1107 on: February 17, 2009, 11:40:44 am »
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Okay I have a problem

There is this boy, Vincent, and I'm head over heels about him, I'm so in love with him it's not even funny. Now he is not the problem. My friend Almira is. She love attention and she always wants to be in the spotlights. She's my best friend, but she's jealous of me. Whenever I get attention from someone, she wants to get more attention from that person, even if she doesn't like him/her. When I have fun with someone, she wants to have more fun with them. She wants to top everything I do, when it comes to being friends with people.

Now usually I don't give a shit if she gets more attention from someone than I do, I know people will come back to me eventually and that they like me anyways. But she also does it with Vincent. She flirts with him and people have been coming up to me and asked if they're together or something like that. It drives me nuts to see her doing that to the person I'm madly, deeply, truly in love with. I've talked to her so often, I told her that it hurts me, because she's my best friend and she should understand the way it feels and she always says she's sorry, she won't ever do it again, but then, a couple of days later, she's literally all over him.

What do I need to do? I love her to death but like this... I don't know if we can stay friends.
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« Reply #1108 on: February 17, 2009, 11:46:44 am »
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Okay I have a problem

There is this boy, Vincent, and I'm head over heels about him, I'm so in love with him it's not even funny. Now he is not the problem. My friend Almira is. She love attention and she always wants to be in the spotlights. She's my best friend, but she's jealous of me. Whenever I get attention from someone, she wants to get more attention from that person, even if she doesn't like him/her. When I have fun with someone, she wants to have more fun with them. She wants to top everything I do, when it comes to being friends with people.

Now usually I don't give a shit if she gets more attention from someone than I do, I know people will come back to me eventually and that they like me anyways. But she also does it with Vincent. She flirts with him and people have been coming up to me and asked if they're together or something like that. It drives me nuts to see her doing that to the person I'm madly, deeply, truly in love with. I've talked to her so often, I told her that it hurts me, because she's my best friend and she should understand the way it feels and she always says she's sorry, she won't ever do it again, but then, a couple of days later, she's literally all over him.

What do I need to do? I love her to death but like this... I don't know if we can stay friends.

i think...that if she keeps on saying she won't do it anymore and she does, thats just plain mean. if she keeps doing it, go with your gut feeling. if i were you, i would totally just say, "you know what? i'm sick of this. you keep doing this and its making me really mad! so, were done, until you can mature some more." thats just me though, lol. i hope this helps you, girl.
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« Reply #1109 on: February 17, 2009, 11:48:35 am »
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Thanks for the quick reply

I have thought about doing that, but it's like... we've been best friends for the past 6 years and it's hard to just let that go
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