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Title: Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 10, 2006, 08:00:44 am

Okay, I feel this thread is long overdue. ;D

Here's a place where we can all talk about our boyfriends / girlfriends / husbands / life partners / etc. This is for all the mushy talk!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Storyteller on January 10, 2006, 09:41:04 am

I am a lucky girl. I married Sam Gamgee! LOL

Seriously, my husband has all the good qualities of that character, and I am AWESOMELY grateful.

How cool is that???

Hugs,
Rach

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 10, 2006, 10:00:02 am

Hey another Sam lover. You talked to Rose yet? The obsession is shared by her! Lol.

This thread is gonna become sickly innit? Lol. I'll stick around.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 10, 2006, 04:44:43 pm

YAY! I am soo glad you made this thread!! I need a place like this to talk about my angel. :) Ah, I love him so much! He does so much for me...I really don't deserve such love. He is the greatest thing to ever happen to me, I must say. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 10, 2006, 07:19:11 pm

I know how you feel! I'm so in love with Morgan! I really don't deserve him! Like, the other night I stayed at his house and I was really tired, so he put me to bed and kissed me goodnight. When I woke up in the morning there was a note next to the bed with a list of things he loves about me! So sweet! :-*

*Dreamy*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 10, 2006, 07:39:57 pm

Aww! That is soooo sweet! That sounds like something my Casey would do...only I don't stay at his house at night... yet. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Storyteller on January 10, 2006, 10:41:01 pm

Buzzgirl, ROse invited me here! I guess she wanted another Sam/Sean fan around! LOL

Hugs,
Rach

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Rose on January 10, 2006, 11:31:29 pm

Yes, I did invite Rach here and it was one of the smarter things I have done. I think she is a wonderful addition to A&F and I love having another Sean fan here.

Oh, goody, a place to gush about our sweethearts! I love gushing about mine but try not to do it very often because other people might not appreciate it. Like Rach, I call my hubby "my Sam." In fact one of the reasons I "fell in love" with Sam was because his personality reminded me sooo much of my husband's. He is sweet, loyal, slightly naive, sees the best in everyone (except Gollum-like creatures ;D), and more that my tired brain can't think about right now. He is wonderful, the love of my life, my knight in shining armor, and I am madly in love with him. The most amazing thing about my hubby is that he is madly in love with me and thinks I am wonderful. I am still trying to figure that one out! ???

Okay, I will quit gushing now. La Deux, great thread. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 11, 2006, 03:35:13 am

[quote author=Rose link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962917 date=1136953889]
La Deux, great thread. :)
[/quote]

Thanks! Well, I always feel rather guilty when I go on and on about Morgan in other threads. I don't really like going off topic. But now Morgan is the topic! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 11, 2006, 03:44:23 am

I had lotsa fun with my man last night. (Rather NC17 tho)

Gush- I love him! But, he's a bit down atm 'cos his grandmas just died. Funeral today. I hate seeing him like this and not being able to do anything. *Le sigh*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 11, 2006, 03:46:36 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962955 date=1136969063]
I hate seeing him like this and not being able to do anything. *Le sigh*
[/quote]

Aww that sucks. Poor him. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on January 11, 2006, 03:54:16 am

oh girls i feel quiet lonley reading this.....


but i am glad for all of you, my time will come!! sure about that!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 11, 2006, 03:56:48 am

[quote author=Tamara link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962961 date=1136969656]
but i am glad for all of you, my time will come!! sure about that!
[/quote]

It sure will, Tamara. Go out there and stun all the boys, now. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on January 11, 2006, 04:00:35 am

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962962 date=1136969808]
[quote author=Tamara link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962961 date=1136969656]
but i am glad for all of you, my time will come!! sure about that!
[/quote]

It sure will, Tamara. Go out there and stun all the boys, now. ;)
[/quote]
i will!!!!! after may this year! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 11, 2006, 06:32:09 am

Hah! Great idea!
Only just saw this after doing a bit of gushing in the Sex help thread. lolz
Oh well. ::)

Me and Chris have only been together a month... on Thursday. But things are going fantastically!
I'm always at his place (my house is so boring, parents get in the way so much) and I only really come home to sleep these days. Apart from when he works late at night, that's annoying. Like on Wednesdays, we both have no lessons at all, but he works, so I basically spend the day alone and think about him. I sometimes visit him and make him feel all "Aww no, I'm missing out on quality Chris/Kathryn time so I can stack crates of beer to pay off my car." Silly boy. ::)

I've never felt like this with any of my previous boyfriends. I see this with Chris going somewhere good.


Quote:
Gush- I love him!


Aww Ruth! That thing you told me about the roses a while ago... OMG I sometimes think about that and go into little awwing sessions.
... is that weird? :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 11, 2006, 07:21:43 am

[quote]Aww Ruth! That thing you told me about the roses a while ago... OMG I sometimes think about that and go into little awwing sessions.
... is that weird? [/quote]

Lol not weird. (But I'll not mention the getting tied up)

Happy month anniversary for Thursday babe! *Throws confetti*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Storyteller on January 11, 2006, 07:28:16 am

What does your sweeie do that makes you feel the most loved?

Mine does lots of things, including working hard so I can stay home and believe me I APPRECIATE that. One small thing I love is when I fall asleep on the sofa, or he thinks I have, and he covers me up with an afghan or blanket. He doesn't just cover me. He tucks me in very gently so as not to wake me up.

What does your sweetie do that says "love" to you?

Hugs,
Rach

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 11, 2006, 07:50:57 am

[quote]What does your sweeie do that makes you feel the most loved?
[/quote]

Text messages at really random times. Like 3am so i get it when I wake up. Lol- I actually still have the original text message he sent when he asked me out- bad grammar and all. And I've changed phone handsets three times since and he's changed his number once- but I still got it! Lol.

Other than that, the laying with him not even talking thing- just listening to music or watching a film- and he'll give me the tiniest of hugs just to let me know he's there. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 11, 2006, 03:19:41 pm

[quote author=Storyteller link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=15#msg963005 date=1136982496]
What does your sweeie do that makes you feel the most loved?
[/quote]

Just some of the things he says to me sometimes, just make me feel all "Awwwww!!" ;D lol
The other day when I was at home doing Media work I got a text message saying "Don't get depressed with Media. Chin up kidder. Stay beautiful. xxx" and it had me sat on the floor just grinning for about an hour. The Media work went out the window.

Random things that I like about him...
When he sings. When we drive places we don't always talk... we just sit. And he starts to sing and it's the most adorable thing ever! lol He Doesn't realise he does it (he has told me it's a sign that he's really comfortable around me because he does things that he would only usually do when alone). It's just sweet.

Damn. Here comes the grinning.

RUTH! You get to meet him soon! I hope you like him. I need your approval. lol :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 11, 2006, 03:26:26 pm


Quote:
RUTH! You get to meet him soon! I hope you like him. I need your approval. lol


Damn right you do! I don't care how in love you are- if I don't like him then I forbid you to see him again!

Lol- just kidding babe. *Hugs*

Is it weird that I like seeing my friends paired off? Lol. I'm desperate for my mate at school to get herself a girlfriend so everyones nice and coupled up. Plus I'll feel less guilty rabbitting on about Andy if she does! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 11, 2006, 03:33:49 pm

I'm like that as well! Especially when I have a guy of my own. lol
At the moment everyone is trying to get Jenny to go out on the pull. Causes quite a bit of hilarity sometimes. Sounds mean... but it does. I'm sure you understand Ruth. ;)

Our group at college has 3 couples in it... we need more! lol


Quote:
I don't care how in love you are

Here's something that's been sort of nagging at me...
How the hell do I know if I'm in love with him? (I'm not at the moment... just very much in like)

How long were you guys with your partners before you fell in love? I'm interested because I've never paid it much attention before (when it comes to friends I mean, my past relationships with guys haven't been very long/serious). And a couple of my friends decide they're in love after like, 2 weeks, which doesn't seem right to me. lol

Any thoughts/wisdom/whatever?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 11, 2006, 03:37:58 pm

5 or so weeks. I don't know if I was actually in love but that's definatly when I started to fall. Everything happened very fast this time. It's strange 'cos I started out kinda guarded- hell I didn't even admit going to the cinema the first time was a date until he'd asked me out afterwards! Lol.

At the end of the day, it's different for everyone isn't it? Guy before Andy, I couldn't have fallen in love with if I'd stayed with him to 50, but Andy- very quick. You'll know. If you get to the point where you wanna tell them every little thing you've done and feel odd not telling them first, or you wake up and smile 'cos he's crossed your mind- or he's there- then you'll know.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 11, 2006, 03:48:13 pm

Awwww...

... This thread is not going to help at all. Seriously. Every visit has left me smiling and awwing! lol
</loser> ;)

I feel as though I've finally found someone where there's meaning to us spending time toegether. And it could get serious.
It's kinda scary... but I'm so happy!! ;D

And Yay! He's just signed into MSN. *Bounces*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 11, 2006, 04:39:51 pm

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962952 date=1136968513]
[quote author=Rose link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962917 date=1136953889]
La Deux, great thread. :)
[/quote]

Thanks! Well, I always feel rather guilty when I go on and on about Morgan in other threads. I don't really like going off topic. But now Morgan is the topic! :)
[/quote]

I was thinking the same thing about myself, Le Deux! I feel a little bad when i start rambing about my Casey, but now it is the cause. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 11, 2006, 05:41:10 pm

Great thread idea, Le Deux!

Ah, what to say about my lovely boyfriend, Adam? ;D I've been with him over a year now and I'm crazy about him. He's 19 and I'm 17.. so I'm in my senior year of highschool and he's in his sophmore year of college. I met him at my highschool actually in 10th grade because I was completely infatuated when I first saw him in the hall.

But anyway, he's so sweet. He's always complimenting me and telling me all the reasons why I'm "the best girlfriend ever". ::) We spend a lot of time together and really enjoy each other's company. We share the same feelings about movies, music, art, etc. He's just a blast to be with and definitely makes me feel like number 1. :-* We've already discussed things like marriage, living together, our futures, etc. so we're pretty serious. :o

Hehe, I think that's enough rambling now. I miss him terribly. He's back in Georgia for college until March. :'(

Off topic --

<*>Epica<*> +10 cool points for the sig! My boyfriend actually got me into Opeth. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 11, 2006, 06:02:24 pm

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=15#msg963468 date=1137019270]
Great thread idea, Le Deux!

Ah, what to say about my lovely boyfriend, Adam? ;D I've been with him over a year now and I'm crazy about him. He's 19 and I'm 17.. so I'm in my senior year of highschool and he's in his sophmore year of college. I met him at my highschool actually in 10th grade because I was completely infatuated when I first saw him in the hall.

But anyway, he's so sweet. He's always complimenting me and telling me all the reasons why I'm "the best girlfriend ever". ::) We spend a lot of time together and really enjoy each other's company. We share the same feelings about movies, music, art, etc. He's just a blast to be with and definitely makes me feel like number 1. :-* We've already discussed things like marriage, living together, our futures, etc. so we're pretty serious. :o

Hehe, I think that's enough rambling now. I miss him terribly. He's back in Georgia for college until March. :'(

Off topic --

<*>Epica<*> +10 cool points for the sig! My boyfriend actually got me into Opeth. ;D
[/quote]

Aww, you two sound so sweet and perfect for each other! :-* I am going to have to feel the pain of missing Casey for two years before we are at college together. He goes to college next year, being a senior now and I a sophomore. :-\ But, he constantly is reminding me that all of the being apart and him at college is for our future, so yes we are quite serious too. I just know we shall be married one day. :)

*Off topic*

Thank you soo much [Pandora]! Aren't they just the coolest band? I may get to go see them in February! I am so excited! ;D Okay, back on topic, hehe. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on January 11, 2006, 07:10:26 pm

I like the thread!

Oh my goodness, where to start? Well, I met Mark way back in elementary. I actually didn't meet him face to face until fifth grade. Thanks to our teacher we became friends that school year. Then after that we sort of drifted apart in sixth and seventh grade. Which sucked. But, in eighth grade we became friends again. Our history teacher put us together in the same small group, to go over homework and tests. In less than a weeks time, we became really good friends again. Then we started highschool. (we're both juniors this year) And that put a strain on our friendship. We only saw eachother during football season and Formal freshmen year. (I went with a friend who goes to his school) Then, we didn't see eachother again, until football season, at the start of Sophmore year. But, we were still friends.
Then I went to one of his school's games and after party this past September. That night was fun. We spent from about half way through third quarter of the game (he was in marching band at the time) all the way through the after party together. I went to hug him good-bye and we kissed. We weren't together officialy until about two weeks after that. But, it was worth it. We've been together 3 months now. Went to Formal together last month at my school. That was great. My friends had fun taking pictures of us.

But, anyway, he is an all around sweetheart. And I love him so much.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 11, 2006, 07:33:03 pm

Ah, yay for gushing!!!

My boyfriend, Dave, and I have been together a little over 8 months now... It's flown by, and yet it seems like we've always been together. Haha, does that make sense?

He's amazing. He always makes me laugh, and we get along together so well. He's possibly the sweetest guy I've ever met.

I'm at college now, though, and he's still in high school. (Haha, yes, I know, I'm robbing the cradle!) But he leaves me e-mails every morning, calls just to say he loves me, and even writes me letters here at school. It's hard being apart, but it's worth it because I love him so much.

When we're together, it's perfect. We can do the most random things (like play with Legos, go on a picnic), or just sit around watching a movie, and it's awesome.

Ah. *Dreamy eyes.*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on January 11, 2006, 08:14:48 pm

I've only been with my boyfriend for a month... but this month has honestly been the happiest month of my life. He's actually the guitarist in my band (I being the bassist) and we've liked eachother for a loooong time but never said anything because of the band situation. I know this relationship is going to turn into something incredible, and serious. He already told me he IS going to celebrate a one year anniversary with me, and maybe even a three year. He is absolutely perfect to me. So sweet, so laid back, such a good person, completely hilarious, so smart... and not to mention sexy as hell ;). Just thinking about him makes my heart flutter, I've never felt like this before... it's just so... overwhelming.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 12, 2006, 03:50:48 am


Quote:
It's hard being apart, but it's worth it because I love him so much.


I'm glad long distant relationships are working for people. I'm off to uni next year and even though I'm only going to be about an hours car journey away, I know I'll not see him much which will be incredibly strange. It's a worry- hope it will work, but what if we grow apart? I'd hate that...

*Shakes self* <<< (Hee-hee- I originally put 'shakes elf'. Glads I read back over posts before sending! *Grabs Legolas*)

Enough of the depressing stuff. Photos people! Share the sexiness! (If you think your man/ woman won't mind)

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v282/lbg/photos/random/andylookin_wellhard_.jpg[/IMG]
Andy smokes *Tsk*

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v282/lbg/photos/random/punkgoth.jpg[/IMG]
Dressed up goth n punk for Christmas eve (also on beautiful ones, but no-one commented lol)

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v282/lbg/photos/18th%20birthday%20party/birthdaymenandy.jpg[/IMG]
At my 18th (I'm ever so slightly merry...)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: BabyBee on January 12, 2006, 04:06:12 am

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962532 date=1136898044]
Okay, I feel this thread is long overdue.[/quote]

Yes indeed it is!

*sigh* What can I say about Travis? Actually I could go on about him for weeks...years even. He's absolutely everything I want and everything I need. He's my whole world and I don't know where I'd be without him.

Is that cliche enough for you? lol. It's all true though. He's my best friend, my mentor, my other half.

I love him so much it's crazy.







^^^This is my favorite picture of us.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: MrFishPillow on January 12, 2006, 04:58:38 am

I'm going to write a longer more detailed post later, when i'm not so dead. To put it simply, Sarah is the most amazing girl I have ever been with. I love her more than I have ever loved anybody else. She is the nicest person I know and she has the most fun and funniest personality ever.

I love her, so much. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 12, 2006, 05:31:01 pm

Aw I love everyone's pics! Okay, I am insanely proud of the pictures of Casey and I! ;D Here are some of them. :-*

(This one is new and pretty much my favorite with us together!)

Aww...he is so precious! I love him so much! ;D

This one is terribly blurry, but of course, I love it. It was taken on a cell phone, so thats why it looks so bad. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 12, 2006, 05:45:47 pm

Aww, everyone is so cute together! I actually don't have any pictures of Dave and I together on my computer at this time... but I do have a really amusing one of just him! Haha.

He was being goofy, and dressed up like a pirate at my house over break. It was very cute, and very funny. ::)

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Amaleen/Pirate.jpg[/IMG]


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 12, 2006, 05:51:47 pm

Aww, look at all these good looking guys here. ;) :-*

This is my boyfriend, Adam. He's so f***ing adorable!! I'm crazy about this guy. :D We've been together a loooong time. :)
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v415/PossessedHamsterToy/adam2.jpg[/IMG]


This was already posted in the beautiful ones but anyway.. This is me and Adam with my friend Christina and her boyfriend Shawn. I'm obviously on the left with him. ::)

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v415/PossessedHamsterToy/cropped.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 12, 2006, 06:27:16 pm

There are a lot of good looking men here, you're right! Good job ladies! ;D ;)

Don't you all just love it when they just do the cutest things and don't even realize it? Ah, I love those moments. So sweet! like even when you're upset with them, they do all they can to make up with you and do it in the sweetest and cutest ways! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 12, 2006, 07:05:38 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=15#msg963625 date=1137055848]

I'm glad long distant relationships are working for people. I'm off to uni next year and even though I'm only going to be about an hours car journey away, I know I'll not see him much which will be incredibly strange. It's a worry- hope it will work, but what if we grow apart? I'd hate that...

[/quote]

It is strange, Ruth. But it's not completely bad. I'm nearly 4 hours away from Dave now, but we're managing. I usually see him about every 2 or 3 weeks. And we talk every day in between.

I'm not gonna lie though - it's really hard at first. I had a lot of the same fears you do. I was so afraid of growing apart. But if you guys love each other enough, believe me, the distance won't really matter.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 12, 2006, 08:16:00 pm

Exactly, Adam is in Georgia now for college and won't be back for a couple more months and it is SO hard when they first leave.. You definitely miss all the time you spend together and having them around all the time. :( but talking every day definitely helps you cope with it better. :) It's tough, but we make it work. I had the same fears as you, Flummoxed, but you're exactly right... when you really care about each other, the distance doesn't matter. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 13, 2006, 01:38:22 am

Aww, your guys look great! ;D Teehee!

Loving the pirate look Flummoxed. Have one of those myself.
In icon form because the original photo is on my other computer. But this is Chris...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 13, 2006, 04:16:47 am

Well, we talk everyday as it is, so hopefully that'll help the long distance transition! Lol- it's strange. I can't actually sleep until I've had some for of contact with him- even if it's just a goodnight text! [/sadness]

Some very hot looking men we have here! *Waves 'yay for hot men' flag*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 13, 2006, 08:52:03 pm

I felt like gushing some more... Me and Adam were just talking about our relationship and he decided to list all the things he likes about me and then went on to add, he doesn't think he could do better than me. :-*Sigh... I miss him so much. :'(

We're talking about when I go to college.. my parents are thinking about making me go to Arizona since that's where they're moving and they want me close to home.. but I want to go to Florida because I like it there, I have a lot of family nearby and it's somewhat near Adam. It's so frustrating. I'm hoping to have some say in this. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 14, 2006, 12:09:35 pm

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=30#msg964375 date=1137203523]
I felt like gushing some more... Me and Adam were just talking about our relationship and he decided to list all the things he likes about me and then went on to add, he doesn't think he could do better than me. :-*Sigh... I miss him so much. :'(

We're talking about when I go to college.. my parents are thinking about making me go to Arizona since that's where they're moving and they want me close to home.. but I want to go to Florida because I like it there, I have a lot of family nearby and it's somewhat near Adam. It's so frustrating. I'm hoping to have some say in this. :P
[/quote]

Aw..I do hope it all works out for you! :-[

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 14, 2006, 01:46:05 pm

You should be allowed to make your own decision about where you go to college. I mean, you're old enough now. It's your own life. I'd be well pissed off if my parents decided I was going somewhere I didn't want to go.
Good luck. I hope it all works out for the best. :-*

I'm at Chris' now... he's currently playing Sonic Rush on his DS, screaming and giving me a commentary. I couldn't care less... but it's so damn cute.

Hmm... I've had an idea. Gonna go distract him and make him lose. *Sn1gger*

Toodles ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 14, 2006, 03:41:21 pm

Yeah, I would be soo ticked if my family tried to tell me where I was going to college! :P

Hehe, aww don't you just love distracting them while they are int the midst of something like that? Heh, they always forgive you! ;D Plus, you have some fun with them. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 15, 2006, 02:39:17 am

Wow, I just heard my first "I love you" from Adam tonight and I was so overwhelmed. I just smiled and was nervous to say it back, but I did. And then he went into his long thing about everything he likes about me and how much he misses me and wants me with him. :D He's so sweet. :-*

College thing is still undecided.. We have a few months before the final decision is made. >:(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: doremi77 on January 15, 2006, 06:06:40 am

Hehe... a gushing thread! [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_stuff/heartbeat.gif[/IMG]

Peter and I are together since nine years now. I fell in love way before our first date. I guess he fell a little later but much harder. Why else would he stay with his first girlfriend? *lol*
He's a bit younger than me and has adorable blue eyes, the cutest ears on the planet and hobbit legs. ;D He's Mr. Sensitive Nice Guy personally. I gladly leave all the machos for other girls.

He gives very good massages (he's trained in sport massaging) and I get them whenever I want. How great is that? ;)

There he is, shooting pictures at Plitvice. My favorite picture of him.
[IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/plitvice_photo_pet.jpg[/IMG]
We're engaged since Dec. 9th. His parents and brother noticed it only yesterday. Well, the rings had to be returned because of the wrong size and took a long time to be changed. Nobody else knows yet. But the others will sure notice it soon, too.

With a ring that shiny! It's also fairly big (60% of this pic)!
[IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/ringbig.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 15, 2006, 06:00:53 pm

Aww, congratulations on your engagement doremi77. I hope life treats you both very well. Good luck, all the best and all that jazz. :-*


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Wow, I just heard my first "I love you" from Adam tonight and I was so overwhelmed.


Aww, that's so sweet. Awww... lol.

This thread isn't good for me. I become all cuddly and 'aww' filled after visiting. Not good when I'm on my own. :(

Had a fantastic day with Mr Chris yesterday. Was with him from 2:30 til midnight. I love weekends. My parents let me be with him for an hour longer than on weekdays. Hehe. These days I only come home to sleep. I love it. ;D
Aww he's so pretty (in a manly way of course ;))

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 15, 2006, 08:43:42 pm

Aww, everything seems to be going soo good for everyone! YAY! ;D

Pandora...that is so sweet! I remember when Casey first told me he loved me. It was over the internet (we were INCREIBLY shy). But, it was so sweet, none the less. ;D

Awww engagement! WOOT! Doremi77, that is so very sweet! ;D And I too, know that it is like to love the sweet, nice guy. Who needs the macho men? I know I don't! :)


Ah, I can't wait until I am proposed to when we are older. And I know that Casey will be the one to do it. :) I just know some how...

We had a great day together today! We were together all day. He came to church with me this morning, as usual, and we watched 'Charlie and the Chocolate Factory' (the new one) together. And let me end this post by saying....tonight was 'very' romantic! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 15, 2006, 10:20:53 pm

Aww, the other day Morgan spent like $25 calling me! :)

Random questions:

When did you first meet?

When / where was your first kiss?

When was your first "I love you"?


Mog and I first met in 2002, when we were both waiting for mutual friends. I was wondering why there was a random hot guy over there that kept looking at me. Anyway, our friends didn't turn up, and he came over to me and said "Are you waiting for (Person) and (Person), too?" and I was like, "Uh, yeah". I was so shy! Anyway, we got along really well, but I was going out with someone else.

Anyway, we were just friends of friends for a few years, and then in 2004 we were in the same Maths class. I was too shy to talk to him, even though he sat behind me every day. Hehe, I used to perve on him whenever he walked up to the front of the class. ;)

Then we had our Leaver's Dinner, and I gave him a lift. That night heaps of our friends stayed at our friend Lucy's house, and got drunk. I finally got talking to him (confindence, due to intoxication), and realised not only was he gorgeous, but he was also really funny, and we had heaps in common. That night is where "Mr Fish Pillow" came from. ;D

Our first kiss was a few weeks later at our friend Chris' house. It was very fun, and we both couldn't stop smiling afterwards! ;D

Our first "I love you" was in February 2005. We couldn't be together on Valentine's Day for some reason, so we made our own "Sarah and Mog Day". We bought each other presents and went to a park. We were lying down together on the grass and it was so perfect and yeah. ;D

Okay I'm going now. I have to kiss him!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 15, 2006, 11:24:09 pm

Taf and Epica, that is so awesome! I really wish Adam was here so I could do that with him too! :P

Doremi, congrats on the engagement! That's so exciting! :D

Aww, Le Deux! That made me smile reading that. :D

We first met online actually... 2002 I believe. I saw him at school one day and thought he was GORGEOUS. My friend had part of an AIM convo in his profile, and I thought it was funny and I ended up IMing the guy... It turned out to be Adam. We didn't date for a long time because we had a really weird relationship.

First kiss. It was at a movie.. Maybe our 3rd date. I was so nervous because I had never kissed someone before. I started mumbling something about not knowing what I was doing and he told me to shut up and then he kissed me. ;D

First I love you was last night. It's kind of funny... he is weird with his feelings and can't express them but he got drunk for the first time and he IMed me. He told me he missed me and was crying and he wanted to be with me.. and in all his drunken sputtering, he told me he loved me like 23532 times... So, I said it back and now today, he's sober and still saying it. :)

And I have to go to Arizona for college. :'( but it's okay. I talked to him and we've worked out how we plan to visit and after he graduates college (two years) he's coming out to Arizona to live with me. :D I'm so excited! :-* I am in love!! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 16, 2006, 11:02:01 am

I have no idea where any of those places are Pandora, but I'm glad that you worked it out and you can be together. :)

I met Chris at college, we're in the same English and Media classes, and we have the same Personal Tutor.
On the first day of this school year (Sept '05) I sat next to him because my friends from the previous year had left and so I was friendless. He was new (resitting his second year after dropping out the first time), thought he was cute, so I aimed to make him a friend.
He then joined me and my friends in our Media project and we became pretty good friends.

First kiss was in his car after we went to see King Kong on the 15th December. We went back to his place afterwards and basically spent all night kissing. It was then that we realised that there was no point messing around, that was when we became an item. lol

And as for those 3 words... I'm yet to hear or say them. But hey, it's only been a month. There's plenty of time. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 16, 2006, 11:32:08 am

Good idea on the three questions! :)

When did you first meet?
I had a huge crush on Casey ever since my 7th grade year! ::) I thought he was absolutely gorgeous and stunning! I was sure that he knew it and I was very shy about the whole matter. My friends at the time couldn't keep their mouthes shut. ::) Well, little did I know ( I found this out when we first started dating) that he also really liked me then too. Two years passed and then came marching band. I saw him alot and I couldn't help but feel those same feelings again. One night, a friend of mine dragged me up to him and introduced us. It was right after a football game. I could hardly speak! It had been three years that I had longed for him to look at me like that...and there it was. That night, in the band room, he asked me out. You have no idea how shy he was then. It was so cute! ;D Well, we had a shakey start and sadly went our seperate ways, but shortly after, we were reunited on December 29th. But yeah, marching band brought us together! ;D
When / where was your first kiss?
Our first kiss was almost a year ago, on Valentine's Day! ;D It was in my room on my little couch. I will never forget that! It was very nerve racking, but well worth it! Short and sweet even though we were both a bundle of nerves! ;D :-*

When was your first "I love you"?
I think I already mentioned it, but our first "I love you" was over the internet! ::) In person...I don't recall because we said it all the time! I know that when he said it the first time over the phone I about melted! Hearing him say that now is still very melt worthy because I know he means it with all his heart. And I , of course, always respond with "I love you too." ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 16, 2006, 04:45:56 pm

Aww, sweet stories, everyone. Brittany, I'm glad you and Adam can be together! :)

Do you guys have any weird little things with your guys? Like, Morgan and I have our own just.. weird things together. Like, we have "Snuggle Days"; where we just go to each others houses and snuggle up in bed all day, or watch movies. And we just say weird things to each other like "You are the sex" (You're sexy) or "I even lobe you" (I love you) or "Missle you" (I miss you). ;D

I love this thread, hehehe.

Can you believe Morgan and I have been together for a year and a month (and a day) right now, and we have never had a fight!? Never. We just get along so well. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 16, 2006, 05:03:28 pm

Awwww, everyone has such cute stories! Makes me feel all warm inside.

Dave actually just left... he was here at school with me all weekend. But he has to be back tomorrow, so he's gone now. :-\ And his cell phone died, so I can't even talk to him on his way home. Blah. Oh well.

Let's see... about these questions...

When did you first meet?
Dave and I have actually known each other since I was in 5th grade, and he was in 4th. We were in this "talented and gifted" class together until I was in 7th or 8th grade. But we never really had anything between us then... just knew each other. Then I went to high school, dated some other guys, etc. When he got to high school, we were both involved in a lot of the same stuff: marching band, drama club, and the academic challenge team. I always thought he was funny, but I never really felt anything more toward him then.

But last year, it seemed like we were always together. I was friends with some of his friends. We were both on the varsity academic challenge team. And we were both involved in the spring musical - I had a role, and was dance captain, and he was in charge of lights and sound. So we were both there like... everyday.

We started talking and hanging out a bit (milkshakes after academic challenge, trips to the thrift store, coffee at the bookstore, etc.). Then he asked me to go to Prom with him (in May), and I said yes. After Prom, we were supposed to go to his friend's house, but when we got there, everyone was already asleep. So we went and rented a movie, went back to his house, and ended up falling asleep on his couch. We woke up all snuggled together, and were officially dating a coupld days later.

When/where was your first kiss?
Well, our first little peck on the lips was in early May, in his driveway before I left. But our first real kiss was on May 15th. I had been at the Relay for Life, but it got rained out. So Dave picked me up, we went out to get some coffee, and then we decided to stop at an old church near our high school to watch the thunderstorm. We ended up kissing there in a pavillion... it was incredibly romantic. *Melts.*

When was your first "I love you"?
Hmm.. not sure of the exact date. He said it to me first sometime in June. But I was so scared about the feelings I was having myself, that I didn't say it back that night. I wanted to make sure I really meant it. I said it to him a week or two later, before he left for a month in Germany. And now we say it all the time, and really do mean it.

*Sigh.* I am so in love. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 16, 2006, 06:33:34 pm

Awww, all your stories are so cute. ;D
I'm really happy for all of you.


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Do you guys have any weird little things with your guys?


Sort of... a while ago Chris threw a book at me, and it hit me in the face (and bruised). It was an accident, and he was so cutely apolagetic afterwards that I couldn't be mad with him. But yeah, we joke around that he's a woman beater and stuff. Not really funny if you involve people who have been affected by it. But it's just jokes... ;)

And we have SexyBoy.
A little monkey that I found in his room when I was first there. Chris was jealous at first because "SexyBoy got all the attention". And I remember him telling me about how he went to bed with a Kathryn smell because SexyBoy was all over me. (Yes, this was when I wasn't sure whether I wanted to be with Chris or not, so I used SexyBoy to make sure nothing happened until I was sure. lol)

Here is SexyBoy himself, dressed as Darth Vader.
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/LJ/SexyBoy01.jpg[/IMG]

I'm on a challenge to make him a Superhero. I just need to find pants small enough. Hehe. ;D

Yeah... we're 18/19... ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 16, 2006, 09:20:20 pm

Aww! Everyones' stories are so precious! ;D


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Do you guys have any weird little things with your guys?


Haha do we ever! There are so many just odd ones...
Like whenever I get a little cut or bruise or something like that, he always jumps to kiss it quickly for me and he goes "All better?" and I reply "All better!" (he does the same, hehe) Hehe, its just one of those cute things we always do.
Also, there is this one song that Josh Groban and Charlotte Church sing togehter called "The Prayer." He has gotten me to the point where I will sing for him, and he says it is beautiful, but I beg to differ. But anyway, we always sing that song a as a duet together. ;D I don't know if I've ever mentioned it, but he has an absolutely amazing voice, so I, of course, was afraid to sing in front of him.
There are many other things we do all the time that are just cute little "rituals" if you will. ::) Aww, it makes me melt thinking about it! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 16, 2006, 10:00:40 pm

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Do you guys have any weird little things with your guys?
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Hahaha, we are like the weirdest couple ever. Lol. We're both very sarcastic, so we're constantly poking fun at each other (all in jest, of course!).

When we're feeling particularly spunky, we talk to each other in odd accents. Heh.

And we always try to rent/buy the most obscure movies imaginable.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 16, 2006, 10:01:08 pm

Everyone is so cute!! :D It's making me smile to read all these things. I'm glad everyone is so happy.

We have stupid things like that we are twins, incest. ::) and then I call him "Darth Pookie" and he calls me "Peaches". We're really retarded. We really enjoy saying things like, "Hold me like you did by the lake on Naboo!" We also like to come up with as many double meanings as we can. ;) We're terribly sarcastic so we have a lot of stupid stories about ourselves.

Oh, and since Valentine's Day is coming up, he is buying me a ring. :o Valentine's Day is hard to shop for guys so I decided I'm going to get creative and give him a lot of our firsts... Like the first movie we saw together, things like that.. and of course throw in stuff like his favorite candy and all that. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 17, 2006, 12:02:16 am

Haha, oooooh double entendres! Lol, Dave and I are a big fan of those... heh.

And yay, a ring! That's really fun. Dave got me a really pretty ring for Christmas. Everyone keeps asking if it's a "promise ring." Ha. I personally think those're stupid. It's just a pretty ring! Lol.

Hmmm... but now you've reminded me that Valentine's Day is coming up! Meep.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 17, 2006, 04:52:34 pm

Haha, Casey got me a ring last year on Valentine's Day. I wear it all the time. I feel odd without it. ::)
On Christmas this past year, he gave me a promise ring. So sweet! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on January 18, 2006, 01:47:11 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=15#msg963325 date=1137010781]
Random things that I like about him...
When he sings. When we drive places we don't always talk... we just sit. And he starts to sing and it's the most adorable thing ever! lol He Doesn't realise he does it (he has told me it's a sign that he's really comfortable around me because he does things that he would only usually do when alone). It's just sweet.

Damn. Here comes the grinning.
[/quote]

even i'm grinning about this! hahaha!

well i am alone... destined to be a decrepid old spinster! he he he! i've never had a boyfriend or anything... i'm one of those people who is good friends with guys but never dates them... i think it probably has a lot more to do with me having low self esteem - if a guy seems to be hitting on me i immedietly get suspicious that its a joke at my expense! how's that for health psychology! hehehe!

anyway nice to hear how all of you are been treated so nice!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 18, 2006, 05:10:25 am

Dudes- I'm late witht his, but wanna do the thre qus thingy-

When did you first meet?

My first day at work he was told to help me list and pull the fridge. Got talking and laughing (later found that he'd spent the entire time we were in the back room making me do all the work so he could sit there oggling my bum and imagining bending me backwards over the trolley- men ::)). Couple of weeks later he asked me to go out on the town with him and I actually had to say no 'cos my parents wouldn't let me on a school noght (god how sad do I sound? Lol) so he said he'd take me to the cinema instead. I spent the entire time telling myself it wasn't a date until he walked me home, gave me a hug, then texted me 5 minutes later to ask me out as he walked home himself!

When / where was your first kiss?

I don't remember! According to my diary it must've been at his during 'Resident Evil', but I don't actually mention it as our first kiss. So this major step in a relationship I totally glossed over! Lol- go me...

When was your first "I love you"?

Layed on my sofa doinf the 'I'm this close to loving you' argument. So glad he bit the bullet and said "Well I love you." 'Cos I would never have got the guts up to say it! ::) That was five weeks into the relationship. Dunno if I was actually in love with him, but it felt right and we're still here, so I must have at least been starting! Lol.


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Oh, and since Valentine's Day is coming up, he is buying me a ring.


I got one of them for my 18th. Was too big though and we couldn't swop it (damned shop) so I ended up loosing it. Trying to replace it now. I was crushed!

Dunno what we're doing for valentines day. Probably going for a meal. I'm gonna get him a dragon I think. He collects them. Wanna hear a secret? I hate Valentines day. I think it's so commercial. The ideas nice and I think doing somethign special is a great idea, but the cards and the presents... meh. I could do without them. Trying to hint that I'd prefer just a little token, but I don't think he'll see it like that, 'cos he likes valentines day! Lol


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 18, 2006, 11:04:35 am

Agh! Valentines day!
This will be my first Valentines day with a boyfriend (I hope it will be anyway ;) )
God knows what's going to be done. I suspect nothing. Which I'm happy with, because I don't really see the point in it either Ruth. lol

Went to his this morning, he was still in bed so I went up and surprised him. Hehe. He looked so cute laid there all sleepy and slightly naked...

He went to get his hair cut, and so I was at his just talking to his mum the whole time. Was fun. I like his mum. That was the first time I've actually sat and talked to her. I'm usually rushed through straight to his room so I've had little more than a "Hi" from her before.

Now he's at work. And I'm lonely. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 18, 2006, 05:47:47 pm

Yeah, this is my first Valentine's Day with a boyfriend. We weren't going to do anything but he ended up IMing me the other night with pictures of different rings he had looked at and asked me the style I liked best. I'm excited though because it's meaningful to me at least... I mean, with all our plans and all. He's actually buying something that isn't food for me, haha. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 18, 2006, 06:04:57 pm

Aww...I love reading this thread! ::) Makes me smile! And I am sure that many stories we share remind us all of ourselves and our men. I know that is the case with my and my Casey.

Today we had a final in Adv. World Lit. and we had nothing to do after that. So me and a few friends made finger paints for our men! Hehe! Casey thought it was so adorable. He said that one day when we have our own house and we are old - (since he wants to become a professional musician) - he will be able to see it hanging every day in his music room. :) Hehe, made me smile. :-*


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on January 18, 2006, 06:09:11 pm

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=0#msg962783 date=1136938751]
I know how you feel! I'm so in love with Morgan! I really don't deserve him! Like, the other night I stayed at his house and I was really tired, so he put me to bed and kissed me goodnight. When I woke up in the morning there was a note next to the bed with a list of things he loves about me! So sweet! :-*

*Dreamy*
[/quote]

I hope I'm not intruding *looks around cautiously* I don't have a boyfriend, but I came to see what you guys were up to...I thought that was really beautiful, Sarah :) Morgan sounds nice...*waits for a knight* bye ladies!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 18, 2006, 08:37:54 pm

Guys, this is seriously my favourite thread now. You're all so cute! ;D

[quote author=<*>Epica<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=60#msg966300 date=1137625497]
So me and a few friends made finger paints for our men!
[/quote]

Random, but.. I love fingerpainting! I do it everytime I see paint, it's so fun!

I always do little drawings of me and Morgan together. Hehe, we used to write each other notes all the time in class. They're so sweet! I have so many now. Filled up a whole envelope.. ;D

Last night was so fun, Morgan and I went to our friend Chris' house, and when bedtime came, his older brother Anthony (who is a legend, and also doesn't live at home anymore) told us we could sleep in his bed if we wanted. It was so nice to snuggle Mog all night, and wake up next to him. I love it so much! There wasn't a single time last night that we weren't holding each other. Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! I love it. :)

Plus, wow. He is so good in bed, and so sexy and so cute! I love it when I wake up in the morning and he's hugging me.. with no shirt on. And just his boxers.. oohhhh. I'm going to stop now.

[quote]
I hope I'm not intruding *looks around cautiously* I don't have a boyfriend, but I came to see what you guys were up to...I thought that was really beautiful, Sarah Morgan sounds nice...*waits for a knight* bye ladies![/quote]

You're not intruding, Jordan. Welcome! :) Aww, thankyou for saying that. Hehehehe, he reads all my posts so he's going to see this. What a gorgeous little stalker I have.

I'm sure you'll find a knight soon, Jordan. He'll be really lucky to have someone as sweet as you! :-*


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(later found that he'd spent the entire time we were in the back room making me do all the work so he could sit there oggling my bum and imagining bending me backwards over the trolley- men )


Oh, typical! Hahah, that's really funny / cute. Last night I was .. what's it called? I was hoola hooping (you know, spinning the hoop around my body.. sorry, I am SO tired) and Morgan was like "Yeah, just stay like that.. yeeeaaahhh" and then goes behind me for a perve! ::) ;D

Aww, I'm going away for a week to Bruny Island. I'm going to miss my Morgan bone so much. *Sings* The Morgan bone's connected to the.. Sarah bone..

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 19, 2006, 04:37:59 am

[quote]Went to his this morning, he was still in bed so I went up and surprised him. Hehe. He looked so cute laid there all sleepy and slightly naked...
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Lol- Andy sleeps entirely naked, so whenever I'm on the phone to him at night he mentions it 'slyly'. Man bitch.


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I love it when I wake up in the morning and he's hugging me


I've never had that. :( Still on the 'seperate beds' stage when we (rarely) sleep over. The only time we got close was my birthday when it was a sleep over. Under sleeping bags with three other girls in the room. I can never sleep at things like that. So yeah, not really good morning wake up huggles. *Le sigh*

Question time- naked or topless, which is better? I happen to find topless a hell of a lot more sexy. Just more anticipation to it. And willy's make me laugh. I'm immature lol. (For both boys and girls this qu, so Mr FP (are we ok to call you Mog or is it a private nick name? Just thought I'd check!)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on January 19, 2006, 08:37:47 am

Eeeeeeh!!!!!!!!!!!! A gushing thread, FINALLY!!! How did I miss this? Ooh, I want to do the quiz thingy. ;D


When did you first meet?

We first met on July 18, 2002. (Yup, I know the date.) It was my first visit to what is now our church of almost 4 years. He was running the sound, and I looked up at him and fell in love right away. ::) Then later he came down and introduced himself. *sigh*

When / where was your first kiss?

I remember dates again. It was November 13, 2005 and we were sitting on his bed. That was not only our first kiss, but my first kiss period. ;D ;D We've done a good bit of that since then. ;)

When was your first "I love you"?

DATES! It was December 18, 2005. We were exchanging Christmas presents early because we were both going out of town. I gave him my present and a card. He read the card, opened the gift, gave me a lovely kiss, and then looked right into my eyes and said, "I love you, sweetie." I said that I loved him, and then was all smiles for the rest of the day. ;D

Wow. Finally a thread where I can gush about Andrew and not be totally off-topic! Great idea, Le Deux. I have to say Andrew is the sweetest guy I've ever known. I love him so much, and it's been worth all the years of waiting for him. Last Monday when I was sick AND had horrible cramps (I know - the joys of womanhood) he came over to my house after his last class and brought me, as he said, "A Fudge Round" - my favorite Little Debbie snack ever - "and a kiss." It was too cute. I laid in bed and he sat beside me holding my hand and we sat there talking. He is truly the best boyfriend a girl could ask for. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Enara on January 19, 2006, 03:31:44 pm

[color=Blue]Sarah, great idea for a topic!!!

Ladies, I´ve enjoyed reading your comments on this... congratulations to all of you who are living the experience of love, and good luck to those who are still waiting for theirs...

I´m quite shy when it comes to talk about my personal life... but after considering it for a while I´ve decided to post here.

I´ve been dating my boyfriend for so long... since we were teenagers, now we both are close to our thirties...
He is intelligent, humorous, funny, honest and so sensitive. He always makes me laugh and knows how to surprise me. We can know what the other one is thinking just by looking into the eyes...
I love the complicity between both of us.

He respects everything I do and supports me on every new project.

We are engaged now, and have wedding plans for this year... I´m so happy about it and really excited!!!

And by the way, I was forgetting to mention that he is soooo gorgeous!!![/color]

:D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 19, 2006, 06:16:20 pm

[quote author=Enara link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=60#msg966907 date=1137702704]
We are engaged now, and have wedding plans for this year... I´m so happy about it and really excited!!!
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Aww, that's so great, Enara! Congratulations.

I woke up with Morgan this morning again. We didn't really sleep last night cos we were talking and playing with my cat. Then at about 1AM we both got up because we were desperate to clean our teeth. We're so alike it's not funny. ;D

I still have that mushy puppy-eyes, everything's amazing and new feeling with him, and we've been together for over a year! It's crazy. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 19, 2006, 06:38:10 pm

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=60#msg966996 date=1137712580]
I still have that mushy puppy-eyes, everything's amazing and new feeling with him, and we've been together for over a year! It's crazy. :)
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Oh, I know! I'm the same way with Adam.. It doesn't matter how many times we see each other, I still get that giddy rush and I always have the biggest smile on my face with him.

He called me last night and we talked for about two hours. Hearing his voice made me feel so good but I felt bad because I couldn't see him. We were laughing the whole time but not really saying much of anything that made sense. God, I miss him.. I really do love that boy. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 19, 2006, 09:08:45 pm


Quote:
Plus, wow. He is so good in bed, and so sexy and so cute! I love it when I wake up in the morning and he's hugging me.. with no shirt on. And just his boxers.. oohhhh. I'm going to stop now.


Ahh! I have longed to just let it all out and say the exact same thing about Casey, but I felt a bit shy about that! Sadly, we aren't old enough (or fortunate enough) to get to sleep with each other all night long yet. I cannot wait till the day comes where I wake up in his arms one morning! The feeling must be amazing! ;D But the good in bed part...*nods head rapidly* OH YEAH! Isn't it rather amazing how the tend to pull of the sexy/cute thing all at the same time!? ::)

Speaking of writing a lot of notes, I carry just about all of the notes he has ever written me in my purse. I don't know why, it just makes me happy to read them. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 19, 2006, 09:52:11 pm

Ah, I love cuddling up all night with my Dave. It only happens up here at school, when we're away from the prying eyes of parents. Haha, but it's lovely. So secure-feeling.

Yay for notes! Dave writes to me a lot at school. Nevermind the fact that we talk every single day for long amounts of time... he still sends me letters, accompanied usually with weird little drawings and such. Haha, I love getting them, and have about half a drawer full now!

So, what's to cutest/sweetest thing your guy has ever done for you?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 20, 2006, 05:23:20 am


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we both got up because we were desperate to clean our teeth

Lol- you notice it more when you've got morning breath and are expected to kiss someone good morning don't you?!

I had to hint so badly for a love letter! Lol- takes the point out of it some but I wanted one! I express myself better in writing, so I write him whenever theres a sepcial occasion for us, but he's a talker (I'm sooo not- I clam up past "I love you"!) so it was hard for him. Then I got two letters proclaiming love from other people, so he bit the bullet and suprised me on my 18th! Lol


Quote:
So, what's the cutest/sweetest thing your guy has ever done for you?


Brought me a cup of tea when I was feeling like death, freezing and generally moody at his house! Bad PMT, and he went out for a cig (or something) and came back with a cup of tea and a blueberry muffin! (I'm addicted to BB muffins!) I can't really remember much other cute stuff. It just happens. Lol.

Then there's the customery 's**t is this where the relationship ends?' phone call. I'd really p****d him off 'cos I canceled seeing him a day later 'cos my mum threw the latest if many 'you're sepnding too much time/ you're only young blah blah blah' fits, and I decided that I'd be better off going shopping with her as a calming measure. He got pigged 'cos it's not the first time I'd had to re-arrange my love life for my mother. ::) He rang me (as usual) at about 10pm and we had it out, and it ended up with me crying and telling him that I didn't want to talk I just wanted to hang up and cry. Which I did. midnight, he calls me up, crying himself, paniking that I'm gonna dump him, which was exactly the worry I was having. Big mushy conversation later, we're back to almost normal. I think thats when I knew I really did love him. It's only when you risk loosing it that you really see huh? Plus that was our first- and so far only *fingers crossed*- fight. So it hit hard.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 20, 2006, 06:36:33 am

Went to see Jarhead with Chris after college yesterday. I really wanted ice cream, so we went to KFC to get freebies (he knows people who work there, quite handy) and while we were in the drive thru he says to me randomly
"You know I really really really like you don't you Miss Kathryn?"
Me, I just say "Oh really? That's good."
He then says "Out of the few girlfriends I've had. You are definately number 1."
I was then all awwy and mushy and stuff and couldn't say anything back to him for grinning like mad and trying to hide it.

I feel quite bad now for not saying anything back to him... :-\

Then when we went back to his place, we were having a bit of ... uh .... fun, and he started to count down the days til we could have some quality Kathryn/Chris time. Turns out to be 5 days due to various events that are taking place on our free days. He sounded all upset and stuff, and it was the sweetest thing ever.

Aww... ;D

Yeah... just had to get that off my chest so I didn't annoy my friends with "How great is Chris? Awww!" all day. lol ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 20, 2006, 11:17:41 am

Hmm...the sweetest thing he has ever done?
Well he came to pick me up before a marching band contest one Saturday and just randomly, in the front seat of his car, was this huge stuffed Eeyore! ;D It was very sweet because it was just random. He tried to hide him under his coat too, hehe.
And another very sweet thing he has done...when he gave me my promise ring on Christmas Eve, he held me on the way home from church that evening and whispered to me all of the things that the ring promised and meant. Ohh it was soo sweet!!! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 22, 2006, 09:52:15 am

Awww! I'd love a huge Eeyore! ;D
lol

I have a photo of me and Him. He's not paying any attention, and is pulling a weird face. But he's still gorgeous. :-*

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Jens%2018th/05.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 22, 2006, 10:17:21 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=75#msg968297 date=1137941535]
Awww! I'd love a huge Eeyore! ;D
lol

I have a photo of me and Him. He's not paying any attention, and is pulling a weird face. But he's still gorgeous. :-*

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Jens%2018th/05.jpg[/IMG]
[/quote]

Hehe, I was so thrilled! ;D I sleep with my big ol Eeyore every night, even though he is a little hard to wrap my arms around. ::)

Aw, you posted that pic in the Beautiful Ones thread as well! Hehe, I commented on that! You two are so cute together! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 22, 2006, 11:28:59 am

Aww, Taf.. you guys look so adorable together. :) You got a cute one. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 23, 2006, 03:57:14 pm

Awww thanks guys.

Just been talking to dear Christopher on MSN, and he just did the most unexpected thing. In the middle of talking about my Dad swearing (he doesn't, honest, he's just trying to wind me up... I hope. My Daddy doesn't swear :'( )

Anyway...

This deserves a copypast because... OMG....Awwwww!

[quote]Lord Chrisius Duke III - "I dont have time to play your reindeer games." says:
u know, i've been thinking about how nice you are again
kathryn says:
awwww :-[
Lord Chrisius Duke III - "I dont have time to play your reindeer games." says:
ur so great ;)[/quote]

*mush*


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on January 23, 2006, 04:28:57 pm

Aww!

While we're on that subject, here's the latest email Andrew sent me, and it is sooooo sweet. ;D


"Hey beautiful. I just want to say that you are the greatest and most wonderful girl that I have ever had the pleasure to know. The things you do to me and the way you make me feel is incredible and I'm not sure if I could imagine it any other way. Thank you for being you and waiting on me for so long. If I were smart i would have figured this out sooner than I did. I am going to bed now. 'Night and sweet dreams. I love you so much and can't wait to see you Wednesday (but at least i will talk to you tomorrow.) Talk to you later sweetheart.

Andrew"

How cute is he???? ;D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 23, 2006, 08:23:51 pm

Awww! ;D Ohh how I love this thread! It always makes me smile! ;D

We just lve ours boys, don't we ladies? :-*

My Casey is soo sweet. Today, we were sitting in his car, going to a coffee shop in out little town. Well, when we came to a stop, he took my hand, and put his head on my shoulder as he said, "I love you more than anything, Megan. I mean that more than anything, too. You are so beautiful. You are my angel and my perfect miracle...."

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! *Gets GINORMOUS WARM FUZZIES!* ;D

I swear, I am too spoiled! ;) ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on January 23, 2006, 11:48:34 pm

[quote author=<*>Epica<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=75#msg968814 date=1138065831]
My Casey is soo sweet. Today, we were sitting in his car, going to a coffee shop in out little town. Well, when we came to a stop, he took my hand, and put his head on my shoulder as he said, "I love you more than anything, Megan. I mean that more than anything, too. You are so beautiful. You are my angel and my perfect miracle...."
[/quote]
Awww that is so beautiful... he sounds like such a sweetheart. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on January 24, 2006, 08:09:04 am

[quote author=<*>Epica<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=75#msg968814 date=1138065831]
My Casey is soo sweet. Today, we were sitting in his car, going to a coffee shop in out little town. Well, when we came to a stop, he took my hand, and put his head on my shoulder as he said, "I love you more than anything, Megan. I mean that more than anything, too. You are so beautiful. You are my angel and my perfect miracle...."
[/quote]

*sigh* That is so sweet! Andrew said something equally as sweet on the phone last night. He said, "There is nothing in the world that has ever made me as happy as you do. You are the best girlfriend in the world, and I love you so, so much. I am so blessed to have you." *melts into a sappy puddle on the floor*

I love him so much!! :-* Okay, I'm done now. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 24, 2006, 08:25:28 am

Ok since we be quoting of the boyfriends- I got two quotes!

Friday night, we went to see a film, and missed our last train home. So we're stood on a petrol station forecourt, waiting for his Dad to come pcik us up (we had half an hour to kill) and he hugs me and goes "You're the only thing in my life that really matters now. I'm never letting you go, ok?". I could reply 'cos I did the girly emotional trying not to cry thing! Lol. I'm useless.

Hour a go, got a text from him, and after the usual 'works going slow, bored, hows you?' kinda usual thing, he added 'I dunno why, but I feel like we're stronger than we've ever been now'. I was awwing internally all through the next lesson!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on January 24, 2006, 03:06:04 pm

Eek! How sweet!! I know what you mean about the girly trying-not-to-cry thing. ::) I have done that more than once, I assure you. Especially the first time he told me he loved me. *sigh*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Enara on January 24, 2006, 03:14:03 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=75#msg969164 date=1138133164]
Eek! How sweet!! I know what you mean about the girly trying-not-to-cry thing. ::)
[/quote]

I always fail in that!!! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 24, 2006, 04:40:14 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=75#msg969164 date=1138133164]
Eek! How sweet!! I know what you mean about the girly trying-not-to-cry thing. ::) I have done that more than once, I assure you. Especially the first time he told me he loved me. *sigh*
[/quote]

Awww! Such sweet memories. And they are made even the better when they find the perfect thing to say, even when we cannot respond! :-* But somehow, when I can't find the right words to say, he knows he means the very same to me. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: doremi77 on January 24, 2006, 04:49:50 pm

Awww.. this is the ultimate feel-good thread. Reading your stories just makes me feel like this... [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/goodvibes.gif[/IMG]

and this... [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/tearsofjoy.gif[/IMG]

and this... [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/fluffy.gif[/IMG]

and this... [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/cloud9.gif[/IMG] again.
I'm lost for words. Thanks for sharing!

[quote author=Enara link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=60#msg966907 date=1137702704]
[color=Blue]I´ve been dating my boyfriend for so long... since we were teenagers, now we both are close to our thirties...
He is intelligent, humorous, funny, honest and so sensitive. He always makes me laugh and knows how to surprise me. We can know what the other one is thinking just by looking into the eyes...
I love the complicity between both of us.

He respects everything I do and supports me on every new project.

We are engaged now, and have wedding plans for this year... I´m so happy about it and really excited!!!

And by the way, I was forgetting to mention that he is soooo gorgeous!!![/color][/quote]

Enara, I'm so happy for you. [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/tearsofjoy.gif[/IMG] I believe I know how you feel. I could say the same about my boyfriend (except that our wedding plans are for next year ;D). It happens so often that one of us says something and the other one goes "That's exactly what I was thinking!". It's almost scary!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 24, 2006, 04:53:54 pm

Aww, I love that cloud 9 smiley! ;D Soo cute!

That is how Casey makes me feel. *turns into cute little cloud 9 smiley* :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 24, 2006, 06:55:34 pm

I think I may just keel over from all the cuteness in this thread! Haha. ;)

I had a bit of a bad day yesterday... I've been sick, and yesterday was really draining. So today Dave kept texting me little jokes and things throughout the morning. It was really cute, and really cheered me up. Yay. I love him so much!

And I get to see him again this weekend again at the roock-off! Yay.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 25, 2006, 03:56:29 am


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But somehow, when I can't find the right words to say, he knows he means the very same to me.

Yup- ditto.

Can I divert from the cuteness for a mini-second?
How good is that 'we're very horny but only have half an hour' feeling? Raw sex! Whoo! *Dances*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: doremi77 on January 25, 2006, 05:32:41 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=90#msg969421 date=1138179389]
Can I divert from the cuteness for a mini-second?
How good is that 'we're very horny but only have half an hour' feeling? Raw sex! Whoo! *Dances*[/quote]

Ruth, you just crack me up! [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/crackup.gif[/IMG] *rofl* (although I always wonder why I find it funny - I'm so sex undriven :P)


[quote author=<*>Epica<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=90#msg969256 date=1138139634]
Aww, I love that cloud 9 smiley! ;D Soo cute![/quote]

Feel free to copy it! I keep my extra smilies in my photobucket. :)
[IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/cloud9.gif[/IMG]

I also have "Seventh Heaven"! [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/liebe_75.gif[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 25, 2006, 07:32:54 am


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(although I always wonder why I find it funny - I'm so sex undriven )


I think I must've had your share then. Lol

Doremi- whats your photobucket addy? I love your lil smileys!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on January 25, 2006, 07:56:14 am

[quote author=doremi77 link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=75#msg969252 date=1138139390]
It happens so often that one of us says something and the other one goes "That's exactly what I was thinking!". It's almost scary!
[/quote]

Andrew and I do that quite often! It's really weird but so cliche and cute. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 25, 2006, 08:30:39 am

Oh my gosh! I have the best boyfriend ever.. This girl (who doesn't like me and vice versa) went on a couple of dates with him before we got together. She lives in Florida now but still visits our state and she's always saying how she wants to see him or visit him at his college in Georgia. (He said she's implied she has sexual intentions with these visits.) But lucky for me, my boyfriend really loves me and when she talks bad about me or tries to see him, he sticks up for me and blows her off. It's driving me insane that she won't back off but I'm glad to know I can trust him.. She asked him if he was in love... and he said yes. ;D I can't until March! :-* I feel so lucky to have such a good guy. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 25, 2006, 10:49:17 am


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She asked him if he was in love... and he said yes.


Whoo! Yay! Go your man! Tell him I think he's luvverly and send him hugs! Lol


Quote:
I can't until March!


what happens then?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on January 25, 2006, 02:20:21 pm

Aww, Pandora! Your guy is too sweet. :D

So I remember saying in the Josh thread that Andrew wrote me a song (and sang it/played it on his guitar for me). I will post the lyrics here, because what better place to post them? ;)


(Verse 1)
Some say love is overrated,
And not too long ago, I was one who believed it.
You were perfect for me,
But somehow I could never reach you.
And though I tried to stop,
Somehow I kept falling in love with you
More and more every day.
Every time you smiled at me
I realized that you felt the same way
and I would be living my dream.

(Chorus)
I've never loved anyone as much as I love you,
Oh, and I want to be with you forever,
No matter what anyone says.
Let me stand her and hold you,
and I will be where I have always wanted to be.

(Verse 2)
You're my fairy tale, my princess.
You're a dream that has become my reality.
And if you feel like you're falling,
I promise I will be right behind you;
I will always catch you.
You've made my dreams come true
So now I hope I can be the one to answer
Your every prayer.

(Bridge)
Every look you give me
Sends chills straight down my spine.
I can't even begin to explain the feelings you give me,
But I just want you to know -
Sweetheart, I'm so much happier than I've ever been
Because of you.


;D ;D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: doremi77 on January 25, 2006, 04:26:00 pm

Awww... lucky Lumos! I wish I knew the tune, too. What was it like? :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on January 25, 2006, 06:06:30 pm

:) Hi ladies! *waves* the single frequenter is back *blushes* :) I have good news... ;D Somebody likes me YAY! :D :) Of course, we're still just friends :P I'll tell you guyses how things go as time goes on *crosses fingers and every other crossable part of body* :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 25, 2006, 06:08:58 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=90#msg969553 date=1138204157]

Quote:
She asked him if he was in love... and he said yes.


Whoo! Yay! Go your man! Tell him I think he's luvverly and send him hugs! Lol


Quote:
I can't until March!


what happens then?
[/quote]

Hehe, thanks. :D He made me beam when he told me that! March is when he gets back from Georgia. :'( Gone for college.. so we're a long distance relationship most of the time.

Aww, Lumos! That's terribly sweet. Beautiful lyrics. :)

Keep us updated Jordan! I'd like to hear how things go. ;)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 25, 2006, 06:14:22 pm

[quote author=JordanRiver12881 link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=90#msg969699 date=1138230390]
:) Hi ladies! *waves* the single frequenter is back *blushes* :) I have good news... ;D Somebody likes me YAY! :D :) Of course, we're still just friends :P I'll tell you guyses how things go as time goes on *crosses fingers and every other crossable part of body* :)
[/quote]

Awww thats great! ;D
Do you like him? Or are you figuring out how you feel before acting on anything?
That's how things went with me and Chris. At first I only saw him as a friend, and then I started to see more to him than I first did. Took a while, but we got there in the end. (Him telling me how much he liked me kind of pushed me to re-asses my feelings)

Speaking of Chris... the police crashed into his car the other night and left a huge dent in the side. So he's driving in a courtesy car, and because he's under 21 they can only give him a pretty rubbish one. Don't ask me what make or model it is, I don't know. All I know is that it's like a tin can with wheels. Teehee. So cute!
Rather embarassing to be driving around in it though. I hope the Cheif is fixed too.

... oh god. He's getting to me. I just called his car the Cheif. *hides in a corner*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on January 25, 2006, 07:11:40 pm

Hmm Taf, I don't know how I feel right now. He's really sweet though. Like it's never been so obvious that a guy liked me before. It feels kind of weird cuz it's like "Oh, what if I'm just getting my hopes up? What if he doesn't really like me?" My roommate said it's obvious, lol ::) He told me I didn't have to buy the book we need for our Italian cinema class-he said he would lend me his. And last night, after we saw our first movie for the class (we weren't sitting together, I got there after him, but we left together :)), he offered to buy me my first Fat Sandwich (It's a Rutgers University thing ::)) My roommate was like "He BOUGHT you a sandwich??? He likes you awww" and I was like "no, no" and she was like "yeah, so guys just buy you Fat Sandwiches for nothing" ::) As far as looks go, he's not the best looking guy out there (and he's shorter than me :o)....but looks aren't everything...he's nice, and that's what matters....let's just hope it stays that way....I'd hate to break his heart :-[

I told him I would pay him back, but he won't let me ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 26, 2006, 04:06:54 am

Aww! Song! Ah!
(Sorry- I ramble over cuteness!)


Quote:
*crosses fingers and every other crossable part of body*

Yay! I'm not the only one who says that! *Dances* Aww- good luck with the guy Denari (is that your name, and have I spelt it wrong? lol). Sandwhichs are definatly the way to a girls heart huh? And I agree with the 'looks don't matter' assesment. Andy isn't conventionally good looking- but it works for me! ;)


Quote:
... oh god. He's getting to me. I just called his car the Cheif. *hides in a corner*


*Pokes with stick singing* Kats boyfriends rubbing off on her!

*pause*

Eww... connotations...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on January 26, 2006, 07:57:53 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=90#msg969870 date=1138266414]
Aww! Song! Ah!
(Sorry- I ramble over cuteness!)
[/quote]

Sweetie, you are not the only one. ;D Thanks for all the sweet comments about Andrew's song. I was a gushy puddle on the floor. ::) To answer your question Doremi, it was a very slow and pretty song. He played it on his acoustic and he has the sweetest singing voice in the world. Maybe I can have him record it and then I can send it to you loverlies. 8) He is a sound guy too, so he'll know how to do all that. Now if only I knew how to post a song. ::)

Oooh, Jordan! A boy!!!! Keep us posted. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 26, 2006, 12:00:39 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=90#msg969870 date=1138266414]



Quote:
... oh god. He's getting to me. I just called his car the Cheif. *hides in a corner*


*Pokes with stick singing* Kats boyfriends rubbing off on her!

*pause*

Eww... connotations...
[/quote]

LMAO!!
Oh god, you had me on the floor with that one.

...

Laughing.

...

Oh god.
It's a good job I know you as well as I do. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 26, 2006, 01:03:16 pm

Yes otherwise I'd have been cyber thumped long before now...

My other half has brought me home with him, then promptly turned round and gone out with his bro to get fish and chips! So I'm stealing his comp. Could go talk to his rents I suppose. Might go do that actually.

Going to the cinema tonight. With him and his bro, which'll be strange 'cos I never know what to say to him. He's 25 and our only access to a car so...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 26, 2006, 10:32:18 pm

I just got back from a week long holiday on Bruny Island (so beautiful), but I missed my gorgeous boy so much. :'(

I had no way of contacting him (other than postcard, so I sent him one) because there was no phone, and I had no credit on my mobile. Yay! I'm going to his place tonight. I wore his t-shirt to bed every night, because I missed him so much. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 26, 2006, 11:51:26 pm

Awww. Well, I'm sure you're glad to be back! Being apart, especially if you can't communicate, really really sucks. Believe me, I know.

Over the summer, Dave was in Germany, and I was in New Zealand. Our times in each place overlapped, so we hardly got to communicate at all. We barely talked, and didn't see each other for nearly a month. He called me once from Germany, and e-mailed. But once I left for NZ, I only got a chance to get on a computer a few times over my two and a half weeks there. It was incredibly hard. But we survived, and were all the better for it. Plus, the whole reuniting bit wasn't bad, either! Heehee. :-X

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 27, 2006, 12:45:38 am

Wow. That must have been really hard, Amanda. Glad you guys are better than ever, though. :)

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=105#msg970343 date=1138337486]
Plus, the whole reuniting bit wasn't bad, either! Heehee. :-X
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Yeah, I can't wait for that. Fourty-five minutes away now. I'm so excited! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 27, 2006, 09:54:53 am

Words cannot describe what will take place when I reunite with Adam! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Enara on January 27, 2006, 11:45:50 am

[quote author=doremi77 link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=75#msg969252 date=1138139390]
Enara, I'm so happy for you. [IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c84/doremi77/emo_smile/tearsofjoy.gif[/IMG] I believe I know how you feel. I could say the same about my boyfriend (except that our wedding plans are for next year ;D). It happens so often that one of us says something and the other one goes "That's exactly what I was thinking!". It's almost scary!
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[color=Blue]Thank you, Doremi. I know what you mean... it happens to me a lot here on the forum, it is amazing!!!
I read you´re engaged as well, and your story about the ring your boyfriend gave you... so sweet. I am so happy for you!!! [/color]
:D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 27, 2006, 03:51:42 pm

Aww, haha. I almost can't wait to be proposed to. (However, note that "almost"... heh.)

Soooo, Sarah, were you and Morgan excited to see each other? Heehee, hope it was a good reuniting!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 27, 2006, 08:02:59 pm

Kekeke, it was great. I'm at his place right now. He's in the shower. I wish I was in there with him, it's much more fun! It was sooo good seeing him again. We went for a walk around Sandy Bay, and then came back to his place and snuggled in bed for about an hour. Then we made dinner together (it was so fun, I can't wait until we live together!) and watched a DVD. In the morning (we couldn't sleep together because his Dad was home), he came to his room as usual and snuggled me to death. God, I missed him so much. We had intense snuggle times.

Then.. I watched him work out which can I just say, is amazingly sexy. :o ;D *Perve perve*

Hmm, sure you don't want to know but we had the best sex ever, too. Kekekekekekeke, he's going to kill me when he reads this. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 27, 2006, 10:49:14 pm

Wow, you all post too quick for me. I miss a day and you all are off to the races! ::) Well I have read a few posts back.



Le Deux, YAY! I am soo happy for you! Sounds soo amazingly sweet! I know what you mean when you say, "I can't wait until we live together!" I too, look soo forward to this! I long to be able to hold him as I fall asleep in the same bed as he and then wake up to his beautiful face! *melts at the thought* ;D

Haha, the best sex ever?! That sounds like me and Casey this evening...well okay, it was short, but sweet, as it is everytime. (And yes, I know just about all of you didn't want to know that. ::))

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 27, 2006, 11:51:19 pm

You're right... I didn't really. Hahaha. Just kidding. This thread IS for gushing, afterall, in whatever form that takes, I suppose.

I'm glad you both had good nights. Haha. And I too know what you mean about the whole "I can't wait until we live together!" comment. Heehee, I feel the same way! Which is weird, because I'm still so young. But I really can picture it already.

And I get to see Dave tomorrow! Yay! Granted, we're not going to get any alone time or anything, but that's okay. I still get to see him. Yay.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 28, 2006, 04:56:46 pm

[quote]I feel the same way! Which is weird, because I'm still so young. But I really can picture it already.
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Yes, I am the same way. I know I am really young to "think" this already, but I just KNOW we are meant to be. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 28, 2006, 06:00:34 pm

[quote author=<*>Epica<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=105#msg971323 date=1138485406]
[quote]I feel the same way! Which is weird, because I'm still so young. But I really can picture it already.
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Yes, I am the same way. I know I am really young to "think" this already, but I just KNOW we are meant to be. ;D
[/quote]

I feel the same way. I'm 17 and he's the only guy I've ever dated.. but I know this was meant to be. I know it sounds crazy, but I get vibes about people and I know he's the one. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 28, 2006, 07:36:46 pm

Aww, you guys are sweet.
I couldn't imagine having the idea of settling down now. I don't know... I see myself being a lot older when I finally find 'the one' guy. I'm not saying Chris couldn't be it... but you just don't know do you... lol

Anyway.

Chris is ill. He has manflu. (In otherwords... a little cold) so he's feeling sorry for himself. Plus the police crashed into his car and made a big ugly dent which will cost a bomb to fix. Poor boy.
Went to cheer him up this evening. But had to come home at 10. Which is so weird. I usually leave a lot later on a weekend. (AND on a week day). Aww.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on January 28, 2006, 07:44:16 pm

:o what buggers the police are!? was it completely like unrelated? surely they'd have to pay for any damage!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 29, 2006, 09:54:09 am

It was totally their fault. They were speeding down this road, and Chris pulled out onto a mini-roundabout. It was a blind corner so he couldn't see them coming at all. They went straight across the roundabout and smacked into the side back of his car.
When there they tried to blame him, saying he shouldn't have pulled out because they had their blue lights on and he should give way.
Truth is, he couldn't see them, and they were going far too fast for him to react about it.
I think they're admitting its their fault though... I don't really know whats going on at the moment. All I know is that if they decide its his fault then hes going to have to pay £500 towards the repairs cos his insurance doesn't cover 100% of the damage (£2000 worth of damage they did)

Poor Christopher. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on January 29, 2006, 01:25:31 pm

Single chick is back again :)

That sux, Taf...sometimes the police act like they answer to no one *rolls eyes* :P

No new news yet, ladies...Some people say no new is good news, but not in this case *waits patiently*....*waits impatiently* :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mumi on January 29, 2006, 02:19:51 pm

hello I am married with at fantastic man he is like frodo :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on January 29, 2006, 05:42:06 pm

kool...ur profile says you're from denmark and speak spanish..kooooool :) sorry, I had to say that... ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 29, 2006, 07:36:05 pm

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=105#msg971348 date=1138489234]
[quote author=<*>Epica<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=105#msg971323 date=1138485406]
[quote]I feel the same way! Which is weird, because I'm still so young. But I really can picture it already.
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Yes, I am the same way. I know I am really young to "think" this already, but I just KNOW we are meant to be. ;D
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I feel the same way. I'm 17 and he's the only guy I've ever dated.. but I know this was meant to be. I know it sounds crazy, but I get vibes about people and I know he's the one. :)
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Ah, I'm glad I'm not alone on that belief. I mean a lot of my friends think I am crazy to think so already, but they just don't know what love is yet. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 30, 2006, 04:38:00 am

Manflu! Ah- it's so entertaining! I'm the kinda bitch who just tells the bloke to stop complaining and be gald he doesn't have to bleed a week every month...

I honestly can't see myself living on my own yet, and that'll happen later this year for uni. So living with Andy... I can see it, but kinda in the future as a day dream, not as a reality thing. I mean- it'd be so cool and I hope it does happen but... I dunno. *Shrugs*. It's weird, I can look at him and think 'he's going to be such a good Dad for my kids' but I can't picture living with the guy. Lol. I'm not strange...

Sneaking next weekend for me has been knocked bakc a step. His parents are goign away and I was going to stay round his. Then 11 hours before they leave, his rents meet my Dad and mention they're off for two weeks. *le sigh*. Dunno if Mum'll let me go if she hears that. Have to hope Daddy doesn't say anything... Or hey, maybe my parents will decide to trust me. Ooh look- is that a flying pig?!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on January 30, 2006, 07:22:05 am

I can finally make some sort of comment.. there's a guy i've started to like (i've not had a 'crush' in a while) and he's reaaally cute. Heh, that's pretty much it. He keeps inviting me out drinking with him and his mates but i always chicken on. But tonight i'm actually considering it. Could be interesting.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on January 30, 2006, 07:31:22 am

GO! life belongs to the.... can't remember! but you should go! what's the worst that could happen! just make sure you don't get too hideously drunk! hehehe

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 30, 2006, 08:32:40 am

Go and tell us all about it!! :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 30, 2006, 08:48:15 am

Go for it, Ellejai! :)

LBG, that sucks about maybe not being able to stay with your boyfriend. Mog's parents are going away and they might be sending people to check up on him, cos they don't trust that he wont have people around or a party, hahaha. ;D

I can't wait until I live with Morgan. We're actually planning on going overseas together for a while next year. I can picture it so well, because we're just so compatible. I don't know if I want kids, but I know that if we ever do have them, Morgan will be the best Dad ever! He's just so sweet and caring, and I've seen how much he loves his little baby cousin, and how good he is at looking after him. It's so cute when Mog gets all gushy about him. Wow, I'm so in love.

I just love how we have so much fun together all the time. He is hysterical! He makes me laugh so much, and he's always looking after me and *explodes with warm fuzziness* Anyway, I must depart, he's in bed waiting for a snuggle and.. I miss him! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mumi on January 30, 2006, 10:14:37 am

My profile says I am from Denmark because I live in Denmark , but I am born in Spain :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 30, 2006, 01:59:15 pm

[quote author=ElleJai link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=120#msg971911 date=1138623725]
I can finally make some sort of comment.. there's a guy i've started to like (i've not had a 'crush' in a while) and he's reaaally cute. Heh, that's pretty much it. He keeps inviting me out drinking with him and his mates but i always chicken on. But tonight i'm actually considering it. Could be interesting.
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GO FOR IT!! ;D
I was a bit like this with Chris at first. I wasn't sure about our first 'date' (I'm still not sure if you could class it that...) but I went in the end and it was the best decision I made! ;D

Good luck, have fun!

Not seen Chris since Saturday night. He wasn't at college today. And he's not on MSN now. I think he may have dropped off the face of the planet. Whatever shall I do? lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 30, 2006, 04:17:53 pm

[quote author=ElleJai link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=120#msg971911 date=1138623725]
I can finally make some sort of comment.. there's a guy i've started to like (i've not had a 'crush' in a while) and he's reaaally cute. Heh, that's pretty much it. He keeps inviting me out drinking with him and his mates but i always chicken on. But tonight i'm actually considering it. Could be interesting.
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Oh you should definitely go! ;D I bet you would have fun with a bunch of guys! I know I do. A lot of my close freinds are guys. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 30, 2006, 08:38:36 pm

Adam sent my present to me today! Should be coming in the next couple days. I'm so excited! ;D I'll post pictures whenever I get it. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on January 31, 2006, 08:03:26 am

Go girl go! Get drunk and have relations! No don't- be sensible and get boyfriend. Lol.


Quote:
I wasn't sure about our first 'date' (I'm still not sure if you could class it that...) but I went in the end and it was the best decision I made!


Lol- I totally refused to call my first 'date' with Andy a 'date'. Didn't want to jinx it, despite people at work having hinted the death out of the situation and my mates at college insisting it was. Lol. Turned up next day and said "You know that thing last night that wasn't a date? Yeah- #I got a boyfriend now..."

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on January 31, 2006, 08:10:44 am

just deleting as dont want this staying on internet

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on January 31, 2006, 09:08:33 am

Yay! Congratulations Laura! Hope things keep progressing nicely for you!!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 31, 2006, 09:09:59 am

Aww! That's so cute! Sounds like something can arise from this. :) Keep us updated. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 31, 2006, 04:45:02 pm

Awesome! I hope things keep going so well for you! :-*

Well, in my "perfect" relationship (as many say it is), things are shakey. We've been arguing a lot. I hate it. I just ... I don't know. I feel like I cant feel anything. Does that make any sense? :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 31, 2006, 05:26:03 pm

[quote author=<*>Epica<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=135#msg972486 date=1138743902]
Awesome! I hope things keep going so well for you! :-*

Well, in my "perfect" relationship (as many say it is), things are shakey. We've been arguing a lot. I hate it. I just ... I don't know. I feel like I cant feel anything. Does that make any sense? :-\
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What have your arguments been about if you don't mind me asking? I kind of know what you're saying about "not feeling anything". Do you think that's because of the fighting or do you think it's something else? I'd hate to see things go badly. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on January 31, 2006, 06:24:11 pm

Aww, I hope things are okay, Meg. :-*

In previous relationships we used to fight all the time. It sucked. I hate fighting. Luckily it's impossible to fight with Moggin, cos we always agree! I really can't imagine ever being angry at him.

Megs, you and Casey seem really good together, you'll get through it. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on January 31, 2006, 07:37:08 pm

Well, I will be honest. It is often my moodyness that throws things off. I don't know why but I will randomly be upset at him about something and it is so aqful because I can't control it! :-\ I don't know what it is.

I know we will make it through this. We've made it through everything before. Thanks you guys. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on January 31, 2006, 09:34:26 pm

Horomones? I can be like that sometimes... I just tell myself it's the horomones.
You'll get through it, a few temper problems isn't strong enough to tear love apart ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on January 31, 2006, 09:37:58 pm

Oh, I see.. I haven't had that problem with Adam at all. I can't really get mad at him since we agree so much and we are joking too much for us to ever have a serious argument or anything. Even in our tiny spats, we make up very easily and most of those are staged fights just for fun. ::)

You and Casey seem great together. I know things will be worked out. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 31, 2006, 09:41:32 pm

Aww, fighting is definitely no fun... But don't give up right away. At least you're admitting that it's at least partly you and your moodiness at fault... that's progress right there.

But honestly, a little fighting is natural.

Dave and I never fought before I left for school. We were always really happy and such. But once I went away, it was really hard for both of us. I was trying to adjust to college life, and he was missing me, and worrying about me finding "something better" here (though he honestly never had ANYthing to worry about!). It made things tense between us a lot of the time.

We had a couple really big fights, and some other minor ones. We never spoke of breaking up, but I know we were both scared of it happening.

Luckily though, we worked through it. We talked about it, and about what each of us was feeling and thinking and why. And we've continued talking about those sorts of things.

We still fight sometimes (nothing that big anymore, though), and still get upset with each other. But it's actually been good for us. Our little tiffs have been growing and learning experiences for the both of us. We're understanding each other better than ever now, which is always important for a healthy relationship.

So don't get too upset about the two of you fighting. Do you still love each other? If the answer is yes, then you'll be fine. Just talk it out, and you'll be all the better for it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: MrFishPillow on February 01, 2006, 01:35:50 am

I love Sarah. So much. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 01, 2006, 05:04:45 am


Quote:
Well, I will be honest. It is often my moodyness that throws things off. I don't know why but I will randomly be upset at him about something and it is so aqful because I can't control it!


Definatly hormones. Unless you're bi-polar. Lol.

You'll pull through. You'll probably be better for siting down and arguing out the shit.

***

I had the best night last night!

Went round to Andy's after my driving lesson for food, expecting just a pizza and maybe a kitkat. Got a candle lit meal of rose wine, chicken stake and veg! *Squeels* (Ok, it was a ready meal, but that's not the point! Lol.) He'd even done a mix cd of my fave songs for background music. Very romantic, and it meant his Valentines day suprise got fast tracked to last night! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 01, 2006, 08:20:37 am

I agree with everyone Meg. The relationship will probably become stronger after going through the rough patch. My brother's had girlfriends break up with him because they can't argue with him. He's too rational and the whole raging at eachother doesnt work (it frustrated the crap out of me through my childhood because i always looked like the little sister with the big temper... which i was... :P) anyway the point is, i don't think a relationship can survive if you can't have a fight, get everything out in the open and then move on. Not to say all of you who are in relationships and arn't fighting are doomed! More that i think it's neccessary to be able to fight if you need to!
Yay for me and my sudden infinite wisdom on relationships that i have completely made up! and yet again ... i have ranted!

Ruth, think ya better keep Andy around! he sounds too good to let go!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 01, 2006, 08:55:40 am

Everyones said everything that I would have said, lol, so there's no point in me repeating it. I'm sure everything will be fine Meg. Chin up. :)

I was a bit pissed of with Chris last night. It felt like he was paying more attention to his XBox360 than he was to me. Actually, it didn't feel like it, he actually was paying it more attention. Felt like I was just a break for him when his thumbs got tired. Tried my best to distract him (ahem... ;) ... ::)) but he just seemed to enjoy himself more.
Ho hum. I'm thinking he'll regret this when he finds out we can't "Get up to anything" for a week (if you get what I mean), and I'll turn off the giving side of things, as well as the recieving.
May have to start playing this XBox360 myself. See how he feels.

*Evil laughter*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 01, 2006, 04:18:56 pm

Ooooh I hate that. Ignoring your girlfriend for video games is not cool, and my ex always did that. At least when they're done and want to fool around, the balls in YOUR court 8) :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 01, 2006, 05:06:56 pm

Hmm, Mog and I have been together for well over a year now, and we haven't had a fight. I think when you need to fight it's healthy to do so, rather than keep it bottled up, but when you don't need to fight, then that's also healthy. We just haven't found the need to. *Lucky*

We spend a few hours the other night reminicing about how we first met and fell in love. It was so nice, made me go all gushy. It also made me realise that my feelings for him haven't changed at all. Everything is still so new and exciting with him. Mr Geoffery the Fish-Pillow, if you're reading this (and I know you are, STALKERMAN!) I love you more than everything. More than chocolate, and we all know I'm the Chocolate Monster. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 01, 2006, 05:55:28 pm

I don't think I have anything to repeat Meg (YAY, I know your real name now :D) You'll be fine :D

But there has been a question burning in my mind for all of you out there in "Gushing about your partner" world: Are there any couples out there who HAVEN'T said the big four letter L-word yet??? It seems like all of you are in the "I love you! I love you! I love you!" stage of your relationship, and it's like Geez, where are all the new lovebirds at, the ones who just hang and don't seem like theyre married and living together (No offense ladies, I love the "I love you's" I think it's beautiful and can't wait for my turn)...I'm just looking for diversity is all :) *hides*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 01, 2006, 06:31:16 pm

Adam and I didn't exchange the L word for such a long time.. It was actually one night when we were talking and he had just gone back to college. He ended up saying he loved me and he realized it after the last week we had spent together before he left.. We were together well over a year before that word slipped out. I hadn't said it before then because I didn't want him to freak out or anything, haha, so I was just waiting for whenever he felt compelled to say it. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 01, 2006, 07:35:09 pm

Nope, Dave and I have definitely said it. :D It took us a while, though, too. Well, it took me a while... heh. He told me he loved me a couple weeks before I said it back. It came as such a shock, and I wanted to make sure I meant it before I said it back. But luckily I realized how silly I was being, and that of course I loved him. Heehee.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 01, 2006, 07:53:57 pm

[quote author=JordanRiver12881 link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=150#msg973039 date=1138834528]
I don't think I have anything to repeat Meg (YAY, I know your real name now :D) You'll be fine :D

But there has been a question burning in my mind for all of you out there in "Gushing about your partner" world: Are there any couples out there who HAVEN'T said the big four letter L-word yet??? It seems like all of you are in the "I love you! I love you! I love you!" stage of your relationship, and it's like Geez, where are all the new lovebirds at, the ones who just hang and don't seem like theyre married and living together (No offense ladies, I love the "I love you's" I think it's beautiful and can't wait for my turn)...I'm just looking for diversity is all :) *hides*
[/quote]
Nope, I've never been in love. Me and my current boyfriend have only been together for a month and a half though, but I got a good feeling about this relationship. Even after a month and a half we're talking about 3 year anniversaries, living together, and all that good stuff. It's amazing, it doesn't freak me out at all... I am so crazy about this guy. 8)




Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 02, 2006, 03:54:42 am

[quote author=JordanRiver12881 link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=150#msg973039 date=1138834528]
But there has been a question burning in my mind for all of you out there in "Gushing about your partner" world: Are there any couples out there who HAVEN'T said the big four letter L-word yet??? It seems like all of you are in the "I love you! I love you! I love you!" stage of your relationship, and it's like Geez, where are all the new lovebirds at, the ones who just hang and don't seem like theyre married and living together (No offense ladies, I love the "I love you's" I think it's beautiful and can't wait for my turn)...I'm just looking for diversity is all :) *hides*
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I haven't. I said it while drunk once... but it doesn't really count as I was running around the room telling everyone and dishing out huge hugs. Yes... far too drunk.

I'm not in love yet. Though I feel that I could be. Yes, he does irritate me sometimes when he doesn't pay me enough attention, but I think that's part of the attraction. Knowing we have to work to keep it going. If I had someone who was 'perfect' I'd be driven nuts. I can't stand people who have to be with me all the time, are forever telling me I'm beautiful or great or whatever.
The spontaneous stuff is nice. Constant mush drives me daft. If Chris was like that... he'd be long gone by now. lol

I've heard that people have said that I'm not very coupley with him in the social area at dinner. Which had me a little confused. I'm expected to be attatched to him at every point of the day that we're together. When I'm in the social area I'm eating, and having a laugh with my friends. I don't need a Chris stuck to me during any of that. I'm quite content to have him sitting there next to me and enjoying things.
Unlike my couple friends, who are attatched at the hip sometimes. They see each other, and they don't separate until they have to, and they have to sit next to each other when they're together. So everyone else has to move round to accomodate them both.
Is it just me... or is this not really annoying? lol

But yes... anyway... trailed a bit there.
Not in love yet. Yet. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 02, 2006, 06:31:48 am

Kat- just steal his Xbox360 pad and invade his game. Then lose and turn it off. I've threatened this a couple of times. Or stand infront of him and pout. Or buy Dead or alive 4, and beat his ass (which I did last week, in the middle of Game- I am godess!)

I think it took us a couple of month to say I love you. Mind you, we'd done the dirty by then so I knew I was in love even if he didn't yet. I fall very easily and very fast. Which is why I can tell if a relationship isn't working. Lol.

[quote]I've heard that people have said that I'm not very coupley with him in the social area at dinner. Which had me a little confused. I'm expected to be attatched to him at every point of the day that we're together. When I'm in the social area I'm eating, and having a laugh with my friends. I don't need a Chris stuck to me during any of that. I'm quite content to have him sitting there next to me and enjoying things.
Unlike my couple friends, who are attatched at the hip sometimes. They see each other, and they don't separate until they have to, and they have to sit next to each other when they're together. So everyone else has to move round to accomodate them both.
Is it just me... or is this not really annoying? lol
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Yeah, I get that when we're both at work. We generally take our breaks together so we can chat and stuff, but people always look at us askew if we're not sat really close or doing our own thing. Really strange. I mean, Andy is very clingy which can be a bit irksom, but he's not as bad as these couples you see in the common room with their tongues constantly down each others throats.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on February 02, 2006, 08:27:08 am

Hullo everyone! Just wanted to update my Andrew stuff, considering this would be the proper place for it. ::)

Hmm, let's see. Well, this past Sunday I went to Andrew's house as I usually do. Considering we both have school and work and stuff, Sunday is usually when we can spend a nice long amount of time together at his house (never at mine because my parents watch us like we're going to jump each other on the kitchen table at any moment.) ::) So anyway we were sitting in his bedroom watching a movie and all of a sudden I get a phone call and it was my dad saying that my older sister Nicole got in a wreck and totaled her car - but she was okay. (My mom is in New Jersey seeing my sick grandmother so she wasn't in this ordeal.) So my dad and little sister brought Nicole to her house in Charlotte, but on their way back they broke down so they had to spend the night there. Sooo I got to sleep at Andrew's house! I slept in his sister's room because she was spending the night with a friend. It was the most wonderful thing to have him tuck me in (aww, yes he did) and kiss me goodnight and have him be the first thing I saw when I woke up. ;D And beyond that, he looked quite nice in his pajama pants (no shirt...a very good sight!)

Also, Sunday is our 3 month anniversary. He's taking me somewhere really nice apparently, but won't tell me where. He is also doing that for Valentine's Day (which I'm looking forward to!) Ah well. I will stop rambling now. :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 02, 2006, 08:31:04 am

Taf i am like you! like romantic stuff makes me squirm, and i like my independence. If you go out in a group its so you can spend time with the group, not sit in a corner with ur bf all night... can do that alone. But i often think i'm the only one who feels like that! my mum thinks i'm mad... but i just don't like people to be overly affectionate towards me. on the odd occasion its great...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 02, 2006, 08:42:58 am

I know what you mean about "those" couples. I find them quite annoying, too. Morgan and I are friends with this guy, and anytime we invite him somewhere, he automatically assumes his girlfriend is invited. They're always together. It's so annoying, because I don't even really like her. :-\

I get the best of both worlds, because Morgan is the perfect boyfriend, and he's also one of my best friends! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 02, 2006, 08:43:21 am

Ah! Lumos! Lucky you! Aww- I love being tucked in. It's just so damned cute. Not that I'm saying it's a good thing your sis was in a smash. Hope shes ok.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 02, 2006, 08:44:25 am

Aww, I love being tucked in, too! It's so sweet. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 02, 2006, 08:48:26 am

I have a friend who spends every waking moment with his girlfriend and then wonders why we don't hang out much. Every time I hang out with him, she's there, and it makes it awkward for me because I feel like a third wheel. I'm not like that at all when I go places with Adam. I hate when people just focus on their girlfriend or boyfriend and they won't really pay attention to anyone else there. What's the point of being with a group if you're going to separate yourselves anyway? ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 02, 2006, 08:56:50 am

I know! It's really annoying. I'm not like that with Mog, either. Probably because I know how annoying it is, being on the receiving end from that friend. Mogran and I are mostly just like friends when we're in a group, cos really, it just makes things awkward for everyone else.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 02, 2006, 11:49:17 am

Although, having said all this, we all slip into routine don't we? Lol. I can't say I'm always 100% uncouply. More like 70%. Lol. Usually in close proximity.

Actually, thinking about it, I'm probably more couply with him in a large group than when we're on our own wandering about town or such. *Shrugs*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 02, 2006, 04:13:30 pm

Hmm... it usually depends with Dave and I. I tend to like my space, for the most part, but there are times when he just wants to be really close, and I usually don't mind that. So we compromise. Out in groups, we hold hands occasionally, and little stuff like that. But I would never be seen making out (or even kissing, for that matter) in public. It makes me really uncomfortable. Even when he has his arms around me in a big group, I sometimes feel weird.

Around our familes we're usually pretty close. But when around friends, I suppose we act more like friends. We joke and push around, but just kind of stay close-ish. Never all over each other, though. I suppose it's a good balance of being couply and not.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 02, 2006, 07:06:41 pm

With my ex we were very coupley. There was hardly ever a moment we weren't attached some way or another. That's just the sort of guy he is. I guess everyone's different.

When i'm out with a new group of friends there's 2 couples and they're complete opposites. 1 couple you'd hardly tell are together. The guy sometimes kisses her cheek and things but she doesn't do much. And the other couple are all over each other. Me and the guy i like we're observing them playing pool today. Everytime the guy would hit the ball they'd be getting off. I'm not bothered by it but if your single yourself it can be a little awkward. Since there's a guy i like it's fine. He had his arms round me cuddling me alot today, it's nice. I like a guy to be like that and do get a bit caught up.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 02, 2006, 07:17:53 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=165#msg973487 date=1138914810]
But when around friends, I suppose we act more like friends. We joke and push around, but just kind of stay close-ish. Never all over each other, though. I suppose it's a good balance of being couply and not.
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Yeah, Mog and I are like that. I like it, because we're such good friends anyway. But sometimes I just have to kiss him or snuggle him for a while, he's too cute! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 03, 2006, 05:26:10 am

To be honest I don't feel comfortable being coupley in public. Like in the college social area, if a couple start to get off with each other and its in everyones face then theres at least one person who will shout "ROOM" at them.
Plus, when I'm kissing in public I feel as though everyone is watching me, and it makes me nervous.
Kisses behind closed doors are so much more fun. ;)

Me and Chris hold hands and I sometimes have my hand on his leg while sitting together, but we're never all over each other.

I don't think he feels comfortable with it either, so we're both cool with how things are.

I didn't get to go to his yesterday (like I normally do) so I hope I can go round on Saturday. However, I am going to put a ban on the XBox360 unless I want to play on it.
Wish I could go around today, as my parents are having my bosses (all 3 of them!!!!) round for a game of poker. I want to get out of the house. But the bastards working isn't he!?! lol >:(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 03, 2006, 05:29:31 am


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But I would never be seen making out (or even kissing, for that matter) in public.


I'm fine with kisses, but I absolutly hate making out in public, even when its just us two wandering round town or something. It just looks so tacky. But he says he likes it 'cos he wants people to know he's finally got someone special too. So we have to compromise on that. I refuse if we're in a shop or pub or something. Outside I'm usually ok. Ish!

Was talking to Andy for an hour last night on phone. I mean, we talk every night, but it's been ages since we went that long without noticing. I did keep mocking him though-
Andy- "No-one is second to you."
Me- *Sarcasm* "Thanks- that generally means they're all better than me you know?"
Andy- "No, I meant you're so far ahead they're not even second! Although, I'm second. Yeah. No-ones second to you. *Long pause* Except me...
Me- *dissolve into laughter*
Yeah, he wasn't having a coherent compliment night. Lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 03, 2006, 06:57:37 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=165#msg973791 date=1138962370]
Me and Chris hold hands and I sometimes have my hand on his leg while sitting together, but we're never all over each other.
[/quote]

Aww, I love the hand on the leg thing. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 03, 2006, 07:51:14 am

I also feel uncomfortable 'making out' in public. I feel everyone would be staring or something. It's just something i prefer not to do.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 03, 2006, 08:32:34 am

We don't act like a couple most of the time when we're around his friends. He'll come up to me and hug me or hold me in front of his friends though. I don't initiate it because I don't know his friends that well and I'd feel a little uncomfortable... If he's starting it though, then I don't care what they think, haha. He has kissed me a few times though in front of his friends and in public and it doesn't bother me. I just don't like watching people go full tongue-on-tongue action and molesting each other in front of people. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 03, 2006, 12:05:57 pm

Aww Chris today.
I saw him more than I was expecting to. Really enjoyed just being with him.
We were talking about my hair (I'm getting it cut and coloured on Thursday) and he said to me - "You're going to look really amazingly sexy. Not that you don't already. But this will just make you more so. The icing if you will..."

Hehe. Awwwww! ;D ;D ;D
*Mush*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 03, 2006, 01:38:07 pm

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=165#msg973810 date=1138967857]
[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=165#msg973791 date=1138962370]
Me and Chris hold hands and I sometimes have my hand on his leg while sitting together, but we're never all over each other.
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Aww, I love the hand on the leg thing. :)
[/quote]
Lol me too! ;D

Me and my boyfriend are pretty couply in public, but we'd never be seen making out in public. All we really do is kiss, hold hands, play with eachother's hair etc. I cant stand seeing people make-out in public, yeah I understand they want to show affection for eachother, but that's just bluntly seeking attention.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 03, 2006, 10:06:23 pm

Hello everyone! Sorry I've missed so much! You all are quick! ;D
I have a few pics to post that were just taken tonight. Hehe, some of them look really goofy (probably because Casey and I were acting goofy) ::). Well, we had a wonderful evening together! Prepare for mooshy pics! ;)






(Hehe, hope y'all don't mind the kissy pic! ::))

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 04, 2006, 07:23:37 am

The kissy photo is the best of them all. It's a really nice photo.

Okay well the beginning of my beautiful new relationship has all of a sudden f*cked up. Again, my typical relationship bad luck has set in. Men are so unpredictable (but then again very predictable at times). Gutted. I fall so easily, it's such a bad thing too. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 04, 2006, 12:31:00 pm

[quote author=ElleJai link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=165#msg974317 date=1139055817]
The kissy photo is the best of them all. It's a really nice photo.

Okay well the beginning of my beautiful new relationship has all of a sudden f*cked up. Again, my typical relationship bad luck has set in. Men are so unpredictable (but then again very predictable at times). Gutted. I fall so easily, it's such a bad thing too. :P
[/quote]

Aw, thanks so much! ;D

:-\ Honey I am so sorry. Yeah, that does hurt. Are you alright? :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 04, 2006, 05:37:45 pm

Aww, Ellejai, I'm so sorry. Is it definately not an option, or is there still hope? :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 04, 2006, 05:53:14 pm

Epica, that kissy picture is so cute! I love your hair. :)


Aww, Ellejai, are you sure that there's no chance? It sounded so good! What happened? (if you don't mind me asking)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 04, 2006, 06:57:28 pm

ElleJai, I'm so sorry that things turned out this way. What happened hon? *Hugs*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 05, 2006, 08:14:24 am

Well... what happened was we had this great week together. Thursday we spent together and he had his arms around me pretty much all day. He walked me home, we hugged, he left. Soon after he text me saying he'd had a really good day and tomorrow would be even better. You see, a friend of ours was organising a little party around her flat and we were both going to go together. I was actually supposed to be going back home for the weekend but i really wanted to go with him. Through MSN later that night he said his mate who would be going with him didn't really want to go because he was too drunk already. He said i could go around to his house but i was like err, no it's okay i'll just go home and see you next week.

Friday in uni we didn't talk all day. By late afternoon i couldn't resist but text him so i just asked what he was doing and he sent a short message back. Later that night i text again asking what he had decided to do that night and he replied with "with the other laura". I was in shock. Laura is his ex who he swore he'd not take back. She's been a bitch to him, cheated on him a few times etc. He swore down to me a number of times things were over and he didn't want her back because i'd checked and told him i don't want to rush you into anything because you might be confussed about her. So i text again with "you two ok now or you getting back together". And he just said "dont know".

Mean. :(

I checked her myspace and they're back together.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 05, 2006, 08:39:06 am

That Sucks ELleJai! Sorry it turned out badly. I'm always amazed when people go back to people who've treated them so badly... but i suppose 'love' makes us do strange things.
It sounds like he really likes you though... maybe, hopefully there's still hope for the future :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 05, 2006, 12:48:44 pm

I'm keeping with whatever hope there is, i still think there is some. For one because i know he does actually like me. I guess it's just all round easier to go back to someone you've been with before then starting up a new completely new relationship.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 05, 2006, 02:09:40 pm

Aww, I'm so sorry Ellejai. He didn't make a wise decision going back to her and he's sure to regret that. Maybe things will work out in the end... He'll realize what a dumb choice he made. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 05, 2006, 03:02:45 pm

Tonight he signed on msn saying i was right and that she'd just finished him. She changed her mind about getting back together. So... just shows it was a bad idea getting back with her. He's heart broken. He says he really loved her. I know it's difficult to get over someone. I wouldn't put it past them to get back together so i've definitely learnt now not to rush into anything at all. Just stay friends for a while and see what happens. I hope he learns this time, for his own sake.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 05, 2006, 03:10:36 pm

I'm sorry you had to go through that ElleJai. :( *Hugs*
I think you're best staying friends for a while, so he can gather his thoughts and feelings, hopefully get over this girl and move on. As long as he has friends around that he knows care about him then it'll make everything a lot easier for him (hopefully).

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 05, 2006, 03:31:46 pm

Thanks your right Taf. He needs a friend right now more then anything else.

How's everyone else's relationships going?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 05, 2006, 03:58:32 pm

Yeah, stick by him and make sure he knows you're there. Just be careful. You don't want to there for him as a rebound.

Things with me and Chris are going well. He going to get his car back in the next couple of week, so we'll be able to do more stuff (he doesn't like the courtesy car, and neither do I. It smells. lol)
His Mum is buying me some socks tomorrow.
She knows me too well already! ;D lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 05, 2006, 08:28:35 pm

Hmm, Dave and I are good. He came up to see me this weekend, which was nice. We really needed it. We had a bit of a fight last week, so it was good to just see each other. When we're together, nothing is ever wrong.

However, on his way home, he hit some ice and ran off the road. He's okay (other than being a bit sore), but his car is somewhat beat up, and his parents are pissed. Bleh. His dad has forbidden him to ever come and see me here again... I'm hoping that will pass... :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 05, 2006, 08:48:24 pm

Wow... that really sucks. Seems like a pretty harsh consequence too... I hope it works out for you guys :-\

Things with my boyfriend are fantastic. I swear to god I am falling in love with this boy... he is everything I've ever wanted and more. Never been happier ;D

Man, Valentine's day is going to kick ass. We've kind of been... stocking up with... fun stuff... for that special day :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 06, 2006, 03:58:06 am

[quote author=ElleJai link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=180#msg974807 date=1139169765]
Just stay friends for a while and see what happens. I hope he learns this time, for his own sake.
[/quote]

ElleJai, I'm so sorry about the whole situation. But I've seen that kind of thing happen before, more than once. Sometimes it takes a while to get over a relationship, and it's hard to say whether you're doing the right thing. I think he's definately better off without this "other Laura" character. You're right, he needs a friend right now and not a rebound.

It might be hard, but try to make sure that doesn't happen with you two. Rebounds are never fun, and someone ends up feeling like sh-t. Things will be better in the long run, and then everything will be awesome! :)

---

Morgan and I are great. His parents went away for the weekend, so we've been hanging out together at his place (secretly). It's been so much fun making dinner, living, sleeping and.. bathing together. We snuggled all night on Saturday, it was so nice! On Sunday we had our friend Chris around and we all got amazingly drunk. Luckily, Chris passed out at around midnight so Morgan and I could.. get to bed. ;)


Quote:
Man, Valentine's day is going to kick ass. We've kind of been... stocking up with... fun stuff... for that special day


Oh man, I know what you mean. Last night was that night for Morgan and I. Fun stuff is.. lots of fun. Now I'm smiling. A lot. I hope Chris didn't hear us. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 06, 2006, 04:34:21 am

Elle Jai! *hugs* It's good that you're not rushing back with him. Apparently people need the same time they went out to get over someone. Dunno if it's true though lol. Good luck babe.

Me and Andy are good. Quite pigged though- his rents are away, and we were planning to 'accidently' not let my parents know that so I could sleep over actually in the same bed as him. Then 10 hours before they left, Dad met his Mum. *Le sigh* You've never heard someone slap down a request to sleep over so fast as my Dad- and he's the cool accepting parent! So yeah, no sleep over. *sigh* Have to wait til summer now!


Quote:
Man, Valentine's day is going to kick ass. We've kind of been... stocking up with... fun stuff... for that special day

Frigging girly stuff. My valentines day fun will have to be delayed. Still going for a meal though (improves on the chinese take away at his of last year- Andy actually follwed through on the 'I'll book a table' promise this year! ::) )


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 06, 2006, 06:51:50 am

lol Ruth! my friend's boyfriend took her to the KFC drivethrough. I think that tops the take away at home... they sat in the car and ate!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 06, 2006, 06:59:58 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=180#msg975036 date=1139218461]
Elle Jai! *hugs* It's good that you're not rushing back with him. Apparently people need the same time they went out to get over someone. Dunno if it's true though lol. Good luck babe.
[/quote]

Wow, really? I've never heard that before. It takes me forever to get over someone and often i never feel completely over them. I always find it hard seeing an ex with a new girl. Luckily i never really have to see it happen. I think if he saw his ex with a guy he'd be gutted. At least i can relate to that myself.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: MrFishPillow on February 06, 2006, 07:15:23 am

i don't know what to do for valentines day. i have absolutely no money and i neeeeed to buy my gorgeous sarah a present :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 06, 2006, 07:27:31 am

No you don't! I don't need a present. I'm just so grateful to even know someone who makes me as happy as you do.

Anyway, my favourite presents are the spontaneous ones. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 06, 2006, 07:34:23 am

Just show her a good time. Show her how special she is.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 06, 2006, 11:59:14 am

Agh! Valentines day!
I have absolutely no idea what to get Chris! At all! AGH! Help! Any ideas anyone? What are you getting your partners?

Mum suggested furry dice for his car. Hehe. I'm considering it.


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my friend's boyfriend took her to the KFC drivethrough. I think that tops the take away at home... they sat in the car and ate!


Haha. Sounds like something Chris might do. ;) (Joke - I think...)
Except, he'd get the food free because he knows the manager and half the people who work there.
If ever you're hungry and penniless. Just get Chris to go to KFC ;D

But seriously. Valentines. WHATDOIDO?! :'(

I don't even know if we are going to do anything that day or evening or whatever. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 06, 2006, 12:15:57 pm

What day is it?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on February 06, 2006, 12:34:14 pm

Valentine's Day is next Tuesday. I have no idea what to get Mark! Suggestions anyone?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 06, 2006, 01:26:23 pm

Well, I got some sentimental gifts for Adam.. Like our first movie together, I bought him the DVD.. I also got him his favorite candy and a video game that I thought he'd like.. (Turns out he wanted it but didn't have it :)) and then I got a big Valentine's Day card. I didn't get anything too mushy though... just some things I knew he'd get a kick out of. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 06, 2006, 01:28:23 pm

If it's any help... I ordered my boyfriend a DVD copy of his favorite film, and made him a mix CD (aka Nic and Jason's music to f*ck to lol). We've been saving ourselves for Valentines... it's going to be soooo good. ;D

My boyfriend was a little upset about being too broke to get me anything aswell. But I really do not care, Valentines isn't about that. Although his exact words were 'Sucks I cant get you anything for Valentines... but I guess one day I'm going to buy you a house' ;D ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 06, 2006, 05:09:33 pm

Getting the DVD of the film we first saw together (on the day we got together) was an idea that came to me. The trouble is, I doubt "King Kong" is going to be released between now and next Tuesday.
Music, also a good idea. But he's not really into music, and I'm not 100% on what he likes because we have quite different tastes. I had an idea, but I need to make sure that he likes them first... I'll check on it.

Me and Ruth are going shopping on Friday, so hopefully I'll find something then. The least he will get is a T-Shirt that says "I'm sorry" for his little monkey called SexyBoy.
(Chris says "I'm sorry" far too much, lol)

I wonder if they do them in person sizes too.... ? lol ;)
(as apposed to 6 inch tall monkeys)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elwoodsangel5000 on February 06, 2006, 11:20:55 pm

What should I do for my man this valentines day. We've been together 4 years now and engaged for a year on V-day. I need to do something special!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 07, 2006, 08:21:33 am

Andy's getting Joop Jump ('cos he sprays it on whenever he finds a tester but has not bought any despite finding it a year ago lol) and a dragon modle (to be bought on Fri with Kat 'cos I know which one he wants and where to get it lol) since he collects them (I started that! Got him one for our first christmas!).

Kat- what's his hobbies? Or his fave comedien?

Anarchist- valentines day engagment! Aww! How'd he ask you and where? maybe you could restage it and reaffirm the yes with you on one knee! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 08, 2006, 03:50:16 am

Hobbies? Err... he likes driving. (Hence Mum suggesting furry dice, lolz) and wargaming (Oh dear god - Ruth will understand, I'm sure - Mum shouted at me for getting with a "gamer", after all she taught me. My Dad is one, and he annoys her with it sometimes)

Anyway...

Favourite comedian? Err... he's not mentioned anything. He does have quite a few comedy DVDs.

Trouble is, when he wants something, and has told me and I think "Yeah, I'll get you it." he goes out and buys it the next day.
Wonder if I could freeze his bank account until the 14th? lol

Ruth, I'm sure you can help me a little on Friday. Lucy may be useful too. Even if its a stupid present, he'll understand cos I've been ranting to him about how difficult he is. lol

Edit:
Furry dice probably not a good idea now. Apparently his car has been written off. So now we're going to have to rely on parents and public transport to get about. Sob sob. :'(

RIP (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/chief.jpg)

(Sorry about the size. Photoshop has totally died on me, and my other computer can't cope with the file type of this for some reason)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 08, 2006, 07:05:27 pm

Whee. I went out and got Dave a little something yesterday. I got him 2 cards (one funny, and one a bit mushy) and this stuffed Valentine's Day lion with a red heart for a mane. When you press the lion's paw, he purrs. Haha, it's really cute. I may get him so chocolate, too, but I dunno yet.

Aaand, I thought I'd share a picture of us. This is from about 2 weeks ago, at the rock-off his band was at. I'm wearing his bow tie. Haha.

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Amaleen/us.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 08, 2006, 07:31:51 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=195#msg976553 date=1139443527]
Whee. I went out and got Dave a little something yesterday. I got him 2 cards (one funny, and one a bit mushy) and this stuffed Valentine's Day lion with a red heart for a mane. When you press the lion's paw, he purrs. Haha, it's really cute. I may get him so chocolate, too, but I dunno yet.

Aaand, I thought I'd share a picture of us. This is from about 2 weeks ago, at the rock-off his band was at. I'm wearing his bow tie. Haha.

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JESUS CHRISTMAS HE'S HOT!!!! *blushes* sorry flummoxed...he's yours, not mine (besides, we live too far away from each other anyway ::)) But that's a cute pic....

No new news yet...This is an excerpt from my xanga journal..I wrote it last week


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nothing else to say..no details on the Alvaro guy...I think he's the shy type; I don't think he'll make a move... just when I thought I had a chance...*le frown*


I really wouldn't feel comfortable making the first move...So now I'm just stuck in limbo-confident that he likes me, knowing he's too quiet to do something about it...which bugs the heck outta me because I'm ready for a boyfriend...I really am *le sigh* :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 08, 2006, 08:56:35 pm

Aw Flummoxed that's such a nice picture! (And your boyfriend has really gorgeous eyes!) :)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 08, 2006, 10:31:02 pm

Thanks guys! Heehee, he's a cutie, isn't he? And yes, I know... his eyes are amazing. *Melts.* He normally wears glasses, but I love when he doesn't, because they're so incredibly blue! Yay.

And Jordan (sorry, I don't remember your first name!) are you sure you wouldn't consider making some sort of first move? I mean, I know it seems scary... but if you KNOW he likes you, what have you got to lose??

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 08, 2006, 10:42:55 pm

It's OK *whispers* my name is in my siggie :)

Yes, I am hesistant to make the first move, and I am sure about it...my thing is (and always will be) what if I'm wrong? or what if he's not comfortable with me making the first move? I really don't know much about him...it would feel weird :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 08, 2006, 11:49:21 pm

Doh. You know what, I DID know that your name was Denarii. I remember reading it in one of Sarah's posts. Sorry! I won't forget again.

Anyway, honestly, you should think about taking the initiative. If he's a shy guy, but really does like you, he might even be thankful to you making a move. What would be worse - him simply saying no, or you sitting around for months wondering about those "what ifs" and what "could bes"?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 09, 2006, 03:39:43 am

Awww, cute picture! ;D

Denarii, he may be in the same situation as you. Wondering whether you like him or not, and holding back in fear of rejection. So... why not make it screamingly obvious that you do like him. Flirt with him. Compliment him. The works. He'll have no excuse then. Hehe.
Good luck ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 09, 2006, 03:49:31 am

[quote]Hobbies? Err... he likes driving. (Hence Mum suggesting furry dice, lolz) and wargaming (Oh dear god - Ruth will understand, I'm sure - Mum shouted at me for getting with a "gamer", after all she taught me. My Dad is one, and he annoys her with it sometimes)

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*Shakes head* Oh Kathryn... *sigh*

Aww- cute picture! I love his lil beard! Very few men pull em off.

Denarii- go for it girl. Just ask if he'd perhaps fancy acompanying you to the cinema or something. even to Mc Donalds is a positive move! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 09, 2006, 03:51:41 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg976699 date=1139474971]
[quote]Hobbies? Err... he likes driving. (Hence Mum suggesting furry dice, lolz) and wargaming (Oh dear god - Ruth will understand, I'm sure - Mum shouted at me for getting with a "gamer", after all she taught me. My Dad is one, and he annoys her with it sometimes)

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*Shakes head* Oh Kathryn... *sigh*
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I know. I disown him whenever he does wargame stuff around me. Like going into the shop in meadowhall. I went to look at shoes round the corner.
Yes... he didn't spend long in that shop. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 09, 2006, 05:46:19 am

One of the presents I got Morgan for his last birthday, was a cute little fish called Trent (after Trent Reznor from Nine Inch Nails). He died today. It was so sad, cos we both love him so much. I got an SMS at 7:46AM today from Morgan and he was sad and worried about Trent, and I went over there and he was on his side, and I'm so sad. :'(

It was nice to snuggle Mog all day though. But I miss Trent. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 09, 2006, 05:59:12 am

Poor fish. May he rest in bubbly heaven.

Lol Kat- good technique. Andy pulls that one whenever I go to look at how to draw manga books in last picture show...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 09, 2006, 11:26:13 pm

FLummoxed, Dave is beautious!
Taf sorry to hear about Chris's car! tis very sad! maybe you could get him a new car for valentines :P hehehe or a matchbox one



Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 09, 2006, 11:44:40 pm

The name thing is OK... :)

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg976661 date=1139460561]
Doh. You know what, I DID know that your name was Denarii. I remember reading it in one of Sarah's posts. Sorry! I won't forget again.

Anyway, honestly, you should think about taking the initiative. If he's a shy guy, but really does like you, he might even be thankful to you making a move. What would be worse - him simply saying no, or you sitting around for months wondering about those "what ifs" and what "could bes"?
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[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg976695 date=1139474383]
Denarii, he may be in the same situation as you. Wondering whether you like him or not, and holding back in fear of rejection. So... why not make it screamingly obvious that you do like him. Flirt with him. Compliment him. The works. He'll have no excuse then. Hehe.
Good luck ;)
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[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg976699 date=1139474971]
Denarii- go for it girl. Just ask if he'd perhaps fancy acompanying you to the cinema or something. even to Mc Donalds is a positive move! Lol.
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I just don't think I can deal with it guys... :-\ , but thanks for trying to help... :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 10, 2006, 12:34:56 am

Heehee, thanks Anna. :)

And speaking of Dave, we got into a rather big argument tonight. Well... I'm not sure if it was really an argument. But it was really scary. It was on of those situations that began with a text that just said "We need to talk." I was so scared! :-\

But, thankfully, we working it out, and things seem good again now. Bleh, I just hate this long distance thing. If we were together, these things wouldn't happen nearly as much; probably not even at all! BAH on distance.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 10, 2006, 03:44:03 am

Aww- poor Flummoxed! *Offers hugs and choccy*. It's good that you're sorting stuff out though.

I was so 'aww'ed out by Andy yesterday. I was feeling slightly depressed (PMT= beugh!) and I texted him saying I was bored. And he knew something was up 'cos I only said maybe three words. So he cheered me up a bit. Then this morning he sent me a daft lil rap pretending to be a dragon (it's an in joke). So cute!!! I love him!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 10, 2006, 11:07:11 am

I never know where to post this because it's not gushing over a partner, and it's not sex talk, and i don't need advice either, it's just good to talk about things in your life.

Well the guy i've mentioned before is still on my mind 24/7. Usually this would do my head in because once i like someone they are on my mind all the time but this is even worse as i can't even have this someone. I guess things slowly get better then i see him again and BOOM, i'm in love, lol. Occasionally i think well things are better this way and things he's done annoy me but once i see him again all those things go away.

Gah, i hate love!! (Actually, really i love it). I just kid myself sometimes thinking it makes me feel better lol.

(This sort of thing so doesn't belong in here because your all so happily coupled up, sorry)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 10, 2006, 12:32:51 pm

[quote author=JordanRiver12881 link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg977157 date=1139546680]
The name thing is OK... :)

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg976661 date=1139460561]
Doh. You know what, I DID know that your name was Denarii. I remember reading it in one of Sarah's posts. Sorry! I won't forget again.

Anyway, honestly, you should think about taking the initiative. If he's a shy guy, but really does like you, he might even be thankful to you making a move. What would be worse - him simply saying no, or you sitting around for months wondering about those "what ifs" and what "could bes"?
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[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg976695 date=1139474383]
Denarii, he may be in the same situation as you. Wondering whether you like him or not, and holding back in fear of rejection. So... why not make it screamingly obvious that you do like him. Flirt with him. Compliment him. The works. He'll have no excuse then. Hehe.
Good luck ;)
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[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=210#msg976699 date=1139474971]
Denarii- go for it girl. Just ask if he'd perhaps fancy acompanying you to the cinema or something. even to Mc Donalds is a positive move! Lol.
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I just don't think I can deal with it guys... :-\ , but thanks for trying to help... :P
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I've changed my mind...Last night, I decided I'm going to email him today.... :)

And it's OK ElleJai, I come in here all the time and I've never had a boyfriend *hides from the couples* ::) They don't mind

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 10, 2006, 12:39:43 pm

Go for it :D Let us know how it goes, what sort of thing you say and if he replies.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 11, 2006, 05:48:36 am

LBG, boys are so cute with the whole PMS thing! I love it. Morgan always looks after me so much when it's that time of the month. Buys me chocolate, tucks me in bed, gets me painkillers, makes me laugh, runs me a bubble bath. One time I was completely unprepared and so he went down to the shop and bought me some.. things. So sweet! :) :-*

Edit: And the massages! Amazing. Aww, LOVE. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 11, 2006, 10:21:35 pm

sarah that is impressive. i hate buying myself... things

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 11, 2006, 11:42:07 pm

It is, eh? Especially because we know the girl at the supermarket who served him. I hate buying ..things, too. I usually ask my Mum to. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 12, 2006, 12:51:50 am

yeah i'm the same... i work at the supermarket... so chances are i know the people! arghhh! but mum usually buys them at random intervals

anyway that is competely random for the thread

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 12, 2006, 01:44:39 am

My boyfriend always makes fun of me and teases me when it's that time of the month.. We make jokes about it all the time. No big deal. ::) He doesn't change how he normally is during that time because he never gets on my nerves and doesn't have to. :)

and about buying "things". I don't care at all! I proudly go up there with a box of them even if my friend is bagging my purchases. :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 12, 2006, 01:53:14 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=225#msg978026 date=1139726679]
and about buying "things". I don't care at all! I proudly go up there with a box of them even if my friend is bagging my purchases. :D
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Same here...and "things"? call them what they are! Tampons and pads!!! Be proud to be a woman! *marches around borderline feminist* ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 12, 2006, 02:08:08 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=225#msg978026 date=1139726679]
We make jokes about it all the time.
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Yeah, same. And I try to gross him out, it's so fun. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 12, 2006, 02:13:25 am

I do the exact same thing! We go back and forth with as many disgusting things we can think of.. I usually win with graphic menstrual talk. 8) It's hilarious!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 12, 2006, 02:21:09 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=225#msg978050 date=1139728405]
I do the exact same thing! We go back and forth with as many disgusting things we can think of.. I usually win with graphic menstrual talk. 8) It's hilarious!
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Snap! Me and Moglet do it everytime. I do that to my friend Dan, too. Put him off a certain condiment for a few months. 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 12, 2006, 02:23:05 am

ketchup anyone?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 12, 2006, 02:26:34 am

Hehehe, actually it was jam. Shows how gross I can be when I put my mind to it. I <3 grossing people out! Like "gently tease the bladder", hahjahahahajah. ;D

Anyway, back on topic. I love Morgan! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 12, 2006, 02:27:51 am

LOL! My friend's couldn't eat the red mexican rice at school for over a month because of what I said. :) I can get pretty graphic..


but to stay on topic of the thread, Adam is going to do a portrait of me when he comes back during Spring Break! I'm so excited. I've never been drawn before. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 12, 2006, 02:35:05 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=225#msg978065 date=1139729271]
LOL! My friend's couldn't eat the red mexican rice at school for over a month because of what I said. :) I can get pretty graphic..
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AAAAAHAHAHAHAHHAHA! That's hilarious! ;D

Aww, he's going to draw you? How sweet. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 12, 2006, 06:50:12 pm


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and about buying "things". I don't care at all! I proudly go up there with a box of them even if my friend is bagging my purchases.


I'm the same. Doesn't bother me at all.
I have to buy my own because the supermarket we go to has stopped selling my brand (haha) for some reason. So I have to make special trips. Annoying. lol

Been at Chrissss tonight. Not been around in what feels like ages (really... last time was Tuesday) had superfuntimes doing... not a lot.
Looking forward to Valentines day, when exactly the same shall be done. lol
We're out of a car now, so I have to be picked up by my Mum. So I lose out on an hour with him. Can't wait for him to get a new car. Just for that extra hour. That, and I miss driving with him. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 12, 2006, 08:34:12 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=225#msg978232 date=1139788212]
We're out of a car now, so I have to be picked up by my Mum. So I lose out on an hour with him. Can't wait for him to get a new car. Just for that extra hour. That, and I miss driving with him. :(
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Yeah I cant wait till my boyfriend gets his own car too, trying to find time to use his parents' can be a hassle. But what's even better is that he's getting his own place in September, since he'll be done college. Which is so sweet, because it'll be like my second home. 8)

Anyway, I just came back from a day of cuddling and jamming with my boyfriend, and now I smell like him. Gah sexiest smell ever. I can't stop smelling myself now! :P Which is okay... as long as no one can see me.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 13, 2006, 03:33:14 pm

Whee. Well, I had a very lovely weekend with Dave. *Le sigh.* I wish I could just be with him all the time. Blah.

I decided not to drive back to school until this morning (the weather wasn't the greatest last night). So I woke up really early, and Dave called and told me to stop at his house before I left. So I did, and he had made me breakfast! Aww, it was so sweet, and really made my 3 and a half hour drive much much better. :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 13, 2006, 04:03:45 pm

Aww, that's so sweet that he made you breakfast. Bless him. :)

I think me and the Chris have decided to go to the cinema tomorrow. Not sure what to see yet. I think we're just going to Meadowhall and seeing whats on and doing shopping too. Just poodling about really. I'm not big on Valentines day to be honest.

But I did make him a card (seriously, could the ones in the shops be any more mush? yuck? sickly? lovey? lol)
I bought his teddy monkey (named SexyBoy) a Tshirt specially for it. Hehe.

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/SexyBoy/SexyBoySma.jpg[/IMG]
Inside reads: on valentines day

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 13, 2006, 05:51:28 pm

OMG Taf...I saw that and just started laughing... ;D *laughs* it's funny, but it's soooo cute...It's Valentine's Day Eve (if there is such a thing ::))

Breakfast...I love breakfast..yum 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 13, 2006, 08:13:42 pm

Thanks Denarii, I'm glad you liked it. That's the reaction I'm hoping for from The Chris. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 15, 2006, 08:52:26 am

i'm sure he'll love it! it's very personal! without being too mushy! hope you have fun at the movies!

Flummoxed sounds like you had a good weekend! what a nice guy making you brekki and all!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 15, 2006, 08:56:54 am

He liked the card. Yay!

Get this. He bought me a Tamagotchi!! OMG! Could this guy know me any better?! Seriously! lolz!
He's called Brian. A right stroppy cow. Won't play with me unless I feed him sweets. Tuh.

These re-releases are the coolest. I had one back in the 90's when they were the must have thing in the playground (mostly because they were banned), but those are nothing on these. I mean, you can buy stuff, you can make friends with others (I have Paige's (Chris' 9 year old sister) 4 tamagotchis as friends. hehe) and even breed them!! :o
Wow. I feel so old. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on February 15, 2006, 09:17:58 am

Omg WOW! They're really that advanced? The technologies of today huh?!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 15, 2006, 09:24:35 am

I know! Paige was linking them together, and all of a sudden I had 2 little blob things on my screen, and they were having an eating competion. WTF?! LOL! ;D
Yeah, I made good friends with his sister yesterday. Yay! lol

I feel like such a kid with it. Hehe.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 15, 2006, 10:19:51 am

that is fantastic! What an awesome valentines gift! way to take the cornieness out of it! i am officially declaring Chris the perfect boyfriend! hehehe! congratulations taf!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 15, 2006, 11:20:48 am

lol, thanks! ;D
Shame I'm not the perfect girlfriend. :-\ ::)
I didn't really get him anything that great. But I have promised him to have a look around and get him something. He's such a hard person to buy for, seriously. It's annoying.

What did you get from your valentine? What did you buy for your guys/girls?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 15, 2006, 12:05:03 pm

Aww, haha, taf, that's awesome! I used to have one way back in the day, too! I didn't even know they were still around! But that's cool.

Hmm, well, Dave just got me a card and paid for our weekend. Lol. He just wrecked his car last week, and his parents are making him pay for it, so he's broke. He felt really bad, but I didn't really mind. I don't really need gifts.

I got him a card and a stuffed lion with a heart-shaped mane that purrs when you press its paw. Haha, it was cute. And I also got him a balloon that said "Happy Valentine's Day" and some random things from the dollar store. I tied them all to his car while he was at work, to surprise him when he went to leave. Ha, I'm suck a dork! But he liked it.

He keeps saying he's still going to buy me something when he gets money, but whatever. It doesn't matter. Just being with him all weekend was enough! :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 15, 2006, 05:30:33 pm

Aww, too cute you guys. :) I got a ring and a necklace.. both I have pictures of but I'm too lazy to upload right now. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 18, 2006, 01:06:55 pm

Good news! As of right now (and barring anything terrible happening), it's looking as though Dave is coming to college with me in the fall! Yay! :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 18, 2006, 06:21:09 pm

Yay! That's great news! Am happy for you. ;D :-*

Don't you just love playfighting?! Hehe. Just spent the last few hours at Chris', where we just poked fun at and fought with each other all the time. Love it! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 18, 2006, 09:50:24 pm

Play fighting is so much fun! I love doing that.. and wrestling is the best! I have such a great time just picking little stupid fights over nothing. :)


Anyway.. I finally have pictures.


This the necklace he got me. It's so pretty! I love it. :-*


and this is the ring. Just a little silver twist band, but it means so much to me. Nevermind, my ugly hand. :P lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 18, 2006, 10:42:54 pm

Aww, such pretty jewelry! I love the ring. It's simple, but very nice! He did a good job! ;)

Ah, playfighting. Haha. Actually, Dave and I love to have tickling fights. Lol. He's incredibly ticklish all over, so I nearly always win. It's fun.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 19, 2006, 02:50:52 am

I love play fights! So much fun! ;D

Brittany, I love the jewelry. So pretty. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 19, 2006, 02:54:53 am

awww thats nice... :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 19, 2006, 10:34:31 am

Awww, the jewellrey is so pretty. Especially the necklace. Beautiful! ;D

Chris needs a car. Seriously. Relying on parents is beginning to piss me off. *Sulks* :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 19, 2006, 12:51:58 pm

Hey everyone! Wow, I've not been here lately. Its not that I've not had reason to gush about Casey, I've just been busy.

Well, we had a really, really lovely evening on Friday. *sighs happily* :)

So how is everyone doing with their significant others? :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 19, 2006, 02:39:47 pm

Glad to hear things are still going well for everyone!

Dave and I are very good. I'm excited, because once I get through these next three days of final exams, I get to go home and see him everyday for a week and a half! Yay! *Bounce.* I can't wait to get out of here!!!!!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 19, 2006, 03:08:45 pm

Aww, I bet you're so looking forward to that! I couldn't imgine being away from the Chris for a long time. I see him practically every day.

Things are good with me and Him. Going very well. I'm happy, and so is he I think. lol
The other night I was at home alone, and he was working. On his break he sent me a text to "Remind you how amazing you are". Was the highlight of my day, and had me smiling constantly for about 3 hours.
Yep. That's not getting deleted any time soon. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 19, 2006, 04:54:28 pm

Aww! You all make me smile alot. :)

Well, Casey and I had an arguement this morning on the phone. It was about the stupidest thing too. ::) He hung up on me for like the first time. It really hurt me, but I was being just as wrong to him. He gets home in a few minutes, so I hope he calls me and we are each other once again. Argh, I despise these stupid little fights that throw the entire day off! :-X

We always turn out perfectly fine and in the same love we've always been in. I don't know why we fight in the first place. :-\

Taf, you saying that about that txt message is so sweet! I love it when Casey tells me that sort of thing. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 20, 2006, 12:14:42 am

Thanks everyone for the nice comments! :D

Aww, Taf, that's so sweet of Chris. Text messages like that definitely brighten the day. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 20, 2006, 01:31:47 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=255#msg981269 date=1140379725]
On his break he sent me a text to "Remind you how amazing you are". Was the highlight of my day, and had me smiling constantly for about 3 hours.
Yep. That's not getting deleted any time soon. ::)
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Aww. I love messages like that. I get them almost every day, they're so sweet, and always make me smile. Only bad thing is, I checked my messages and I had 99, so eventually I'm going to have to delete some. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 20, 2006, 08:27:27 pm

I wish Casey had a cell. I'd text him all the time! ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 21, 2006, 06:45:14 am

K- huge getting up to speed post-

Tampons- I'm fine buying them. They're less embarassing that condoms in my opinion and I can buy those from work being served by people I know so...

Valentines day- Andy got me 'Corpse Bride' and 'Van Helsing' (well, I got me them from him lol) and a soft toy Eeyore (we always argue bout Eeyore and Tigger- Eeyore is definatly the better of the two IMHO).

Play fights- I always loose 'cos I'm very ticklish. Actually, Andy always takes advantage of this and goes too far so I have to yell at him. Lol.

Texts- My phone has 6 locked Andy messages- even the text message he started courting me with (before he actually asked me out) locked into it for eternity. It says-

'Hi long time no see lol' (we'd just left each other five minutes ago after he'd walked me home from the cinema) 'I really enjoyed tonight and I was too nervous to ask this to your face but I do like you alot and was wondering if some time we could more that just friends?'

Bad grammar and all but it made me squeel so loud and dance round the room. So happy I was home alone...

Actual fights- Argh I hate them. I'm so sensetive that I even predict Andy being pigged off at me doing something when he isn't, so I spend the whole day worrying. I'm useless lol.

Aww- I have the most understanding boyfriend EVER (to me anyway.) My MP3 player broke so I took it back to get it changed, and saw iPod nanos. And my mind coverted one. Lol. But I needed £60 and was rather strapped for the cash. So andy said "Fine- I'll give you half." I wouldn't let him though, so he's lent me it and I'm paying it back in cinema tickets and cafe stops. Lol. But THEN I find you need windows 2000/xp to work it and I only have 98. So Andy lets me borrow his (far superior) computer. And it takes two and a half hours to get it installed and my CDs on. And I still need to do more. Needless to say Andy had to entertain himself (whihc is fine when he has an XBox 360 lol). I felt so bad though 'cos we got maybe 5 minutes together (damned Dad turning up early)- but he was fine with! Even laughed at me for feeling guilty. Thank God! I love him, I really do.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 21, 2006, 10:33:34 am

Aww bless him. That's sweet of him to let you use your computer for your iPod. Hehe.

OK, I'm finding myself increasingly pissed of at my friends who are part of couples (not you Ruth, don't worry). There are 2 other girls in my group of friends with boyfriends, and the other day we were talking about what we did for valentines day. Both their guys bought them huge bunches of flowers and something else. I got my tamagotchi, some chocolate and a teddy.
When I told them, one of them sn1ggered at the tamagotchi. Which really annoyed me. So when discussing her gifts I said "Aww, roses. Sweet. Predictable, but sweet." Just to annoy her. It worked. Haha.

But today, she just randomly said to Chris "Where's Kathryn's flowers?!" to which he didn't know how to respond. So I said "I didn't want flowers." she told me to "shh" and then carried on digging at him.

To top this off, a while ago Rob said to me "Why don't you always sit with Chris in the social area? Why don't you go with him when he goes over to see his other friends?" WTF?! I don't need to be attatched to him whenever we're in the same room. Seriously. I am capable of being myself, rather than half of a couple all the time.
I told him this, which was rather amusing. Because he was sprawled over Lucy at the time, and as soon as I said "I don't need him attatched to me 24/7, I am my own person. I can cope not being in contact with him every so often". They very quickly moved away from each other. Haha! Classic.

It's doing my head in. It feels as though these 2 couples are constantly watching how I behave with him, and what we do together and then criticising it if we behave in a way that they wouldn't. I feel as though me and Chris need to change in some way in order to fit their views of what a couple should be like.

It's just really pissing me off.
Sorry, I just needed to get that off my chest. It's been building up for quite a while, and Sarah asking Chris about flowers today just topped things off.
Agh! Leave us be. We're happy how we are.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 21, 2006, 05:05:00 pm

People who criticize and nitpick like that usually do it because of their own insecurities. Rather than figure out their own problems, they analyze others and find theirs to make them feel better about their own. They seem to not have anything interesting in their lives to eat up time so they start focusing on you. Personally, I think people who hang all over each other all the time and spend every moment together don't have much of anything else to do so they try and make things for them to do, i.e. drama. That's how I see it anyway.

I think you're doing a good job of handling it. I would be severely annoyed if people said that to me and I would be a total smarta**. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 21, 2006, 10:28:16 pm

how annoying Taf! What's it got to do with ur friends! i would be so pissed off with my friend if she did that flowers thing! It's not as if you were complaining... and how else is Chris going to interpret it!
But alas i don't know how to deal with it other than what you've said.

Just because i love Billy Connoly i'm going to pretend this is relevant... it's from a talk show in australia and he's talking about his relationship with his wife... she's gone away for a year sailing

[quote]BILLY CONNOLLY: A little envy. Not, not what you would call envy. I'm in admiration because I've pretty much lived my dream you know? And Pamela always had this yachty kind of sailing dream thing going and I think it's brilliant that she's doing it and fulfilling it. I love to see people fulfilling these things that are just fantasies and dreams. I think that's a wonderful, wonderful thing to do for yourself.



ANDREW DENTON: Has it changed her?




BILLY CONNOLLY: It's changed her radically. Absolutely. It's changed me as well and it's changed our, our relationship.



ANDREW DENTON: How, how so?




BILLY CONNOLLY: I said to her this morning, I said, 'That's weird', I said, 'You shine when I meet you. I'm not quite sure what you're doing myself.' You know, it's like meeting her for the first time sometimes.
[/quote] ...

[quote]ANDREW DENTON: Is that a good thing or is...



BILLY CONNOLLY: Very, very good thing. Very, very good indeed. I think healthy relationships are like language. If they're not in a constant state of change they die. You know there's, if you just let it become beige it's over. You know if you can't speak to one another, if you're not friends it's finished. You can, you can have as much sex as you like and as many things as you please and as nice a house and, and happy nice children but it's over, it's pretty much over if you don't, if you're not in a constant stage of change. And if you don't appreciate the change in one another and I, I find the whole thing very exciting. It makes her very attractive to me and she kind of misses me about the place when she's away and then when I come back it's fun, fun, fun and the...

Laughter




BILLY CONNOLLY: ... Yeah, you know what I mean?



ANDREW DENTON: Yeah.



BILLY CONNOLLY: I don't mean sex.



ANDREW DENTON: No, no ...you're different people...



BILLY CONNOLLY: ...Sex...it's very nice but...



ANDREW DENTON: ... Talk about yeah...



BILLY CONNOLLY: But as I say when we meet again, it's like meeting an old pal, you know, and it's very, very nice. And I think this constant change is the thing you know? If you're joining the golf club and the bowling club and, and your wife knits and waits for you to come home, well you're kind of doomed you know?
[/quote]

now watch me make that relevant! Change is what makes relationships good... according to Billy.. and allowing the other to grow and follow dreams and learn... so if you're constantly smorthering eachother there's no excitement and nothing to discuss... so don't change how you and Chris are together Taf cos it sounds like the recipe for success! You can just sadistically enjoy the downfall of the other couples :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 22, 2006, 03:21:49 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=255#msg982110 date=1140522314]
Aww- I have the most understanding boyfriend EVER (to me anyway.) My MP3 player broke so I took it back to get it changed, and saw iPod nanos. And my mind coverted one. Lol. But I needed £60 and was rather strapped for the cash. So andy said "Fine- I'll give you half." I wouldn't let him though, so he's lent me it and I'm paying it back in cinema tickets and cafe stops. Lol. But THEN I find you need windows 2000/xp to work it and I only have 98. So Andy lets me borrow his (far superior) computer. And it takes two and a half hours to get it installed and my CDs on. And I still need to do more. Needless to say Andy had to entertain himself (whihc is fine when he has an XBox 360 lol). I felt so bad though 'cos we got maybe 5 minutes together (damned Dad turning up early)- but he was fine with! Even laughed at me for feeling guilty. Thank God! I love him, I really do.
[/quote]

Aww, that's nice. Mog gave me all my music to put on my iPod, too. And my best friend, Dan. Such kind boys. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 22, 2006, 04:50:05 am

Kat that just sounds plain bitchy. Just cos they're so far up cupids ass that they're pooing roses doesn't mean you have to be. I think it's great that you two are so comfortable with each other so quickly. (It took Andy bloody months to get over his clingyness lol).

Put it this way- ask them how long roses are going to last. A couple of weeks top. Then point out that Brain will be good for years in one incarnation or other. Plus- at least Chris put thought into what you'd want not just what the stereotypes say.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 22, 2006, 04:56:23 am

that's a good point Ruth! Chris didn't succumb to the temptations of palming off the clique valentines gift!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 22, 2006, 05:08:30 am

Lol, aww thanks guys, you really cheered me up there. *Hugs to all*
I've come to the decision that if they say anything else about how we act, I'm not going to do the typical me-thing and hold back in order to keep the peace. I'm going to speak my mind and hopefully put a stop to them telling me and Chris that we're not acting properly. lol
I think I need to reassure Chris that he is perfect the way he is. And please God don't get any clingier. Or make the sweet messages a regular thing, because more than once a month would DO MY HEAD IN! LOL


Quote:
Just cos they're so far up cupids ass that they're pooing roses doesn't mean you have to be.


This made me laugh! I may have to find an appropriate moment to use it. Teehee ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 22, 2006, 07:12:42 am

[quote]Or make the sweet messages a regular thing, because more than once a month would DO MY HEAD IN! LOL
[/quote]

Really? I love getting messages like that. Even if I start to notice a pattern to them (usually the fact that they're sent in the middle of insomnia! Lol)


Quote:
This made me laugh! I may have to find an appropriate moment to use it. Teehee


I think I may make it into an icon...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 22, 2006, 07:30:03 am

Take no Shit Taf!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 22, 2006, 07:40:57 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=270#msg982618 date=1140610362]
[quote]Or make the sweet messages a regular thing, because more than once a month would DO MY HEAD IN! LOL
[/quote]

Really? I love getting messages like that. Even if I start to notice a pattern to them (usually the fact that they're sent in the middle of insomnia! Lol)
[/quote]

I love the messages like that. I think they're great. But he doesn't send them that often. (I've had 2 since we started going out in December)
I like that they're not a constant thing.
Like with Andrew (my ex) he would say "you're so great" "you're amazing" or whatever ALL the time. I'd get constant texts just telling me how absolutely fantastic I am, and it pisses me off. I found myself getting annoyed at my phone because everytime I read a message it would be "You're so great", and after a while it's like... yes, I know. Quit telling me.
Constant messages like that count towards clingyness with me. Which is why Andrew didn't last. lol

Chris is perfect. He doesn't pester me to see him. He doesn't go on about why he's with me, or why he likes me so much. He does tell me, but enough to make me feel loved and wanted, instead of feeling smothered.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 23, 2006, 04:12:50 am

I love messages like that, too. I get them a lot, and they always make me happy. It's not like they're the same ones, either, they vary. I don't want to post them, because they're private, but they're so sweet, and just knowing that Mog feels that way makes me so happy.

I hate clingyness, too. It annoys me. Morgan is perfect. Everything he does, everything he says. I'm so in love. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: MrFishPillow on February 23, 2006, 04:25:41 am

i love sarah so much. everytime i get a sms from her it makes me smile so much, too bad she never has credit haha. i still can't believe we have never had a fight after one year and two months. it's crazy. best relationship i have ever been in. i love how we have so much in common from music to weird little things like our "cage"

i love my sparah.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 23, 2006, 05:41:45 am

[quote author=MrFishPillow link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=270#msg983054 date=1140686741]
to weird little things like our "cage"
[/quote]

Oooohhhh, I love our "cage".

I love my Mlorglin. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 23, 2006, 06:10:28 am

Are those really your pet names for one another? Me and Andy have 'Aria' and 'Dragon' respectivly (Aria was from a book seris we both read- means guiding star and Andy uses it 'cos he says I guided him outta a depressive stage he was going through before I came along, and Dragon is simply cos he's obsessed with them.)

Found out yesterday that Andy- who refused to get an LJ because he 'didn't feel the need to tell the world what he had for breakfast'- has started keeping a thoughts journal about things that connect to me. All the stuff he can't say in words apparently but he wants me to know. I'm really curious to see it now 'cos Andy is very open with his feelings, so I can't even imagine the stuff in there.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 23, 2006, 06:30:47 am

That's interesting about the "thoughts journal". I'm curious, too, now. ;)

Mlorglin and I have heaps of nicknames for each other. He's either Mog, Moglet, Gorgeous, Mogletism, Moggle, Morgana, Morgana von wh*re, Morgan the Organ, Zor, Mr Fish Pillow, Og or Cutelet (I'm Cutelette, because it's more girly). We have so many weird things with each other.

Like, when we're snuggled in bed, we sometimes go "into the cuterus" which means to go under the blanket. Instead of saying "you're sexy" we say "you sex" or "you're the sex". And sometimes when we're snuggling, I kiss (and much fish faces - like opening my mouth like a fish) him everywhere so it tickles and say "are you Sushi? You Shushi?" and pretend to eat him. I have no idea how that even started. And when one of us is "sad" we go "Meow!" or "Brrriiiiinngg". He thinks its so cute when I twitch my nose. :-\

Oh my god, I just read that and we are so queer! :o ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 23, 2006, 07:07:14 am

Lol- don't worry hun. Me and mine have many daft in jokes like that. However, I'm trying to preserve my dignaty for once so I'll not repete them over the internet! Lol


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 23, 2006, 05:37:25 pm

Haha, aww. We have inappropriate nicknames that I can't repeat here. ::) but we have normal ones.. I call him Darth Pookie and he calls me Peaches. They're all retarded inside jokes. :P

Hmm, thoughts journal.. Sounds interesting. ;) I'm wondering what he might be writing in that.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 24, 2006, 05:41:37 am

Darth Pookie? Aww. How'd that come about?

Should get to read his journal tonight if theres time to go back to his after the cinema. I'll not post what it says cos I wanna respect his privacy, but you'll get the general gist! Lol.

He told me last night that if I let him he'd marry me tommorow. *Big foolish grin*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 24, 2006, 08:49:51 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg983512 date=1140777697]
He told me last night that if I let him he'd marry me tommorow. *Big foolish grin*
[/quote]

Aww! How sweet! ;D

Darth Pookie came about around the time Star Wars Episode III was out. We were calling each other random pet names and I called him, "Pookie". He said he wanted something more "menacing" so I added Darth and it's just been something we've joked about ever since then. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 24, 2006, 10:35:19 am

hey lovelies! ;D How is everyone? I've been home sick for the past two days, so I haven't been able to see Casey. *pouts* :-[

I only got to talk to him for a minute this morning before he was off to a clinic band. I'm going to miss him so much this weekend! :-X

Guys, I'm having problems. An old flame of mine, Ethan, is starting back up on me. I was obsessed with this guy way back in the 8th grade. I don't know why, but I couldn't get over him. The only one who was capable of getting me over him was Casey , of course. Well, this Ethan guy was my first kiss, and you know how that is. He sits in front of me in my 4th period. He talked to me on the internet for like an hour and then called me at 10:30 last night. What am I to do? I love Casey so much, but this is getting hard. I could never leave him, not ever for my first kiss, but I could use some advice on how to deal with it. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 24, 2006, 10:56:06 am

If I were you, I would try to avoid even starting a friendship with the guy. Even if it sounds tough, you don't want to put yourself in a situation you can't get yourself out of. If you really love Casey, don't get into a friendship that could get you in trouble. It's not worth it. Even if you come off as rude or as a b*tch, too bad. Casey sounds like a wonderful guy and I'd hate to hear something bad happening between you two because of Ethan. :-*

That sort of thing has happened to me before. I avoid the other guy as much as possible. I don't want to mess up a good thing. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 24, 2006, 10:58:23 am

Thanks babe! I was thinking the same thing, but you know, you feel better after hearing it from someone else. I love Casey soo much and I won't let anything happen. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 24, 2006, 11:17:21 am

I know what you mean. :) I'm glad you came to a decision. You two are so cute, I'd hate for anything to go wrong. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 27, 2006, 04:50:59 am

Ick- that situation bites Epica. It's always sad to have to let go of a friend. But hey- speaking from experience- boyfriends get pretty pissy when they think someones treading on their turf (ie- you.) Lol.

Read his journal. Very sweet and made me grin all weekend. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 27, 2006, 06:51:06 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg984813 date=1141033859]
But hey- speaking from experience- boyfriends get pretty pissy when they think someones treading on their turf (ie- you.) Lol.
[/quote]

Agreed. My ex-boyfriend got so possessive. It's really frustrating. Megs, personally, I wouldn't give up on a good friendship because my boyfriend was jealous. But that's just me, and everyone's different.

Morgan is perfect. He's so understanding in that he knows nothing would come of my friendship, and that I just get along much better with guys than girls. He doesn't like it when guys hit on me, but that's totally understandable. ;)

Maybe it's because we have lots of mutual friends. I don't know. Oh my god, I love him. He's just so sweet. Walks me home after school, even though there's no bus back to his place and he has to walk home. Massages me when my back hurts and I feel sick. Calms me down when I'm annoyed that I can't cancel my driving lesson on the same day, even though I felt really, really sick and had the worst headache. Calls me before he goes to bed to say goodnight (aww, so cute).

Did you know he talks to my little brother on MSN? How cute is that? He's so nice to him, really builds up his self esteem. Lachlan said Mog's the "coolest boyfriend I've ever had", kekeke. Aww, my brother is so cute! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 27, 2006, 09:37:18 am


Quote:
Calls me before he goes to bed to say goodnight (aww, so cute).


Lol- I can't actually sleep properly if I don't talk to Andy either in person or on the phone before bed. It's really strange. Not can't sleep cos I'm pining kinda thing, but more a sense of something I've forgotten like turning off the oven or something. ::) I'm weird...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on February 27, 2006, 04:01:49 pm

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg984839 date=1141041066]
Megs, personally, I wouldn't give up on a good friendship because my boyfriend was jealous. But that's just me, and everyone's different.
[/quote]
I wouldn't either. Being able to trust the other kind of comes with the whole 'love' package. I'm still trying to learn how to trust my boyfriend... It's hard dating someone 4 years older than you, I always get worries that he's going to find someone his own age. Even though I know he wouldn't, I still get a little paranoid at times.

Meg, I kind of understand where you're coming from. I have this friend, Danny, who I liked for about 9 months before I hooked up with my current BF and sometimes I still get those old feelings for him... but honestly I just suck it up because I know how much I'd screw my life over if I acted on any of those feelings.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 27, 2006, 08:48:53 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg984874 date=1141051038]
I can't actually sleep properly if I don't talk to Andy either in person or on the phone before bed. It's really strange. Not can't sleep cos I'm pining kinda thing, but more a sense of something I've forgotten like turning off the oven or something. ::) I'm weird...
[/quote]

Yeah, it feels wrong. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 28, 2006, 06:07:57 am

[quote author=Snail link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg984931 date=1141074109]
[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg984839 date=1141041066]
Megs, personally, I wouldn't give up on a good friendship because my boyfriend was jealous. But that's just me, and everyone's different.
[/quote]
I wouldn't either. Being able to trust the other kind of comes with the whole 'love' package. I'm still trying to learn how to trust my boyfriend... It's hard dating someone 4 years older than you, I always get worries that he's going to find someone his own age. Even though I know he wouldn't, I still get a little paranoid at times.

Meg, I kind of understand where you're coming from. I have this friend, Danny, who I liked for about 9 months before I hooked up with my current BF and sometimes I still get those old feelings for him... but honestly I just suck it up because I know how much I'd screw my life over if I acted on any of those feelings. [/quote]

I've lessened a friendship for Andy, because the guy was coming on pretty strong and it was really getting to Andy. I only text the guy every few months now, and only in reply to his starters (mind you- he does live in Austria). At the end of the day, I'd rather have someone I love that someone I could flirt with.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 28, 2006, 06:26:17 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg985196 date=1141124877]
At the end of the day, I'd rather have someone I love that someone I could flirt with. [/quote]

Yeah. But I wouldn't flirt with someone other than Morgan. No matter how strongly they came onto me (and believe me it's happened more than.. well, a f-ckload of times), I'd like Morgan to understand that he can trust me. I'm not going to let anything happen. I don't want to lose a friendship, just because they may have developed feelings for me. They're still my friend, and I'm still theirs. Fortunately, I'm fairly certain that Morgan trusts me, and so it's all good. :)

Hehehe. I love how guys get so protective of me, though. Like when those stupid guys in cars or trucks beep / whistle at me, they always yell "f*ck you" or flip them off. It's cute. Then they get all cute and annoyed at the kind of pathetic guys that would actually whistle at someone. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 28, 2006, 07:27:18 am

i hate when guys yell out of cars or beep! and drunk guys!! why is it when guys get drunk it's like a switch that they should start harrassing girls! i was walking down the street the other night from a suburb to the city and saw so many drunk blokes and they all say shit ... it's not so offensive verbally... but i just hate the old men who look dodgy saying stuff when i'm walking in the dark! arghhh *wants boyfriend to tell drunks and dicks to f*ck off!*
EDIT: i am aware not all boys are like that and i'm sure none of your significant others are the kind to do that... but you know what i mean! there are enough of them to seem like all men!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on February 28, 2006, 09:58:58 am

Anna- I get what you mean. Was playing pool at a family thing the other night against my (female) cousin, with Andy sat chilling and watching. There was this (minging) guy hovering trying to 'give us advice' (which we didn't listen to or need most of the time) and positioning himself directly in front of me (low cut top) or behind her (ass shot) when we bent over. I felt like smacking him one! Or yelling "You're not attractive, I have a boyfriend, and she wouldn't touch you with a barge pole still stuck to the barge! Go away!"

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 28, 2006, 12:20:24 pm

Lol, I find guys like that rather amusing actually. Especially when they're pissed and you're sober. It's so fun to have a conversation with them and they think they're getting somewhere. (Tip - only do this when in a group of more than 2)
It's hilarious more than annoying. ;D Haha.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 28, 2006, 01:59:47 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg985196 date=1141124877]
[quote author=Snail link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg984931 date=1141074109]
[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=285#msg984839 date=1141041066]
Megs, personally, I wouldn't give up on a good friendship because my boyfriend was jealous. But that's just me, and everyone's different.
[/quote]
I wouldn't either. Being able to trust the other kind of comes with the whole 'love' package. I'm still trying to learn how to trust my boyfriend... It's hard dating someone 4 years older than you, I always get worries that he's going to find someone his own age. Even though I know he wouldn't, I still get a little paranoid at times.

Meg, I kind of understand where you're coming from. I have this friend, Danny, who I liked for about 9 months before I hooked up with my current BF and sometimes I still get those old feelings for him... but honestly I just suck it up because I know how much I'd screw my life over if I acted on any of those feelings. [/quote]

I've lessened a friendship for Andy, because the guy was coming on pretty strong and it was really getting to Andy. I only text the guy every few months now, and only in reply to his starters (mind you- he does live in Austria). At the end of the day, I'd rather have someone I love that someone I could flirt with.
[/quote]

That's kind of how I feel. In my experience, when someone is persitent and I turn them down time and time again, if they continue to try, they aren't giving up. Continuing that relationship just feeds that hope that it could happen. I'd rather not have them try and push something on me all the time and have it stress out my boyfriend. (Even though he trusts me completely, it's still annoying) Plus, if the guy was my friend, he should be more supportive of my relationship rather than trying to invade and start one of his own.

I had a friend for a few years literally follow me wherever I went, constantly complimented me, showed up places he knew he could find me, always in my face. It drove me crazy. Until I stopped talking to him and ignored him did he halt his advances. We're friends again now and he hasn't tried anything since then.

Anyway, in other news, Adam comes home in two weeks! I'm so excited to see him again! I've missed him so much. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 28, 2006, 06:01:51 pm

Just went through a rather confusing and upsetting time with Chris.
Nothing is wrong between us, we are cool. But I unfairly dragged him into some emotional problems I'd been having recently, and I think he thought I was leaving him (for a moment I thought I was going to)

Earlier this evening I told him I was having trouble understanding how I was feeling about him, so I went round to his to have a talk about it.
I have a feeling he was pretty freaked out about it, which I feel awful about.

Talked at him, cried my eyes out, figured out what my problem is (nothing to do with him at all) and basically everything is cool now.
Not 100% happy with what upset me in the first place. But me and Chris are good now. Which improves things slightly. lol

Now just need to sort the other stuff out. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on February 28, 2006, 08:02:40 pm

Oh no! That time is always scary.. Happened with me too, but I got over it. I was just scared I guess. I'm glad you and Chris sorted it out though. I hope you get whatever it was that was bothering you sorted out. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on February 28, 2006, 08:20:01 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=300#msg985273 date=1141147224]
Lol, I find guys like that rather amusing actually. Especially when they're pissed and you're sober. It's so fun to have a conversation with them and they think they're getting somewhere.[/quote]

Hahaha, I know! I find them amusing, too. I just hate the pathetic kinds of guys that aren't drunk and still do the beeping / whistling / sleazy smile. Some guys in my Maths class were going that to me today. ::) :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on March 01, 2006, 07:40:45 am

it depends for me. If the drunk guys are saying really vulgar stuff or like ruth mentioned perving then it really makes me feel uncomfortable. But if they're just saying harmless stuff that's lame then i find it amusing. THis probably contradicts what i said in my previous post but meh.
And it makes me nervous when i'm walking on the street at night and get approached by guys. cos generally i'm only with girls.

i found out today my perpetual crush has broken up with his girl friend *sigh* perhaps i will have some luck.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on March 01, 2006, 10:01:19 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=300#msg985367 date=1141167711]
Just went through a rather confusing and upsetting time with Chris.
Nothing is wrong between us, we are cool. But I unfairly dragged him into some emotional problems I'd been having recently, and I think he thought I was leaving him (for a moment I thought I was going to)

Earlier this evening I told him I was having trouble understanding how I was feeling about him, so I went round to his to have a talk about it.
I have a feeling he was pretty freaked out about it, which I feel awful about.

Talked at him, cried my eyes out, figured out what my problem is (nothing to do with him at all) and basically everything is cool now.
Not 100% happy with what upset me in the first place. But me and Chris are good now. Which improves things slightly. lol

Now just need to sort the other stuff out. lol
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Aw no, that really sucks. I'm glad you feel better about it... talking always helps. I went through that confusing stage too (probably not over the same stuff) but I was basically thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend because I didn't feel like I deserved him. Stupid reson I know, but like I said before my boyfriend is 4 years older than me and writing PHD papers in college, so I always felt really juvenile around him. But I talked to him about it, and he reassured me of his feelings so it all worked out in the end.

Lol, we're going on our second date tonight! And it's going to be exactly the same as the first, movie, and fooling around in the backseat of his car. Sweet 8) :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 01, 2006, 10:13:43 am

Basically I was just letting hormones get the better of me.
I've been crying a lot recently over stupid things (college, my brother, various other family stuff thats going on at the moment) and I felt as though everything was getting too much for me, and I had to let something go. My first logical thought was Chris. I mean, there's no way I would ignore my family issues, or stop my work at college.

But when talking to him I just needed to arrange things in my head and assess how I really felt about all these things. Turns out I'm going to try and see my brother as soon as possible. Tell my parents I'm cool about the house stuff, whatever they want to do is fine with me since I'm hopefully moving out in September and so it doesn't matter where home is, so long as I have one to come back to when I need it.
And I'm going to work as hard as I can with college no matter what. Even if this does mean I have to cut back on time with Chris, so long as I get my work done, and be with him as much as I can then things should stay cool.

I need to reassure him that I don't normally get like this. It's just every couple of years I just generally freak out about life and scare someone. Usually it's my parents, rarely it's my friends.... this year, turns out it was the boyfriends turn. lol

I feel awful for worrying him like I did. But he says he's just happy that we're cool and that I'm getting my head sorted out and will hopefully be crazyladykathryn again! Hehe. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 02, 2006, 05:56:16 am

Kat- the very first freak out (I mean real freak out like that one) is always the scariest. I totally remember having the 'shit-I'm-being-a-selfish-wh*re-he's-gonna-hate-me-etc' crying fest at 2am after a rather pissed off conversation (followed soon by a crying 'we-can-do-this' conversation). But hell- you work through them. And it's better to have it all out in the open and know where you both stand than try to hide it. Cos in the end, they tend to work it out themselves. *Lotsa hugs* Sort out your life. You'll find a way to juggle everything. It's just that boyfs are new and you have to find a new equlibrium. Nothing necessarily has to be dropped, but somethings can be cut back.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 02, 2006, 05:56:28 am

Aww, me and Morgan had such a nice day today. We lay around in the nice heat, sunbaking and being lazy, and taking photos and talking. Then we walked to Hungry Jacks for a random unhealthy dinner, and just sat there talking until about nine o'clock. Love. Not only is he just so damn gorgeous and sexy, he's so funny and interesting and love love love. Keke, he even gave me some of his food even though he bought me two blocks of chocolate for dinner, because it was all I wanted. ;D

He's just so cute, awwwwwwwwwwwwwww. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on March 02, 2006, 06:03:53 am

Sarah! :o that's a big step back in your chocolate ban hehehe !But so fantastic! good on ya! :P SOunds like a really nice day!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 02, 2006, 06:07:36 am

I know, I'm horrible. But I didn't eat it all.. yet! Actually, I've been being so good with chocolate recently that it was actually hard to eat lots of it. So there's hope for me yet. I used to be able to eat a family block in about ten minutes, but now I could probably only eat half. :)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on March 02, 2006, 06:38:04 am

well there ya go! progress! hehehe.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 02, 2006, 08:51:54 am

That sounds such a nice day Sarah! Can't remember the last time I spent a full day with Andy, not just the evening. Damn my college and his work schedules! *Humph*

Gonna have to drag him out tommorow. Any good films on atm? Seen 'FD3' but can't remember what else's playing.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 02, 2006, 12:10:42 pm

Chicken Little!
Haha! Me and Chris randomly went to see it when we missed the last showing of FD3. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on March 02, 2006, 04:33:19 pm

Heh me and my boyfriend saw FD3 last night. What a crappy movie (in my opinion), but the death scenes we're pretty innovative lol. I love seeing bad movies with my boyfriend because we're so good at making fun of them :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on March 02, 2006, 09:28:32 pm

oh...they're ruining a modern classic scary movie...I didnt even see the 1st sequel...the original is the best...


but thats not what i came here for..what do u ladies think of the internet and relationships?

I've been smitten by a certain someone that I met online tonight...they live on the west coast of the country...but I'm absolutely smitten, and so are they; we have so much in common...do u guys believe that's possible, or that its hogwash? we wish to meet one day... :)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 02, 2006, 10:13:34 pm

I would advise you to be very careful. Not everyone is who they say they are on the Internet. Even if he sends a picture of himself to you, for all you know, he got it off the Internet somewhere. Some people are truthful but there are too many Internet predators out there to just drop your guard. It's possible it could eventually turn out good. My mom has been good friends with someone she met online over 7 years ago but she was very cautious and they talked for a couple of years before they even decided to exchange mailing addresses, numbers or meet in person.

Where did you meet him online?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 02, 2006, 11:00:06 pm

Yeah, be careful, Danarii. Online stuff is a real touchy thing, especially if it's girl-guy. Before you get serious about possibly meeting/exchanging addresses, etc., make certain you're sure this guy is who he says he is. There are so many perverts out there who are really good actors through an IM window these days.

Not to scare you away, of course. I've got plenty of legitimate online friends. One or two of which I have actually met up with (they were girls, though...). So it can be cool sometimes.

As far as online relationships, I've never really understood how they can work. I mean, right now, my relationship with Dave is at least partly online, since we don't see each other very often. But we started out in a regular relationship. I can't personally understand how a full-fledged online dating situation can work. But that's just my opinion; I know plenty of people who are totally cool with it.

Kat, glad you and Chris talked things out. Dave and I have had a couple of those conversations, when one of us has just been ready to break down. It's not pleasant, but it is best to talk it out. Because once you do, things never seem so bad anymore. In fact (in my case, at least), you often become closer afterwards.

Whee, my week at home has been lovely. I've worked every afternoon until 6, but then I've seen Dave every night. I love being with him. Love love love. ;D Ah, I'm so happy. I can't even explain the happy. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on March 02, 2006, 11:04:58 pm

thanks ladies...I met him in a yahoo chat room....we were in the chat, then we went to private IM (its so hard to talk in a chatroom...I hate chatrooms, but this was just random...ahh fate.. :))...I know to be careful *looks around carefully*

we will continue to talk and see where it goes from there...

EDIT: by the way, his name is chris, lol... ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 03, 2006, 05:02:56 am

I have a bit to say on this, but don't have time right now.
(My brother got involved in an internet relationship a few years ago....)
So I'll come back later this afternoon and add my input.
If I don't. I've forgot. Feel free to remind me. lol

*Dizzy*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 03, 2006, 05:16:59 am

There are people who's internet relationships work out, but they've usually met through organised dating services. I'm gonna echo the be careful thing, but you got a brain in your head, so I'm sure you can work out if things are sus with him. If you do meet up though, take a friend, and do it in broad day light!

I got yelled at by my mummy last night :o- spent an hour and 45 minutes talking on the phone to Andy, so it was midnight when she yelled at me to go to bed (I get up at 6.30 and I'm notoriously bad at it if I get less than 8 hours sleep!). Oops. Oh well. It was a nice conversation. Random crap which I've all but forgot, a historical debate (which was entertaining) and then I mentioned that my ex had texted me and I was happy cos I didn't feel the usual resentment towards him or anything (I was impressed with me lol) and that escalated into the sweet stuff, and then back into the random crap. Lol. Fun convo! Love 'em.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on March 03, 2006, 05:35:27 am

like everyone else's said denarri... i think if it feels right keep exploring it online but don't exchange personal details until u're absolutely sure you feel safe about it...


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 03, 2006, 08:14:56 am

Here we go... my input.

My brother met a Swedish girl online, through an online game thing, they started talking through the game at first and became really good friends, so they exchanged MSN addresses. They then began to talk through this more often, and he started to really like her. They'd exchanged photographs of each other, and then one day they both decided to get a webcam. Everytime he talked to her they would have the webcam on. So he could see that she was obviously the real thing (20 year old female) and the same applied with her seeing he was genuine too.

Then when my brother finished his A levels (end of college, determines which University you go to from your top choices) she told him she was moving to Australia to study at the University in Brisbane.
He had not been thinking about taking a year out of his studies at all, but he decided in a matter of days that he really wanted to do the gap year thing and be with her in Brisbane for a year. Defering his University entry by a year.
HUGE decision. The parents were ok with it, because at some point or other, we'd all talked to her online, and she was a very nice girl.
He ended up working for a few months, raising the funds to do the gap year. He managed it, and that winter he went to Australia. For 8 months.
He had an amazing time, and they fell in love.

All very good until it was time for him to come home. This is the hard bit. They had no choice but to break up. He couldn't afford to study in Australia (VERY expensive) and he had already accepted a place at a University in Manchester.

And basically. Online relationship that are totally on the internet just do not work for a long period of time. It's good for a while, but after a while you find yourself seeking a new partner in the real world. Relationships with no frequent physical contact make it difficult.

So unless you know that you are going to be able to meet this guy and be around him as much as possible (and so long as you know he is who he says he is) then I would be reluctant to let things get serious, or become attatched to him.

Basically, what I'm saying is that Internet relationships are the hardest kind to keep going. So the person has to be very special to you in order for things to run as smoothly as possible. Especially when the person lives quite a way away.

My brother completely changed his life in order to be with this girl... for what? 8 months?
OK, it was worth it in the fact that he had the amazing experience of taking a year out in Australia (beautiful country, really, all my family want to live there, lol) and gaining his independance and doing something he enjoyed. Meeting people of varying cultures (Swedish, American, Norwegian, Australian...)
He had a fantastic time. But the relationship couldn't last. That was the only down side to his trip.

And there's my input. lol :)
Be careful Denarii. Don't do anything that could put yourself in any kind of danger. I'd hate for you to be hurt.
And, as has been said before, if you're going to meet him. Take a friend. be in public. In daylight. be VERY careful.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 04, 2006, 02:16:18 pm

I just wanted to gush a little and say it's 11 more days until Adam gets back and I am going to have the best reunion ever. ;D 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: daadsta on March 04, 2006, 11:40:14 pm

I'm not really in a relationship, but I'm going to spring formal next weekend with a guy I really like. We both know that we like each other...we just haven't done anything about it. ::) I talked to my older brother about it yesterday and I told him that Patrick is a potential boyfriend. Then my brother told me that Patrick needs to take a written and driving test before the dance. :P My brothers are so protective of me. tehe.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: MrFishPillow on March 05, 2006, 02:41:23 am

i feel bad because last night me and sarah were at this party and i kind of went off with some random people and left her. sorry sarah, i didnt have a chance to tell you this today.

i love sarah.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 05, 2006, 05:55:05 am

[quote author=daadsta link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=315#msg987157 date=1141533614]
I'm not really in a relationship, but I'm going to spring formal next weekend with a guy I really like. We both know that we like each other...we just haven't done anything about it. ::) I talked to my older brother about it yesterday and I told him that Patrick is a potential boyfriend. Then my brother told me that Patrick needs to take a written and driving test before the dance. :P My brothers are so protective of me. tehe.
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Aww. Sounds as though this dance is the perfect opportunity to get things going with you and Patrick. Hehe. Go for it hon! Let us know how things go. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 05, 2006, 09:31:13 am

Right now, I don't have too much to gush about. Casey and I are taking a break to try to find the love we once knew. It hurts so bad. We still love each other deeply, of course, its just necessary that we do this. Pray for us, please.

I do have one occurance that was incredibly sweet.

It was a few weeks ago. We were at his house. We were having a very romantic and sweet evening. Well, I walked into his kitchen and he turned on this song called "I Will Be Here" and then "I Owe You." They're very sweet songs. While they were playing, he stood up , wrapped his arms around me, and he danced with me, slowly. As he did this, he sang to me. I really miss that... :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 05, 2006, 11:41:52 am

Oh no, Meg! I really hope you find it again. I know that must be really hard. Stay strong! *hugs* :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 05, 2006, 02:46:53 pm

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=315#msg987401 date=1141576912]
Oh no, Meg! I really hope you find it again. I know that must be really hard. Stay strong! *hugs* :-*
[/quote]

Thanks hun! I needed that. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 05, 2006, 02:51:05 pm

Aw I'm sorry Meg, that must be really hard for both of you. I wish you both the very best, and I'm sure that you will come out a stronger couple at the end of it. Good luck. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 05, 2006, 04:02:58 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=330#msg987475 date=1141588265]
Aw I'm sorry Meg, that must be really hard for both of you. I wish you both the very best, and I'm sure that you will come out a stronger couple at the end of it. Good luck. :-*

[/quote]

Thanks so much Taf! I definitely need the support you all are giving me now. I hope we turn out for the better. I have faith we will. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 05, 2006, 05:04:04 pm

Oh, Meg. I really hope that you and Casey work this out. In a way, I'm glad you two are giving each other space, because it would cause a lot of damage to stay together in this time. It must be so hard, but you're doing the right thing. :-*

[quote author=MrFishPillow link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=315#msg987197 date=1141544483]
i feel bad because last night me and sarah were at this party and i kind of went off with some random people and left her. sorry sarah, i didnt have a chance to tell you this today.

i love sarah.
[/quote]

No, it's okay. I had so much fun anyway. It was cool talking to Geordie and Mystic River, and Ninja. It was so nice snuggling you that night! Ahaha, Geordie and Ninja sleeping together! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 05, 2006, 06:43:20 pm



Quote:
Oh, Meg. I really hope that you and Casey work this out. In a way, I'm glad you two are giving each other space, because it would cause a lot of damage to stay together in this time. It must be so hard, but you're doing the right thing. :-*


Thank you so much! Today, when Casey got off work, he called me immediately. I was curious as to what he would say. I was thinking about him all day. I missed him soo much. He called, me and he told me that the moments he has been without me were torturous to him. He said he cried missing me last night. I believe him, of course. He has never lied about such things. He is entirely sincere, which I am soo greatful for. Things are going to be different and better for now on. I can feel it. I am so happy right now. I'm glad that my angel asked for my hand back. He said that he was afriad of losing me forever. Right before we got off the phone before dinner, he said, "Megan, thank you so much. I love you." :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 05, 2006, 11:22:36 pm

Aww, yay! I'm glad you two are okay now, Meg. It's great that you realized you needed some time apart.. a lot of couples would never admit that, and would just let things end badly. So good for you two! I'm so happy things worked out.

I'm back at school now. I have the room to myself for the next week (my roommate is still on vacation), and I have a feeling it's going to be lonely. Bleh. I miss my Dave already. :-\ But I guess I should cheer up - we had an amazing break, afterall!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 06, 2006, 06:15:35 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=330#msg987619 date=1141618956]
Aww, yay! I'm glad you two are okay now, Meg. It's great that you realized you needed some time apart.. a lot of couples would never admit that, and would just let things end badly. So good for you two! I'm so happy things worked out.

I'm back at school now. I have the room to myself for the next week (my roommate is still on vacation), and I have a feeling it's going to be lonely. Bleh. I miss my Dave already. :-\ But I guess I should cheer up - we had an amazing break, afterall!
[/quote]

Thank you sweetie! ;D I am so greatful that we are one again. :)

Aww, I'm sorry you miss Dave! But, like you said, at least you have some awesome memories to think about even when you cannot see him! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 06, 2006, 06:19:13 pm

Aw I'm so happy that things worked out Megs. Hurrays! ;D *Hugs*

Chris is getting a new car! Eee! I'm so excited! We can start randomly driving places now. I love driving with him. It's like the best thing ever! ;D

Feels like we've not seen each other as much these days (cos we haven't)
Don't think thinsg will improve much what with my upcoming Graphics final happening.
And as he has experienced before.... life gets put on hold when something is happening in Graphics.

Poor guy. I feel awful. :-[

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 06, 2006, 10:07:16 pm

9 more days! I can barely take it. ;D Time is passing too slowly. I can't wait to see Adam again. It's been nearly 3 months! :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 07, 2006, 02:27:04 am

Aww. I love Morgan. He always does random nice thing for me. Like today he bought me M&Ms at lunch and I didn't even have to ask, and I LOVE M&Ms. And then after school I tried on a top, and he gave me all the money he had left so I could buy it. LOVE HIM! :-*

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=330#msg988020 date=1141700836]
It's been nearly 3 months! :(
[/quote]

Oh my god, I had no idea it was that long! That must be so hard! But nine more days! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 07, 2006, 08:30:22 am

Meg- I'm so glad you two worked it out- you're the ones I see as the strongest couple on here!

Pandora- Argh- that's a stupid length or time! *Tries to make it pass quicker for you*.

Andy's on a boys day. Should I be worried? Lol- nah j/k. It's three of them who play 'Halo' online and they're going bowling. Lol. Bless my lil' nerd! He bought me Serentiy the other day 'cos he was responsible for me missing it at the cinema.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elwoodsangel5000 on March 07, 2006, 09:24:04 pm

I have no idea what to do. Me and my 4 year boyfriend were engaged and we just broke up.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 07, 2006, 09:26:46 pm

Oh my god, are you okay? How are you feeling about it? Was the break-up mutual, or one-sided? I hope you're okay. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 07, 2006, 09:58:33 pm

Thank you everyone! I appreciate it! :)

I'm so sorry, Brokenanarcist. Are you okay? I hope you're feeling alright. That has got to be tough. :-\ What happened?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 08, 2006, 08:24:30 am

Broken anarchist- that's terrible! Are you ok? *offers lotsa hugs, chocolate and support*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 09, 2006, 08:19:23 pm

Oh, hun, I do hope you're doing alright! I'm sure that would be incredibly hard! We all are here for you, if you want to talk. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: daadsta on March 12, 2006, 12:20:52 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=315#msg987270 date=1141556105]
Aww. Sounds as though this dance is the perfect opportunity to get things going with you and Patrick. Hehe. Go for it hon! Let us know how things go. ;)
[/quote]

I just got back from the dance...I had a terrible time. :( All of a sudden Patrick just got a girlfriend, and he didn't even tell me until tonight. And apparently they've been going out for a while. Oh well...I'm off to spend some time with some friends. I don't think I really care anymore. If he wants a girlfriend, that's fine by me. He's the one who's missing out. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 12, 2006, 01:07:19 am

Aww, I'm sorry you didn't have a good time, daadsta, but you've got a great attitude about it. It's better to move on rather than dwell on it. I bet you'll find someone better in no time. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 12, 2006, 08:32:21 am

Aw daadsta, I'm sorry to hear that, but its true, you do have an awesome attitude towards it! ;D Thats the way to go! Now get out there, and find someone even better. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 13, 2006, 06:03:16 am

Men- tsk! Its a bit off that he never told you. At least you're not spiraling into melancholy. *hugs*

I'm so happy! Finally spent the night at Andy's actually in the same bed! Ok, so got sod all sleep due to not being able to find a comfy position (he's only got a single bed lol) but it was nice to wake up and find him already there to cuddle. Lol. Need practise though so we can get used to it. *Grins*.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 13, 2006, 10:48:52 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=345#msg990345 date=1142247796]
it was nice to wake up and find him already there to cuddle. Lol. Need practise though so we can get used to it. *Grins*.
[/quote]

Aww, that's so cute! I wish I could do that too. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 13, 2006, 11:25:57 am

How would anyone know if you weren't in the same bed? ;)
Hehe. Doesn't sneakiness make things more funnerer.
Hehe.

Anyway...

Chris has a new car. OMGYAY!! ;D
I loves driving with him. It's just so much fun. Don't get why... but it is. So long as I have control of the music. He has terrible taste. lolz ;)
Aww, things are goodly. Very happy.
Happier than I used to be. So... I think this is good. ;D

REALLY looking forward to tomorrow night. God knows why........ ::) ;) :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on March 13, 2006, 12:52:01 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=345#msg990345 date=1142247796]
Men- tsk! Its a bit off that he never told you. At least you're not spiraling into melancholy. *hugs*

I'm so happy! Finally spent the night at Andy's actually in the same bed! Ok, so got sod all sleep due to not being able to find a comfy position (he's only got a single bed lol) but it was nice to wake up and find him already there to cuddle. Lol. Need practise though so we can get used to it. *Grins*.
[/quote]
Oooh yeah I hate trying to fit into those single beds. My boyfriend's bed is pretty big though, so we have tons of room. Even though we don't really need it cus we're always cuddled up in the middle 8)

We just had the most amazing weekend. In total we probably spent 6 hours just lying in bed, and it was the first warm Spring day so the weather was gorgeous. Sunday is always the best day of the week. Especially since it's usually the only day of the week that we get to see eachother. We call it 'Naked Sundays' so whenever something bad happens we just say 'God's getting us back for naked sundays!' :P


[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=345#msg990345 date=1142247796]
REALLY looking forward to tomorrow night. God knows why........
[/quote]
Haha have fun! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 13, 2006, 11:00:10 pm

[quote]
REALLY looking forward to tomorrow night. God knows why........
[/quote]

Hehe, have a good time. ;)

Me and Adam both have big beds but we haven't slept with each other (in the nonsexual sense) because well, I live at home and so does he when he's back from college.. but we lay all over each other whenever we are in a bed so I'm sure the same would apply if we actually fell asleep.. I know I'd feel snuggly. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 13, 2006, 11:48:54 pm

Aww, I love sleeping with my boyfriend, too. Ahaha, that's sounds queer, but you know what I mean. We were all snuggled up today. We're having one of our "Snuggle Days" which means we just lie in bed all day and snuggle and kiss and it's the best.

He let me do my homework, and he made me lots of food and massaged me and I love him! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 14, 2006, 10:02:24 am


Quote:
How would anyone know if you weren't in the same bed?


He lives in a bungalow. Pft. Lol.


Quote:
but we lay all over each other whenever we are in a bed so I'm sure the same would apply if we actually fell asleep..


I found it tremendiously hard to do that. We're all entwined in day time too, but night I couldn't get comfy enough on him to droop off. >:(Was annoying lol. Ended up back to back. Probably be easier in a big bed though- less 'I'm going to fall out!' moments. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 14, 2006, 03:21:03 pm

Haha, yeah, I know what you mean, Ruth. Trying to sleep together in a tiny bed (like a dorm bed, for example) is not easy, no matter how much you like cuddling with your guy. It takes some getting used to. The first couple times Dave and I tried it, I barely slept at all. But I think it'll definitely get better with time, and a bigger bed. Haha. ;)

Bleh. Another week and a half before I can see Dave again. Grrrr.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 14, 2006, 03:23:13 pm

Thought I was going to see him tonight.
Apparently not. Not answering phone or on MSN...
Weird. ???

Never mind, wouldn't have been as good as I planned, I feel a bit ill. :(

Wonder where he is...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 14, 2006, 05:15:42 pm

Uh oh, what's up with him, Taf? ???


TOMORROW IS GOING TO BE SPECTACULAR. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 14, 2006, 06:30:18 pm

Aha. Mystery solved. He was working. lol
I didn't know this because I went home early from college, so didn't get to see him at the end of the day like I usually do to arrange anything that we feel like doing.

lol ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 14, 2006, 11:05:29 pm

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=345#msg991005 date=1142374542]
TOMORROW IS GOING TO BE SPECTACULAR. ;D
[/quote]

Wooooooooooooooooo! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 15, 2006, 06:07:35 am

So was it spectacular then Pandora? Lol. (This is assuming you'll not be on til afterwards. ::))

I'm missing my Andy-roo! *Humph* Havn't seen him since Sunday morning and won't see him til Friday 'cos I got show committments for drama. I'm really pining. Talk to him every night/ text him a lot. It's strange! God knows how you lot that don't see them for months are coping!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 15, 2006, 08:04:00 am

Me Tracy (and I think Jen) are coming to see your show Ruth!! Woooo! ;D
Going to the cinema with Chris after work on Saturday, spending most of the day with him then, and then off to cheer for my Ruthy!
Should be a good day.
Hopefully.
I'm ill at the moment.
Was hoping to see Chris today, as he has a day off work. But he's probably better staying away. Sobsob.
Might see him tomorrow, if I'm better. Fingers crossed. Feels like I've not been to his in an age, and last time I went to his, his Dad was wondering why I hadn't been around in a while.
Everything is against me. :( I want my Chris. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 15, 2006, 08:25:12 am

[quote]Should be a good day.
Hopefully.
[/quote]

If we can ever learn our blooming lines. ::) Lol. The bit with Chris will be fun for you.


Quote:
Everything is against me. I want my Chris.


Life is against love. *Le sigh*

*Bursts into laughter cos it all sounds so damned corny*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 15, 2006, 10:27:14 pm

Aww. Poor you guys! :-*

My gorgeous is sick, and it was weird not having him at school today. Miss him!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 15, 2006, 10:51:12 pm

I had a very lovely time and it was great seeing him. I'm going to be with him tomorrow too. :)

*runs to dirty room* ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 16, 2006, 03:40:05 am


Quote:
*runs to dirty room*

Hee-hee. SOunds like a good reunion babe.

I'm seeing Andy tommorow! *Dances* We're going for food (nowt special- probably just a pub meal) then back to mine. Where I'm seriously considering getting him to walk on my spine because it's killing me. May resort to just asking for a massage though. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 16, 2006, 06:52:20 pm

Hey everyone! I've not been here for awhile. But, I'm back and as in love as ever, fo course!

Today, Casey and I went to a coffee shop and hung out, then went to eat dinner together. It was really sweet and romantic tonight. We didn't disagree on anytihng, like no arguements like used to occur, you know? It was like old times. We held hands the majority of the time, kissed often, and kept laughing and smiling all the while. Very sweet. I missed all that alot. :) Gah I love him soo much. ::)
There were other things that went into our romantic evening, but I wont get into that. ;) :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 17, 2006, 02:18:50 am

Brittany, I'm so glad for you and Adam! It must be so good to see him after so long. :)

Meg, it sounds like you and Casey had a great night. I'm really pleased that you two are getting along so well again. :)

I got to see Moglet today, hurrah! He wasn't at school yesterday, because he's sick. I was in such a bad mood all day (that time of the month, crycrycry) but he really cheered me up after school. I got to wear his boxers and an old top of his because I was feeling really unwell and just wanted to be comfortable. Then he massaged me while we watched the O.C. Perfect! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 17, 2006, 05:06:09 am

Yay for Meg!

Sarah- you get a lot of massages dontcha? I tend to be the massuse (sp lol) in my relationship. Am definatly forcing him into giving me one tonight though. My spine is killing me!

Going for a meal tonight with my dragon1 *Dances* Argh- can't wait! I'm gonna hug him to death. Possibly after he's paid though 'cos I'm all of skint. Lol. jk

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 17, 2006, 05:12:58 am

Yeah, I do. I'm so lucky! But I do have scoliosis, so my back hurts well.. all the time. Morgan makes it better! :)

I like massaging him, too. And walking on his back, kekeke. ;D

Have fun at dinner!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 17, 2006, 05:58:41 am

Ah- that is making of the sense.


Quote:
And walking on his back, kekeke


Can I hire you? I'm thinking of picking up a tiny year 7 kid just so they can do that for me! Lol.

I shall hopefully be having of the much fun!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 17, 2006, 06:19:08 am

You sure can. I'm pretty light, so it works well. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 17, 2006, 08:25:51 am

Aww, Sarah, I'm glad you get to see Mog today! That's really sweet of him to cheer you up like that. :)

Megs, I'm really glad to hear you and Casey are doing well again.

Ruth, hope you get that massage. ;)

After I got out of school, I was with Adam all day. He ate dinner with my family and he really likes them. My whole family is perverted and inappropriate so he can be himself around them. ::) It was fun. We hung out with his friends and played video games too. Not too much romancing so I better get some tonight! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 17, 2006, 12:15:23 pm

Got to spend more time with Chris today! Hehe yays! ;D

He was working later than usual, so I made him take me home after we'd been to Halfords with Sarah.
Was so nice to be with him on our own. We've not been together like that since Thursday!! :o
Kinda bad though, because when it was time for him to get ready to work I just wanted to lay in his bed all day and wait til he got home, then not leave til I had to go to work next morning.
Unfortunately, I don't think I could have got away with this. Boo. :(
But, YAY for good days! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 17, 2006, 02:26:01 pm

Aww, thanks all of you! :-* It makes me smile to see that you all are pleased with my news of Casey and I. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 17, 2006, 07:05:17 pm

Glad everyone is getting to hang out with their boyfriends, again! ;D

I'm not going to be able to see Morgan all weekend! I'm really sick right now, and so tired, so I'm going to catch up on all my homework (well, that's the plan). I'm always so busy, so this is nice, but I miss my gorgeous. At least I have his jacket, and t-shirt and boxers! 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 17, 2006, 08:59:21 pm

Aww, well I too don't get to see my honey all weekend. Save for Sunday morning when he will come to church with me. :)

Pleae keep Casey in your thoughts and prayers everyone! He is having his auditions for college this weekend on violin! I know he will just do awesome, but poor sweetie, he is so nervous. So it would mean a lot to the both of us. Thanks y'all! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 18, 2006, 01:06:34 am

I hope you feel better, Sarah!

and good luck to Casey with his auditions! :)

I just got home and I am worn out. Had a lovely day playing video games and being inappropriate. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 18, 2006, 10:40:56 am

Thanks! :-*

Haha nice! Being inapporpriate, I like that! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 19, 2006, 03:32:44 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg992826 date=1142661994]
I hope you feel better, Sarah!
[/quote]

Thanks, Brittany. I'm feeling a lot better, but still not 100%. ;)

I'm sure Casey will do well! Let us know how he goes, Meg. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 19, 2006, 06:12:45 am

O M G !!

Last night was.... amazing!! :o ;D

We spent pretty much all day together (even though a friend was there most of the time).
He picked me up from work, we went to the cinema to see V for Vendetta (very good film btw, very very good) and then went shopping for clothes for him.

After that he left me and 2 friends to see Ruth in her fabby show. Hehe. You were great Ruth, *clapclap*

Anyway...
After that, at about 10/10:30 I went back to his... and I was only there for a couple of hours, we had the best time. We just couldn't leave each other alone. It was... wow! ;D
*Bounces*

Might be going round tonight, because I just want to see him again so so so so badly.
I wish he was with me now....

*Sigh of happiness*

Oh, and not said this before but....

I think I'm in love with him.
*More sighs*

*Giggles*
*Bounces*
;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 19, 2006, 08:34:12 am

Aww Taf! YAY!!! ;D I'm so glad you two had an awesome time together! I wish Casey and I got to spend that much time together. I may get to see him today. I REALLY hope so.

Okay, update on Casey's auditions, from what I was told, he definitely made it in on trombone, and he is pretty sure he made it on violin as well! YAY! I'm so proud of my baby. :) :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 19, 2006, 12:28:18 pm

Aww, Taf that's great! ;D I'm so happy for you!

and congrats to Casey on doing well, Megs. I bet he's ecstatic. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 19, 2006, 02:55:15 pm

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg993405 date=1142789298]
Aww, Taf that's great! ;D I'm so happy for you!

and congrats to Casey on doing well, Megs. I bet he's ecstatic. :)
[/quote]

Ah I know he will greatly appreciate it when I tell him you congratulate him. And yes, he is very excited! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 20, 2006, 12:11:10 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg993405 date=1142789298]
Aww, Taf that's great! ;D I'm so happy for you!
[/quote]

*giggle* thanks


Quote:
Aww Taf! YAY!!! ;D I'm so glad you two had an awesome time together! I wish Casey and I got to spend that much time together. I may get to see him today. I REALLY hope so.


Aww thanks ;D
I think it was made better for the fact it was the first time we'd spent any quality time together in about a week (he's had to work a lot of overtime recently due to staff shortages, boo) hehe.
I hope you get to see Casey today too.
Oh, and congrats to him ;D

...

I told Chris I love him. He said the same back.
Then later on, after... ahem (see dirty room if you can - EEEEE!!!!) ... he said to me "I'm SO in love right now."
I was like.... OMGYAYZZ!! ;D
Ah. Love. ::)

Dude! I'm turning mushy! What's going onnnn?! lolol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 20, 2006, 12:16:32 am

That is so cute, Taf. I'm so happy for you! Being in love is the greatest feeling in the world! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 20, 2006, 12:24:39 am

I'm so happy for me too! ;D hehe
It is, honestly, never felt this good in my life. Sigh...

lol, I'm just waiting for Ruths reaction to all this. It'll be hilarious.
Coming to visit you on Saturday hon! I need a hug because I'm all grown up and stuff. lolol
And I need someone to squeal with about it all. ;) :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 20, 2006, 03:48:13 am

Kathyrn I am not talking to you. You said you'd tell me first when it happened, but in actuality the Americans found out first. Most unimpressed.

No- I'm kidding. Isn't it fun? *Squeels and hugs lots* My baby's growing up!

***

Ok- girls, I wanna know if any of you have had this feeling before. Last night (and maybe three or four times before) when I'm in a really deep talk with Andy (usually the sweet stuff) I look at him and realise I don't know him. It's like the opposit of deja vu, where it feels like I've never met him before. It only happens for a split second, but it's bloody scary. Nice, because I know for certain that I do wanna know everything about him, but... he says I already do know everything so it scares me. I'm not explaining well (he didn't understand either lol) but it's just... strange. I dunno.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 20, 2006, 07:16:16 am

I'm not sure exactly what you mean. Sounds like it's hard to describe. :)

I've had a feeling similar, in that sometimes when I'm talking to someone, I suddenly become very aware of a physical separation. It's hard to explain, but I feel very connected to someone at a certain point, and suddenly I realise we are two people, there is the boundary of skin, and cells, like a shell. Then I'm just looking at this body.

Okay, that probably sounds really weird.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 20, 2006, 08:28:16 am

No that's kinda similar to what I'm trying to describe. The realisation that although it feels like were one person, we are actually two and theres no way I can know everything about him and vice versa. Makes him seem like someone I don't know. Kinda. It's strange.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 20, 2006, 12:19:08 pm

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg993758 date=1142856976]
I've had a feeling similar, in that sometimes when I'm talking to someone, I suddenly become very aware of a physical separation. It's hard to explain, but I feel very connected to someone at a certain point, and suddenly I realise we are two people, there is the boundary of skin, and cells, like a shell. Then I'm just looking at this body.
[/quote]

I know that feeling. It bothers me though when we're kissing or something.. I just want to pull him into me but there's that boundary of being two people.. Haha, it sounds so weird but I just want to be as close as possible. and I know what you mean, LBG, about not knowing him for a split second.. Sometimes I look at Adam and I realize there is probably so much I don't know about him.. It's weird. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 20, 2006, 01:10:26 pm

Ruth,
I wanted to text you!! I did! Why do I have to run out of credit at the worst time?!
You were 2nd out of real life people to know. And you're the best reaction so far. So that's something, eh? ;)

I'm sorry you're feeling like that about Andy. I can't imagine what it would be like (mostly because there's still things about Chris that I'm still learning about) so I don't really know what to say. Only, that I'm sure it's just a deeper side to his personality that you've not been introduced to before, and he doesn't realise this, or, he's changed a little. Either way, I'm sure all will turn out well and you'll get used to this new side you're seeing to him.
I don't know if what I said made any sense... but, I have faith in you guys. You're just too cute together ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 20, 2006, 10:31:07 pm

Hmm, I just felt like saying... I'm so in love. :) *sigh*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 21, 2006, 03:49:16 am

[quote]I'm sorry you're feeling like that about Andy. I can't imagine what it would be like (mostly because there's still things about Chris that I'm still learning about) so I don't really know what to say. Only, that I'm sure it's just a deeper side to his personality that you've not been introduced to before, and he doesn't realise this, or, he's changed a little. Either way, I'm sure all will turn out well and you'll get used to this new side you're seeing to him.
I don't know if what I said made any sense... but, I have faith in you guys. You're just too cute together [/quote]

No it's not that it's a bad thing this feeling. It's just kinda strange. But yeah you're probably right about it being a personality thing. And thank you for the cuteness. Lol. I suppose I can let you off for not telling me. I'll just make you come gossip next week. Ok? Lol.

Aww- bless pandora!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 21, 2006, 04:42:49 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=390#msg993914 date=1142875148]
I just want to pull him into me but there's that boundary of being two people.. Haha, it sounds so weird but I just want to be as close as possible.[/quote]

Yeah, I get that.

I love Morgan. Today I wagged, and I was going to come into his photography class and help him with processing a film, but I was trying to sort something out with a friend (s'all good now) and I didn't get to go. He's so understanding. But, I'm so glad things are sorted out with this friend now. Makes life a lot easier. :)

And Mog even gave me some of his chocolate! And he bought me a whole chocolate bar. He always knows. ;D

At lunch yesterday I had so much fun! Me and Morgan went over to some grass outside by ourselves, and it was so nice and sunny, and we wrestled and took stupid photos of us pretending to kiss all weird, and one of me eating his face. They make me laugh. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 21, 2006, 04:49:39 am


Quote:
and one of me eating his face


Ah- the traditional love showing caramony. *nods wisely*. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 21, 2006, 04:53:03 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=390#msg994244 date=1142934579]
Ah- the traditional love showing caramony.
[/quote]

Hahahha. Of course. I had my face-eating gown on and everything. 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 21, 2006, 09:57:13 am

Ah but was the cerimonial knife and fork provided for you?

I'm so pigged. Can't get into the dirty room at sixth form because they blooming blocker has blocked it. *Harumph* and I'm very rarely on at home. So unfair. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on March 21, 2006, 04:31:14 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg993601 date=1142831470]
[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg993405 date=1142789298]
Aww, Taf that's great! ;D I'm so happy for you!
[/quote]

*giggle* thanks


Quote:
Aww Taf! YAY!!! ;D I'm so glad you two had an awesome time together! I wish Casey and I got to spend that much time together. I may get to see him today. I REALLY hope so.


Aww thanks ;D
I think it was made better for the fact it was the first time we'd spent any quality time together in about a week (he's had to work a lot of overtime recently due to staff shortages, boo) hehe.
I hope you get to see Casey today too.
Oh, and congrats to him ;D

...

I told Chris I love him. He said the same back.
Then later on, after... ahem (see dirty room if you can - EEEEE!!!!) ... he said to me "I'm SO in love right now."
I was like.... OMGYAYZZ!! ;D
Ah. Love. ::)

Dude! I'm turning mushy! What's going onnnn?! lolol
[/quote]

Casey and I did get to spend like all afternoon together yesterday. We got out of school early due to ice, so we had a wonderful time! ;) ;D

Hehe aww, nothing wrong with being mushy! Thats why we are all here! Hehe. :D


Quote:
Ok- girls, I wanna know if any of you have had this feeling before. Last night (and maybe three or four times before) when I'm in a really deep talk with Andy (usually the sweet stuff) I look at him and realise I don't know him. It's like the opposit of deja vu, where it feels like I've never met him before. It only happens for a split second, but it's bloody scary. Nice, because I know for certain that I do wanna know everything about him, but... he says I already do know everything so it scares me. I'm not explaining well (he didn't understand either lol) but it's just... strange. I dunno.


Yea! I SO have moments like that! It's rahter unexplainable, but it's a good thing. ;D


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 21, 2006, 05:20:08 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=390#msg994333 date=1142953033]
Ah but was the cerimonial knife and fork provided for you?
[/quote]

No. I'm a simple kind of girl. I used my fingers and sheer force to rip apart his skin. Tasty. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 22, 2006, 03:40:09 am

Mm- Sarah you're chuffing weird! Lol. kidding *hugs*


Quote:
Yea! I SO have moments like that! It's rahter unexplainable, but it's a good thing.


Oh thank Christ! Thought I was going insane! Lol.

I am sooo in love right now! Had one of *those* days yesterday where everything just seemed to go wrong, and was only really looking forward to spending time with Andy (only an hour or so- bloody working late) and having a really *dirty* evening and lotsa fun and stuff. Completely did not work, and I ended up bursting into tears. Like you do. And all he did was hug me, and talk it through, and tell me sweet stuff until I calmed down. Then made hot chocolate. No pressure, no annoyance over me ruining the evening or anything. Love him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 22, 2006, 06:53:13 am

Aww. That was so nice of him. I love it when they make everything better. And just lie with you, and stroke you and you're so warm. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 22, 2006, 07:04:22 am

Yeah. And I'm still getting regualar 'are you ok' texts now because I'm still not feeling 100%. Nice to have someone so caring.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 22, 2006, 10:29:38 am

Aww, guys are so sweet when they turn into their worried caring side. Love it. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 22, 2006, 12:20:34 pm

Aww, that's sweet of Andy, Ruth. :)

Yesterday, I brought Adam with me, my mom, brother and sister to the beach. On the way down, I ate some food (bad idea, first meal of the day makes me queasy and then we're in a moving car) so I wasn't feeling too good. Adam ended up holding me in his lap most of the trip down, just petting my hair and letting me rest.

We got to the beach and we walked down the coast, hand in hand. ;D Then came back and played paddle ball with my mom and brother.. It was a lot of fun. Went walking again, then laid around. Got a back massage. 8) Stupid brother kept effing it up.. throwing sand on me and being obnoxious. >:(

Went out to dinner.. My mom told me in the bathroom that she really liked Adam. *woot* :) So, after dinner we came home.. Fell asleep in his lap on the way home. It was such a nice day. :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 22, 2006, 01:05:30 pm

Aww sounds like everyone is having really sweet days with their partners. Yay! Hehe.

Chris came round here for tea the other night, which is a change because we're usually at his place (we get more privacy there, I swear my Mum thinks that if she leaves us alone for longer than 10 minutes we'll have ripped each others clothes off and be doing the dirty right there on the sofa... weird lady my Mother ::) )
That evening my Mum said that shes really happy for me and she likes him. She said that anyone who makes me happy will get the thumbs up from her. lolol

He was talking to her about shares. Unprompted. Which was quite impressive, because one thing you can do to impress my Mother is to ask her about shares and seem interested and inteligent. He did this very well. Yay Chris! lol ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 22, 2006, 03:38:22 pm

Awwww. Yay for everyone having such incredibly nice days with their sweeties!

I haven't seen mine for a while, so I have no cutesy stories to report. Hopefully that will change this weekend though! Yay. I can't wait to get home!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on March 22, 2006, 07:41:55 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg993601 date=1142831470]
[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=375#msg993405 date=1142789298]
Aww, Taf that's great! ;D I'm so happy for you!
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*giggle* thanks


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Aww Taf! YAY!!! ;D I'm so glad you two had an awesome time together! I wish Casey and I got to spend that much time together. I may get to see him today. I REALLY hope so.


Aww thanks ;D
I think it was made better for the fact it was the first time we'd spent any quality time together in about a week (he's had to work a lot of overtime recently due to staff shortages, boo) hehe.
I hope you get to see Casey today too.
Oh, and congrats to him ;D

...

I told Chris I love him. He said the same back.
Then later on, after... ahem (see dirty room if you can - EEEEE!!!!) ... he said to me "I'm SO in love right now."
I was like.... OMGYAYZZ!! ;D
Ah. Love. ::)

Dude! I'm turning mushy! What's going onnnn?! lolol
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Hehe... congratualtions. That's cool that you took the initiative and said it first. I've come so close to saying it a couple times, but I've always chickened out. Sometimes when I'm with him I just feel like screaming it but I'm pretty sure I'd regret it... I don't think we're at that stage yet. When I say it I want to be confident tht he'd say it back.

But still... I can't get over how amazing he is. I always tell him that. When we're just cuddling in bed and we do the whole 'you're so amazing' 'you're amazinger' 'no way!' schpiel. It's sweet 8) It's times like that where I got super close to saying it...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 22, 2006, 08:53:26 pm

Ahahaha! "You're Schmoopy!" "No you're Schmoopy!" ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 23, 2006, 03:43:00 am

I wish my mum liked my bloke. *Le sigh*. My Dad's ace- he's done the whole 'if you're happy I'm fine with him' sitch, but my mum acts really nice to his face, then slags him off behind his back. And her reasons are so skewed- he's got a car but no inclination to drive (hello- neither can my older-than-Andy brother, and the car is only his cos his parents got a new one); he hasn't got a decent job (He's a supervisor at Superdrug, but trying for something better, either within the shop or elsewhere); he never goes out (Ok yeah, but I'm steadily changing that); he's not really that clever (yeah he only got 1 A level- Dad didn't even get that!). I just wish she'd losen up and realise that it's my life, and I want him in it. She was the same with my bros girlfriend though, and five years later they're still together and she's coming round. At least Karls girlfriend is on/ above his intellectual level though- seems to make her more acceptable. But why should I care about that?! Argh- she annoys me so much some times...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 23, 2006, 04:01:37 am

Aww, that sucks, Ruth. What are A Levels? :-\

My parents both like Morgan. My Dad used to be kind of rude to all my friends (because they're boys) but he's loosened up a lot, and now he gets along with them. Helps if he's drunk, and me Morgan and Geordie are babysitting, though! He even picked up me, Ninja, Mog, Geordie and big Tom from a party at around 12:30AM (it started early, ahah), and didn't complain. He was actually in a really good mood. Parents. So unpredictable. ;D

Brittany, I'm glad everything went well with Adam and your family. It's so nice when boys let you sleep in their laps, and play with your hair. Aww, that's the best thing about car rides. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 23, 2006, 04:03:52 am

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=405#msg995188 date=1143104497]
What are A Levels? :-\[/quote]

Qualifications that help you get into University.

Ruth, I'm sorry your Mum is like that.
Maybe once he gets that better job she will come round when she realises he is capable of working hard to achieve something.
And he makes you happy. That should be enough to please her :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 23, 2006, 04:11:30 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=405#msg995190 date=1143104632]
[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=405#msg995188 date=1143104497]
What are A Levels? :-\[/quote]
Qualifications that help you get into University.[/quote]

I see. How many do you have to have to get into University?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 23, 2006, 05:38:20 am

Usually three. But he was never bothered for uni so it's not like it matters. *shrugs*

She may loosen up soner actually. He's gone for a job interview today in a bank. *Crosses everything*. Havn't told her in case he doesn't get it, but if he does I plan to go 'ha!' very loudly. Lol.

Mmm- Andy in his suit... *day dreams*

Going for a meal with Andy tonight to say well done for the show I'm in and also get me out of the depressive slump I've been in (I'm better now).

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 23, 2006, 06:10:57 am

Heh. I think we need four or five to get into University. If he's not planning on going to Uni, then it doesn't matter, eh? :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 23, 2006, 06:12:17 am

Thats what I think. Plus he's been outta college for 2 years, so he's got loadsa work skills as a result.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 23, 2006, 06:25:07 am

Wha? How old is he? I must have forgotten all this. I thought he was about the same age as you.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 23, 2006, 08:20:00 am

He's an August birth 19 year old, so he just fitted into the year above what he should be. Basically he finished college at 17, due to his DOB, and has been out of college for two years.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 23, 2006, 12:18:22 pm

I thought Andy was a lot older than Chris. Wow. Learn something new every day. lol (Chris is 19, born in September)

I can't see Chris tonight because he has loads of work to do, and apparently, as (my offered) distraction would be fun. It's not wise when it comes to A level marks. Damn. lol
Means instead of having fun, I'm going shopping with my Mum to give me something to do. lol :( Boo.

Good luck to Andy with the interview btw. I'm sure he will do greatly. *crosses fingers*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 23, 2006, 01:08:10 pm

Good luck to Andy on the interview! Let us know how it goes. :)

Flummoxed - I hope you have a good reunion with your man. ;)

Snail - I know what you mean about being super close to saying it and just wanting to scream it out. I remember always mumbling under my breath "I love you I love you I love you.." when we were cuddling just to feel like I was saying it to him. I really wanted him to hear it though, haha. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 23, 2006, 02:28:56 pm

It took me ages to pluck up the courage to say the big 3 words, I was so scared that the only reaction would be a smile, or worse... "thank you" *shudder*
So pleased that he said it back. Makes you feel all mooshy to know they feel the same. Eeeee. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 24, 2006, 03:41:14 am

I wanna post on dirty room! *Cries* I wanna respond to Denarii (of course you can scream first time- it just doesn't happen all that often!) and I wanna report last night! *Tears*

Anyway- Andy's interview went well. Apparently it the first of two, if he gets through to the next one. Should find out in a couple of days *crosses everything*

I'm soooo happy right now! After my lil freak out at his on Tuesday, I expected *thing* with Andy to be kinda stilted- but no! Never felt so close! *Dances*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 24, 2006, 04:24:05 am

Yay Ruth! Yay Andy! lolol ;D

OMG! I can't wait for Tuesday!
I have a whole day off college because the security and cleaners etc are striking, so it is 'unsafe' to be there.
I'm gonna go to his in the morning and wake him up (love doing this) and spend the whole day with him.
Hopefully until midnight since I have no lessons on Wednesdays. Hehe! CAN'T WAIT!! ;D Tis gonna be amazing. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 24, 2006, 05:10:22 am

[quote]I have a whole day off college because the security and cleaners etc are striking, so it is 'unsafe' to be there.
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Biatch! Our school is staying open! So unfair...

Ooh- entire dayliness! Aww- you're gonna have so much fun. Havn't had a full day with him for ages. But then, I am spending three weeks in America with him in the summer! *Dances like a loon*

I'm actually voluntarily opting to not see Andy tonight. How weird is that?! In my defense, I'm shattered, and my hand has some kinda strain injury so really hurts, and all I want is a nice long bath and some drawing time to myself. Hmm- maybe we're becoming a real couple (I joke of course about those who say you're not a 'real' couple unless you argue a lot and fall out every other week- which dipstick thought up that?!)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 24, 2006, 05:23:01 am


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Biatch! Our school is staying open! So unfair...


My Mum and Dad have a day off work too. Because it's all Barnsley council that are doing it. So wooo! *Rubs in*

I thought Chris had fallen out with me the other day, because he went briefly quiet (and I'd earlier been making fun of him) so I started pestering him. Apparently he had not fallen out with me, but because I kept pestering with "Have you fallen out with me? Talk to me? Chris? Are you ok? Chriiiiiiis?" he was getting annoyed. lolol

I want to see him tonight because I couldn't see him yesterday. But he's working straight after college. Sobs. :'(

Recently, I've been wanting to spend every day with him. It used to be that every other day was a little too much for me. Can't get enough of him now though. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 24, 2006, 07:19:01 am


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Recently, I've been wanting to spend every day with him. It used to be that every other day was a little too much for me. Can't get enough of him now though


I still rememeber you posting the 'how do I tell him I'm not interested and get his to listen' thingy in the agony aunts thread. Lol- glad you decided to give him a chance. You're so much more like the old really really happy you nowadays. (not that you were ever not happy, but now you're really really happy lol). Ah Kathryn- you're the agony aunts sucess story! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 24, 2006, 10:10:16 am

LOL! I remember when he used to annoy me! Funtimes...
We were talking about that the other day and had a little laugh saying 'who'd have thought we'd end up where we are now' lol

Me Tracy & Alex were talking about me and him at college today, and we all got really giggley and squealy and stuff. Hehe. Loves it. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 24, 2006, 12:42:03 pm

Yay Andy! I hope he does well at his next interview! :)

Aww, that's so sweet, Taf! ;D For a long time before me and Adam dated, he didn't like me because I bothered him (he's just retarded :P) and then eventually we 'dated' but then we weren't and it was so confusing and annoying.. but I just stuck around and eventually he actually gave me a chance and he liked me.. but then we had to go through me fixing him thing. He wasn't a relationship person until I changed him, yay! ;D Never thought we'd be where we are now.

and I know what you mean about how often you see them. I used to see Adam once a week (I wanted more but I don't think he did) but then we started hanging out more and then I fixed him.. so we hang out everyday all day all the time and I can't get enough of it. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 24, 2006, 03:00:10 pm

It's strange when you think back to before you were even remotely interested in your partner isn't it?
I remember when I eventually admitted that I did have feelings for him, but refused point blank to act on them because he wasn't 'boyfriend material' in my eyes.
Yeah, by the end of the week I'd told him how I felt and we'd arranged seeing 'King Kong' (the evening of which, we became an item, lolol)

I still have the conversation from when he told me he liked me. It's funny to read back because I was all 'you're just a friend to me' and apolagetic and stuff. lol

The chase is always the most interesting part of starting a relationship I think...

Sounds as though you had a similar start to me in your relationship Pandora. Reversed rolls though. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 25, 2006, 01:21:45 am

Oh yeah! I like to think back though and see how everything has changed. It's so strange. Like you Taf, I have some of our first conversations saved when we first started dating and conversations that led to us dating. Definitely an odd chase.. if I had better people skills in the beginning it would've been a lot easier. ::)

and Adam is leaving on Sunday. :'( :'( :'( I'm very sad.. He will be gone for 10 weeks and then back for the summer.. Only get a month or so with him though because I'll be moving. This sucks so much. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elwoodsangel5000 on March 25, 2006, 11:41:47 am

Hello everyone. I know a few weeks I posted about me and my fieancee breaking it off and all I want to say is thank you for all your concerns and support, it means a lot :)
About a year and 3 months ago he cheated on me with his ex that he dated before we got together and got her pregnent. When his son was born his ex wanted nothing to do with the kid and me & him were going to raise Jake, his son together. His ex now changed her mind and wants them to be together, so their son can have a normal family and a normal child hood. He thought the same too when she talked to him, so he got back with her. Don't get me wrong the kid desreves to have a normal life, but come on.
I miss him. This apartment feels so empty and I'm just so lost, mentally without him. It sucks and we were supossed to get married in June after I graduated.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 25, 2006, 12:27:44 pm

Aww- broken! *lotsa hugs* I suppose you just gotta try and rationalise that it is for the kid, so at least theres a reason. Mind you- if he's cheated on you before, and got caught out in such a major way, then I'd have been sus about him anyway. (please don't take that offensivly).

[quote]It's strange when you think back to before you were even remotely interested in your partner isn't it?
[/quote]
Lol- I was so dense that I didn't even realise Andy liked me like that until after we saw a film together. Not even sure I really fancied him until the walk home form the cinema. ::) Although, nowadays, I can look at a guy and go 'oh yeah- he's flirting with me' lol. Actualy did that today at the show- and told the guy what he was doing. So funny seeing them blush and stutter...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 25, 2006, 10:59:49 pm

Yeah, it's so fun reading all the e-mails and MSN conversations from when Morgan and I were just friends. We always laugh about grade ten when we were in the same Maths class, and he sat behind me, and even though we both had no-one sitting next to us, we never sat together because we were too shy, ahah.

Then I learn about him perving on me when I walked past his desk to get sheets, etc. Ahaha! And I'd always try to talk to him, and he'd give me these one word answers, and I was so paranoid I was just annoying him, but it was because he liked me and was shy. Awwwwww.

Shy guys are best! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 26, 2006, 07:34:13 am

I'm sorry to kill the gushing mood but today is Adam's final day! We were out till 1:30 AM but I just got up at 6 AM to go to his house and see him one more time before he leaves at 8 AM. :'( 10 weeks this time. Boo. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 26, 2006, 04:54:13 pm

Aww. That sucks, Brittany. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 26, 2006, 10:22:02 pm

*Dreamy sigh.* I. Am. So. In Love. ;D ;D ;D

Ahhh, this weekend was amazing. I spent nearly every waking moment with Dave, and we had so much fun! We went shopping for a formals/Prom dress, went to the mall, bought shoes, saw V for Vendetta, went to the craft store and bought fleece to make each other blankets, went to see a play.... and of course there was plenty of lying around and cuddling!!!! Whee. He is so amazing.

/end gushing.


Brittany, I'm so sorry! I know what it's like to be away for so long. Of course, I've never gone 10 weeks without seeing Dave... eeek! I give you so much credit. You're a lot stronger than I would be, I think.

Heh... and as for all these comments about the "pre-dating" stages... Haha. Yeah. I went on for nearly 4 months pretty much oblivious to Dave liking me. We would hang out and stuff, but I was pretty sure we were just friends. But it turns out he liked me for so long before I realized it! I'm so dense sometimes. Lol. And then I spent a while insisting I didn't like him as more than a friend... which of course was total crap. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 26, 2006, 10:53:52 pm

I'm so happy for you, Flummoxed. I'm glad your relationship is going so well. :)

Today was a mope around sad day. I cried quite a bit but then I got a great dinner and felt a lot better. Talked to Adam when he arrived in Savannah and it made me feel better... Just hope time goes by quickly. Thank you everyone for being so nice about it. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 27, 2006, 02:41:37 am

Aww- poor Britney! *Lotsa hugs and choccy* You'll survive it. And you can talk to him and stuff can't you? Plus- think of the reunion ;)

I've decided Andy's crazy. Yesterday he pulled me onto his bed and rolled on top of me, straddled me, pinned my arms down so I couldn't escape (boy was the hot) and after giving me possibly the most sizzling look... he licked my face. Then got off laughing. Freak. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 27, 2006, 12:49:34 pm

Aww Brittany. That must be so hard. *Hugs*
I hope time does pass quickly for you guys. Be strong. :)

Chris asked me the other day what we'd do when we go to University. And I just made him change the subject. I couldn't face it. We've both applied to unis that are pretty far away from each other. And the prospect of being away for so long scares me. I know when it comes to the 'What will we do?' question, it basically means 'Shall we stay together and try and make it work? Or... shall we end things now?'

Agghhh! Nasty question nasty question nasty question! :'(

Anyway...
He was so nice to me today. He finishes his lessons before lunch on Monday, so was going home. But he gave me a lift home so I could change my shoes and trousers (It was raining, and both were drenched) and he then drove me back to college. No questions asked.
I feel guilty. But he's getting loads of petrol money next week, so I doubt he'll complain (not that he does now... even though I do take advantage of him a bit)

Ruth! I need to get a photo of Charlie (Chris' dog) for you! He's adorable! You can't steal him though. I've only just made friends with him.
He ran past Chris to greet me the other day. hehe. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 27, 2006, 05:12:44 pm

Nasty question indeed, taf! Bleh. I remember that question. It kept rearing its ugly head all last summer before I left for school. And Dave adn I did just what you're doing, and kept pushing it away for as long as we could.

And I guess it's a good thing we did. Because, at first, I was thinking that we'd probably be better if we broke up when I left. In a way, I suppose that would have been easier. But at the same time, I can't picture myself without him now. I could never break up with him, even if it has meant going through this year of pretty much constant separation. :-\ But hey! It'll be over next year. Yay.

Just enjoy the time you have now, and see where things go. That's my advice.

Aaaaand. Yes. I miss Dave. But at least I see him again in 2 weeks!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 27, 2006, 05:19:15 pm

Ah, that is a nasty question.. Have to deal with that myself.. Long distance relationships are definitely for strong people because it is very tough. I remember when it came up with me and Adam.. I'll skip the first couple times since we weren't really together, but the time before this, we decided to stay together while he was away. We see each other when he comes home on break so that's good. We talk everyday that he's gone. :) It'll be a lot harder when I move to Arizona and we'll see each other during the major breaks, not little ones, which sucks. :P Lucky for me, he's ahead by two years in college so it will be long, but not as long as it could be. ::) Then, he'll be moving out to Arizona to be with me if we're still together (can't see why not). ;D

Really, just enjoy the time you have together. We spent time together and just enjoyed each other's company and avoided it until a couple nights before he left. Didn't want to be anxious or upset about it, so we put it off. It's hard being far apart for long amounts of time, but you just learn to cherish the time you do get to see each other. It makes you appreciate them a whole lot more. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 27, 2006, 05:20:40 pm

Yeah, I don't want to discuss it now incase I change my mind. Or it comes to mind that we should end things now...
I think it'll be worth a try at the long distance thing. If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out, but you can never know until you give it a go.

We've got until September anyway. All is well for a few months.

EEEEEE!! I CAN'T WAIT FOR THE END OF APRIL!!!!
(3.5 months - house to myself - no parents - no supervision)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 27, 2006, 05:32:37 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=435#msg996690 date=1143498040]
I think it'll be worth a try at the long distance thing. If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out, but you can never know until you give it a go.
[/quote]
Good mentality to have about it. :)

[quote]
EEEEEE!! I CAN'T WAIT FOR THE END OF APRIL!!!!
(3.5 months - house to myself - no parents - no supervision)
[/quote]
Woo! Lucky you, Taf! Sounds awesome. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 28, 2006, 10:18:14 am

[quote]Chris asked me the other day what we'd do when we go to University. And I just made him change the subject. I couldn't face it. We've both applied to unis that are pretty far away from each other. And the prospect of being away for so long scares me. I know when it comes to the 'What will we do?' question, it basically means 'Shall we stay together and try and make it work? Or... shall we end things now?'
[/quote]

I discussed this with Andy as soon as I knew I was going. I didn't want to get into a full on relationship if he wasn't going to stick by me as I took the next step in my life. And we talked and it became apparent that it won't matter how far we are away (as it turns out a couple of hours train ride, unless he gets off his ass and learns to drive which reduces it to just over an hour) we are gonna go for long distance option. Because I don't want to live without him, but I don't want to miss out on uni. I trust him, he trusts me and we'll make it work. Actually, Flummoxed and Pandora- you both give me the courage that it will work. So thanks for that. :) *Hugs*

Kat- you have to get me a photo. Westie dogs are the worlds best. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 28, 2006, 12:45:57 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=435#msg996880 date=1143559094]
[ Actually, Flummoxed and Pandora- you both give me the courage that it will work. So thanks for that. :) *Hugs*

[/quote]

Yay! I'm glad. *Hugs back.* You can make it work. If you really love each other, and realize that it may indeed be hard, and you may have to make some sacrifices and are okay with that, it will work. My mentality is, if we can survive this sort of separation alright, we can make it through anything together.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 28, 2006, 04:57:10 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=435#msg996910 date=1143567957]
[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=435#msg996880 date=1143559094]
[ Actually, Flummoxed and Pandora- you both give me the courage that it will work. So thanks for that. :) *Hugs*

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Yay! I'm glad. *Hugs back.* You can make it work. If you really love each other, and realize that it may indeed be hard, and you may have to make some sacrifices and are okay with that, it will work. My mentality is, if we can survive this sort of separation alright, we can make it through anything together.
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Aww, yay! *hugs* :D I feel the same way as you, Flummoxed.. That last sentence sums it up completely. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 28, 2006, 05:27:54 pm

Didn't get to see Chris at all today. Was planning to be with him all day. But he was made to work right in the middle of it, which screwed things up. Booooo! :(

But, I am going to his tomorrow (early I think, so I can wake him up and see him all sleepy and sexy - hehehe) and not going to leave him until my parents demand my presence at home. Should be around midnightish. Wooooo!
Can't wait!
I might go to bed now to make time pass quicker. lolol </loser> ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on March 28, 2006, 07:18:17 pm

So I got some goodish news. I will most likely be moving in with my boyfriend by the end of the year. My parents are separating (please... don't say 'sorry to hear that' I've gotten enough of that lol- it's a good thing). My boyfriend is buying a house sometime this year, most likely by the end of the summer, and my singer and other guitarist are moving in as well. I don't think I would be able to stand living in a small apartment with either of my parents. My dad maybe, but my mother never. We'd be at eachother's throats the entire time, I just need my space.

It'll be good. My dad is completely fine with it and said he'd pay for my rent and food so I can get through school without having to juggle a job.

I just hope living together won't end our relationship :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 28, 2006, 08:41:17 pm

Aww, I hope living together goes well. It's a big step and it might take some time to adjust to, but I think you can handle it. :)

EDIT::

Forgot to mention.. Parents so desperately wanted me to go to prom they have now offered to drive to Savannah to get Adam so he can be home for the weekend of prom and then drive him back at the end of the weekend. That way I go to prom and I have a halfway point I get to see him at. Prom is in 5 weeks and then after the weekend of prom, it's 5 more weeks until he's home for summer. He's actually down with it.. He is willing to do it. ;D Yay!! I'm excited... Just hope now that his school doesn't get in the way of it. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 29, 2006, 02:45:17 am

Snail- that's so ace. Hope you can tolerate living together- should be a right laugh!

Pandora- whoo for parents who understand! And yay for getting a break in the 10 week stint!

Andy got through to the second round of that job interview he had! *Dances* Got his actual formal scary interview on Thursday (not sure if thats tommorow or next week). I hope he gets it. He's been stuck in a rut at work recently. *Crosses everything*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 30, 2006, 03:35:22 am

Tell Andy good luck from me ;D

Yesterday was soooooo good!
Apart from him not hearing me at his door, and me having to go to a payphone in order to wake him up and get him to answer the door. (After 15 mins of knocking)
That was a little worth it though, to see him answering the door all bedheaded, half naked and ooohh.... lolol ;)

Went shopping. To the cinema. For a burger. Then back to his to watch various TV things and just fool around. ;) ;D

Sigh... love him. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 30, 2006, 05:48:57 am

Andy's interview went well. So he'll hear about if he's got the job in about a week. *crosses everything humanly crossable and even some things which aren't*. Plus, he sent me photos in his sexy suit *sigh*.

Lol- I can't believe Chris didn't hear your knocking Kat! I'd have withheld everything for the day as punishment. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 30, 2006, 08:27:29 am

*crosses fingers for Andy* I hope he gets the job!! :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 30, 2006, 12:03:37 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=450#msg997367 date=1143715737]
Lol- I can't believe Chris didn't hear your knocking Kat! I'd have withheld everything for the day as punishment. Lol.
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I couldn't have done that. Impossible. I'd been waiting for that day all week. And to get there and be annoyed with him and do nothing? Couldn't have kept it up. lol ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on March 30, 2006, 12:54:25 pm

Hey girls! I get to see Mark tomorrow night! yay! one disadvantage of going to two different schools. Yeah, but it's all good. Then next Wednesday is our sixth month! I'm pysched! Tomorrow is the start of spring break! yay! A week off and hope to spend a few days with him. We've been waiting for this since Christmas break. Other than that, things are going excellent! Couldn't be better.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on March 30, 2006, 04:54:45 pm

Ah, I hate that waiting game... Always having to wait for the next holiday so you can spend time together. I'm glad you get to see Mark soon, Bianca. Hope you have a fantastic reunion. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on March 30, 2006, 06:13:18 pm

I love Morgan. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on March 31, 2006, 02:50:39 am

Have fun Bianca!

I had the best evening! Planned a calm night in, vegging out with Andy watching 'Firefly' and listening to music, just cuddling, nothing else. Didn't really work. We got the chilling but hey- I'm only human. And a teenager at that. Ended the evening with major head fuzz, but slow dancing to 'funeral of hearts' in the tiny area that is my room. Total out of body love experience. *le sigh*. Love times like that...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 31, 2006, 07:25:38 am

I really want a cuddle. And I can't have one. :(
Wonder if he'll drive to mine to give me a hug? Hmm...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on April 02, 2006, 06:18:47 am

I am so spolied! I met Morgan in town and he spent so much money on me! On clothes, food, bus, and a hot chocolate, because it was raining so hard. He's buying me the Bowie t-shirt tomorrow! ;D

So random. But awesome. It's not that now I have some cool stuff, it's that he would do that. Awwww. And also because now I have some cool stuff. ;D

Kissle kissle. I'm not going to school tomorrow, but I'm going to see him after school. Yay!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 02, 2006, 02:43:15 pm

It's Easter break! Wooo!
Fingers crossed Chris doesn't have to do overtime...

Sarah, that's so sweet of Morgan to spend so much on you.
I always feel guilty when someone spends a lot on me, and tend to have to return the favour...
Which reminds me... I really should give Chris some petrol moneys. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 02, 2006, 07:03:09 pm

Yeah, I'm the same Taf.. I always want to return the favor. ::) I feel bad when he spends a lot on me. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on April 02, 2006, 07:23:43 pm

What? I swear I posted in here.. :-\

I do feel so guilty! I kept saying "noooo!" to him, but he was all "It's my money, let me spend it how I want", and everything. I still feel so spoiled, though. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 03, 2006, 03:49:27 am


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I always feel guilty when someone spends a lot on me, and tend to have to return the favour...


Yeah I'm like that! I've learnt to not oppose Andy when he does that now, but it's hard. Lol.

Dragged Andy into town with me Saturday night to go drinkging with my mates. He's grown out of the whole drinking thing and I was never bothered so he predicted it'd be hell (as did I) but he came bless him. Lol. We actually had a good time, once we got somewhere with a dance floor. Fun. :) then he stayed at mine, unfortunatly downstairs.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on April 03, 2006, 04:04:13 am

gah i am really uncomfortable with guys buying me stuff too. I've been at an all girls school but at uni now my friends who are guys are like 'i'll get your drink for you' and stuff like that but i feel really guilty! (i know getting a drink for me is a small expense but i still feel guilty) i'd rather just pay my own way and not have to worry about it!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 03, 2006, 04:40:10 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=450#msg998547 date=1144050567]

Quote:
I always feel guilty when someone spends a lot on me, and tend to have to return the favour...


Yeah I'm like that! I've learnt to not oppose Andy when he does that now, but it's hard. Lol.

Dragged Andy into town with me Saturday night to go drinkging with my mates. He's grown out of the whole drinking thing and I was never bothered so he predicted it'd be hell (as did I) but he came bless him. Lol. We actually had a good time, once we got somewhere with a dance floor. Fun. :) then he stayed at mine, unfortunatly downstairs.
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I knew you'd enjoy it when you got there!! ;D
I so wish I could have gone. Apparently Jenny and Channy pulled in Livingstones! Hahaha! Jenny's turning out to be a right little.... monkey. lol ;)
:o And you should ask Tracy about why she's glad that I didn't go (would have been sleeping at hers if I had) ... one word ... Craig!!

Anyway... wrong place for all that... sorry :-[

I'm off to Chris' this morning, I think.
Didn't get to speak to him at all last night. Would have called him, but I don't like doing that when I know he's out driving with his mates, cos he's not always the most sensible of drivers (not at midnight, when they're winding up boy racers anyway.... :-\)
Might go round and suprise him again. Hehe. Love doing that.
Might need credit on my phone though, in case no one is home, so I don't end up standing outside for 15 mins....

I think I'll buy him an easter egg on my way over. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 03, 2006, 04:56:17 am


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so wish I could have gone. Apparently Jenny and Channy pulled in Livingstones! Hahaha! Jenny's turning out to be a right little.... monkey. lol

Yeah- two chinese boys apparently. Lol. Tsk Jenny!


Quote:
I think I'll buy him an easter egg on my way over.


Ah chocolate- why Jesus died. Apparently... I may have been misinformed somewhere along the line.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on April 03, 2006, 05:28:18 am

Aww. Morgan waited in town until just before five when I finished my modelling thing. Then after laughing at me for being "cute" (I think that's code for my hair being crazy and wearing so much make-up) he bought me the Bowie t-shirt. I love him so much. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 04, 2006, 08:35:04 am

Aww bless him! What was the modelling thingy? *Isht hinterested*

Andy bought me chocolate bunny. *Grin of a chocoholic*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on April 04, 2006, 08:51:04 am

*Has matching grin* ;D

I was modelling for a hairdressers. They coloured and cut my hair, got the make-up artist in, got the outfits, did a photoshoot, and I was there ALL DAY. Was boring until I got into make-up and then onto the shoot.

Anyway, met Mog straight after it, and I had on my normal clothes, but crazy big hair and heaps of make-up. Ahahahaha. People gave me the strangest looks! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 04, 2006, 09:09:30 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=465#msg998942 date=1144154104]

Andy bought me chocolate bunny. *Grin of a chocoholic*
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Hehe. I bought chris a little easter egg yesterday. A reward for just coming out of the shower when I arrived. (Even though I didn't know he was going to be doing that... lolol)
GUH! :o :P ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 04, 2006, 09:20:10 am

wow- your timing is ace Kat!

Sounds fun Sarah!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 04, 2006, 09:34:37 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=465#msg998976 date=1144156810]
wow- your timing is ace Kat!
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I thought so.
Was hilarious to watch him be all embarrassed because his cat kept starring at him while getting dressed. Lolol!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 04, 2006, 09:47:06 am

He was embarrassed by his cat? Literal cat, or other kat? :p

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 04, 2006, 09:51:11 am

No, his actual cat. He came into the room, and just sat and stared at him. I was hilarious "Jasper! Cover your eyes for Christs sake!"
So cute.
Don't tell him I told you this ;) hehe

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 04, 2006, 09:53:25 am

i'm adding him more points as his cat is called Jasper like my old one was. Lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 05, 2006, 10:50:43 am

I miss posting in this thread. :P

Nothing much going on.. Just figuring out plans for prom. He's going to fly in on May 5th (that's the plan as of now) and we'll have the weekend together. Until then..

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 05, 2006, 12:10:03 pm

ANDY GOT THE JOB!

Appologies for the yelling, I'm just so darned proud of him! He be a proper growed up. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 05, 2006, 12:21:22 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=465#msg999328 date=1144253403]
ANDY GOT THE JOB!

Appologies for the yelling, I'm just so darned proud of him! He be a proper growed up. Lol.
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Yay!! Congrats to Andy! Tell him congrats from me, and give him a hug! :)
Have fun telling your Mum ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 05, 2006, 01:32:16 pm

Yay for Andy! Congrats to him! That's exciting.

I don't have much to report, either, as I haven't seen Dave for nearly 2 weeks. But all is well - he comes up to visit me on Friday for the weekend! Whee. I can't wait. And my roommate is out of town Friday night, too... heh heh. Some fun may well be had! :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 05, 2006, 03:08:24 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=480#msg999341 date=1144258336]
I don't have much to report, either, as I haven't seen Dave for nearly 2 weeks. But all is well - he comes up to visit me on Friday for the weekend! Whee. I can't wait. And my roommate is out of town Friday night, too... heh heh. Some fun may well be had! :D
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I honestly don't know how you do it.
I've not seen Chris since midnight, and I'm missing him really badly right now.
2 weeks?! I think I'd go insane.
I really admire your strength.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 05, 2006, 03:33:45 pm

Heh, well thanks! Though, I must admit, I admire Brittany and Adam like... 10 bajillion thousand times more. I don't think I could stand going months apart... weeks is bad enough! The longest Dave and I ever went without seeing each other was 4 weeks. Bleh, that stunk!

The key, I guess, is to look forward to the time you do have together, and make sure to talk lots in between! Dave and I seriously talk online for like.. hours daily (on a good day), and a bit on the phone before bed. Some people probably think it's overkill, but I don't mind it. I love him, and I always want to talk to him. It's the next best thing to being with him, afterall!

But the end to this suffering is near! Once this quarter is over, we won't be separated anymore. We'll have the summer to relax together, and then we'll be at school together in the fall! *Dance.* I can't wait!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 05, 2006, 10:09:05 pm

Ruth! Congrats to Andy! I'm so glad he got the job! I can't exactly remember, what is his new job title? :)


[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=480#msg999359 date=1144265625]
Heh, well thanks! Though, I must admit, I admire Brittany and Adam like... 10 bajillion thousand times more.
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Aww, thank you! I really appreciate that. It's really hard but he's worth it. :-*

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=480#msg999359 date=1144265625]
The key, I guess, is to look forward to the time you do have together, and make sure to talk lots in between! Dave and I seriously talk online for like.. hours daily (on a good day), and a bit on the phone before bed. Some people probably think it's overkill, but I don't mind it. I love him, and I always want to talk to him. It's the next best thing to being with him, afterall!
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I agree. It's not overkill at all... On the outside looking in, it may seem so, but until you're in that situation, wow. I'm talking to Adam right now, as a matter of fact. ::) Miss that boy.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 09, 2006, 08:54:36 am


Quote:
I can't exactly remember, what is his new job title?


I have no clue lol. I just know it's in a bank and possibly cashire related! Lol. Actually, I don't think he really knows. Starts in a month though. Hee-hee- I told him I'd have toget him a well done present, and all he wanted was a husky soft toy dog from the build-a-bear factory, bless him. Lol.


Quote:
Some people probably think it's overkill


Is it chuff! ::) I have to talk to Andy every night, I think I've said that before?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 09, 2006, 05:26:07 pm

Ah. *Dreamy.* I. love. my. boyfriend. *Sigh.*

Dave was up here all weekend, and, ah, it was like the best ever!!! Friday night we went out to dinner with a bunch of my friends, then all of us dyed Easter eggs and played charades in my room. Then yesterday Dave and I ate a late lunch with my friends, ran to WalMart, went to a comedy show at night, and then went out drinking with my friends. Dave got a bit drunk, though, so our night ended there. Heh. But today we *ahem* "slept in" ( ;)), then watched Memoirs of a Geisha and went out for lunch. Just took a walk now, played some piano together, and then said goodbye.

Whee, he's amazing. So so so amazing. And oh so cute when he's sleeping. :D

And, lucky me, I go home this Friday for a 4-day weekend, so I get to do it all over again! Yay.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 10, 2006, 06:28:49 am

Yay! Go flummoxed! Sounds such a good weekend. Bless.

Buying Andy his husky today- should be entertaining! Lol.

Edit- so he has well done/ love you husky-
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Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 16, 2006, 01:27:44 am

Hmm, this thread disappeared. Guess I should revive it. :) Those pics of Andy are too funny, Ruth. ;D

I don't have much of an update.. Just counting down the days until prom so I can see Adam again. I got my dress, shoes and hair appointment already set. :) Never thought I'd say that since I wasn't planning on going in the first place. ::) I can't wait to snuggle that boy to death when he gets back. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on April 16, 2006, 01:47:36 am

Aww. It's so awesome that you guys are going to your Prom. How nice of him to come down for it. Take heaps of pictures for us! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 16, 2006, 07:31:44 am

Aww, hope you have fun at your prom ;D

LOL Ruth. Andy looks so cute. Hehe :P

Chris's Mum bought me an Easter egg. Not just any easter egg, a Thorntons Easter egg, with my name iced on it and everything.
Apparently I'm part of the family now. Lolol.
Makes sense really, as I'm at his house more than mine these days. ::)

I only just realised today. We hit our 4 months mark last night. And we spent it with friends! Tut!
It was celebrated a little when we left though (even though we weren't aware anything needed celebrating)... sneaking me into his room at 23:30 to "collect some things" ;) heh heh heh.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 16, 2006, 11:51:34 am

Thanks guys! I still don't really care about prom or have a desire to go... but I'll go if it means Adam comes back. ;D


[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=480#msg1002215 date=1145187104]
sneaking me into his room at 23:30 to "collect some things" ;) heh heh heh.
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;) Uh oh! Go Taf! Hehe, that's always fun.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 17, 2006, 12:07:18 pm

Aww Kathryn- you shudda told us it was your four months! We'd have let you bugger off sooner!

Hit my 18 months with Andy yesterday. Spent our day celebrating too actually... muchly fun. Although he did make me watch 'Alien'. Tis boring...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 17, 2006, 12:56:43 pm


Quote:
Aww Kathryn- you shudda told us it was your four months! We'd have let you bugger off sooner!


LOL, you think we would have even come if I'd have known? ;) Hehehe.

Hurray for 18 moths! That's huge. 4 moths feels long... but woah, 18... lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: OrganicOlivia on April 17, 2006, 06:22:05 pm

So I'll join in on the fun. It is always fun to talk about men. <3

I have been with my boyfriend for just under 3 months, which isn't a very long time, but before Nick my love life was pretty much lackluster. We met at the very beginning of the school year, but only ever saw each other in passing. I go to Cornell University, and it is a big school - so to frequently see the same person each day is odd. We would see each other at residence hall gatherings, in the food hall, and walking through the quad. Eventually, one day during breakfast he came and joined me and we discovered we are in the same Civics class. Starting then, every Tuesday and Thursday, my Civics notes would always be joined by cute little emails from Nick. How sweet!

It took me a while to realize that he was actually interested in me, until one day he came into the Chili's where I bartend, and had a few drinks. He paid and left and when I picked up his ticket, I saw that my "tip" was a note reading: "Follow the note when you get back to campus tonight" and there was a hand-drawn map of the North Campus on it. I got back to campus around 1 am and followed the map to a tree near Beebe lake, where Nick was waiting with a picnic basket.

So we had a lakeside camp out and have been together ever since!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 17, 2006, 10:24:19 pm

[quote author=& hearts ; link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=480#msg1002634 date=1145312525]

It took me a while to realize that he was actually interested in me, until one day he came into the Chili's where I bartend, and had a few drinks. He paid and left and when I picked up his ticket, I saw that my "tip" was a note reading: "Follow the note when you get back to campus tonight" and there was a hand-drawn map of the North Campus on it. I got back to campus around 1 am and followed the map to a tree near Beebe lake, where Nick was waiting with a picnic basket.

So we had a lakeside camp out and have been together ever since!
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Wow, okay, you definitely win the cuteness award! Haha. That's awesome! He sounds like a really sweet guy.

Just spent the holiday weekend with Dave, which was nice. Our 1 year is coming up on May 3rd... whee, I'm excited!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 17, 2006, 11:34:11 pm

Aww, yay for anniversaries! I just had my 16 months with Adam.. alone, bleh. I don't think he knew it was our 16 months though.. I just remember it because I wrote down the day of our first date. ::)

Olivia, that is pure cuteness. So romantic. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 18, 2006, 12:00:43 am

[quote author=& hearts ; link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=480#msg1002634 date=1145312525]


It took me a while to realize that he was actually interested in me, until one day he came into the Chili's where I bartend, and had a few drinks. He paid and left and when I picked up his ticket, I saw that my "tip" was a note reading: "Follow the note when you get back to campus tonight" and there was a hand-drawn map of the North Campus on it. I got back to campus around 1 am and followed the map to a tree near Beebe lake, where Nick was waiting with a picnic basket.

So we had a lakeside camp out and have been together ever since!
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AWWWWWWWWW *bigger aww not suitable for this computer*

He is one BRAVE young man...not too many people (male or female) have courage like that...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 18, 2006, 03:53:50 am

Awww, that is so cute, Olivia! Aww! Hehe. ;D

OK, It's official. I hate exam season. Me and Chris have figured out that we need to cut down on the Chris and Kathryn time in order to actually get some work done. Which is just pants. :(
My Dad will be over the moon, I feel. Bah. *Sulks*

Roll on June!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on April 18, 2006, 04:58:02 am

Olivia, how sweet of Nick. :)

Morgan and I had our sixteen month anniversary a few days ago. I love him so much. Looks after me.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 18, 2006, 07:44:45 am

Olivia you suceeded in making me give an audiable aww, which makes me feel strage when my lil sis is in the room ready to snap me out of love-ness with a very brusque "what?" (she wants the computer lol). He sounds so damned cute. Give him a hug for us!

So we all seem to be having 'anniversaries' at about the same time don't we? I got dobs on the 16th of months! *Sticks flag into 16th*.

Kat- I totally know what you mean about the exam situation. My Andy time will cut back, with the added disadvantage that he hasn't got exams (darned lucky worker man!) so will have to deal with less me, plus stressed phone rants without really understanding since it's been two years since he had an exam (and readily admits that he never revised then either!) Lol. He promises me lots of hugs and chocolate though. :)




Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 18, 2006, 11:49:40 am

Well, mine are the 15th! Ooh... Ruth, or closeness with dates and stuff is really creepy sometimes. (Birthday too...) lol ;)

Chris is quite useful really with the exam thing. We are in 2 of the same classes, so we can swap notes and stuff.
I feel bad spending time with him these days though, because he works loads (up to 5 days a week) and so he has very little time at home, and when he does, I tend to be there.
Yes, I think this week we're not going to see each other out of college, so we can get the rush of deadlines over with. Then we can spend my parentfree 3 weeks having superfuntimes.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 18, 2006, 11:57:03 am


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Well, mine are the 15th! Ooh... Ruth, or closeness with dates and stuff is really creepy sometimes. (Birthday too...) lol


Lol- two days older than me, and anniversaries the day before. You always have to be the first dontcha?! Lol *Hugs*


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Yes, I think this week we're not going to see each other out of college


I sometimes wish Andy was in college with me. Then I could see him everyday. Mind you, apparently in college he was one of the really disruptive 'only-here-to-stop-me-having-to-get-a-job-for-two-more-years' lads, so I'd have probably hated him. :)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 18, 2006, 02:16:14 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=495#msg1002803 date=1145375823]

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Well, mine are the 15th! Ooh... Ruth, or closeness with dates and stuff is really creepy sometimes. (Birthday too...) lol


Lol- two days older than me, and anniversaries the day before. You always have to be the first dontcha?! Lol *Hugs*

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I'M the Mummy. Remember? ;) :P
Hehe.


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I sometimes wish Andy was in college with me.


LOL! Sometimes I wish Chris wasn't.
Only because we're constantly being watched and judged by certain people in our group of friends. They really annoy me sometimes.
Got asked today "Why don't you sit next to Chris?"
Because the only free seat is one that is opposite, and unlike SOME people, I don't like to disrupt a whole group just so I can sit next to my boyfriend for half an hour, when I know I have 3 more hours in which I'll be sitting next to him in class.
Plus, this way I can look at him easier. hehe. ;)
I love to answer in ways that make them feel stupid. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 18, 2006, 10:57:26 pm

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

*looks around at faces in awe*

Oh sorry, hi ladies...

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

I...I...I....ASKED A GUY OUT FOR COFFEE AND HE SAID YES!!!!!

*whispers* and he's my crush... ;D

If you want to see what he looks like, go to the Normals thread :)

YAY YAY YAY I'M GOIN' OUT WITH A BOY!!!!

*is proud of self for being brave*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 18, 2006, 11:23:44 pm

;D Aww, nice Italian man! Way to go, Denarii! ;)

I know what you mean, Ruth. I wish I was in art college with Adam. I miss him. :-\ but! Two more weeks and I'll see him again, yay!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on April 19, 2006, 01:46:08 am

Ah, Morgan and I are the sixteenth as well, Ruth.

16th December 2004. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 19, 2006, 05:28:21 am

Ah! Go Denarii! *Dances like a loon on prozac*. You have to promise to tell us everything about the date ok? He looks purdty! *is also proud of Denarii for being brave*


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Only because we're constantly being watched and judged by certain people in our group of friends. They really annoy me sometimes

Some people are just stupid really. Glad they've given up on that at work. Unless my boss really wants to wind me up, then he goes into it full pelt lol.

Sarah- you can't have the 16th! Lol joke. It's a good date. 16th October 2004. *Squeels*.
Although, actually, our first date and the asking out text was on the 12th Oct 2004, but he insisted on asking me out properly the next time we saw each other lol. So two anniversaries! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 19, 2006, 06:57:14 am

Wooo! Well done Denarii! ;D I hope all goes well for you. Keep us posted, yesses? ;)

I miss Chris so much. (I mean, the being alone with him) I've not been to his since Saturday, and even then it wasn't proper us time, because we went to visit some of my friends. Sobsob.
I just hope college work is not going to get in the way of next week+.
Seriously, I don't know how I'm going to cope with the whole university situation... :-\ :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 19, 2006, 08:56:08 am

[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=495#msg1002994 date=1145425568]
Ah, Morgan and I are the sixteenth as well, Ruth.

16th December 2004. :)
[/quote]

Oh! Me and Adam are 15th December 2004. Crazy. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 19, 2006, 09:15:58 am

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=495#msg1003055 date=1145451368]
[quote author=Le Deux Machina link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=495#msg1002994 date=1145425568]
Ah, Morgan and I are the sixteenth as well, Ruth.

16th December 2004. :)
[/quote]

Oh! Me and Adam are 15th December 2004. Crazy. ;D
[/quote]

LOL!
Me and Chris are the 15th December 2005. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 19, 2006, 10:06:54 am

You know, this whole date situation is just damned weird! Lol.


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Seriously, I don't know how I'm going to cope with the whole university situation...

Ditto that. It'll be weird. At least yours can drive to see you though.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 19, 2006, 12:21:41 pm


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Ah! Go Denarii! *Dances like a loon on prozac*.


*dances with Ruth*


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You have to promise to tell us everything about the date ok? He looks purdty!



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Keep us posted, yesses?


Of COURSE! Would I do anything besides? ::)


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He looks purdty!


I KNOW! *gushes*


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*is also proud of Denarii for being brave*


Awww gee, thanks *is still on cloud 9*


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Well done Denarii! I hope all goes well for you.


Thanks, me too. *crosses fingers, toes, hands, arms, eyes, and prays*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 19, 2006, 01:06:34 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=510#msg1003071 date=1145455614]
You know, this whole date situation is just damned weird! Lol.


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Seriously, I don't know how I'm going to cope with the whole university situation...

Ditto that. It'll be weird. At least yours can drive to see you though.
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Isn't it just! lol :P

He can, yes, but it's not exactly fair for him to drive from Edgehill (wherever that is) to Lincoln or Teesside and back. I feel bad enough having him drive all over Barnsley for me!
And trains are so damned expensive. Costs me half a days wages to go to Manchester to see my brother! Do that on a regular basis, and I'll never have any money for going out with my friends.
It would be good to do the seeing him every weekend thing, but weekends are the best nights out wherever you go, and I don't want to miss out on that. Huge dilemma, and there's a massive part of me that thinks I won't be able to keep it up. We can but try. :(

5 months left anyway...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 19, 2006, 02:01:22 pm

Aww, Taf.. it's very difficult, I won't lie to you. Me and Adam only see each other when he comes back for holiday breaks. And even then, the time doesn't feel long enough.. and with me about to move across the country, it'll be even more difficult.. It's hard missing the physical of the relationship and sometimes, long distance relationships just can't work.. It really depends on how often you talk and how much effort both sides are putting into it. Adam and I talk everyday and are supportive of what we are doing in our lives. I've got 3 months until I'm very far from Adam.. and I'm dreading the day, but I know in the end, if we stick to it, we'll be together again and won't have to be separated because of school. You just have to remain positive. :) And if you try and it doesn't work... at least you won't have to play the "We'll never know what could've happened.." card.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 19, 2006, 04:58:33 pm


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And even then, the time doesn't feel long enough.. and with me about to move across the country, it'll be even more difficult..


Awww I'm sowwie Brittany. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on April 20, 2006, 07:04:26 pm

Good thing my city has a lot of good universities. I already told my boyfriend that whatever universities I get into, I'm not moving out of the city. Even if the program I want to study at a university here is second best to one in another city, I wouldn't leave, because I don't want to be away from him. Never ever ever. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 21, 2006, 06:08:35 am

See, you were lucky that you had the choice.
I chose my universities when I wasn't even interested in Chris. And all I was thinking is "I need to get out of home, I am NOT living with my parents" because hey, the main point in it is gaining independance (that's how I see it anyway). So I never thought about easy access to coming home.

But to be honest, if I was with him when I made my choices, I don't think they would be any different. In fact, when I sent off my top 2 choices, I was with him, and I chose the 2 that are farthest away, because they were the 2 that I liked best. Chris didn't come into the question at all. I wasn't going to go to one of the worst selections in my 5 choices just so I could see him easier.

I guess it's easier for me, because we've not been together that long, and I'm not at the point where I see us being together forever. At the moment, for me, it's just the here and now with us. I'm not imagining any future plans with him, not because I don't want to and I don't love him, just because he's only been around for 4 months and who's to say we'll make it to a year? We leave for uni around the 9 month mark...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 24, 2006, 08:37:54 am


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I'm not imagining any future plans with him

It's harder when you are, believe me. Finally got the teary phone call the other day where we got the whole 'how the hell are we going to sustain us' conversation going. I was scary logical, and he was crying and panicing. That is NOT normal for us. It's usually the other way round. Uni is scaring the hell out of me anyway, and to be honest I really could do without him cracking up. I know he's entitled to,a nd won't begrudge him it, but it's hard to keep control when the strongest person you know crumbles too. And I'm not even going too far a way- 45 minutes train ride at most. But now he's got the new job, we worked out that he won't be able to come up and stay with me a couple of nights a week like he would've. So we're consigned to weekends when I come home, or the occasional night if he can get a morning shift swopped ot Saturday. *Le sigh*. Hope to God we survive- it'll be two years together when I leave for uni. Half the time of my course.

On a completely different note all together- I don't know the couple on the computer next to me, but if they don't stop feeling each other up, making daft coo-ey noises, throwing their bodies around and complaining that 'you're lying when you say you don't love me' then I will smack their heads together and throw them into seperate corners of the campus, never mind the computer room. Decorum is most definatly needed. *Looks round for another computer but there isn't one damn*.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 24, 2006, 10:58:04 am

Oh man, it is so stressful.. You guys got me thinking about my situation with that too. I don't like it at all. :-[ Just gotta keep the faith. :-\

Hahaha, Ruth, that bit about the other couple made me laugh out loud! Good for them they like each other but I hate when people go too over the top about it in public. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 24, 2006, 11:07:41 am

It's times like that when you hear "ROOM" shouted repeatedly from all corners of the college basement! Haha! Hilarious to see their reaction when they realise it's aimed at them. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 24, 2006, 03:36:31 pm

I moved. The computer I ended up at didn't work, but I had friends to vent at. Lol.


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Good for them they like each other but I hate when people go too over the top about it in public.

Worse bit- you could tell they weren't going to last the month. *Le sigh*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 24, 2006, 03:49:07 pm

*waves* :) College. :P Can make relationships difficult. Ask my roommate *points to roommate* But I think if I were in a relationship, I would much rather do what I want careerwise and education wise, than to give up something for a relationship. I wouldn't want to grow old with them regretting them because they "made me" give up my plans for my future. If I were to give up something I really want to do, it'd have to be WAAAAAY worth it. There is very little that is worth it to me. Very little.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 24, 2006, 03:52:59 pm


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I would much rather do what I want careerwise and education wise, than to give up something for a relationship. I wouldn't want to grow old with them regretting them


Yeah I agree with that. Future is for life, but lovers can always leave. (ooh- I'm philosophical). Deep irony here- Andy's bro's girlfriend gave up a kick ass uni course because she 'couldn't live without him'. And then two years later, after having lived together for six months, she dumped him. Total idiot. Nice girl, but I could not give up my education for any man.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 24, 2006, 03:56:59 pm


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I could not give up my education for any man.


Same here, that and my family would kill me, hehe. But at least I know they care about my education. :)


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Yeah I agree with that. Future is for life, but lovers can always leave. (ooh- I'm philosophical).


*listens to Ruth's deep thoughts* :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 24, 2006, 04:14:09 pm

I would never give up any chances in education that I got. It's so hard for me to succeed in things, and when I do, it's usually only just a success that I would give up anything to follow the best course in life that I could.
I'm more bothered about building a career than I am about building a family. Which is the total opposite to my Mum. She told me that she always wanted to have a husband and children more than she wanted to have a good job. Granted, she has got a very good job, but she waited until after she's had kids and spent a lot of time with us for a few years before she persued it to higher levels.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 24, 2006, 04:17:37 pm


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She told me that she always wanted to have a husband and children more than she wanted to have a good job.


Wow. I don't want to do that. I'd rather have a decent job first before starting a family. With the way things are these days, it's good for both parents to have a job. I want to be financially secure before I even think about starting a family. :P

But different things work for different people. :) I just hate the thought of being in school while raising kids and having a hubby all at the same time. :P *cringe*

EDIT: Oh yay! New page! :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 24, 2006, 04:24:37 pm

*gasp* I had forgotten all about this thread! How could I have?! I love this one!!!! Soooo, let the latest gusher begin.

So, let's see. May 5th will be six months for me and Andrew. It's a little hard to believe, but with every passing month it gets more and more believable, and more and more fantastic. I seriously can't remember a time when I have been this happy. Well, not counting the night he asked me to go out with him...or the day he told me he loved me...or the night he first kissed me....

Okay so. I have been happy a lot. But in these past almost six months, I think I have really grown as a person and I know Andrew has had to do with that. Not only is he perfect and so sweet to me, but he has helped me to realize the person I always knew I could become. He has just gone above and beyond the call of duty, doing things for me when I least expect them. Last week at my geometry class, I came outside and he surprised me, first by being there, and then giving me a Dr. Pepper and a box of Reese's Pieces, which was exactly what I needed on that particular day. He'll do things like that, little spontaneous, sweet things, and I love it. :-*

I really believe I am with the person I always knew I would be with. When I crushed on him for as long as I did, I prayed that if it were God's will, he and I would come together and form a relationship. And he had prayed for years after his last girfriend (3 years ago) that his next girlfriend would be his last. Sooo, in case you couldn't tell, we're doing very well. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 24, 2006, 04:27:03 pm

AWWWWWWWWWWWWW

*gushes with Maria* :) He sounds so sweet. I hope Robert is like that *daydreams* Tut, six months, we haven't even gone on our first date yet, hehe. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 24, 2006, 04:30:32 pm

She was in a different kind of education than there is today. And her Mum was wary of university. My Dad didn't go either. And we still have a good family income. They both have very successful careers, my Mum just put off progressing hers until she was alright with leaving me and my brother alone. She says she didn't want to build her career while me and my brother were young because it would have meant we would have been taken care of by child minders and random relatives. Which there is nothing wrong with... but having my Mum around all the time gave me the best childhood I could ask for, and I think it's made us closer friends too.

We found her Will the other night and read through it. And she told me that she needs to change it to take into the account that she might have a Grandchild in the next couple of years, which means that it changes the order of who she leaves things to.
I was like... WOAH!! I am NOT having a kid when I'm at university! I'm not having one til I've got a good job! Or I'm in a completely stable relationship!

Then she brings up all these people that I went to school with who now have kids, and scared me half to death. :o ::)

Edit:
That's really sweet Lumos. ;D
Congrats on your 6 months too! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 24, 2006, 04:36:01 pm


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And we still have a good family income.


Yup, as I said, different things work for different people. :) My mom started college but never finished. So she had to work; my dad wasn't around. So for her to have gone to school and work at the same time *shakes head no* It would not have worked. Everyone's situation is different. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 24, 2006, 05:33:27 pm

Wow, lots of replies since I last checked in here! Haha.

As for the whole university thing... yeah, I don't think I could ever let a relationship totally dictate my decisions. I mean, here and there, sure. Like last night, when my boyfriend's dog died, I stayed in to talk with him online, rather than going out to dinner with friends. (Aw, I still feel so bad! :-\ )

But when it comes to college... yeah, that's my choice. Actually though, I made the decision to go away to college (about 4 hours away from my boyfriend) before we'd even started dating. And then once we were dating, I wasn't sure for a while that it would even last past the end of the summer, so it wasn't a big deal.

But hey! What do you know, we not only lasted through that summer, but through all this school year too! And it's been fine. Not ideal, obviously, but still very good.

And with him coming here in the fall with me, I think things will be even better. Yay.

Saw Dave this weekend, by the way. He came up for my band formals. Whee, 'twas fun!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 24, 2006, 07:03:49 pm

Tafi and Denarii, thanks. He's really sweet and it's been the best six months of my life. :)

Flummoxed, I have to say, I have a lot of respect for you and your boyfriend for carrying on a working long-distance relationship. I realize if you care about the person it doesn't matter how far away they are, even if it is a big inconvenience. But I just wanted to say that it was awesome, and to enjoy this fall! :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 24, 2006, 07:21:00 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=525#msg1004716 date=1145919829]

Flummoxed, I have to say, I have a lot of respect for you and your boyfriend for carrying on a working long-distance relationship. I realize if you care about the person it doesn't matter how far away they are, even if it is a big inconvenience. But I just wanted to say that it was awesome, and to enjoy this fall! :D
[/quote]

Aww, thanks! I'm really excited for this school year to be over... that way, we have the whole summer, followed by the next 3 years together at school! YAY! I really can't wait to be able to see him everyday again.

As far as respect, though, all mine goes out to Brittany (Pandora). Her and her boyfriend are doing the long-distance thing, too, but they see each other only every couple of months. :-\ I went just one whole month without seeing Dave once before, and it was the worst thing ever. I could never do that again. As it is now, we see each other about every other week, and that's bad enough!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 24, 2006, 07:38:28 pm

I understand how that can be very difficult for both you and Pandora. I know when Andrew and I don't see each other for a week, we're miserable. I think we could do it if we had to, and depending on where I decide to go to college, we may be required to, but it still must be difficult. So, good job, you guys. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 24, 2006, 10:03:02 pm

Hehe, thanks, I have mad respect for you too, Flummoxed! It's tough being in our shoes. Oh and by the way... NEXT WEEKEND ADAM COMES HOME!!! yayayayay, only for the weekend but who cares! As long as I get a chance to do *ahem* well, just have a reunion. Damn, I miss him. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 24, 2006, 10:05:34 pm


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As long as I get a chance to do


hehehe... ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 25, 2006, 03:45:04 am

Aww- feel the love on this board! *Groovy dance*

Yo Lumos! Nice to hear from you and glad things are going great for you and Andrew. (Brill name for a boyf. *Is biased of course*)

Got terrible insomnia night before last and got into very logical thinking mode about uni (I do that when I'm overly worried about something- go scarily logical). University is 7 months out of a year, at most. I'll definatly be there 20 odd hours a week, but ah well. 7 months x 4 year course = 28 months total. That's only 10 more than me and Andy have been together, and 18 months has passed very quickly. Plus, if I do the 4th (teaching) year by commuting, which I've always considered since it'll be less lecture time, then that's only 21 months at uni- only 3 months longer than we've been together.

Mind you, I told Andy all that and his response was "And your point is?" Men! Tsk ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 25, 2006, 08:26:41 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=525#msg1004849 date=1145951104]
Yo Lumos! Nice to hear from you and glad things are going great for you and Andrew. (Brill name for a boyf. *Is biased of course*)
[/quote]

Hey Buzzgirl! It's good to be back here in the A+F swing of things. And yes, Andrew is a lovely name. ;D ;)

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=525#msg1004849 date=1145951104]
Mind you, I told Andy all that and his response was "And your point is?" Men! Tsk ::)
[/quote]

Hahaha! Yes, yes. I know what you mean. I'll go into stuff like that and sometimes Andrew will just keep looking at me. I'll tell him I'm finished and he'll be like, "Oh. It sounded like there was more." ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 25, 2006, 09:17:39 am


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I'll go into stuff like that and sometimes Andrew will just keep looking at me. I'll tell him I'm finished and he'll be like, "Oh. It sounded like there was more."


Lol- yeah he does that. But he usually lets me ramble on until nothing makes sense and I'm contradicting myslef. And then he just grins. So I hit him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 25, 2006, 10:01:29 pm

Isn't it amazing how we ramble senselessly (is that a word?) and they just sit there and smile? A sign of true love. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 26, 2006, 07:33:00 am

Or a sign that they're not really listening. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 26, 2006, 07:38:11 am

I do the sitting and smiling thing with Chris a lot.
Generally when he's talking about cars and in a "Wow listen to how good my engine sounds" bla bla bla...
It's all very sweet that he thinks I'm interested, but I never totally listen to him. It all means nothing to me.
Yes, it's lovely Chris. Very... err... brummy? (as in the car brum not the accent Brum, lolol) ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 26, 2006, 08:35:41 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=540#msg1005197 date=1146051180]
Or a sign that they're not really listening. ;D
[/quote]

Heehee. ;)

Tafika, I must say, I am guilty of the same thing. When Andrew begins to talk about cars, I have no problem with it because I love being with him, but every once in a while when I think he's expecting a reaction out of me over something, I go, "Oh, wow. That's awesome." ::) Boys. Gotta love 'em. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on April 26, 2006, 08:39:14 am

Thanks girls! Had an excellent time! I love him so much! We're goin on seven months next month! Hopefully see him Friday. *crosses fingers* We have prom on the thirteenth. Goin to my school's for that. Just taken it a day at a time. Oh yeah, might transfer to his school next year!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 26, 2006, 11:11:20 am

Parents are away for three and a half weeks.
They just left.
One of the instructions: Keep Chris at arms length.

Hahaha! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on April 26, 2006, 12:21:06 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=540#msg1005255 date=1146064280]
Parents are away for three and a half weeks.
They just left.
One of the instructions: Keep Chris at arms length.

Hahaha! ;D
[/quote]

Hahaha why do parents even bother asking something like that? That's pretty funny.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 26, 2006, 12:37:58 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=540#msg1005255 date=1146064280]
Parents are away for three and a half weeks.
They just left.
One of the instructions: Keep Chris at arms length.

Hahaha! ;D
[/quote]

Haha! That's pretty awesome. Now, don't forget that, Taf. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 27, 2006, 03:50:22 am


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One of the instructions: Keep Chris at arms length.

Why what do they think you can do with him that way? Use him as a kinda of battering ram to open doors? (Sorry I had a mental image of Kathryn holding Chris actually at arms length and bursting through her front door because the key wouldn't work.)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 27, 2006, 06:59:05 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=540#msg1005494 date=1146124222]

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One of the instructions: Keep Chris at arms length.

Why what do they think you can do with him that way? Use him as a kinda of battering ram to open doors? (Sorry I had a mental image of Kathryn holding Chris actually at arms length and bursting through her front door because the key wouldn't work.)
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Heh...that's a funny mental image now that I think about it. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 27, 2006, 08:31:33 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=540#msg1005494 date=1146124222]

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One of the instructions: Keep Chris at arms length.

Why what do they think you can do with him that way? Use him as a kinda of battering ram to open doors? (Sorry I had a mental image of Kathryn holding Chris actually at arms length and bursting through her front door because the key wouldn't work.)


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LOL! That made me laugh out loud! ;D I'm the same with the listening thing. Of course I'm supportive and proud but sometimes I'm just like, "yeah, that's awesome." :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on April 28, 2006, 05:15:48 am

You all get car talk huh? I get computer games. I know more about World of Warcraft than I could ever need in real life, and I've only played it once. I sometimes think I'm dating a level 60 Paladin, not a normal bloke. :)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 28, 2006, 10:28:04 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=540#msg1005794 date=1146215748]
You all get car talk huh? I get computer games. I know more about World of Warcraft than I could ever need in real life, and I've only played it once. I sometimes think I'm dating a level 60 Paladin, not a normal bloke. :)
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Haha!! Don't worry, I get that too. I have gotten my FULL share of Final Fantasy and God of War. I don't understand the fascination, I really don't. ::) :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 28, 2006, 11:13:06 am

I get the computer game talk too. But not so much.
I think that he's gathered that I really couldn't care less.

I'd be more sympathetic, but I've been living with gamers and wargamers all my life, and after a while, 'hmm, ok' is the only thing that you can say when he's explaining how great his win was.

I've not seen Chris today. Just missed him before he went to class.
And he's working tonight.

But he did keep me company last night, and I kicked his arse on Worms2! 8) haha!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 28, 2006, 12:03:37 pm

I don't get car talk.. I get movie, school, writing, screen writing, all his college work talk. That's what I meant about the being supportive and proud but sometimes I'm like, "yeah, that's nice." He has so much going on this quarter he can't stop talking about it. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 28, 2006, 12:06:08 pm

Oh, I can deal with college talk, I know what he's on about with that.
But I haven't a clue when it comes to cars, computer games, war games... etc. And none of it interests me, so I switch off. lol

Me and Chris talk a lot about college, because we're in the same English lit and Media classes, and he's got the same personal tutor as me too.
Tuh. Can't get rid. ;) hehe

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on April 28, 2006, 04:00:57 pm

I guess as much as they can be clueless, they're still great. Andrew did the sweetest thing for me this morning. Before he left for class and I started school, he called me. I've been pretty upset lately since finding out I can't dance, so he called and said, "Sweetie, before our days get busy, I want you to hear something."

Then he got quiet and then played this beautiful song on his acoustic guitar that he wrote for me over the phone! I nearly cried, it was so sweet.

See, that is why I couldn't care less how much he talks about cars and games. I love him so much. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on April 30, 2006, 01:35:25 pm

Hello everyone! Gah, I've been away from here for awhile. My apologies. But, (as maria knows), Casey and I were in a bad car accident on Friday, right after school. It was the scariest thing I've ever been through, but he was there...he was with me.

It all happened so fast, and we only have minor injuries (which I thank God for!). But as soon as I could realize what had just happened, I screamed. I was so scared! Casey had to help me out of the demolished car. As soon as we got out, he held me close, we were both shaking. This is what he said, through a lot of tears, "Oh my God. Megan, I'm so sorry! I can't believe I did this to you. I love you so much! I'm so sorry, are you okay?....."

He was incredibly protective over me that day and it was amazing. Even this incredibly hard and trying time has only strengthened our love. But I think I am rather traumatized, so he will have to support me through that. I talked to him on the phone a little bit ago, and he started to cry. I asked him what was wrong and he said "I just can't believe I did this to you. You are hurt and it's all my fault." Of course, there was no way for him to prevent this accident. It was scary for the both of us and, I don't know, but this has changed both of our lives. I love him so much. If he hadn't been there to help me, I don't know what I'd do. We were in the ambulance together and sat in the emergency room together. We didn't want to leave each other for a moment. I mean, maybe that was God showing us how much we mean to each other and how much we need each other.

Sorry for the rambling. I just wanted to spill all of that out. He is my world and I just wanted to let you all know what happened to us.

Maria, I am so sorry to hear about you not being able to dance. I know that dancing is your passion. :-\ *hugs* Aww, what Andrew did for you is incredibly sweet! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on April 30, 2006, 06:17:07 pm

Oh, wow Meg. I'm glad to hear you are both alright! That sounds scary. I would've probably panicked. I'm glad you two were able to support each other though it. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on April 30, 2006, 07:04:16 pm

[quote author=[Pandora] link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=555#msg1006549 date=1146435427]
Oh, wow Meg. I'm glad to hear you are both alright! That sounds scary. I would've probably panicked. I'm glad you two were able to support each other though it. :)
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Thank you so much! :-* Yes, it is very comforting that we are able to support each other through this. It is a rather incredible feeling. It gives us even more confidence that we will always be together. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 30, 2006, 07:35:33 pm

Oh I'm sowwie Octavarium *hugs* :-* I'm glad you're ok. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on April 30, 2006, 07:39:09 pm

[quote author=Jordanbluprplepk link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=555#msg1006576 date=1146440133]
Oh I'm sowwie Octavarium *hugs* :-* I'm glad you're ok. :)
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*hugs back* Thank you so much! :) I know that you are very religious (as am I). And I am sure you would agree with me when I say that God was watching out for Casey and I on Friday afternoon. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on April 30, 2006, 07:41:42 pm

[quote author=>>Octavarium<< link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=555#msg1006581 date=1146440349]
[quote author=Jordanbluprplepk link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=555#msg1006576 date=1146440133]
Oh I'm sowwie Octavarium *hugs* :-* I'm glad you're ok. :)
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I know that you are very religious (as am I).
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hehe, go check me out in the adult dirty room, lol hehe..But yes I am "religious" (I personally hate that word :P )

But I do believe God protected you guys that day. :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on April 30, 2006, 07:43:33 pm

Haha well, okay... 8)

Yeah, we are just really thankful that we are still together.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on May 01, 2006, 08:47:15 am

Megs, I'm glad you and Casey are okay. What exactly happened?

Well, I haven't been here for a while. Not because I have nothing to gush about. I don't know, I've been getting a little bored of this forum, I haven't really been on the computer apart from when I was in Graphic Design.

Glad everyone is going well. Morgan and I are going amazingly as usual. Oh, I love him so much. I was talking to a friend, and he just said "you and Morgan just seem like you have the best relationship ever" and a lot more stuff. It makes me happy when people say that.

We went to a party on Saturday night. I got less than an hour's sleep, and was still a bit drunk in the morning. Morgan looked after me so much, and put me to bed at his place, and massaged me. I kinda slept outside with Geordie and Susan, so yeah, my back was hurting.. Then today I hadn't really recovered and he gave me the LONGEST massage in bed with moisteriser and kisses and it was soooooooo good, and I fell asleep. Ahahahah.

What I like about Morgan is that he doesn't smother me. We don't have to be one of those annoying couples that are just "siamese twins.. at the wrist". I love that he's one of my best friends, and we can just hang out and be absolute f-ckheads and make stupid jokes and eat chocolate and watch "the Mighty Boosh".

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 01, 2006, 09:15:43 am

I'm glad you two are OK Megs. *Hugs*

I stayed over at Chris' last night for the first time. It was really nice. We couldn't really get up to anything... but that doesn't bother me. It was so nice just to fall asleep with him there, and wake up to a cuddle. Just lovely. ::)

Now I'm home, and all alone as he has gone to work. On May Day as well. Working on a bank holiday. It's just not fair. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on May 01, 2006, 02:15:26 pm

May Day...*imagines ladies swinging around poles* ::)

That sounds nice Sarah and Kat *wishes for a b/f* :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 01, 2006, 02:34:20 pm

I shouldn't have stayed at his last night. I'm feeling so lonely now. I was with him all yesterday, all last night, and until 2pm today. Now I'm not going to see him til lunchtime tomorrow, and booo... I'm lonely.
Wouldn't be so bad if the parents were here for me to talk to. But I have no one right now. :( and it just makes me want to be with him all the more.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on May 01, 2006, 03:26:53 pm

Awwww *hugs Taf* :)

*walks on water to Taf's house* lol ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 01, 2006, 07:35:16 pm

Well, I am glad everyone seems to be doing well. Casey and I are slowly recovering, but we are good and so in love, as always. I believe that this car accident has even brought us closer together. So, yes, I actually, something good has come out of this.

Today was a very good day for me. When Casey saw me this morning, he came up to me and just wrapped his arms around me. We held eachother, as if we never wished to let go. It felt so amazing. I mean, of course we've held each other many times before, but this was quite special. I could hear his heart beat against mine. We hadn't seen each other all weekend besides at the hospital on Friday evening. So, clearly, we wanted to be there for each other all weekend to help heal, but we couldn't. We definitely worked on making up for the time we could not spend together. This afternoon, before I was about to go home, he held me close once more. He kissed me many times and then said "I'm so happy that you are okay, Megan. I love you." *Melts into puddle...* ;D 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 02, 2006, 08:28:13 am

*Wades through a page an a half of mushy stuff that she missed*

Jezuz Megs! Hope you're both ok. What the hell happened?!

Kat- you lucky sod. That took you what- 4 months? :p *Is jealous* It does make you feel lonely the next day though doesn't it?

Elle Jay- gonna get back with the ex or is he purely a flirter limit? :)

My family is leaving me on my lonesom over the spring bank holidays. I'm staying home to revise for my exams, but it does mean I can spend some nights with Andy! *Dances* Although, probably on the floor, 'cos my bed is way too small...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 02, 2006, 08:41:46 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=570#msg1007079 date=1146572893]
Although, probably on the floor, 'cos my bed is way too small...
[/quote]

Lol! That sucks! I'm glad I got the queen size bed and so does he. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 02, 2006, 11:39:25 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=570#msg1007079 date=1146572893]

Kat- you lucky sod. That took you what- 4 months? :p *Is jealous* It does make you feel lonely the next day though doesn't it?


My family is leaving me on my lonesom over the spring bank holidays. I'm staying home to revise for my exams, but it does mean I can spend some nights with Andy! *Dances* Although, probably on the floor, 'cos my bed is way too small...
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Pretty much 5 actually. :P hehe
Although, we didn't have permission from anyone. I have no one to ask (oh no, what a shame.) and we just didn't bother asking if it was cool with his parents.
It was just a "I'm staying" "OK" thing. lolol

me and Chris have single beds, but we were ok with sharing. I guess they're kind of big single, but still...
I wouldn't be able to have one of us on the floor, because... eh... can't reach! lol ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 02, 2006, 07:45:46 pm

Chris is having his hair cut like Doctor Who tomorrow. I can't wait to see it! ;D
Mmm. My very own blonde David Tennant. ::) tee hee.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 03, 2006, 03:51:20 am

No! Chris can't cut off his hair! He's got lovely hair! Mind you- David Tennant is squee-worthy...


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I wouldn't be able to have one of us on the floor, because... eh... can't reach! lol


I meant both of us on the floor lol. My bed is smaller than the standard single bed. We're fine-ish in his but mine is just pants. Lol.


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I'm glad I got the queen size bed and so does he


Lucky sod number 2 is you! :P. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 03, 2006, 07:19:11 am

I would have a double bed, but it wouldn't work with my room.
I have a big room, but lengthways, and whichever wall it's against it would hit either the opposite wall, or be against my radiator or window. Bah. Stupid house. lol ;)

Whereas he, his room is massive (attic room) and he just has a single. I keep saying he should get a double bed, he agrees, but there's not much point since he's off to uni in a few months. :( sobsob.

lol... not that again ::)

I hate sleeping on the floor. I can't do that. Not when there's a really comfy bed. Anyway... we both fit fine in it. Even when we're not cuddling. Oohh... the benefits of having a skinny boyfriend. ;)
Which means I'll probably end up in my room on Saturday, if we can't fit 10 people in my living room.
(You and the Mister still coming Ruth? Cos sleeping bags shall be required... and probably a pillow too... the parents have nicked them all it seems. lolol)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 03, 2006, 08:24:14 am


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You and the Mister still coming Ruth?

If someone sends me the details. And if my cold clears up a bit cos currently my evenings are spent with no voice, a headache and uber nose run.


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Oohh... the benefits of having a skinny boyfriend.

Swap? Mines a human flump. Lol- no kidding. *Clings onto Andy*. I'm a fan of chunky- be it Kit Kats or boyfriends. Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 03, 2006, 09:17:01 am

Aww, I hope you feel better.
I don't know the details myself yet.
I need to organise what's doing with varying people.
Sarah and Jeff needing directions, Tracy finishing work, having me some Chris time before you all arrive ;) heh heh.
As soon as I've figured out how things are being done then I shall let you know. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 03, 2006, 09:46:59 am

You naughty girls and your bed talk. ;) Nah, just kidding, I'm just as bad. I am very thankful that Andrew and I have queen size beds. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 03, 2006, 02:18:19 pm

Whee, today is mine and Dave's 1 year anniversary! *Bounce* ;D He texted me this morning before I was even awake to say happy anniversary. Aww, I love him so much. I just wish I could actually be seeing him today! Grrr. Oh well.

Heh, I only have a single bed. Dave's got a queen-sized one, though - lucky! However, we've never stayed over each others' houses (only on Prom nights - and that was on his couch, not a bed), so it doesn't do us much good. We have cuddled in his bed when his house has been empty, though. That's always really nice.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 03, 2006, 02:22:42 pm

Ah! Well done you two!

*Throws party*

Lol- I love how you all say queen sized. I've never heard that before- only king sized. Rock on the feminism. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 03, 2006, 02:32:16 pm

You've never heard of Queen sized bed? Wow... that's odd. lol
My family always goes with quilt sizes that are bigger than the bed size, so I have a queen size duvet on my bed. Hehe. So much cosiness. It's better to share with too, so you're not fighting over the duvet, like we end up doing at Chris', with his single duvet. ::)

Oh, Congrats on 1 year! *Hugs*
Aww, I'm sorry you can't be together, that must make it really hard. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 03, 2006, 02:38:01 pm

[quote]You've never heard of Queen sized bed? Wow... that's odd. lol
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I've always heard it refered to as king sized.

Your large duvet idea is goodly. Having the covers stolen in the middle of the night is not entertaining! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 03, 2006, 02:44:25 pm

It's not king sized, it's smaller than king sized.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 03, 2006, 02:45:35 pm

Ah now I understand! Mind you why do I need to know? As long as I can sleep in it (etc ;)) it doesn't matter!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 03, 2006, 04:37:18 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=570#msg1007849 date=1146681136]

Oh, Congrats on 1 year! *Hugs*
Aww, I'm sorry you can't be together, that must make it really hard. :(
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Thanks! But yeah, it sucks that I can only talk to him. :-\ Booooo. I don't actually get to see him again for another two weeks. Not cool.

But, on the bright side, once that two weeks comes 'round, I'll be home for the summer, and I can see him everyday! Yay!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 03, 2006, 08:48:53 pm

Congrats on one year! :-* That's awesome.

I am so excited! Adam comes home tomorrow evening for the weekend! Can't wait to kiss that boy and cuddle him to death and other things of a dirty room nature. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on May 03, 2006, 10:41:22 pm

Wow, that's so awesome, Brittany! :)

Morgan stayed over last night. He's been so good, he put up with me playing around in my room with all my "special drawer" stuff, and then he cooked me dinner, and massaged me and oh, love. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 04, 2006, 03:46:28 am


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Can't wait to kiss that boy and cuddle him to death and other things of a dirty room nature.



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But, on the bright side, once that two weeks comes 'round, I'll be home for the summer, and I can see him everyday! Yay!


Wahoo for both of you! Hope you have muchly fun and making up for lost time-y-ness.

I think I need to appologise to Andy 'cos the last few days I've gone my typical 'I have a head cold so I'll act like a man' route and turned into the uber bitch on an evening. Oops. Lol. Do it tonight. We're off for a meal, then back to his to watch 'Alien3'. Yeah, I'm being made to watch the Aliens movies- eurgh! Not my enjoyment at all, but he likes 'em so I'll watch them. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on May 04, 2006, 06:57:09 am

Ah, yes. I feel sorry for Mog, because after school today I was so tired. I got kinda grumpy, and just flopped onto my bed and didn't move and dozed off. But he massaged me and made me a Milo, and got the heater and my iron tablet. He's so gorgeous and perfect. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 04, 2006, 08:21:26 am

Lol- thank god for sympathetic boyfriends eh Sarah? ;) Andy just laughed at me when I texted him an early appology. Lol.

He's been to look round his new job today (starts on May 15th). Was so nervous bless him, but they all sound nice women (yes he's working with 5 women- grr... mine! lol j/k) and it looks a decent place apparently, so he's excited about it now. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 04, 2006, 07:04:05 pm

Aww, yay for Andy and his new job! ;D
Which bank is it?

Chris has just left, I didn't want him to, but it wasn't really fair of me to ask him to stay (awkward timetable on Fridays makes things complicated)

We went to Asda to do some shopping for me, who is still left to fend for herself, and it was rather cute. He said he felt like we were living together or something, doing grocery shopping, and him helping me unload it all when we got home. Tee hee.
Spent the evening with pizza, messing round on old skool computer games, and then watching Lost. Was nice. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 05, 2006, 03:44:57 am

It's Yorkshire bank in Goldthorpe (I dunno where Goldthorpe is lol- but I means I can't call in and see him in his sexy suit! >:()

Whats Chris' hair look like after the chop? Does it suit him?

[quote]We went to Asda to do some shopping for me, who is still left to fend for herself, and it was rather cute. He said he felt like we were living together or something, doing grocery shopping, and him helping me unload it all when we got home. Tee hee.
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Aww bless!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 05, 2006, 04:13:39 am

I don't know about his hair! lol
I really really liked it when it was longer. And now, he looks so different with short hair it's difficult for me to get used to.
I think they cut it a bit short to be Dr Who style, but once it grows a little I think it will look great, when he's got some of his floppiness back. hehe. Super sexy. :-* ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 05, 2006, 05:21:13 am

Send me a picture? I can't imagine him looking like anything other than a surfer! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 05, 2006, 10:20:02 am

I want to see his hair too, Taf!

Got to see Adam last night.. Saw him try on his suit and he was so sexy I wanted to molest him. ;D Too bad his mom was there. Prom is tonight; I'll post picks.. He was so sweet! Telling me he missed me and I'm even prettier than he remembered and all the things he missed about me and why I'm so great, etc etc. Haha, I was just happy to see him again! ;D ;D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 05, 2006, 12:27:53 pm

Ruth, you will see it on Saturday night. He'll be at my house at random intervals. lol
I'll try and get a photo though. :)

But I might wait until he grows into it. ;)

Awww, men in suits. Can't beat it. ::) tee hee.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 05, 2006, 02:34:35 pm

Men in suits= the hotness.
Men out of them also = the hotness mind...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 05, 2006, 03:04:56 pm

Heehee, Ruth. Ah, suits... yum!

Speaking of men in suits, I posted pictures of me and Dave up in the Beautiful Ones, finally. So if you want to see me all purdied up for formals and Prom, go look! ;)

Blah. I have a busy weekend ahead. And Dave does, too. He's working an insane amount of hours. I probably won't get to talk to him much at all... boooo!

Oh well. 10 more days, and I'm home!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 05, 2006, 09:44:31 pm

Did I see something about our men in suits? Ah, there is nothing I love better than to see Casey dressed up like that! I absolutely melt! Our prom is next Friday and I cannot wait! I know he will look stunning. I will have to take pics and let you all be the judge of the gorgeousness in the tux. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on May 05, 2006, 09:53:52 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=585#msg1008683 date=1146855896]
Blah. I have a busy weekend ahead. And Dave does, too. He's working an insane amount of hours. I probably won't get to talk to him much at all... boooo!
[/quote]
Yeah I hear that... my boyfriend graduated college last week and he has now got a very high paying job (good part) where he is working from 6am-6pm including Saturday's (very bad part). It takes me 2 hours to get to his place so weekdays are out of the question. We're hardly ever going to get to see eachother, except for Sundays where we have rehearsal, so that means no alone time. It is truly the suckiest thing ever...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 06, 2006, 03:41:43 am

*spins around in circles*

I am in heaven. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 06, 2006, 03:00:46 pm

Ah snail- thats no fun! Silly job hours! *Beats person who made up silly job hours*

I'm dressed like a fairy, waiting for Andy to arrive so we can doss off up to Kathryns then go round town. Sleep at hers tonight too- Andy cuddles all night! *Dances*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 06, 2006, 06:52:07 pm

Rawr... I miss my Dave. And it's double bad today, because I had this Honors Day thing earlier, and now that it's over, all my friends are already out at dinner. So I'm stuck here in my empty room all by myself. Boooo.

Good(ish) news is that Dave is getting off work early. So, after he grabs some food, I should be able to talk to him around 9 or so, as opposed to like midnight. Yay!

I hope this next week and a half goes by faaaaasst!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 07, 2006, 08:36:55 am

OK, this is Chris' new hair, as I was telling you about earlier.
It's grown on me now. I think it's because we were having a play with styling products and finally found something that works. lolol

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/Chris.jpg[/IMG]

So sexyful. :-*

I'm all lonely now though. He's gone to work, and doesn't finish until 9. Sobsob. Though, he says he may come around afterwards, because apparently all he wants to do is sit around playing zoo tycoon (don't ask) with me. Awww..... Mush! ;D :-[ :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 07, 2006, 10:07:46 am

For me it would depend on why the relationship ended in the first place. If it was something traumatic then I would not go back to it. If it was a mutual understandable thing, then maybe I'd think about it.

I would have to be sure that I really wanted to be with the person again before starting anything though. I'd have to have no doubts about whether it could work, and be confident that it was the right thing to do. If I was a little unsure about it, then I wouldn't bother.
I've been in a relationship that I wasn't sure about, and it was a mess, really. Ended up with me being and feeling like a real bitch. It was a really hard time for both of us. And from that, I've learnt to never start a relationship that I was wary of from the very beginning.

They're just my thoughts. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 07, 2006, 01:07:57 pm

I agree with what Taf said.. If you can handle it then why not? :)

Boo, Adam left today. 4 more weeks till I see him again. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on May 07, 2006, 07:54:10 pm

I agree with Tafika, it depends a great deal on why you two ended it in the first place. You may both have changed and matured in the time you've spent apart, and if you're sure that the same problems you once had will not occur again, then go for it! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on May 07, 2006, 11:15:23 pm

He said it! WEEE he finally said it. ;D

Too bad he had to do it over MSN though lol. But still, doesn't make much of a difference... he's so amazing and now I can scream how much I love him as much as I can. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 08, 2006, 04:13:03 am


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What do you girls think about getting back with a guy you've already been with and finished with over a year ago?


Been there, done that, he turned from being a best friend into being someone I hated and have only just sorta made up with but will be perfectly happy to never see again. But thats talking personally.

It might be worth you trying again if the end wasn't anything major last time. But evaluate it first- make sure you're not just doing it through pity/ feeling you can't find anyone else/ boredom. If you do go for it- good luck and have fun! *Crosses stuff*.

***

Yay for Snail! Love is in the (cyber) air! Ah! I'm so pleased for you- it's the coolest most squishy feeling in the world isn't it?!

***

So Saturday night cuddles didn't work as planned. Mix of sod all room and Andy snoring drove me to sleep in on the floor lol. Made up for it by kicking him out of his room next afternoon so I could sleep though!

He cooked ash and pancakes yesterday- I have a bloke who can cook! :o Yay!


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 08, 2006, 08:21:34 am

[quote author=Snail link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=600#msg1009834 date=1147058123]
He said it! WEEE he finally said it. ;D

Too bad he had to do it over MSN though lol. But still, doesn't make much of a difference... he's so amazing and now I can scream how much I love him as much as I can. ;D
[/quote]

Haha, I first heard it on the computer too. ;D Congrats! That is exactly how I reacted too. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on May 08, 2006, 09:01:12 am

Taf... chris looks so much younger with the hair cut... well not really... but younger none the less.. tis nice though.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 08, 2006, 11:17:07 am

He does look younger! I think that's what I didn't like about it at first. But now I think it rather suits him. Oh so sexy. ::)

Snail! YAY!! ;D Aww, you must be so happy right now! Hehe.

Chris stayed over last night, and we ended up sleeping in the living room with all the bedding that remained from Saturday night (moving it was effort, and we were both soooo tired) It was so comfy though, we had 4 double quilts of some form or another around us. Mmm. Cosy. ::)

He'd been in my house from Saturday afternoon until Monday morning! :o it's just crazy! (if you don't count when he went to work on Sunday afternoon) He's practically moved in! lol
Aww, I don't want my Mum and Dad to come home, this is too much fun. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 09, 2006, 03:51:44 am


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Aww, I don't want my Mum and Dad to come home, this is too much fun.


Aww bless your little cotton socks (in their many many designs and colours!). Can't wait for my rents to go away. Not having Andy over multiple nights cos it's slap bang in the middle of exam revision but still- can't wait! *Squee*

I think my reaction to being told 'I love you' was 'Really? Why?' ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 09, 2006, 09:06:56 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=600#msg1010365 date=1147161104]
I think my reaction to being told 'I love you' was 'Really? Why?' ::)
[/quote]

Haha! That's great, Buzzgirl. ;D I reacted pretty much like Snail and Pandora. I was ecstatic. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 09, 2006, 11:19:42 am

I really annoyed Chris today I think.
I was doing this thing where I was talking correctly ALL the time. Pronouncing every letter as it should be, and basically sounding scary posh. Haha! I kept it up for about 3 hours, and I think he was really pissed off at me after a while of it.
May have to make it up to him tonight.

Learning some citizenship crap (yes, the poshness has gone out the window) then having a quick tidy up, then shall be off to his to visit Jasper. I've not seen him in a while. I miss the little fellow.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on May 09, 2006, 09:37:54 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=600#msg1010365 date=1147161104]
I think my reaction to being told 'I love you' was 'Really? Why?' ::)
[/quote]
Yeah, that was running through my mind aswell lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 09, 2006, 11:03:25 pm

Haha, I was wondering if he was being serious or not when I first heard it. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 10, 2006, 03:39:00 am

[quote author=Snail link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=615#msg1010557 date=1147225074]
[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=600#msg1010365 date=1147161104]
I think my reaction to being told 'I love you' was 'Really? Why?' ::)
[/quote]
Yeah, that was running through my mind aswell lol.
[/quote]

Lol- it's natural isn't it?! I mean, afterwards I told him I loved him (although I'd known for weeks that I did, but didn't have the guts to say it first!) and then when he left I jumped up and down squee-ing, but that was my initial reaction.

Argh- men with colds are so useless! Had a very unsympathetic evening last night, 'cos he is bunged up and miserable, and I was major league p****d off (girl stuff related, not Andy related) so there was really no comforting for either of us last night!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 10, 2006, 06:26:35 am

I was the first to say 'I love you' because I am brave. Ha ha! ;)
But then, considering what we were doing at the time, the chances of him not saying it back were slim. :P

Stayed at his last night, still there now.
Was watching 'The Little Mermaid' and 'Finding Nemo' because, not only am I brave, but I am cool too.
He's currently in the shower. Ooooohhhhhhh..... ::)

I see he has more Disney DVDs. Ooohh. Going to have to borrow these. 'Lady and the Tramp' 'Robin Hood' 'Pinocchio'...
It seems it's rather good to have a boyfriend with a little sister. Means I can relive my childhood when I should be doing revision. Wooo! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 10, 2006, 08:18:21 am

Haha, Disney movies.. I got my boyfriend into watching them again so he's been buying a few now.. Says they're to study for his future career and all but he does enjoy them. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on May 10, 2006, 08:34:06 am

Ahahaha! That cat! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 10, 2006, 08:38:09 am

Aww- you got disney! I got 'Airplane' which is silly humour perfectly appealing to 10 year old boys. I'm making him get decent movies I swear. Mind you- he has about a 1000 DVDs in his room alone, so there must be something I wanna watch. Will have to study them. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on May 10, 2006, 03:40:39 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=615#msg1010715 date=1147264689]
Aww- you got disney! I got 'Airplane' which is silly humour perfectly appealing to 10 year old boys. I'm making him get decent movies I swear. Mind you- he has about a 1000 DVDs in his room alone, so there must be something I wanna watch. Will have to study them. :)
[/quote]
Hahaha Airplane! Greatest movie ever. Stupid humour is always the best.

My boyfriend actually has really good taste in movies. He was a media and film minor at college, so he knows what to watch. We have the exact same taste.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 10, 2006, 03:58:41 pm

Me and Chris have the same tastes in films most of the time. It's great. ;D
And we're both Media students in College at the moment, and he wants to carry it on into University.

lolol, just watched Lady and the Tramp. ::) 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 10, 2006, 06:05:50 pm

[quote author=Snail link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=615#msg1010557 date=1147225074]
[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=600#msg1010365 date=1147161104]
I think my reaction to being told 'I love you' was 'Really? Why?' ::)
[/quote]
Yeah, that was running through my mind aswell lol.
[/quote]

Haha, nice! :D

I remember the first time Casey told me that. I don't honestly recall who said it first, but when he told me, I melted! ::) I simply adored it. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 10, 2006, 08:38:58 pm

Yeah, me and Adam both enjoy the same type of films.. he is majoring in directing and screen writing now (you can see his first short film from last semester in the other media section ;)) and he has awesome taste.. He's shown me some great movies even music as well. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 11, 2006, 03:43:03 am

We usually enjoy the same types of films. The only thing we disagree on is the stupid humour. He loves it, and I can just about deal with it aslong as it isn't gross-out humour.

We're both back to being happy selves! *Dances* Had a loooooooong talk last night which we havn't managed in ages. ;D

He says he's going to do something special for me. Last time in involved wine and rose petals and nakedness so I'm rather excited.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 11, 2006, 09:09:43 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=615#msg1010990 date=1147333383]
He says he's going to do something special for me. Last time in involved wine and rose petals and nakedness so I'm rather excited.
[/quote]

Mmm...sounds nice. Have fun with that. ;)

I went over to Andrew's house yesterday for a few hours after school. We had a very nice time together. I have to say, the man knows what he's doing. ::) :-*

It's so weird, too. We spent hours together yesterday and today we already miss each other. I can't wait till I'm back in his arms again. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 12, 2006, 03:36:19 am


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It's so weird, too. We spent hours together yesterday and today we already miss each other. I can't wait till I'm back in his arms again.


Lol- I know how that feels. The longer you spend with them, the more you want to see them. It's a catch 22!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 12, 2006, 04:18:35 pm

I really really hate this time of year.
I want to see Chris more and more, and yet every time I'm woth him I think about what I should be doing. And whenever I do what I should be doing, I can't concentrate because I'm just thinking about him, and wanting to spend time with him. Sobsob.
The end of June will be hard. I finish my exams before he does, so I'll have to leave him to carry on working while all I want to do is relax and have fun.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 12, 2006, 04:45:54 pm

Buzzgirl - Haha! Catch 22! Seriously, though, it is. ::) :P

Tafi - Aww. I'm sorry! Just try not to focus on your school stuff, or whatever it is, when you're with Chris. Just enjoy his company. And June isn't too far off! :) When does he finish his exams? Hopefully not too far after so you guys can enjoy your break together.

Andrew will be done with his exams in early June but I won't be till June 19th. *sigh* Oh well. I just can't wait till we have more time to spend time together. Sundays and Wednesdays are just not enough. :'(

He's so cute though. He texted me last night after we got off the phone and said, "I just wanted to tell you again that I love you." ;D I love that guy. Have I said that before? :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 13, 2006, 04:07:27 am

Our exams both end at the end of June. But his end a week or 2 after mine do. It's not too far. But I don't like delaying the celebration chill out. lol :P

Aww, yesterday, I wore the stupidest (yet pretty) shoes to college. And Chris offered to walk home to get his car, to come to college, pick me up and take me home so I wouldn't have to walk anywhere. Bless him. ::)
I felt guilty for that though, so I just hobbled into town to buy cheapo flip flops so I could hobble less painfully to his house.

Aww Lumos. I love those texts, especially when they come a couple of minutes after you'd left each other, or finished talking on the phone. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 13, 2006, 12:33:52 pm

Aww, Taf, that's so sweet. Chris sounds like such a sweetie. :)

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=630#msg1011597 date=1147507647]
Aww Lumos. I love those texts, especially when they come a couple of minutes after you'd left each other, or finished talking on the phone. ;D
[/quote]

I know, I never get tired of them. It's always nice when they're thoughtful isn't it? Oh, and by the way, you can call me Maria. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 13, 2006, 02:06:10 pm

Hello all! Everyone seems to be doing well. That makes me very glad! Well, prepare yourselves! I have much to gush about! *Takes deep breath...*

Last night was our prom night! It was held at the most beautiful place. It is called Deer Park. Everything was so romantic. Caey and I danced under the moonlight (since the dance floor was outside...very cool.). We held each other close during each slow song (and fast songs, haha, but enough there...) ;D. I remember him kissing me and constantly telling me how much he loves me. *melts!* He looked soo handsome! When prom came to an end, we went back to my friends house to stay the night. This was my first night spending the night with him, so youall can imagine the excitement I felt. ;D We began to watch "Tristan & Isolde" but we soon fell asleep in eachothers arms... It was so beautiful to me...*smiles GINORMOUSLY* ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 13, 2006, 07:59:01 pm

Awwwww Megs!!!!!!! That sounds so beautiful. I am so glad your prom was a wonderful experience.

By the way, I want to see Tristan & Isolde SO badly! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 13, 2006, 08:15:22 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=630#msg1011943 date=1147564741]
Awwwww Megs!!!!!!! That sounds so beautiful. I am so glad your prom was a wonderful experience.

By the way, I want to see Tristan & Isolde SO badly! ;D
[/quote]

Aw, thank you Maria! I know I will never forget it. ;D (And Tristan & Isolde is a very good movie. :))

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 14, 2006, 05:59:22 am

Ehh, my parents come home on Tuesday. I want Chris to stay over (or me to his) once more before they return to spoil my fun. Trouble is, the last Sunday night he stayed nearly killed us (8:50 start on Monday for us both) and Monday night... I don't know when they come home on Tuesday, it could be early morning seeing as they set off on Monday. Eep. And Boo. :(
Mind you, you never know, they'll know I've been staying over at his and t'other way round, so maybe they'll be cool about the whole thing and let me stay over with their blessing? Or, they could be pissed off at me for not asking permission... :-\
Time will tell.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 15, 2006, 04:08:29 am


Quote:
Aww Lumos. I love those texts, especially when they come a couple of minutes after you'd left each other, or finished talking on the phone.


I'm sure I remember you been scornful of the whole soppy texts fetish when you first started going out with him. Glad to see you've been subverted! Lol.
Andy texted me during a phne conversation the other day to say 'wanted to make you smile' cos I mentioned (literally five minutes before he sent it) that when I'm having a bad day, seeing his name on the message ID always makes me smile.

Yay for Megs! *Does the yay dance*


Quote:
maybe they'll be cool about the whole thing and let me stay over with their blessing


Wish my rents were that cool. I'm trying to work up the courage to ask if I can stay over at Andys after going out to Lauras 18th next week (you coming Kathryn?) but it's hard. Lol. Think I might just go for the I'm going to do this, so nah approach. And then run...

Andy starts his new job today. He was so nervous last night, bless him. Sounds weird but I'm gonna be a nervous wreak all day today until I hear from him! ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 15, 2006, 11:09:40 am


Quote:
I'm sure I remember you been scornful of the whole soppy texts fetish when you first started going out with him. Glad to see you've been subverted! Lol.


No... I like soppy texts. I just don't like it when you get them every day. They're predictable after a while and leave you with "Yeah, whatever" feelings. Which was the case with my ex. I'd get them like this about 10 times per day, and that's what drove me away.
Chris sends soppy texts, but only on occaision. So it's a surprise, and a nice change from "You coming round tonight?" to "Just wanted to remind you how amazing you are"

[quote]Wish my rents were that cool. I'm trying to work up the courage to ask if I can stay over at Andys after going out to Lauras 18th next week (you coming Kathryn?) but it's hard. Lol. Think I might just go for the I'm going to do this, so nah approach. And then run...
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Just fight your case if they tell you that you can't. Stand your ground. I mean, I don't see any reason for not letting you. You've stayed over before, they know it's a serious relationship, you've been together over a year... what harm is it going to do?
Unless you have something specific that you need to be up bright and early for the next day or something like that... they have no case...
One to really corner them is the "Don't you trust me?" argument. Works like a charm. ;)

And no, I'm not going. I wouldn't say I'm close to Laura at all these days. I've only seen her 3 times in the last 2 years, and both times we hardly talked at all. Plus, she didn't invite me, Jenny did.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 15, 2006, 12:09:53 pm


Quote:
One to really corner them is the "Don't you trust me?" argument. Works like a charm

Ah emotional blackmail- innit great?! Lol.

I must be mistaking you with a real world person re. the texts. (But wait- you are a real world person to me. Ah shoot- this is confusing...)

Andy seems to have died in his first day of work- he hasn't got back to me about how it went. Lol. Men! I'll catch up with him about it tonight.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on May 15, 2006, 12:44:53 pm

I had the best time ever Saturday night! That was my school's prom night and Mark came! It was great! My friends also have a field day pcikin on us becuase we're the only couple. But, oh my gosh! His parent's got pictures of us cracking up before dinner. Then he got his dad's camera phone for the night. And then, all my friends had brought cameras. A side from that, it was excellent! I loved it! Mark is such a sweetheart! Just an all around sweetheart. I love him sooo much! I honestly can't tell you guys how many times I heard, I love you, Saturday night. I've got the biggest smile as I'm typing this. I litteraly spent the whole entire time in his arms. I can promise you he didn't object. Anyway, I'll tell you guys more later. I better get off. I'm in the middle of class.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 15, 2006, 01:39:44 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=630#msg1012446 date=1147705780]
No... I like soppy texts. I just don't like it when you get them every day. They're predictable after a while and leave you with "Yeah, whatever" feelings. Which was the case with my ex. I'd get them like this about 10 times per day, and that's what drove me away.
Chris sends soppy texts, but only on occaision. So it's a surprise, and a nice change from "You coming round tonight?" to "Just wanted to remind you how amazing you are"
[/quote]

Those are always nice. I just hate those predictable ones, but luckily the oens Andrew sends me are always surprising. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 15, 2006, 05:31:24 pm


Quote:
Yay for Megs! *Does the yay dance*


Hehe, thank you babe! ;D :-*

Speaking of spending the night, yeah, Friday was the first time spending the night with Casey, but I doubt my parents will let it happen often. It'd be a huge deal if he could stay over here or I stay over at his house. We didn't get to sleep the entire night together on Friday, but the majority we did. So, I am quite satisfied. I do recall waking up at the same time around 4 a.m. FOr some reason, we just layed there and talked about sweet things, kissed, and smiled at each other till we feel aspleed in each other's arms once more...*melts again*... ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 16, 2006, 03:54:24 am


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I've got the biggest smile as I'm typing this.

Aww- bless you!

I feel really cheated when you lot get on about spending the night in your SO's arms. I can't do that. I get really claustrophobic when I'm too close to someone and trying to sleep. plus the snoring is kinda hard to sleep through

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 16, 2006, 08:01:26 am

[quote author=>>Octavarium<< link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=630#msg1012623 date=1147728684]
Speaking of spending the night, yeah, Friday was the first time spending the night with Casey, but I doubt my parents will let it happen often. It'd be a huge deal if he could stay over here or I stay over at his house. We didn't get to sleep the entire night together on Friday, but the majority we did. So, I am quite satisfied. I do recall waking up at the same time around 4 a.m. FOr some reason, we just layed there and talked about sweet things, kissed, and smiled at each other till we feel aspleed in each other's arms once more...*melts again*... ;D
[/quote]

*melts with Megs into a sappy little puddle*

I have only gotten to spend the night with Andrew once, and like you, I would highly doubt if there was a second time anywhere in the near future. What happened was that my mom was in New Jersey, and my dad and sister broke down in another county and had to stay over in a hotel. I was already at Andrew's, so he took me to my house to get some clothes, and then I spent the night at his house. It was so wonderfully sweet. It was unreal to kiss (more than once, I assure you) and fall asleep in his arms. But the best part was waking up and having him right next to me.

Okay, so, I have an Andrew update. Yesterday was my last geometry class, even though I don't finish school till June 19th. Ick. So, I knew Andrew was going to come and visit me after it was over because I'm leaving today to go to Rhode Island and I won't see him for a little over a week.

Anyway, when I went outside, my dad wasn't even there. I waited for a couple of minutes, and then Andrew drove up. I opened the door to his car and said hi, and then he was like, "I have to run an errand really quick. Why don't you get in the car and come with me? It's right down the road."

Well, I hesitated because as of yesterday, my mom was really pissed off at me. If I drove off with Andrew and then came back in his car, I knew my parents would kill me. I mean, here I was supposed to be waiting outside for them. But I said okay, and we drove to do his quick errand. The whole time I was sick with worry, convinced that I would be grounded. Then, after the errand, he started driving in the complete opposite way of my class.

"What are you doing?" I demanded. Andrew started laughing. "Well," he said. "I called your dad, who negotiated with your mom. You're coming home with me for the day." I was so happy! What possessed my mother to say yes I don't know, but I'm glad she did. Anyway, after the initial happiness, I smacked Andrew. He almost gave me heart failure!

But it was worth it because I had such a great day with him. I'm going to miss him this week. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 16, 2006, 10:10:22 am

[quote]Anyway, after the initial happiness, I smacked Andrew. He almost gave me heart failure!
[/quote]
Lol- ooh- that was sneaky!

I'm being robbed of Andy-night tonight! >:( They've put me in for a promotion change at work. Which will be BORING! I want... cuddles. Yes, cuddles. *Shift eyes*. Have to see him tommorow, but it'll be at my house, which si never as good. I just don't feel as comfortable at mine as I do at his.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 16, 2006, 11:34:47 am

Whee! *Dance.* My freshman year of college is nearly over! I move out today, and then I have an exam tonight, and another tomorrow morning. And then I head HOME for the summer! ;D

I can't wait to see Dave again. Yay. It's been almost 3 weeks, and I miss him like crazy. I cannot WAIT to get to see him everyday again!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 16, 2006, 05:23:06 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=645#msg1012878 date=1147780886]
[quote author=>>Octavarium<< link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=630#msg1012623 date=1147728684]
Speaking of spending the night, yeah, Friday was the first time spending the night with Casey, but I doubt my parents will let it happen often. It'd be a huge deal if he could stay over here or I stay over at his house. We didn't get to sleep the entire night together on Friday, but the majority we did. So, I am quite satisfied. I do recall waking up at the same time around 4 a.m. FOr some reason, we just layed there and talked about sweet things, kissed, and smiled at each other till we feel aspleed in each other's arms once more...*melts again*... ;D
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*melts with Megs into a sappy little puddle*

I have only gotten to spend the night with Andrew once, and like you, I would highly doubt if there was a second time anywhere in the near future. What happened was that my mom was in New Jersey, and my dad and sister broke down in another county and had to stay over in a hotel. I was already at Andrew's, so he took me to my house to get some clothes, and then I spent the night at his house. It was so wonderfully sweet. It was unreal to kiss (more than once, I assure you) and fall asleep in his arms. But the best part was waking up and having him right next to me.

Okay, so, I have an Andrew update. Yesterday was my last geometry class, even though I don't finish school till June 19th. Ick. So, I knew Andrew was going to come and visit me after it was over because I'm leaving today to go to Rhode Island and I won't see him for a little over a week.

Anyway, when I went outside, my dad wasn't even there. I waited for a couple of minutes, and then Andrew drove up. I opened the door to his car and said hi, and then he was like, "I have to run an errand really quick. Why don't you get in the car and come with me? It's right down the road."

Well, I hesitated because as of yesterday, my mom was really pissed off at me. If I drove off with Andrew and then came back in his car, I knew my parents would kill me. I mean, here I was supposed to be waiting outside for them. But I said okay, and we drove to do his quick errand. The whole time I was sick with worry, convinced that I would be grounded. Then, after the errand, he started driving in the complete opposite way of my class.

"What are you doing?" I demanded. Andrew started laughing. "Well," he said. "I called your dad, who negotiated with your mom. You're coming home with me for the day." I was so happy! What possessed my mother to say yes I don't know, but I'm glad she did. Anyway, after the initial happiness, I smacked Andrew. He almost gave me heart failure!

But it was worth it because I had such a great day with him. I'm going to miss him this week. :'(
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Haha, that is very sneaky of him! But sweet too. :)

Our school yearbook signing was yesterday. I want to share with you what Casey put in mine. ;D

"Hey Babe, I love u & I couldn't ask for anyone better than u. You are perfect." And all over the rest of my yearbook he randomly wrote "I love you!!!" and on my back page, he wrote in huge letters, "I <3 U" ;D Hehe, it made me smile alot. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 17, 2006, 03:49:07 am

Aww bless Casey! He sounds great your man.

Getting to see my Andy tonight! Ok, so it's only 3 days since I saw him last but I can be excited! Gonna just chill at mine I think. I'm taking him out for a meal on Friday though to celebrate his first week at work. Lol- hows that for feminism?!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 17, 2006, 04:42:03 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=645#msg1013253 date=1147852147]
Aww bless Casey! He sounds great your man.

Getting to see my Andy tonight! Ok, so it's only 3 days since I saw him last but I can be excited! Gonna just chill at mine I think. I'm taking him out for a meal on Friday though to celebrate his first week at work. Lol- hows that for feminism?!
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He is really great. ;D I have another little story to tell in a bit. Very sweet.

Aww, Im glad you get to see him! :-* Have fun!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 17, 2006, 05:02:58 pm

Aww, how sweet everyone is being.
I'd comment further, but I'm really depressed at the moment.

The parents are home, and after getting used to living how I like, I'm suddenly back into living by their rules whether I like it or not, and basically feel like a kid again.
For f*cks sake I'm 18. Treat me like I am! >:(

Was hoping to see Chris, becuase just being with him cheers me up. But he was working late and so there wasn't time.
Was hoping to see him tomorrow night, like I usually do. But I'm going out with people from work.
So I'll not get to see him properly until Saturday. Which is just shit. :'(

I'm feeling so down right now. And I just want him to be around so I can feel a little happier.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 17, 2006, 07:29:27 pm

Aww, Taf I'm sorry you're having a lousy day. :-\ I know what it's like to long to spend alone time and such with your man. Casey and I are trying to find that time now.

I do, on the other hand, have a sweet story to share. You all may find it pointless and lame, but it is little things such as this that makes me weak in the knees. ;D

Okay, well it was after school and Casey just gave me a hug and kiss goodbye as I waited for my brother by our car. Casey went over to his car to leave. He was driving past me and then he unexpectedly stops. He jumps out of his car and runs towards me. He picks me up in his arms and sweetly kisses me. *melts once more into little puddle of Megsie ;D* He looked at me for a moment and said "I love you, Megan," and then hugged and kissed me one last time and then got back in his car, smiling all the while. I don't know, but it was very sweet and unforgetable to me. Geez, we've been dating for a year and about 5 months, and little things like that are stillt he highlights of my days. :) I'm so in love. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 20, 2006, 06:46:13 pm

Awww, Megs, that's really sweet! ;D

OK... huge gushing to be done now... I had a huge surprise today!

After work, I met Chris, we got him some dinner and then went to the club so he could see someone and then go back to his.
His car was blocked in, so we had to wait around a while until we could get out. Sat around talking to my Dad and basically being bored by the whole Wargame thing...

Finally got to his and was told that I should on no account even say 'hello' to Paige (his little sister) and he very quickly ushered me into his room. He then covered my head with his duvet and told me he'd got me a present, and I couldn't look. He walked around his room for a while, and then came back to me, uncovered my head, kissed me, and said "That's it". Me acting all frustrated because I thought he'd genuinely bought me something. A while of laughing at me, he then tells me he has bought me something...

A while of jokey clues, such as "It's something for when you go to Uni and won't see each other as much, to keep you amused in my absence" and "it begins with 'vi-' and ends in '-or'"
Me thinking "Oh no! He hasn't! I'll kill him!"

He then randomly pulls out this box...
He's only gone and got me a Nintendo DS! Seriously! To me this is amazing! I've been wanting one for ages! And it's pink! :o
I was so shocked and so happy. And the whole build up tripled it all! lolol

A while of playing it, and I turn it off for a little rest (It came with Nintendogs, which is hardly the most entertaining of games...) I say "Oh I need to get 'Animal Crossing' now"

He then says "Oh... I'll save you the trouble." and hands me 'Animal Crossing'
Seriously! What is with the surprises!?!!

But yeah, I don't want to think about how much he's spent on me. I feel so spoiled!
He says I should consider it to be an early 6 month anniversary present.
Awwwwwww...

I'm so lucky to have him! ;D

Apparently, I couldn't talk to Paige because she found it and had asked questions, and he knew that if I saw her she would talk about it and basically spoil the whole surprise thing. lolol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on May 21, 2006, 04:19:00 am

Awww taf that's so cute! hahaha! actually made me smile as a random third person over the internet! hehehe! what a lovely man you've found urself!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 21, 2006, 11:03:34 am

Aww Taf!!! That is soo sweet! ;D You do have a very sweet gentleman on your hands it seems! Your story made me smile too! ;D


Casey and I went out to dinner with my family last night and then we wne tback to my place. We spent the evening watching The Fellowship of the Ring (Exteneded Edition...of course! ;)). We layed on my couch, cuddled up in each other's arms. I loved it. It was just what I needed after having a nasty cold. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 21, 2006, 11:14:11 am

Ah- that's so ace of Chris, Kathryn! *wishes she'd taken Andy up on the offer of getting her one for Xmas). Is animal crossing good? I'm thinking I may invest in it and a DS at some point.

Took Andy out last night. (Was meant to be going to my mates 18 but I've been ill, and to tell the truth I wasn't exactly bothered for going anyway cos no-one else was really going and I'm not a round town kinda girl. Plus it meant I didn't have to ask for permission to stay at Andys, which I would've loved to do but hell- my mother scares me. Lol). Had a nice lil Italian meal, and forced him to not complain about me paying. Took him a bit of time to get into the not being stereotypical masculine, but he enjoyed it in the end. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 21, 2006, 11:17:59 am


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and forced him to not complain about me paying. Took him a bit of time to get into the not being stereotypical masculine, but he enjoyed it in the end.


Ah, that is the typical gentleman for you though. I find it sweet when they insist to pay for everything (though I do not allow Casey to do so all the time.) ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 21, 2006, 11:38:08 am

Lol yeah it is sweet. But I wanted to take him out to say well done for his new job, so I wasn't backing down! Lol. Plus, I still owe him £12 from my iPod (he gave me £30 towards it, but I insisted on paying it back- I'm not comfy with the spending.) Not knocking £12 off the dinner bill though, so still owehim that! ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 21, 2006, 02:13:51 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=645#msg1015746 date=1148225888]
Lol yeah it is sweet. But I wanted to take him out to say well done for his new job, so I wasn't backing down! Lol. Plus, I still owe him £12 from my iPod (he gave me £30 towards it, but I insisted on paying it back- I'm not comfy with the spending.) Not knocking £12 off the dinner bill though, so still owehim that! ::)
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Haha, yeah that is understandable. Our men just don't seem to understand that sometimes. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 21, 2006, 03:04:52 pm

Me and Chris pay for things equally, and it doesn't bother us when we spend money on each other. I don't see what the problem is with girls paying for stuff for their boyfriends, I mean... we do have money! lol
Chris even tells me I should pay for something when I've not paid in a while. lol
He's not a Gentlemen in that respect, and I'm rather glad. ::)

I'm wondering what comments I'm going to get from my couple friends tomorrow about this DS. You know, those friends that only ever get one of the following from their boyfriends: Flowers, chocolates, teddies, jewellrey.

I love how Chris puts thought into gifts he'll buy me, rather than the usual "I wonder what girls like?" thought of the other guys I know. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: frodomyhero on May 21, 2006, 08:14:45 pm

this June , my hubby and i will be celebrating our 30th anniversary........
I'm so gushing about him......... we have lived so much .... more than I could even describe.. :o ;D :o ;D :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 22, 2006, 12:30:44 am

Awww, yay for everyone and their cute stories!!!

I'm finally home, and it's soooo amazingly nice to know that Dave is just a short 10 minute drive away. Ah, I've seen him everyday since I've been home, and will probably continue to do so all summer. Yay, it's been wonderful. We've mostly just been at each others' houses, watching movies, eating ice cream, and cuddling and such. 'Tis very nice. We're making plans for all the fun things we want to do this summer.... Gah, I'm so in love! *Melt.*

Yeah, I'm not against paying for stuff for Dave, either. I actually kind of like it. We don't really go out to dinner much as it is, so that's not much of an issue. And we see most movies for free, since we both work at the cinema. But other stuff, we tend to both pay at different times.

And we're also all about surprising each other. It's fun! A lot of times, we go to the dollar store randomly, and then leave stuff on each others' cars while one of us is at work. Haha. I love finding little surprises from him when I head home from a long day of work, and he enjoys them, too. We don't do the all-out random gifts so much, but I have to admit I don't mind. I like the cheap, spur-of-the moment surprises much better, anyway!

But Kat, that was very very sweet of Chris. Yay! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 22, 2006, 03:42:18 am

Ah- 30 years! Well done frodomyhero! That seems a long time. Wow...

Yay for flummoxed and Dave! It's great isn't it?!

I'm not against paying for stuff (example- I always pay for tea and apple pie when we call in the cafe, as we do quite regularly) but Andy feels a bit weird letting me pay for big stuff. I'm poor, and he has a full time job. I think he feels guiltly, despite me telling him not to. Bless. It's all quite cute really!


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I love how Chris puts thought into gifts he'll buy me, rather than the usual "I wonder what girls like?" thought of the other guys I know.

It's so much better when they do that isn't it? The best presents I've ever got off Andy were all 7 'Buffy' series' (over 7 months lol); 'Serentiy' and 'Firefly' (I'm a Whedon fangirl me!); and some eyeshadows I'd been craving for months. Chocolate and flowers are nice- I love getting flowers- but you can't beat the personal stuff.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 22, 2006, 08:53:58 am

*sigh* I miss Andrew so much!!!! I am still out of town and I won't see him till Wednesday. We've been apart for over a week now. I know it's not a terribly long time, but it's amazing how quickly you begin to miss a person. I just want to be held in his arms again. :)

You know, we had our first fight the day before yesterday. It wasn't bad, but to us it was, because we had never fought before. But it turned out alright, because we both apologized, worked it out, and were fine again before we hung up the phone. I just love him so much. It's like no matter what we do to frustrate each other, the love we have weighs everything out. :)

MyFrodo, wow! 30 years! Congratulations to the both of you. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on May 22, 2006, 12:42:27 pm

I can't wait for Friday! Takin Mark and my younger cousin Alex to see X-Men 3! My treat. Get to "spoil", two of the most important guys in my life. But, this past Friday was pretty fun. Yeah, the power sort of went out over at Mark's for a little while. I was over but it was fun. Learned something, never try and play pool in the dark. Doesn't work very well. Other than that, it was pretty fun. We are both such dorks. I'll admit to it and so will Mark. We hardly ever fight. We've grown up together so that might be part of it. Not sure, but I absloutly love him! Oh yeah, forgot to mention (this is sort of off topic) my dad got a heart translplant!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 22, 2006, 12:52:32 pm


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Learned something, never try and play pool in the dark.

That is going to be my quote for life now. :)

Is your Dad recovering from the surgery ok?


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You know, we had our first fight the day before yesterday. It wasn't bad, but to us it was, because we had never fought before. But it turned out alright, because we both apologized, worked it out, and were fine again before we hung up the phone.

Ick- the first fight is a right biatch innit? I can count on three fingers the amount of times I've been real pissy at Andy. I'm glad about that- I never got the 'if we fight we're in love' philosophy.

Off to the theatre with him and my family tonight. Should be a laugh.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 22, 2006, 02:28:24 pm

Eh, yeah, fighting is never fun. Luckily, Dave and I have never had any serious fights. We've had plenty of smaller ones, but they're the sort where one of us gets a bit pissy, which pisses the other off, and things just escalate in a silly manner. But usually we talk it out, and it's over with within the hour. We've never had a fight last longer than it takes to have a conversation, which I think is good. I dunno what I'd do if we had one of those fights that lasts for days... *Shudder.* Let's hope that never happens! Lol.

Hmm, get to see Dave right after school today. Yay! I'm just so excited to be home and so close to him! *Dance.* It's wonderful.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 22, 2006, 02:44:58 pm

30 years? Wow! Congrats to you both! ;D

And hurray for those who are getting to spend more time with each other again. ;D

Me and Chris are going to see Xmen3 on Thursday after College. I have no money to my name at all at the moment, but I'm going to pay him in. I can cope with being overdrawn for a week, and risk that 5 pence fine for doing so. He's worth it. lolol ;)

I'm thinking of something I can do to equal the DS for a 6th month anniversary present.
I'm thinking about seeing if I can get into his house on that day and surprise him with something. Maybe fill his room with lots of little gifts... nice ones, cheesey ones, and crazy silly ones...
The whole surprising thing may be tricky though, seeing as he doesn't work Thursday, and study leave starts next week, so he'll be home all that day... Hmm...

I think a trip shopping will be in order next week, when I get paid. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 23, 2006, 03:50:24 am

Get one of his mates to take him out Kat. Even if it's just for an hour for a celebrating the end of college drink. :) Sounds a cool idea. Good luck with it!


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 23, 2006, 05:53:33 am

Hmm... yes, problem...
I don't know any of his friends... I know of them... and I've seen a few... but I can't remember their names, wouldn't know how to get hold of them (would be useful to know names for this... I'd just get their numbers off his phone...)
Plus... he doesn't drink does he.
Haha. What.A.Loser. ;)

No matter, I'll find a way... ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elijahfrodo1990 on May 23, 2006, 06:17:57 am

I recently fell in love. It was going great until....
I'm speaking about myself but I felt like saying this as if I was talking for everyone!

Being in love is great!! Someone is there to hold you! It feels so good! But when your lover trys to get into your pants when you don't want them too. You tend to yelled "NO!" and jump up! Then you get into a fight. That always hurts your feelings. But then your partner comes back and says sorry.

If that ever happens again. We're through!!!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Honey84 on May 23, 2006, 07:35:53 am

Good for you Elijahfrodo :)

I thought men would stop being so obsessed with sex when they left their teens and puberty behind.

Turns out, I was wrong. Good for you for saying no though. Too many people just go along with it and then live to regret it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 23, 2006, 08:34:45 am

[quote]Plus... he doesn't drink does he.
Haha. What.A.Loser.
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What not even coka cola?! :P Nah- andy hardly drinks anymore either (thank god he grew out of the getting bladdered/ high three times a week phase...)

ElijahFrodo- go you. Your body, your principles! Don't argue just get him telled. Lol. *Hugs*

I'm so glad I found Andy. Was sat in our sixth form study before lessons and there was this group of lads, talking about one lad (who'd evidently just done the dirty with the girlfriend). One of them goes '5 months? It's usually takes me 5 minutes!' and all the others laughed and agreed etc. I'm so glad Andy isn't like that (although apparently he was one of those type minus the actually having the dirty when he was at college! ::) Lol). And then we had a fire drill, and I was stood on the field surrounded by lads acting the same as this. And I just though 'my god- if I didn't have Andy I'd have to go celibate!' Got to say, if I didn't I think I'd have to go for older men. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 23, 2006, 12:03:09 pm

Kristine, good for you saying no. Keep doing that. No one has the right to push you for anything.

Plans for tonight...
Getting chocolate.
Going to Chris'.
Playing Zoo Tycoon.

LOLOL! ;D

Love it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 23, 2006, 12:07:05 pm

Lucky sod.

Plans for tonight...
Driving lesson
Revision
Not seeing Andy despite it being 'our night' due to the above.

BAH!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elijahfrodo1990 on May 23, 2006, 05:07:44 pm

Thanks girls! :-*

I called him today and told if he wants to keep seeing me he's going to have to respect my choice and take things slower. I don't like to be pushed into something I don't want to do. :)

By the way, his name is Jason.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 24, 2006, 01:19:03 pm

Well, I hope Jason realises his mistake and knows that no means no from now on. Hope it all works out for you Kristine. *Hugs*

Ahhh...
Had the best day yesterday. Was so nice.
I have the best boyfriend in the world. ;D
Yay me!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 25, 2006, 03:51:34 am

I
am
sooooooooooooooooooo
in
love
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Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 25, 2006, 03:57:35 am

Yay Ruth! ;D

Me and Chris off to the cinema tonight.
Going to be with him from lunchtime at college, have my last (and only come to think of it...) 2 lessons with him, and we're then off for a shopping trip, dinner and then the cinema. After that, I will most likely be taken back to his to sit around doing nothing.
Hurray.
It's my reward for doing SO much work at home yesterday. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 25, 2006, 08:18:05 am

I want my Andy. Had such a good night last night just wearingdoing basically nothing (well, we watched the karate kid movie!) and it was nothing special but still totally squee for some reason.
*Le happy sigh*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on May 25, 2006, 09:05:48 am

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I
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love
!
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Me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Excessive exclamation points are a clue, I think!) Yesterday Andrew and I got some VERY much needed time together before I won't see him for another week. I'm going to tell my parents the next time we visit family, Andrew's coming with us, haha. I actually don't know if I would have the heart to bring him up to New Jersey to see my scary (I mean interesting) family. My grandmother would probably disown him because he has long hair. ::)

Anyway, I'm happy and so very much in love, so I thought I'd gush with you guys for a bit. Although I must say that after yesterday's activities ( ;D ) I really miss Andrew already. The thought of not seeing him for another week, when we were already apart for 8 days really sucks. Ah well. My family is annoying - what can a person do?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 25, 2006, 04:14:58 pm

*wanders in* haven't been able to gush lately since the boy's not here... but he comes back in 6 days! Woo!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 26, 2006, 03:52:22 am


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I actually don't know if I would have the heart to bring him up to New Jersey to see my scary (I mean interesting) family.


Lol I introduced Andy to my huge and very drunk family two months after I started going out with him. My family are scary to the uninitiated. I think he's starting to be able to handle them now though- only taken 17 months! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 26, 2006, 06:09:13 am

Me and Chris don't have much to do with my family. The only people around are my parents, and I'm not going to go to any lengths to get him to meet my Grandparents and Aunts and Uncles. A photo of him is good enough for him. lolol

I see his family all the time, he has 2 brothers and one sister, so his house is always full of people, friends, other girlfriends etc...
His family is cool. Even though his Dad does enjoy making sex jokes at him to embarrass him. I just find it funny. ;D

I'm making a very difficult decision to cancel my usual Saturday night Chris time. Because I have a feeling if I say "I'm going to Chris'" one more time this week my Dad will come down on me like a ton of bricks, RE - Time I spend on revision... or... lack of, rather. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 26, 2006, 07:07:51 am

Least its only for a short while Kat.

EDIT- met Andy after work (at his now). He looks dah sex in a suit but took it off before I got a pic. Boo!


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 26, 2006, 08:51:32 pm

Whee, I love my boyfriend. He is so fun and cute and... ah, love. ;D

He taught me how to play Risk the other day, and now I'm pretty much obsessed. Heehee. It's fun. And he didn't even totally obliterate me the first couple times we played. Lol.

And then last night he made me smile lots. We had tornado warnings here where I live, and he called me as soon as they went up to tell me to keep an eye on the TV. Then he called back about 10 minutes later to say, "The tornado sirens are going off here at my house. Go get in your basement!" Aww, so cute. Little things like that really remind me how amazing he is. (Oh, and we ended up not getting a tornado. Yay. Haha.).

This weekend sucks, though. I didn't see Dave at at today because he was on a class trip. And I won't see him at all tomorrow because he works the morning shift, and I work evening shift at work. We may pass each other as he's on his way out and I'm headed in, but that's about it. Poo, I say.

But yay for Brittany! I'm glad your boy is home soon!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 27, 2006, 02:10:35 am

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=675#msg1016696 date=1148691092]
And then last night he made me smile lots. We had tornado warnings here where I live, and he called me as soon as they went up to tell me to keep an eye on the TV. Then he called back about 10 minutes later to say, "The tornado sirens are going off here at my house. Go get in your basement!" Aww, so cute. Little things like that really remind me how amazing he is. (Oh, and we ended up not getting a tornado. Yay. Haha.).
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That is SO cute, Flummoxed! He really does sound like a great guy! Lucky you! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 27, 2006, 11:29:01 am

Everyone seems to be quite happy and in love! YAY! ;D

Well, I am currently anxiously awaiting a call from Casey. He is over at a friends house and he is supposedly going to come get me. We are going to go swimming over there, hopefully. Can you say...hot tub? Haha! ;D

Later on this evening, Casey's family is throwing a graduation party for him. It should be loads of fun! Alot of our friends are going to come. :)

The past week has been pretty good. I've been stressed about being Editor-in-Chief of our school paper now, but my sweetie urged me through it all, understanding my stess, and fully supporting me. I love him so much. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 30, 2006, 07:09:37 am

So my parents and sister went away. And I don't think I can sleep in the same bed as Andy for love nor money. Not a single bed anyway- we both fidgit waaaay too much. May have to try sleeping in the liveing room tonight instead.

I feel like a wife- I've just spent half an hour wondering what I can cook for our dinner tonight after seeing him off to work this morning! It's weird! Lol. But hey- I get to see the be-suited Andy every morning, so I'm happy! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on May 30, 2006, 11:28:14 am

aww, that sounds wonderful, Ruth. Wish I could do that sort of thing. ;D


2 more days yaaaaaaaaaaay!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 30, 2006, 02:44:35 pm

Haha Ruth.

Awww I miss my parents being away. It was so nice to have the house to myself and not worry about my parents annoying me.

Me and Chris slept in my living room, with all the bedding left over from when everyone else was there. Soooo comfy, having 4 quilts/blankets/sleepingbags. Hehe.
We just made the whole living room floor into a massive bed! ;D

As far as eating is concerned, I never had to deal with it. Always ate alone because Chris works in the afternoon/evening. He'd come over and empty my cupboard after though. Or, I just made myself a member of the Norton family, and stole his little brothers seat at the dinner table. Hahaha! ;)

We went into town today, to the library for WWI literature. Being served by the most snobby woman imaginable. >:(
Having a fight with inflatable England hammers in JJB whilst looking for new trainers, and basically walking around hurling playful abuse at each other. Hehe. Loves it.

Him leaving, and me sending him a message...

"Hey, F*CKER!... I love you."

Yeah, it's cute and you know it. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 31, 2006, 08:28:59 am

Awwww he's just so lovely!
Had a quick convo with him on MSN.
Who would have thought that finding out I wasn't going to see him today would make me all mushy over him? lololol sounds crazy.
Spending all day together tomorrow.

Who would have thought that simple things like letting him borrow my citizenship textbook until the end of the week could provoke the simple, sweetest comments that make you all ;D ;D ;D EEEEEELOVES!!! ;D

Anyway...
To work!

*bounces*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 31, 2006, 10:20:40 am

Tsk- Tafrin dooble posted!!! *Points like a five year old* Lol.

We managed! Slept in the same bad all night! Ok so, I did try to decamp to my sis's room, but her clocks tick louder than Andy snores, so I went back. Plus, we didn't really get deep sleep cos we kept waking up but oh well- it's a start. Wish I had a double bed though...

Hee- just sent him a picture message while he's at work. I think he may kill me for distracting him later... ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 31, 2006, 10:33:39 am

My internet is very awkward at the moment, you either do things the way it wants, or you don't do anything. :P
It's due to cut out soon anyway, it's been working all morning, which isn't normal.
My, I do love telewest. ::)

Yay for samebeds. lolol
Had a moment the other night where Chris said "You're sleeping here tonight", and I was going along with the idea, until I realised I have to follow rules again. Sobsob.
Looking forward to Uni, means they can't tell me what I can and can't do any more. Plus, I'll be able to go home for the weekend, and not actually go home ;D lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on May 31, 2006, 06:14:36 pm

Hey everyone! Everyone sounds pretty darn happy and most importantly, in love! ;D I am very glad. Wow, I so wish I had the oppurtunity to wake up with my Druey and feel like a wife already. ::) Ah, who knows what the summer will hold in store for us? ::)

Well, I have had a very good day! Everything academically is looking very good and Casey was a sweetheart, as always, today. It's actually been awhile since we've sat in his car, just kissing for over five minutes. ;D I loved it! :-*

Also, I posted this pic over in the beautiful ones thread, but let me summarize my past weekend for you with it. ;)

;D ;D ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 01, 2006, 05:01:17 am

I'm feeling really down at the moment.
I've not seen Chris since Monday, which is not like us.
Revision is making me sad. Which is not me. I'm the happiest person I know. I can't be sad. So I'm really looking forward to Chris coming round, seeing him, and having him let me say "F*CK REVISION! I want to have fun today!" and get in his car, listen to some cool old music, and just go wherever we want!

Of course, before this happens, I'm covering a little on the Welfare State.
But it doesn't sound as fun when you add this in... ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on June 01, 2006, 09:34:16 am

Megs, I love the picture! It's very romantic. :-*

Aw, Taf. I'm sorry for ya, babe. When will you be able to see Chris next, or do you not know?

Sheesh. This past week was exhausting. I was in Charlotte, as I may have mentioned (but who remembers, really?) and I got a text from Andrew saying that his grandfather had died. His grandfather lived in Charlotte, so I was able to go to the funeral. He and his family kept such an upright spirit about them the whole time, except for one of Andrew's aunts. She was really annoying though, just crying for attention - you know that sort.

I think the worst part for me was when Andrew finally went up to the casket. All through the evening he refused to look, but I guess at the end of the night, he decided he would regret it if he didn't take one last look. I asked if he wanted to go up alone, but he said no, he wanted me to be with him. So we went up there and Andrew was so strong. I could tell he was fighting back tears and didn't let them out until we were safely in his car.

I don't know about you ladies, but if you have ever seen your guy cry, I find that to be one of the saddest things to see. I just hugged him and held him; in fact, I didn't know what else to do. It was awful. We're both back at home now, though, and on Sunday we will be able to spend some time together in a non-depressing situation, which will be nice. I think he needs that as much as I do. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 01, 2006, 11:19:53 am

Poor Andrew- give him our love. Andy (my Andy) went throught that early last year with his Grandma. I couldn't go to the funeral to support him though (college got in the way). Seeing them cry is weird isn't it? I feel helpless when he cries!

Andy went home. Three days with him- tonight's gonna be weird! Going out though so possibly staying at a mates. Still be weird. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on June 01, 2006, 12:45:33 pm

My dad's doin alright. A couple complications but they're bein worked on. Anyway, saw Mark last night. That was great! Probably see eachother again Sunday. His school has graduation tonight, my schools is tomorrow night. We're both in the music department. Which means, we're both in it. We don't actually graduate til next year though. Which is nice but also nerve wracking. On a different note. We hit eight months on Monday! Yay! I'm psyched! I'm also pretty nervous. My first boyfriend was only two weeks to a month. That was freshmen year. Mark is so much better than my ex. He's sweeter, better kisser, the list goes on. My dad actually likes him. His parents like me. Apparently so does his brother and his dog. So I'm good! Then, he's met quiet a bit of my family. All but, one uncle, two aunts, and, one younger cousin. I love him! Anyway, I'm goin to go girls. Need to do a couple other things before the hour's up.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on June 01, 2006, 01:35:34 pm

I've never seen Adam cry, but the one time he tried drinking, we were talking on the computer (he was away at college) and he kept telling me how he was crying and how much he missed me. I felt so bad! I didn't know what to do. I just wanted to hold him.

ADAM COMES HOME TONIGHT! I am so excited! I haven't seen him in over a month!! YAYAYAY! *happy dance* Oh, and I get to go stay at a beach house with him and his family June 9 - 15.. We'll live together for a week, how exciting! ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Faerie in Combats on June 03, 2006, 12:57:59 pm

I have a long distance relationship with a guy I knew in middle school. He's so easy to talk to!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 03, 2006, 01:58:31 pm


Quote:
I'm also pretty nervous. My first boyfriend was only two weeks to a month. That was freshmen year.


Pre-Andy my longest was two months, and I only saw him for 6 weeks of that due to holidays- and me and Andy are coming up 20 months now. So don't be nervous and sod that relationship as a yard stick! Lol.

Yay for Adam coming home!

Faerie- how long you been in your relationship?


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 03, 2006, 03:06:29 pm

Aw, I'm sorry to hear about Andrews Grandad, Lumos. I hope he copes well with it all. *Hugs to you both*

[quote]When will you be able to see Chris next, or do you not know?
[/quote]

Well, I saw him on Thursday, as promised, he rescued me from the revision. *sigh* my hero... lolol ;)

I was hoping to go around tonight, but it's not happening. We both have an exam on Monday, so we need to do some last min revision...
...
*Wonders why she's on the internet instead*
...
So the next time I'll see him is on Monday, outside the exam hall. Ooh. Yay.
I just hope he's not sat somewhere in front of me... I don't need that kind of distraction... lolol
He shouldn't be though... me being a B and him an N...
Yay! ;)

Thankfully I've never seen Chris cry. I don't know what to do when men cry, it makes me feel as though something is REALLY wrong, because they're so strong the rest of the time.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on June 04, 2006, 09:23:24 pm

Yeah... guys crying, it's kinda weird. I'm never sure what to do.

I've only seen Dave cry a couple times. Once when he was leaving for Germany, and me for New Zealand, and we weren't going to see each other/talk at all for a month. And another time when he said goodbye to me when I left for college. He's usually such a solid kind of person, when he cries, I cry, simply because I don't know what else to do.

Ah, but being at home has been absolutely marvelous. I've seen Dave everyday, and it's just so incredibly nice. Whee.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on June 05, 2006, 01:02:00 am

I am just posting here to say I am alive but I'm about to pass out.. Been spending loads of time with Adam, weeeeee. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 05, 2006, 05:45:25 am

This is a bi-atch. Girly curse time so I hate being touched for more that a brief hug/ kiss, and then Andy is off on a week long training course for work next week! Life hates me currently...

But he was sweet yesterday. I felt real ill at his, so he got me neurophen and a hot water bottle without being asked! I don't think he's a man- men shouldn't know that stuff. (Although apparently I've told him what to do before. I don't rememeber but go me- or the other girl who trained him up if it wasn't me. lol.)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 05, 2006, 12:26:02 pm

Ahh, Chris knows he just has to give me a paracetamol and lots of cuddles to make me feel better at that time.
I don't really get effected by it that much though tbh. I'm lucky! ;D

Saw Chris today. About 2 mins before exam. 4 hours during exam (he was in front of me, apparently this year we're doing age order... pah!) not much of a distraction though, even though he was looking sooooo good! ::) hehe.
Saw him 2 mins after, and now he's working.
Will probably not see him properly until the end of the month, seeing as the exams have started, and I can't really go round when I usually do because he'll have no time to work. Sobsob. Oh well.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 05, 2006, 02:43:36 pm

Ooh- I hate when my mates are sat infront of me,nevermind my bloke! Lol.

Was well chuffed today. Went to the dentist for a filling which meant half an hour of my mouth being streached further than is humanly possible, headaches from the drill vibrations, and three quatres of my mouth being numb enough to cause sliring and possible dribbilage. Was walking home feeling all sorry for myself, passed the bus station, and out walks Andy having just got back from work! Well chuffed. Big hug and a lift home!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 05, 2006, 05:40:28 pm

Aww yay! Love seeing them when you don't expect to! ;D

Today... my parents have seen Chris more than I have. Had more conversation out of him too. Whilst I've been sat home, watching the X factor final, and sewing up Humphrey's bottom, my parents have been discussing my exam with him. Dad is in the same building as him at the moment. I'd go visit, but it's not a nice smelling room, as it is filled with aging men with bad BO. (My Dad and Chris being an exception, it's only the aging men that still live with parents that cause the smell, lololol)
Ruth knows what I mean, I am sure. lol :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 06, 2006, 11:20:03 am

*Sings*
Christopher is a war gamer!
*dances too*

Did I get that right? Has he joined the same place as your Dad then?

Going to see X3 with Andy tonight. And his bro, who occassionally tags on as a third wheel to cinema trips. He needs a girlfriend... lol.

Andy's friend rejected me! Andy was talking to him via the phone to say he couldn't be on WoW that night, and I hollared 'Don't worry- he still loves you'. And then since Andy denied it, I replied 'fine- I'll love you then'. And the cheeky bugger said he'd wait for the next one thanks! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 06, 2006, 11:25:44 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=705#msg1018443 date=1149607203]
*Sings*
Christopher is a war gamer!
*dances too*

Did I get that right? Has he joined the same place as your Dad then?

[/quote]

Yeah, he's been going there for ages.
One of the first things he asked me when we'd first met was "How do you know Brookey?" answer being... he is my brother. (Because this wasn't obvious... you know, me being a 'Brookey' too and everything... lolol)


Quote:
Going to see X3 with Andy tonight. And his bro, who occassionally tags on as a third wheel to cinema trips. He needs a girlfriend... lol.


X3 is goooood! Yay!

[quote]Andy's friend rejected me! Andy was talking to him via the phone to say he couldn't be on WoW that night, and I hollared 'Don't worry- he still loves you'. And then since Andy denied it, I replied 'fine- I'll love you then'. And the cheeky bugger said he'd wait for the next one thanks! Lol.
[/quote]

Tuh! That's nice of him.
Chris was acting sad the other night because he misses me.
Asked him if I was going to see him today, and it turns out I've been replaced with Arran. So much for missing me. ::)

If I don't see him on Thursday I'll be pissed.
(Will be the day of being together 6 months)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on June 06, 2006, 12:35:30 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=705#msg1018445 date=1149607544]
(Will be the day of being together 6 months)
[/quote]

Aww, early congrats, babe. :-*

I am very excited, actually, because I will be seeing Andrew quite a bit this week. Tomorrow I see him (church), then Thursday because he and I are going to a concert. Then I see him on Friday as this will be the rehearsal dinner for my friend who's getting married, and we are both invited. Then I see him Saturday, which is the actual day of the wedding. And then I see him on Sunday, which is nothing out of the ordinary as that is our regular day together, but still. I'm very happy about all this. I never get to see him this much. ::)

This past Saturday was wonderful. For once he was off work and we went to the lake, had a picnic, and spent a very romantic time in this beautiful, private-ish gazebo. There was only once that an old lady took a particular interest in us kissing as she passed by. :-[ We moved after that.

Good news on the Andrew front, by the way. He finally got a new job as a sound technician at one of the conference halls in our city. I'm very happy for him. He worked at Wendy's before, which he despised. I figured it was okay since he's still only a college student, but it was making him miserable, so I'm glad he's got a new job.

LegolasBuzzgirl, ha! Andy's friend reminds me of one of Andrew's friends. I saw him the other day and said hello and he completely snuffed me. ::) Humph.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 07, 2006, 09:56:24 am

[quote]If I don't see him on Thursday I'll be pissed.
(Will be the day of being together 6 months) [/quote]

If you don't see him Thursday he deserves the BO men...


Quote:
There was only once that an old lady took a particular interest in us kissing as she passed by.

Thats just wrong...

Good luck to Andrew in his new job!


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LegolasBuzzgirl, ha! Andy's friend reminds me of one of Andrew's friends. I saw him the other day and said hello and he completely snuffed me.


I think it's a jealousy thing, waht with us takign their friend away and all. Mind you, I do think that Nat is crushing on Andy...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 07, 2006, 10:00:36 am


Quote:
Aww, early congrats, babe. :-*


Thank you! :D


Quote:
If you don't see him Thursday he deserves the BO men...


Haha. He does. Though, I don't think I would class Arran as a BO man. Either way.... he will regret it if he doesn't make an appearance and sweep me off to some romantic location and make me feel as though I'm the luckiest girl alive...
Or, you know... Burger King will do...
LOLOL


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[quote]There was only once that an old lady took a particular interest in us kissing as she passed by.

Thats just wrong...
[/quote]

Isn't it just!
People who stare creep me out.... :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on June 07, 2006, 03:33:05 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=705#msg1018458 date=1149611730]
Good news on the Andrew front, by the way. He finally got a new job as a sound technician at one of the conference halls in our city. I'm very happy for him. He worked at Wendy's before, which he despised. I figured it was okay since he's still only a college student, but it was making him miserable, so I'm glad he's got a new job.
[/quote]
Ooh your boy's a sound techie aswell? What a coincidence so is mine ;D He just graduated from college with a degree in sound and lighting, now he's getting jobs galore. He's already worked for Rolling Stones and in a week the Much Music Video Awards (basically Canada's MTV). Sucks though because that's on the same day as a charity show that I'm holding and am currently lacking a sound guy. Goddam him and his good career haha.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on June 07, 2006, 04:38:36 pm

What a cool job your guy has, Snail! That sounds awesome. :)

Adam's been sick these past couple of days but we've still been hanging out however today he is feeling too icky for company. Poor guy.. Hope he feels better before our trip. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on June 08, 2006, 12:10:51 am

Yay for sound techies! Haha. Dave did all the lights and sound for all our high school plays. He's good with that kind of stuff.

Speaking of, today was such a lovely day with him. We had "Grandma Fest '06" and visited our grandmas together. It was fun. Plus, got a free dinner out of it! Whoo hoo.

Tomorrow should be good, too, as I have nothing planned. Maybe he'll surprise me? Haha, yes, doubtful, but oh well - I'll still get to see him!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 08, 2006, 04:03:38 pm

Awww. Chris is asleep. Shhh, don't wake him.
Hehe, there's little snores coming from under the duvet somewhere.
It's so cute. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 09, 2006, 05:25:46 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=705#msg1018776 date=1149797018]
Awww. Chris is asleep. Shhh, don't wake him.
Hehe, there's little snores coming from under the duvet somewhere.
It's so cute. :-*
[/quote]

Probably is when little snores aren't like chainsaws. Lol.

Seeing Andy tonight. *Dances* I'm all excited. We're not doing much (although mums trying to convince us to go for a walk cos its nice weather lol) but I like seeing my Andy. And he's away on a training course all next week. Boo...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 11, 2006, 12:52:54 pm

This month has been shit.
Honestly.

I have seen Chris twice so far. And the situation isn't going to improve any time soon.

We have an exam tomorrow, then the rest of that week will be spent preparing for the 3 exams we have the following week.
Once they are over for me, he has more to do up until the 28th so I'll have to leave him to prepare for that. Then, the 29th... I'm going away!

Sux. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 12, 2006, 06:50:27 am

Ouch- thats just nasty Kathryn. *hugs*
Exams should be done in your sleep. That way they can just suck the answers out of your head, and life can go on as normal during the day. Boyfriends can be seen and revision doesn't matter.

Andy's gone. Week in Leeds for him, week in exams for me. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on June 12, 2006, 02:44:43 pm

[quote author=Snail link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=705#msg1018651 date=1149708785]
[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=705#msg1018458 date=1149611730]
Good news on the Andrew front, by the way. He finally got a new job as a sound technician at one of the conference halls in our city. I'm very happy for him. He worked at Wendy's before, which he despised. I figured it was okay since he's still only a college student, but it was making him miserable, so I'm glad he's got a new job.
[/quote]
Ooh your boy's a sound techie aswell? What a coincidence so is mine ;D He just graduated from college with a degree in sound and lighting, now he's getting jobs galore. He's already worked for Rolling Stones and in a week the Much Music Video Awards (basically Canada's MTV). Sucks though because that's on the same day as a charity show that I'm holding and am currently lacking a sound guy. Goddam him and his good career haha.
[/quote]

Oh, I didn't know that! That's really cool. I guess it's good, although it sucks when you're at weddings and stuff because you can't exactly dance or anything. :-\ We've yet to dance together, in fact. But I'm happy for him.

Aww, Taf, I'm sorry. I wish you could see Chris more. Where are you going on the 29th?

Alrighty girls, I need brutal advice. I know some of you may not know me as well as others, but you can still be as honest as you need. There's a girl, Sarah. I've known her for years and we used to be great friends. Then I don't know what happened; we grew apart, I guess. But she's always been the type that will do whatever necessary to get what she wants, even if it hurts other people. Now, she's got a thing for Andrew and doesn't mind admitting it to me. I can see her dropping not-so-subtle hints, and she is constantly flashing her cleavage around at him.

To my relief, Andrew couldn't care less about her. When she flaunts, he ignores her. I know I can trust him - he's never given me a reason not to. But I don't trust Sarah, and guess what. She works at the conference hall where Andrew now works. Isn't that cozy. ::) Andrew is sweet enough to have said, "I won't take the job if it will bother you." I of course responded by saying that he was sweet but crazy, and that if he didn't take the job I'd kill him. So there's that. I haven't really said much else about it, but I don't know, it makes me a little uncomfortable. I'm not going to be all, "Yo, take your hands off my man or let's fight" or something stupid like that. It's just obnoxious. But I'm not going to lie and say that it doesn't bother me a little.

Do I have a right to let it bother me? And even if it does, shouldn't I just let it go and not say anything? I don't know. Any advice would be appreciated. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 12, 2006, 06:12:19 pm


Quote:
Aww, Taf, I'm sorry. I wish you could see Chris more. Where are you going on the 29th?


Thanks. Lol, so do I. ;)
I have friends staying over from Australia, and I'm joining them for a little of their tour of the North of England. A little bit of everywhere I think. I can't remember exact places off the top of my head.
It'll only be for a week I think. So not too bad really.


Quote:
Do I have a right to let it bother me? And even if it does, shouldn't I just let it go and not say anything? I don't know.


In my opinion you have every right to have this bother you. I know it would bother me. No one likes to have someone like that have eyes for their man, and not be ashamed to show it.
I don't know what kind of advice to give really.
I think what I would do is to make sure he was aware of what's going on with her, and make sure that he watches himself around her. If she becomes too obvious around him then ask him to tell her to back off, and that he isn't interested.
I think I wouldn't confront her about it personally. But that's just me. I hate getting into confrontations like this with people.
You could always ask her if she likes your man or something, and tell her how it's making you feel. But if she's the kind of person who doesn't care about people around her, then this may just be a waste of time.
Yes... that was a bit rubbish advice. :-\
But, I hope it all works out for you.
I'm sure Andrew has a sensible head on his shoulders. He wouldn't do anything stupid, and he can look after himself.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Faerie in Combats on June 12, 2006, 09:45:51 pm

AJ and I are planning to visit eachother. I want to go to mueseums and he says he's glad he has a smart girlfriend. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on June 12, 2006, 10:54:31 pm

i agree with taf Lumos. maybe let andrew know you're happy for him to tell her to back off a bit. because if she's the type that doesn't care she'll probably just get satisfaction from the knowledge that you're worried about her and possibly be encouraged by it. Where as if Andrew says something she'll hopefully get embarrassed and back off a bit.
But i don't really know! everyone's different and Andrew may not be comfortable being overtly mean/rude even if she does deserve it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 13, 2006, 04:31:54 am

Lumos- I had some bitch at work try this on a few months after me and Andy got together. And it was double annoying cos since all three of us worked together, I could see her doing it all the f-ing time. Pissed me off no end- of course you have rights to let it bother you!

In my case, Andy ignoring her seemed to cool her off. Girls like that tend to get bored easily if they aren't being the centre of attention and move on. Although, it did help that whenever she started flashing the clevage, Andy would make some scathing comment which basically amounted to 'stop being a sl*t you daft cow' (but phrased nicer lol).

Andrew sounds like he has his brain in his head, not elsewhere so I'm sure you'll be fine. But if it comes to it, be prepared to tell her- calmly, of course ;)- that she could do with backing off the flirting with a taken man, because at the end of the day, shes only making an idiot of herself.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on June 13, 2006, 11:09:38 am

Thanks for all the advice, ladies. It helped a lot. Actually, Andrew surprised me last night on the phone by asking what he thought I should do concerning Sarah. He said that it was really bothering him and knew that I wasn't a big fan of it either, and wanted to know what he could do. I just pretty much reiterated what all of you said. :)

Like you all said, I'm dating a very intelligent guy who knows what he's doing. Besides all of that, he is so devoted, and I've never once been scared that I might lose him. I just think Sarah is getting to the point where she is doing it just to piss me off, so for my part, I'm going to try my best to ignore it. Maybe she'll settle down, take a cold shower or something. ::) :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elijahfrodo1990 on June 14, 2006, 12:45:19 am

Well I don't really care about him. He wasn't all that anyway. If he doesn't like me hanging out with my friends then screw him! That's it we're done! There wasn't anything between us anyway, I felt nothing when I broke up with him. It was all lust no love.
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I hate guys! Well not all of them. I think I like girls better. lol. We girls gotta stick together. Right now I rather have a girlfriend then a boyfriend. lol. ;)
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Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 15, 2006, 10:10:06 am

The first gushing thread break up.
*Offers lotsa hugs and chocolate and empowering chickflicks*
If he wants you to sacrifice the mates you've know longer than him, you're well shot of the guy hon.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 16, 2006, 07:14:20 am

Aww, I'm sorry Kristine.
But if he gets pissy because you want to see your friends, then you're better off without him.

I went to Meadowhall (shopping mall) with Chris and his family last night. Haha. It was crazy. Him and his Dad in the front of the car. Me, his Mum, his little brother and sister in the back. All very squashed. lolol

Just did wanderings around, it was nice.

There's this girl he works with that I think is after him. She keeps sending him flirty messages over MySpace. I find it quite hilarious really. Because whatever he says, she keeps coming back for more, even when he's taking the piss out of her so obviously. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elijahfrodo1990 on June 16, 2006, 09:05:41 am

Thanks you two! :-*

I did watch a few chickflicks last night. lol. And I saw one movie I haven't seen or heard of before named, All Over Me. It was really good. :)

I'm so over him. I feel so much better to be single again. lol. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 16, 2006, 11:15:28 am

Good for you girl!

Andy is back from training! Going over there for much-o cuddlingos and possibly a film. *Grins*. Gonna shock the hell outta him cos I've dyed my hair in his abscence and he hasn't even seen a pic of it yet. *Evil grin* (It's half way through my new holiday style. Shall post photos on the beautiful ones next week when tis complete).

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on June 17, 2006, 10:06:21 pm

Hey everyone! Wow, it has been awhile since I've been here, but it isn't because I have nothing to gush about, it's because I haven't had time. I have a job now, so that has taken a lot of time for me. ::)

Of course, I ALWAYS find time to spend with my miracle. ;D You know, I think I have fallen in love with Casey all over again. And it is a great feeling! I can't wait to talk to him tonight. I don't know what it is, but something special has occured and I feel so great! ;D

Hmm, I see our first thread break up has occured! Well, I see that you are doing well, so that is great! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 18, 2006, 06:25:33 am

I saw Chris yesterday! Wasn't expecting to... but I'm glad I did.
Running around his room like a lunatic wearing a KFC bucket on my head. Oh, the good times. ::)

We were going to go for a walk, because we thought the XBox360 was playing silly buggers (wouldn't play any of the DVDs we wanted) but we managed to fix it, so stayed in watching A Knights Tale. lolol, I love Paul Bettany! ;D

I've decided we're gonna do loads of random things whenever we see each other this summer. As the time at first will be limited, we needs to do something spontaneous and crazy funs.

I'll see him tomorrow, but only in our Media exam, and I'll see him on Tuesday and Thursday, but again... only in exams. I don't know weather we'll do anything after my last exam on Thursday or not, as he has more after that one. I can see it happening though, because when I see him these days he is becoming increasingly cuddley, and all "I miss you"... which is cute.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on June 18, 2006, 10:59:53 pm

Aww, I'm so happy! I was in Charlotte with my sister and my friend Gayle (yes, I know, in Charlotte again!) and my mom picked us up today. She was bringing us home, but Gayle lives about 30 minutes away, and we were going to take her home. But instead Mom took our exit and started going to the house. When I asked why, she got all vague, but when we pulled up, Andrew's car was there!

I was so excited, because I wasn't expecting to see him till Wednesday, and I hadn't seen him for like a full week. So I jumped out of the car, gave him a huge hug and kiss right in front of my parents and everything. (They are getting slack - they didn't even get mad!) We spent the evening together. We also watched "The Island" (with Ewan McGregor and Scarlett Johanssen), which is a very good movie.

I was just thrilled to be in his arms again. I never get tired of that, honestly. Andrew is so amazing on so many levels. *le sigh* :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on June 19, 2006, 08:44:23 am

Aww, Maria that is so sweet! ;D Hmm, my parents don't really get in on the whole "Let's suprise Megan by having Casey at our house..." type of thing. ::) Oh well. You know, the first time I ever kissed Casey in front of my parents was when we had that awful car accident. Oh well, I didn't even care at that particular time. Then again, who would? ::)

Just for anyone who is wondering, I love my Druey! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 20, 2006, 04:06:04 am


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I love Paul Bettany!

He is grogeous in an interesting kinda way. And naked a hell of alot...

Everyone sounds all loved up. Aww!


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Hmm, my parents don't really get in on the whole "Let's suprise Megan by having Casey at our house..." type of thing.

The only time my parents have done that was my 18th, when I came home from school and Andy had decorated my bedroom for me. Lol


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So I jumped out of the car, gave him a huge hug and kiss right in front of my parents and everything. (They are getting slack - they didn't even get mad!)

I just get told to put him down when I do that... or my brothers response was "Quick Louise (his girlf of five years) the younger people look more in love than us!"

Andy spent Sunday pointing out that my hair is now purple (or purkle to be exact lol). Made me giggle.

Can't wait- next Friday we go away to America together for 16 days! *Dances in a groovy manner*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 20, 2006, 04:37:47 am

Ruuuuttthhhh! You reminded me!
28th. Assembly. 8:30. Be there.

Last day of exams celebration. And... you'll get to meet Megan!!!! Wooooooo!!!
And seeing as you're going away, this will probably be your only oppertunity to do so.
So. Be there. *nods*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 20, 2006, 04:50:40 am

I shall be there. Andy told me last night (which is strange considering you lot are my mates! He saw Sarah and Jeff in town and they told him aparently.)

We're coming but, not staying out long (be til bout 11pm) cos Andy's working the next day, and I could do with actually sleeping since all my packing/ sleep at Andys/ catching a bus to the airport at an ungodly hour the next morning stuff kicks off the next day.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 20, 2006, 04:59:11 am

That is cool. Totally understand. Just want to make sure you meet her at least once. lolol
Plus, shall be super fun times and you have to be theres!!! ;D

Anyway... off topic... so...

Mmmm Chris. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 20, 2006, 05:02:40 am

I get to meet Megzi! *Dances* Not talked to her since about year 9 though...

Mmmm Andy... *Doing her bit to keep on topic too*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on June 22, 2006, 11:28:17 am

Well, I do have much to gush about. I've not seen Casey since Sunday. :( I miss him so much! Apparently, he is taking me out and spending the day with me. YAY! ;D I am qutie happy! ;D I am just anxiously awaiting him to call me... ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 26, 2006, 08:09:59 am

Ooh you has changed your name!

I'm going on holiday on Friiiiiiiiday! Got the bus layout from his mum yesterday- the people stuck me on my own with some other person. Told Andy I'm not having that though. Wouldn't be bad if it went-

His mum and Dad
Andy and James (his bro)
Me and Random girl.

-but it goes-

Andy and James
His mum and Dad
Me and Random girl.

That's not fun! Will have to kick James out the way. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 26, 2006, 03:16:00 pm

Aww, today was cool.

Picked my Aussie friend up from the airport, and chilled at home.
Decided to do a tour of my town centre in order to keep jet lag at bay, and we went up to Morrisons to see what British supermarkets are like (lol) and pay Chris a visit.
He was really smiley and looked gorgeous and yay! ;D

He wanted to call round tonight. But I doubt he will...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on June 27, 2006, 06:16:58 am

Morgan is best. Ever. In the whole world.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on June 27, 2006, 05:10:24 pm

I got to see Casey last night for only around two hours, but at least I got to see him. I am about to go visit family about 10 hours away and I am going to miss Casey soo much! At least I will still have my phone and internet. That always helps, but I wish he could come with me. But, yeah, like my parents will ever let us do that. Hmm, most likely, not until we are engaged or something! ::) ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 27, 2006, 07:51:18 pm

I've decided I'm not going to Manchester next week.
I miss Chris too much.
I've seen so little of him lately, and I'm going away on Thursday.
I don't think I could deal with not seeing him. Cos when I have seen him recently (which has just been breif hellos) it's made me want to spend all day with him when I can't. :(

Misses him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on June 27, 2006, 07:57:38 pm

Aww Taf! I know what it's like to miss your significant other terribly. ::) I'm sorry you haven't seen much of each other lately. :-\ Casey is coming over for a few hours now since I am leaving for a week. Something that tends to help me alot is having pictures with me. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on June 29, 2006, 12:39:44 pm

You guys are gonna hate me but-

I GO ON HOLIDAY WITH ANDY TOMMOROW!!!

Going over to his to sleep tonight (as we set off for the airport at 4.30am-ouch!) then I spend 16 days with him! *Squee!*

I'm scared- hell, first holiday is apparently either real good or when you realise you're incompatable- but I think it'll be fun.

See y'all in a couple of weeks!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on June 29, 2006, 02:47:58 pm

Wow! Have a ton of fun! Gah...I will never get to do things like that. :'( I am praying for the days I get to actually go on a vaca with Casey! I miss him so much right now because I am like 11 hours away from him!

I think that, starting last night, the realization that Casey is really going to live two hours from me started to settle in. I am feeling a little scared. He said that it will be very hard for the both of us, but he knows we are meant to make it. He said that we will grow used to it and it will strengthen our love. God, I pray he is right! :-[

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on July 01, 2006, 05:57:23 pm

Ah, Meg, you and Casey will be okay. Two hours isn't terribly far apart. You could see each other pretty easily on weekends and stuff. Plus, you guys have made it through so much already. You'll make it through a little distance, too. :)

I hope Ruth and Andy are having fun on holiday!!!

I can't wait until the middle of this month - I get to go on vacation with Dave and his family! It's going to be lots of fun. I think we're even going to take some day trips together, just the two of us. Which will = awesome. Whee.

Until then, I see Dave nearly every day. And it is lovely. I've even convinced him to learn how to swing dance so that we can go out dancing together. 'Tis great fun!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 01, 2006, 06:04:23 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=750#msg1024274 date=1151791043]
Ah, Meg, you and Casey will be okay. Two hours isn't terribly far apart. You could see each other pretty easily on weekends and stuff. Plus, you guys have made it through so much already. You'll make it through a little distance, too. :)

I hope Ruth and Andy are having fun on holiday!!!

I can't wait until the middle of this month - I get to go on vacation with Dave and his family! It's going to be lots of fun. I think we're even going to take some day trips together, just the two of us. Which will = awesome. Whee.

Until then, I see Dave nearly every day. And it is lovely. I've even convinced him to learn how to swing dance so that we can go out dancing together. 'Tis great fun!
[/quote]

Aww, thank you! That actually gives me more hope because I need to hear that others believe in us. You know?

I hope my parents allow me to have Casey come on some sort of special trip or allow us to go somewhere special before he leaves. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 03, 2006, 05:02:38 am

Yay Ruth! Hope you're having fun. (Or had, seeing as you'll most likely read this when you get back. OOH! I know! I'll text you!)
And I had better get a postcard missy. :P

Aw Meg. I'm sure you'll make it. Like has been said. 2 hours isn't very far. So weekends will be doable pretty easily, I am sure.

I have just been away from Chris for the longest time so far. A week. lol
I was missing him so much. Phoned and texted every day.
I got home yesterday and went straight out so I could meet him after work. Then spent all night together... catching up. ;) YAY!

I see it as practice for September, when we both go to University. We'll be 2 hours from our home town. 4 hours from each other.
It'll be hard... :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 08, 2006, 10:43:15 pm

Hey everyone! I am back from vaca and am very glad of that! ;D I really missed Casey! He came and saw me as soon as I got home and we watched Troy together, haha. ::) Yesterday, we went with a few friends to see POTC 2 and had an awesome time! Of course, I was about to have a heart attack due to my massive excitement of the movie, and he was a sweetheart and put up with my crazy obsessiveness very well. :D We held hands (and each other) the whole movie, with some kisses here and there *melts*. ;D
On the way home, it was pretty late, and we were riding in our friend's car so we sat in the back together. After we discussed the movie a little bit, he kissed me, and laid his head down in my lap. He slept all the way home, hehe. It was very cute! ;D ::)

Okay, I'm sorry ladies. I just felt like gushing. ::) :-*

I hope everyone is well! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: frodomyhero on July 09, 2006, 01:25:11 pm

[quote author=>>The Black Pearl<< link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=750#msg1026363 date=1152412995]
Hey everyone! I am back from vaca and am very glad of that! ;D I really missed Casey! He came and saw me as soon as I got home and we watched Troy together, haha. ::) Yesterday, we went with a few friends to see POTC 2 and had an awesome time! Of course, I was about to have a heart attack due to my massive excitement of the movie, and he was a sweetheart and put up with my crazy obsessiveness very well. :D We held hands (and each other) the whole movie, with some kisses here and there *melts*. ;D
On the way home, it was pretty late, and we were riding in our friend's car so we sat in the back together. After we discussed the movie a little bit, he kissed me, and laid his head down in my lap. He slept all the way home, hehe. It was very cute! ;D ::)

Okay, I'm sorry ladies. I just felt like gushing. ::) :-*

I hope everyone is well! :-*
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Gush away .. your happiness spills over to the rest of us ;D

Thanks for sharing your wonderful story.... See how wonderful movies can be!?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 09, 2006, 01:28:17 pm

[quote author=frodomyhero link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=750#msg1026454 date=1152465911]
[quote author=>>The Black Pearl<< link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=750#msg1026363 date=1152412995]
Hey everyone! I am back from vaca and am very glad of that! ;D I really missed Casey! He came and saw me as soon as I got home and we watched Troy together, haha. ::) Yesterday, we went with a few friends to see POTC 2 and had an awesome time! Of course, I was about to have a heart attack due to my massive excitement of the movie, and he was a sweetheart and put up with my crazy obsessiveness very well. :D We held hands (and each other) the whole movie, with some kisses here and there *melts*. ;D
On the way home, it was pretty late, and we were riding in our friend's car so we sat in the back together. After we discussed the movie a little bit, he kissed me, and laid his head down in my lap. He slept all the way home, hehe. It was very cute! ;D ::)

Okay, I'm sorry ladies. I just felt like gushing. ::) :-*

I hope everyone is well! :-*
[/quote]

Gush away .. your happiness spills over to the rest of us ;D

Thanks for sharing your wonderful story.... See how wonderful movies can be!?
[/quote]

Haha well thanks! ;D Glad it made you happy, hehe! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on July 10, 2006, 01:16:25 pm

Yay for gushing!

I love summer. Whee.

Dave and I have spent nearly all our free time together. I was kind of wary at first... I figured spending this much time together would just make us get sick of each other. But, on the contrary, I don't think I've even had a better summer!

He's taught me how to play some of his favorite video games, and I've been dragging him out swing dancing. Heehee. He's even going to take a lesson or two, just for me! He's such a sweetie. :D

I really am so in love. And it is wonderful.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 10, 2006, 03:53:43 pm

That's great to hear! It sounds like you two are having a fantastic summer to remember!

Myself, on the other hand, am faced with a hard time. Casey is so concearned that I won't know what to do when he is off to college that he doesn't want to talk to me or see me as much. He says it is supposed to help. But I only feel us possibly pulling apart. I wanted a summer to remember. Some great memories to have once he is gone. But, oh well. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 18, 2006, 08:47:18 am


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And I had better get a postcard missy.

Sorry. Lack of postcards and lack of stamps. *Grovels*

I'm back by the way. Had a brilliant holiday (but damned being female- took away a week of loving while I was there, but means Andy has now seen and accepted me at my worst). Got to share a bed and actually managed to sleep easily, which was somethign which worried me cos never managed that before.

Feels weird being apparts from him now. 16 whole days together to nowt. I got so used to always being able to touch him that now I'm very sad. Harumph! But hey- at least I didn't go the other way and want to break his neck by day 7...


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I wanted a summer to remember. Some great memories to have once he is gone. But, oh well.


No not oh well! If you want to see him, make him see you. Son't live this on his terms all the time. I mean, if he doesn't want to see you every day as a way of coping then fine, strike a balance, but why should you miss out on the time when you can be together? He'll really regret it when you can't be together.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 18, 2006, 08:47:25 pm


Quote:
No not oh well! If you want to see him, make him see you. Son't live this on his terms all the time. I mean, if he doesn't want to see you every day as a way of coping then fine, strike a balance, but why should you miss out on the time when you can be together? He'll really regret it when you can't be together.


You're right. For two weeks, he is gone to the Cayman Islands now. he comes back for little over a week and then our summer is over. He told me he'd plan something very special, but I don't know. It could be just something to make me quit talking about it all. I don't know. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Monkee on July 18, 2006, 09:47:47 pm

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=750#msg1026626 date=1152551785]


Dave and I have spent nearly all our free time together. I was kind of wary at first... I figured spending this much time together would just make us get sick of each other. But, on the contrary, I don't think I've even had a better summer!

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I thought the same thing but me and Adam spend everyday together and I am glad to report that we aren't sick of each other either.

Oh, and I just felt like adding.. Ruth, after you said you were coming to America, I had a dream a while back that I met you, Taf and two of your friends. Just random. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 19, 2006, 02:10:38 pm


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Oh, and I just felt like adding.. Ruth, after you said you were coming to America, I had a dream a while back that I met you, Taf and two of your friends. Just random.


lol, how odd! ;D

I just got back from a holiday...
I can't actually remember where we went first off, but we did end up in London for the last 3 days.

Missed Chris so much.
Was invited to one of his friends house for a BBQ this eve, but we can't really go. My Australian friend has packing to do for her flight home tomorrow, and there isn't much time.

Going to the cinema tomorrow with him. Don't know what to see. Don't really care! lol
I can't wait to see him again.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 20, 2006, 10:54:08 am


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Oh, and I just felt like adding.. Ruth, after you said you were coming to America, I had a dream a while back that I met you, Taf and two of your friends. Just random.


Lol- cool...

Aww- have fun Kat.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 20, 2006, 12:35:50 pm

Today should be interesting. Casey is still on vaca, and I miss him so much! But I am happy because I had one of my best friends stay with me last night, which I haven't done in a long time and also, a friend of mine is coming home from a three week visit to Germany today. :) I've missed him alot...and Casey hates it... :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on July 20, 2006, 06:08:37 pm

Bah!! How much I've missed!!!!! How are all the ladies of the most gushy thread on the board? In love still, I presume! :)

Andrew and I are doing really well, just as an update. I don't know if I mentioned this ever, but he and I are going to be performing at my older sister's best friend's wedding in September. Andrew will be playing the guitar and I will be singing. The practicing has been way romantic because they are like way gushy songs. :D I'm loving it.

*sigh* Being in love is so much fun.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 20, 2006, 06:11:51 pm

Awww, Maria that sounds awesome! ;D I hope your performance together goes great! :-*

And yes, you're right. Being in love is so much fun! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on July 21, 2006, 09:14:03 am

Yes, yes. It's crazy the things you'll do when you're in love, innit? ::) :P Just kidding.

Well, last night over the phone Andrew and I got into a little tiff. It wasn't like a big fight or anything, but we disagreed strongly. We made up before hanging the phone up because we never want to go to bed angry with each other, but we still felt pretty badly. I always feel like such crap when we argue.

So this morning, first thing, we smoothed everything out and we're fine again. Blah! I hate fighting......

But I especially enjoy making up. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 21, 2006, 09:27:21 am

I think I'm unique in that I hate making up. Mind you, not had more than one big argument. Makingup always seems to include crying and feeling like s*it though. Mind you, not had the traditional make up loving yet.

I was on stage last night and Andy sat in the front row. Could've killed him when I spotted him (lol) but had to forgive him this morning when he told me how proud he'd been of me.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on July 21, 2006, 10:47:57 am

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=765#msg1028478 date=1153488441]
I think I'm unique in that I hate making up. Mind you, not had more than one big argument. Makingup always seems to include crying and feeling like s*it though. Mind you, not had the traditional make up loving yet.
[/quote]

Well, the drama of making up is never fun. But when it does get fun is when you get all cuddly and kissy and whatever. Much enjoyment. But Andrew and I are the kind of couple that is always pretty cuddly and whatnot. So I get those kinds of benefits either way. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 21, 2006, 12:34:44 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=765#msg1028476 date=1153487643]
Yes, yes. It's crazy the things you'll do when you're in love, innit? ::) :P Just kidding.

Well, last night over the phone Andrew and I got into a little tiff. It wasn't like a big fight or anything, but we disagreed strongly. We made up before hanging the phone up because we never want to go to bed angry with each other, but we still felt pretty badly. I always feel like such crap when we argue.

So this morning, first thing, we smoothed everything out and we're fine again. Blah! I hate fighting......

But I especially enjoy making up. ;D
[/quote]

Casey and I are the same way! I hate it so much when we fight. I end up feeling like crap, but we always make up in the sweetest ways. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on July 21, 2006, 01:12:20 pm

I think it makes a couple stronger if they can calmly work out their differences without saying anything they're going to regret or resent in the future.

I also think it's so important to communicate because without that, neither of you will really know what's going on. It makes things a lot harder when you fight, too, because you feel so out-of-touch. That's the way it was with my ex-boyfriend. God, he was such a jerk. But I only dated him to try and get over Andrew, which we all see was stupid because it didn't exactly work. ::) :P :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 21, 2006, 02:12:21 pm

Me and Chris aren't really arguing kind of people. There is nothing really that comes between us that causes problems. We're both really easy going.

The only time that I've ever been a bit mad at him for was his idea for going on the log flume a week or so ago. I got soaked, he was bone dry. I was not happy. And expressed it a little too much.
He felt guilty, and bought me a monkey, which led to me feeling guilty and apolagising.

But generally, if there's something that bugs us we just let it slide. Lifes too short to fight over pathetic little things. So we generally have the 'no harm done' attitude, and get on with whatever... lol.

Our 'fights' don't last longer than about 5 minutes. If that. We just can't be bothered with them. lolol.

Had loads of fun yesterday. Seen him for the first time in a week. Was great. I'm so happy! ;D

Going to visit him at work when I finish work. Then gonna spend evening together as usual once he's finished.
I missed my usual routine of seeing him when I was away.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 21, 2006, 04:28:25 pm

Hey everyone. I see that all is well in the relationship department. But I need you all to please keep Casey and I in your thoughts and prayers. I will let you in on the story of my stupidity later. :-[

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on July 21, 2006, 09:03:34 pm

I hope everything is alright, Meg. :-*

Morgan and I have been together for one year and seven months and we've never had a fight. He got a job, and he keeps buying me things, I feel so guilty! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 22, 2006, 10:28:42 am

Aw, Meg, I hope everything works out and is alright for you both. :( :-*

I bought Chris some peanut M&M's today. Because we loves them. And it has been a while. lolol.
Hoping to put him in a better mood. He seems to have changed a bit recently. It's odd. But I still loves him. ;D

Just hope I see him today. Would be odd if I didn't. I always see him on Saturday. Plus... Mum is having a girly night with friends tonight, so I really need to get out of the house. lolol. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 22, 2006, 10:57:48 am

Everything is perfectly fine now, but I thought it would end horribly.

You see, a friend of mine returned from Germany the day before yesterday. So he told me he wanted to hang with me yesterday. I thought it'd be a good time to catch up, just being friends. Well, he kissed me like four times, against what I wanted. I felt so awful about it considering Casey hates him because he knows he wants to be with me. Well, I told Casey last night (keep in mind, Casey is currently a thousand miles away right now, so it was quite hard). Through tears, I told him everything and it really hurt him. Of course, he no longer wants me to talk to him (can you blame him?) I no longer want to talk to him. But Casey was very calm about it. He said that he thought everything through, like everything we've been through and that he knows I love him. He was so sweet about it and very understanding. I love him so much! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 23, 2006, 11:46:36 am

So not really your stupidity but your mates. Stupid guy. I hate men like that.

Although- I'm a bitch in that if it happened (someone kissed me) I'd probably not tell Andy. He gets jealous, and hurts like a kicked puppy, so I wouldn't want to hurt him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 23, 2006, 02:35:04 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=765#msg1028772 date=1153669596]
So not really your stupidity but your mates. Stupid guy. I hate men like that.

Although- I'm a bitch in that if it happened (someone kissed me) I'd probably not tell Andy. He gets jealous, and hurts like a kicked puppy, so I wouldn't want to hurt him.
[/quote]

One of my best friends told me not to tell but I could never keep something from him. I just have to be honest with him. It'd tear me up to know that I am hiding something from him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on July 24, 2006, 03:56:30 am

Kissed you on the lips?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 24, 2006, 07:47:09 am

I'm glad everything it OK for you two, Meg.
It would have been silly of him to get annoyed at you for this. I mean, it was all one sided, right?

I had a bit of silliness recently.
Chris has been feeling illish recently, and has been coming across as being sad and down.
As you do, I thought it was something to do with me. And had a little worry in myself that his feelings might have changed for me.

Saw him last night. Didn't tell him any of this. But it became obvious that I was just being silly. I think it's just because I've seen so little of him recently.
Chris is all Chris again. Hehe. Loves it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 24, 2006, 09:57:16 am


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Chris is all Chris again. Hehe. Loves it.

*sings* Kathryn's getting la-aid!

*Sough* Sorry.

Realised I spent 13 hours with Andy yesterday and can't for the life of me say where it all went...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 24, 2006, 03:20:54 pm

[quote]I'm glad everything it OK for you two, Meg.
It would have been silly of him to get annoyed at you for this. I mean, it was all one sided, right?
[/quote]

Yes, he is just protective (the way I like him to be...). I mean, he knew that a long time ago I used to have slight feelings for this friend, but the kiss made me realize just how much I could never care for him like that. Which was a relief. You know how it is when you kiss someone, when you know it just isn't right? Well, that's what I felt and I was reminded of how good it felt when Casey and I first kissed. *smiles* ;D Needless to say, Casey would like to have a "word" with him. ::)

Oh and Le Deux, yes, it was on the lips. :-X

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 24, 2006, 07:29:50 pm

Hahaha, got to see Chris working out over the web cam today.
Mmmmmmmmm... ::)

He turned it off before I managed to get a screen shot though.
Sad times. :(

;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 25, 2006, 04:48:16 pm

Haha Taf, I love the webcam! It is especially helpful when we are far from eachother. It kills the longing to see each other fora while. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 26, 2006, 07:26:03 am

I don't have a webcam. :( Plus, Andy is never on MSN. Mind you, it's rare that I am... ::)


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Well, that's what I felt and I was reminded of how good it felt when Casey and I first kissed.


I can't remember my first kiss with Andy. I know when it was, but can't remember how it happened or felt or any of that stuff. It's really annoying that. I remember my first kiss with the other two losers. Harumph!


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 26, 2006, 08:04:20 am

lol, I remember mine with Chris.

In his old car, in the carpark of the cinema in Wakefield.
I miss that car. :(

Hehe. Webcams. I'm going to have to get one that's compatible for my Mac for when I go to uni. ::) ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 26, 2006, 07:34:08 pm

The webcams come in very handy, trust me ladies! ;D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: my_preciousss on July 27, 2006, 02:20:54 pm

I have a question. Do you think it's acceptable that me and Jason have been together for almost 8 months and he hasn't called me even once? I know he's not a phone person, but we only ever see eachother on the weekends, and I'm starting to feel a little neglected... I hate it. I can't stop feeling lonely. He doesn't give me the attention that I want, and I've thought about ending it many times. It's turned into more of a 'I love who you are, but I'm not neccesarily happy with you'. I don't really want to break up with him... but I'm not comfortable with him. It doesn't feel right.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Misz_Mii on July 27, 2006, 02:23:51 pm

You should tell him how you feel about it. In a relationship you have to accept things and sacrifice things but so does he.... And he has to call you more often, but you can't expect him to call you like every day. You'll have to talk with him and make some agreements.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 27, 2006, 03:48:25 pm

[quote author=Pam. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=780#msg1029771 date=1154024631]
You should tell him how you feel about it. In a relationship you have to accept things and sacrifice things but so does he.... And he has to call you more often, but you can't expect him to call you like every day. You'll have to talk with him and make some agreements.
[/quote]

I agree. My bf isn't a phone person either. But he takes the time to talk to me because he knows I enjoy. He too has come around to enjoy it himself. So you need to be honest with him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 28, 2006, 05:52:16 am

I talk with Andy every night if I've not seen him. Lucky I got a phoner huh?

Snail- do you phone him at all? If you keep doing it enough it'll get into a routine and then he might get more confident with taking the step himself. Although, I do agree with Pam that you should possibly talk to him, tell him it's effecting how you feel about your relationship.
Is there any way you could see each other in the week sometime too, stop you getting the lonely feelings? Even if it's only for a few hours.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 28, 2006, 09:35:15 am

Chris isn't a phone person.
He calls me to see when he should pick me up to go somewhere, and when he can't see me when he usually does, and when I'm away on holiday. But that's ablout it.
The conversations don't last long. never longer than 10 minutes. And sometimes it's just to say hello, see how each other are, and say goodnight.

To be honest, I don't call him just to chat either. When he's not with me he's either at work or with his friends. So we just catch each other on MSN at random points during the day.

I agree with Ruth on this one. Call him, and try and get him into chatting more on the phone. If it is really bothering you, then talk to him about how you're feeling.
I hope it works out for you.

I've been invited to a BBQ this saturday (Ruth, are you and Andy going??) and Chris can't go. He asked me to join him at the party he's going to, and I've had a debate as to which I'd rather do.
I know more people at my friend's BBQ, even though I've only seen her 3 times in the last 2 years, and had barely even a hello from her. But I think I'll go to the BBQ, since I told her I'd go first, and I know none of the people at Chris' friends thing.
Yeah, anyway, gonna miss him on Saturday :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 28, 2006, 11:30:44 am

Come to the BBQ. I'm going (and so is Andy). Need people to talk to- I bet mostly they'll be her college mates. Not staying long though.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 28, 2006, 01:14:22 pm

Yeah, I'm gonna go. Cancelled on Chris.
I miss Andy.
Hehe. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 28, 2006, 03:15:04 pm

Time for my daily gushing.

And about the phone, Casey and I talk on the phone alot. It is usually at night though. :)

He comes home Monday, so only a few days away! I've missed him soo much these past few weeks! ::) :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 28, 2006, 03:37:58 pm

Aww yay Megs! ;D
I love the afterholiday catch up! Ooh yeah! lolol

Enjoy!


I'm probably not going to see Chris until Tuesday now.
Unless I go to Morrisons after work tomorrow to pick up something alcoholic for this BBQ I'm going to.
Wonder if my Wines & Spirits aisle guy can get me a discount, him in his sexy pinny. Hehehe. ;)

Edit:

This is the monkey that Chris bought me from Alton Towers, after going on the log flume, and me getting soaked. (It's hands are magnetic)


How could I not forgive him after he bought me that. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on July 28, 2006, 04:48:08 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=795#msg1030014 date=1154115478]
Aww yay Megs! ;D
I love the afterholiday catch up! Ooh yeah! lolol

Enjoy!


I'm probably not going to see Chris until Tuesday now.
Unless I go to Morrisons after work tomorrow to pick up something alcoholic for this BBQ I'm going to.
Wonder if my Wines & Spirits aisle guy can get me a discount, him in his sexy pinny. Hehehe. ;)

Edit:

This is the monkey that Chris bought me from Alton Towers, after going on the log flume, and me getting soaked. (It's hands are magnetic)


How could I not forgive him after he bought me that. ::)
[/quote]

Ohh I too love the catching up! It includes lots of hugs and kisses! ;D :-*

Aww, that monkey is soo cute! :D Yes, I am a sucker for stuffed animals. It would be hard to not forgive him. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on July 30, 2006, 05:14:26 pm

Haha, I'm a sucker for stuffed animals, too! A couple weeks ago, Dave left work early (volunteered to leave) after I had decided to stay so that he wouldn't be alone. But once he left, I was going to be alone, and so I was kind of angry with him (yes, stupid, I know, but I really didn't want to be at work that night; only stayed because he was there). So he went out and bought me this adorable stuffed elephant and brought it back to me at work. I couldn't possibly be angry with him after that.

Ah, and on another note, hello again! I'm back from vacationing witn, of course, Dave and his family. We went down to St. Simon's island (off the coast of Georgia), and it was sooooo much fun. Went to the beach everyday, and spent every single second together. Ah, I love him so much! I can't wait until we get to live together. I think it's going to be awesome.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on July 31, 2006, 04:43:20 am

Yay for holidays eh?!

I only have 2 stuffed animals from Andy- Andy bear (he got me him for our first christmas and he lives on my bed with my oldest bear snuffy. Mum says he looks like Andy- blonde and gormless ::)) and a little grey christmas thing from last year which I don't know where he dissapeared to. Oh- there's a also a f*ck-up teddy sat on my shelf. Can't remember why I got that though! Sadly lacking in the stuffed animal department (although I have millions as it is).

Stayed at his the other night (after the bbq). Back to not been able to sleep in the same bed cos of heat and fidgitiness. I feel bad when he decides to floor it in the middle of the night but this time I hardly slept anyway cos his room is like a very noisy, very light sauna. Hee- and he told me I'm not allowed to poke him when he snores anymore, cos I got so annoyed that he was doing the '*poke lightly* stop for 5 seconds start again repeate ad infinitum' routine that I jabbed him really hard and woke him up...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on July 31, 2006, 06:01:54 pm

Aww, you guys are so lucky to be going away with your guys. I'm quite jealous.
May have to suggest something to Chris. lolol
Quite fancy me a trip to somewhere like good ole Skeggi! ;D lolol

Ahh... he doesn't have the time for it. He's in big demand with friends, work, and Kathryn. He's been complaining of having no Chris time recently. Good job he's leaving his job soon.

Went up to see him at work today, but he wasn't around. Prolly on his break or round the back or something. Ho hum.
Not gonna see him til Wednesday. Which is confusing. His working hours are all backwards this week.

Saw his Mum and little sister in town though. Had a good chat with them.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 02, 2006, 10:49:48 am

I'm more in love with Andy that I ever have been. It's a private thing as to why, but we had a long talk about some stuff last night and it's put me in a great frame of mind and a total loved up zone.

I really miss him now though. My family have gone away and he's at work so I'm all alone cos I'm off work today. Just want a hug. Kat- come down here and hug me? Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 02, 2006, 04:06:14 pm

Dude, I would so come down and hug you if it weren't for the fact that I've straightened my hair, and it's raining, and dude... frizz city would happen on my head.
Not that I don't love you. But you know what I'm like with my hair.
If it's any consolation, Chris took me home at 8, and is spending the rest of the night with Joe. So I need hugs too.
I'll just send them telepathically down the road... sound like a plan?
*Makes constipated concentrated faces as she sends brain hugs*

Are you working tomorrow? I'm calling in to see you if you are or aren't, so I can give you one then. lolol

Yay for Andy though. It's another thing to add to my list of things that Andy has done that makes me go 'Awww'. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 03, 2006, 06:52:49 am


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*Makes constipated concentrated faces as she sends brain hugs*


*Also makes said faces even though are a day late*

No not working today. Am tommorrow all day. And Saturday. And Sunday. *Dies*

I just found this photo from my 18th on a CD from the luvverly Kathryn that I hadn't looked at before (God how slow am I?! This was nearly a year ago!). It made me feel squee cos I know what song he's singing and everything!
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v282/lbg/photos/18th%20birthday%20party/18thmeandysing.jpg[/IMG]


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 03, 2006, 09:32:44 am

Aw, I loves that pic Ruth.
Hurray for Kathryn's camera, says I.
One is most proud of oneself.

I'm going to spend the day at Chris' today.
Loves it.
We have some great plans.
Gonna be awesome!

Took some photos of our beautiful selves the other day. lolol. Shall try and get hold of them, so you can compare my relationship to Ruths.
Makes me laugh. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 03, 2006, 10:19:28 am

You can't compare our relationships Kathryn everyone knows mines better than yours. lol j/k. Can't wait to see the pictures hon. I can never get Andy to let me take photos. I think my collection increased five fold cos of going on holiday...

Have fun!

Not getting to see Andy today- he's having to make time for his boyfriend. Honestly- it's like I have a rival in his mate. He complains when Andy doesn't spend time with him (even though all he wants to do is play WoW with their twin characters) and he even has the gall to call me a bitch for 'taking his best friend away' (Andy set him straight VERY quickly on that little out burst...). I see Andy four nights a week at most so he's got him the other three. Just cos he doesn't get off his bum and call round to see him in person doesn't make it my fault. </rant>


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 03, 2006, 10:39:38 am

Awww! Such a cute picture!

Remember when we were talking about stuffed animals? Well, I saw Casey for the first time in two weeks the day before yesterday and one of the things he brought home for me was this absolutely adorable stuffed sea turtle! Here is a picture of him. Casey named him Batholamuel (or something spelled like that! ::)). Bart for short. ;) He knows I love turtles, so this was very sweet of him! ;D

Oh and when him, his brother, and I went shopping the other day, we talked Casey into getting his ear pierced! It's so hott! ;D




Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 03, 2006, 03:21:38 pm

Andy refuses to get anything pierced. Mind you, I was trying to get him tattooed. He liked the sound but never did it. Shame really...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 03, 2006, 03:50:51 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=795#msg1031111 date=1154632898]
Andy refuses to get anything pierced. Mind you, I was trying to get him tattooed. He liked the sound but never did it. Shame really...
[/quote]

Ah, well trust me, it took me a whole lot to get him to do it! He does however, want a tattoo. So anyway, the earring is pretty hot on him. I will have to post pics. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 03, 2006, 05:20:31 pm

Awww, cute turtle! ;D

Oooh, ear piercing, Chris has one, but it's fully healed now.

Ruth, tell his friend that he obviously needs a woman. Or, more friends. Tutut. I cannot allow people to call you a bitch.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 03, 2006, 09:22:26 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=810#msg1031128 date=1154640031]
Awww, cute turtle! ;D

Oooh, ear piercing, Chris has one, but it's fully healed now.


[/quote]

Hehe, thank you. :-* I love my turtle.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 04, 2006, 06:50:57 am

Here we go. Can you tell how much he loves me?
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/175038.jpg[/IMG]

lolol

Oh, yesterday, I got the best compliment ever.....

"You looked really pretty yesterday."

Er. Yesterday? I'm an ugly cow today then am I?
From there... he just kept on digging himself further and further into the hole. Was hilarious.

Before the abuse started that day. He looks weird here. lol
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/174103.jpg[/IMG]

(That was the day that I looked really pretty, just so you know ;))

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 04, 2006, 05:59:43 pm

Aww you and Chris look like you have such a fun relationship!

Quote:
From there... he just kept on digging himself further and further into the hole. Was hilarious.

Hee- thats always funny.
Ps- thank you for my hug.

I just scratched Andy all the way from his mouth up the side of his nostril! It was an accident but I feel a horrible now! Oops! I had made him his dinner and stuck to his diet (almost) though. Plus he's putting ideas into my head to get the ambigram I made of Ruth tattooed onto my tummy. I've always thought having your own name tattooed on you wassilly but I like the idea of this one. I'm weak...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 04, 2006, 06:09:45 pm

Ah, it is entertaining, I must say.

He just called me, he'd finished work and was waiting for someone cos he was giving him a lift home in exchange for kitkats. (As you do...)

My Mum was sat at the other side of the room talking away (drunk), and I'm like, "Shall I just pass the phone over?!"
Anyway, she has decided to go into where his Mum works, and pay her a visit. Ohhh, god.
Parents have never met each other before. Not even seen each other. lolol. This could be interesting.

Ruth, is that name thing the thing you showed me at Amys, on your phone? That looks cool! Would make a good tattoo. It's not the typical name thing, you know, like Craigs. lol ::)
(He has a massive "CRAIG" down one arm)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Dot on August 04, 2006, 08:44:40 pm

tafika, does your bf's shirt have a dirty connotation? ;) And yes you are really pretty!! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 05, 2006, 04:11:05 am

lolol, yeah, it's something like Easy Lay Ltd. Carpet fitters.
Tel no. 0800 69 69 69.
I think it says something else, but I can't remember.

And thank you :-* ;D

I don't get to see him today, and he's working up until Thursday I think. Sux. :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 05, 2006, 10:27:47 am

Cute pics Taf! :-*

Today, Casey and I are going to spend the day together, again! We are trying to squeeze all the time we can together before he is off to college next Friday! :-\ I will miss him so much, but I know he'll miss me too.

I want to take loads of pics with him today. WOOT! I love pictures, hehe. :-* I will share them with you all. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 05, 2006, 02:39:16 pm

Ooh parents meeting session! Hee...


Quote:
Ruth, is that name thing the thing you showed me at Amys, on your phone?

Yeah. It could just be a celic design from far away, which is better than just bog standard text. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 06, 2006, 03:38:20 pm

My Mum didn't meet his. Didn't have time apparently.

I feel lonely.

I last saw Chris on Thursday.
He worked Friday. He wanted a "Chris day" Saturday (Wasn't happy about this). Worked today, and tonight he'll be watching the taped Grand Prix, so even if I get an invite I won't go round because it's so boring, tomorrow he's working, and who knows what's happening later this week.

Sux.
Really.

:'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on August 06, 2006, 09:41:37 pm

Ew, sorry Kat. That does really suck.

I'm sort of feeling your pain. Dave and I work at the same movie theater, and I think our scheduling manager is jealous of how damn cute we are ( ;)) because she keep scheduling us opposite shifts. Meaning, I work 11-6, he works 6-11, or vice versa. So I haven't seen him properly since Thursday, either. Won't actually get to see him til tomorrow night. Bleh.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 07, 2006, 09:26:38 am

Well I'm doing great in the seeing of the boyf stakes. lol.

We're planning on going away together again in early September, just to some where in England. Excited- a proper me and him holiday with no parents or anything!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 07, 2006, 12:26:33 pm


Quote:
she keep scheduling us opposite shifts. Meaning, I work 11-6, he works 6-11, or vice versa.


That's so mean of her! Pay her back by both of you pulling a sicky on the same day. Haha. ;) Spend the day together! ;D


Quote:
We're planning on going away together again in early September, just to some where in England. Excited- a proper me and him holiday with no parents or anything!


Aww, that's sweet! I fancy doing something like that with Chris. ;D

Woohoo! Parents are going away the next 2 weekends. Gonna devote one of them to my friends, and one of them to Chris. Looove it! ;D

Bought part of his birthday present today. Finally decided what he's getting. Spending so much on him though, I just hope I have enough left for various partytimes that are happening this month. Plus another friends birthday.
Think I may require a trip to the bank of parent for a little loan...

Anyway, today I got him a DVD of a TV show the guys that do Peep Show did a while ago. He loves Peep Show, and I don't know if he knows about this (The Mitchell and Webb Situation) but it looks as though he'll like.
Also going to get him the newest Discworld book, Thud, in hardback too, so that's a lot of pennies. Plus, a computer game (I forget the name)

Hopefully this will make up for my previous pathetic attempts at present buying for him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 09, 2006, 06:55:40 am

Glad you got that sorted Kathryn. Must say, I'm glad that Andy just wants taking out for his dinner for his bday next week. Methinks thats what he'll get for bdays from now on. I'm crud at buying the males presents. Will get him a dragon for his collection though.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 09, 2006, 10:29:15 am

Hey everyone. Sadly, Casey and I have been on adge lately. It's just a very hard and stressful time for the two of us. He leaves for college on Friday and I already miss him. Lately, I've been so mad when we can't see each other or he wants to get off the phone. I just feel like I have time I need to spend with him before he lives two hours away from me. :-\ Oh well. It will just be hard for a little whille. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 09, 2006, 12:05:53 pm

Aw Megs, I feel for you, I really do. And I find myself in the same kind of situation at the moment.

I don't see Chris as much these days as when we were at College. I used to see him every day in College, and then every other day in the evenings. Whereas now, it's miss and match whether I see him or not. He's either working (which I can understand, and have no problem with) or seeing his friends (still cool with this) or... he's suddenly decided he needs 'Chris time'. Which I find odd. But I'm also cool with. Everyone needs time to themselves every now and then. And I myself am a perfect example of having those 'loner' moments every now and then.
But the thing is, he seems to have these moments when it's me he would usually see. He never says to his friends 'I don't want to go out'. Only to me. And I'm feeling a bit put out. It's really quite getting to me, so I'm gonna have to tell him whats up and see whether he has actually got a problem with me, or whether its just me being a worrier... who knows.

But yeah, these days I want to see more and more of him, because in September we're both moving away to university. There'll be 2 hours between where we stay and home, and between the 2 of us, it's 4 hours drive.
So, him wanting 'Chris time' isn't really working out, when I want to see him as much as possible. Sux. :(

Megs, something tells me you will see plenty of Casey. It's only 2 hours, which is a simple train ride if my experience of train rides is correct. And seeing as it's a new move away (which I'm guessing it is....) he'll be home pretty much every weekend. Apparently everyone does this. I know my brother did in his first year at uni. It will be hard to get used to, but I'm sure that you two will be able to pull through it. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 09, 2006, 01:52:11 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=825#msg1032031 date=1155139553]
Aw Megs, I feel for you, I really do. And I find myself in the same kind of situation at the moment.

I don't see Chris as much these days as when we were at College. I used to see him every day in College, and then every other day in the evenings. Whereas now, it's miss and match whether I see him or not. He's either working (which I can understand, and have no problem with) or seeing his friends (still cool with this) or... he's suddenly decided he needs 'Chris time'. Which I find odd. But I'm also cool with. Everyone needs time to themselves every now and then. And I myself am a perfect example of having those 'loner' moments every now and then.
But the thing is, he seems to have these moments when it's me he would usually see. He never says to his friends 'I don't want to go out'. Only to me. And I'm feeling a bit put out. It's really quite getting to me, so I'm gonna have to tell him whats up and see whether he has actually got a problem with me, or whether its just me being a worrier... who knows.

But yeah, these days I want to see more and more of him, because in September we're both moving away to university. There'll be 2 hours between where we stay and home, and between the 2 of us, it's 4 hours drive.
So, him wanting 'Chris time' isn't really working out, when I want to see him as much as possible. Sux. :(

Megs, something tells me you will see plenty of Casey. It's only 2 hours, which is a simple train ride if my experience of train rides is correct. And seeing as it's a new move away (which I'm guessing it is....) he'll be home pretty much every weekend. Apparently everyone does this. I know my brother did in his first year at uni. It will be hard to get used to, but I'm sure that you two will be able to pull through it. :)
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Wow Taf, it definitely sounds like you and I are facing the same problems. And I am no stranger to the whole Casey needing his own time. I too am the same way at times, but I am faced with the same as you. He won't tell his friends no, but he will tell me no. It's painful, but I guess he knows that whatever he decides, I won't abandon him. That's the only light I can shine on this issue.

Yes, I am very thankful it is two hours away, but the thing is, they will have one car there (for him and his brother) and it may be hard to work out when they can come home. Of course, all he has to do is call his mom and she would go get him. I hope I see him more often than I think I will. It will be so hard for awhile, but I know I have good friends to help me along. I will get to talk to him a little every night, so I am glad of that.

I do hope it all works out with you and Chris! I can tell you really love him. I think guys just have these times when they need us to help them out. ;) I hope you get to see him once you to go back to school as often as possible. But I am sure college is quite hectic. :-* Keep me posted.

Well, today, I found out that the special day together that we were supposed to have tomorrow, the last time I will see him before he leaves, will probably not be able to happen. It was gonig to be great. He was going to have a whole day planned special for us and that night, we were going to go somewhere secluded and look at the stars. Oh well... it was a nice thought. :-\ :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: littlehafling on August 09, 2006, 02:41:31 pm

Awwww, Megs!!! I'm so sorry. I can't say that I really understand what you're going through, but I have a vague idea and it must really suck. But I'm here for you, girl, if you need me! I love ya. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 09, 2006, 02:43:19 pm

[quote author=Lumos link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=825#msg1032062 date=1155148891]
Awwww, Megs!!! I'm so sorry. I can't say that I really understand what you're going through, but I have a vague idea and it must really suck. But I'm here for you, girl, if you need me! I love ya. :-*
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Thanks so much Maria. :-* I will definitely need the support of you and the rest of my friends through this. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on August 10, 2006, 02:29:33 am

what a bugger taf and meg! maybe they're prioritising their friends at the moment because they know you will be their top priority when they come home. It sounds like they're probably obligated to see a lot of people before they go away and they know they'll see you most frequently once that time comes? :-\ that's my take on it. anywho i hope it gets better for you both!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 11, 2006, 06:22:39 am

I've had some reassurance about things, and I feel so much better about us now. Woohoo. (Turns out I was having another highly emotional moment)

I can see things being very very complicated in the coming months. We'll both be really busy. Example being, my top choice university has sent me some work I have to do before I even get there, and I don't even find out if I'll be going to that uni until next week when I get my exam results.
Craziness.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 11, 2006, 01:38:19 pm

Eek- the gushing thread has become bemoaned! (Says the girls whos currently got her bloke layed behind her on his bed in nowt... I'll be going very soon!).

Hope you two both manage to sort through your bad patches. I hate the whole haveing to go away from Andy thing, and there'll only be an hour or so between us. Still only going to see him on a weekend though. Sux.

But hell- lets get something nice for us to think about. Best memory with your bloke? Mine is either our first date (walking home from the cinema in a proper 'will he won't he' fix- nerve wracking at the time but such a squee moment to look back on) or going for a meal just me and him at the Stardust casino in Las Vegas, and getting covered in rib sauce. Fun times.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 11, 2006, 04:39:32 pm

Well things are good with Casey and I now. Last night, before he left, I cried so hard. And he stood there and just held me, reassuring that we are strong and that nothing will ever come between us. Also, he bought me a dozen red roses when he picked me up yesterday! It was so sweet. I am alot of confidence now. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on August 13, 2006, 08:43:32 pm

I'm glad things are semi worked out for you, Meg and Kat. Boys can be so weird sometimes.

As far as the distance thing - I've said it before and will say it again: it IS hard, especially at first. But after the first month of hating it and flipping out and maybe even crying, you'll realize none of you are dead, and that you're still in love, and that you can make it work. Dave and I are living proof. I have faith in you guys; you should, too!

I was just out of town this weekend, visiting my soon-to-be roommate. It was fun, but I've missed Dave. It was cute, though, because he called me a bajillion times yesterday (all, of course, when I really couldn't talk) to tell me random stories about work. Then he said he really missed me, and that I needed to come right home. Aww, love. I can't wait to see him later tonight!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 13, 2006, 09:23:48 pm


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As far as the distance thing - I've said it before and will say it again: it IS hard, especially at first. But after the first month of hating it and flipping out and maybe even crying, you'll realize none of you are dead, and that you're still in love, and that you can make it work. Dave and I are living proof. I have faith in you guys; you should, too!


Thanks very much for the hopefullness and words of wisdom. Tonight, things really ran through my head. I was even considering a break. But Casey said that we can do this. We are so in love and there is no distance nor any time apart that will destroy that. We just need to learn that we live seperate lives, yet the same life, if that makes sense. We will talk for about 10-15 minutes a day for a few weeks and then learn that it's alright. I am so happy right now. I love him so much. I am off to Indiana for a week tomorrow, but I will still have the internet, so I will still be on here. But I am thinking that the trip will be very good for me. Thanks so much. ;D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 14, 2006, 07:53:09 am

I had such a nice night last night.
My parents went away on Saturday, and don't come back until tonight.
I had my friends to keep me company on Sat night after a trip round town. But I was on my own last night.
So he came round after work, we ordered pizza, curled up in the remaining duvets from the night before, and watched 'Dude, where's my car?'

It was really nice. And we were both so tired that it was just a cuddly night. Apart from when we found a weird bug on the floor and he started screaming like a girl. Hahaha.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 14, 2006, 10:01:53 am


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Apart from when we found a weird bug on the floor and he started screaming like a girl. Hahaha.

Breaking the zen like stance he usually has when I see him then. Bless him...

Went for a meal with Andy yesterday. Was good. And how much do I love missing the train home?! ;) Had a day helping out at a brownie craft event today though, so I made him a little dragon picture out of those plastic beads that you iron together. Looks nothing like a dragon unless you look carefully but meh- thought that counts huh?!

Me thinks I may have problems with Andy's boyfriend again. (I shouldn't call him that really- it's just mean.) Andy's got a new computer, so when we were home yesterday he spent a few hours setting WoW up and then playing some missions with this lad while I watched a DVD. And then his mate had the gall to complain when Andy said he was going, then to ring up when I was meant to be going home and get huffy cos I hadn't left yet. I just yelled 'I'll not have him for long!' down the phone and stalked off (A good exit is always funny- we were in the kitchen so I stalked back to Andy's room). He just pisses me off. Just cos he doesn't have a life doesn't mean Andy can't.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 16, 2006, 10:12:23 am

Ruth, don't let this guy get to you. It's obvious who Andy would rather spend time with. And if he keeps moaning like this, then I bet that Andy will want to spend less and less time with him. No one likes a winger.

Me and Chris are going to the cinema tonight. We're going back to the cinema where we had out first kiss. Which was 8 months ago yesterday. lol. We've not been there since December.
Reminds me of the journey home after the kiss, haha, that was so funny. I was feeling oh so very pleased with myself, but also was thinking "OMG! Jen is gonna kill me!" lol ::) crazy times.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 16, 2006, 11:04:38 am

Hello everyone! Well, I am off on vaca as I said before and I'm having a great time. I got to see some friends that live up here that I hadn't seen in 4 years! ;D It is helping me with Casey being away now.

I truely miss everything about him now. I'm sorry to sound extremely mushy, but I miss his smile, the touch of his hand, the way he reaches for my hand, the way he kisses me, the way I could hear his heart beat when I layed in his arms, and I know I can't have that as much any more. :-\ But it's okay. I know I still have it. :)

Last night, I called him in his dorm and he told me that eveyone was out in the hall partying and I asked why he wasn't and he laughed and said, "I'd much rather be on the computer. I have no desire to party. That's not why I'm at college." And I felt that to be very reassuring. Especially when he said, "I'm here to start a career and a future for not only me, but my soon-to-be family; you." ;D ;D


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on August 17, 2006, 12:49:05 am

Aww, that's so cute, Meg! He sounds not only like a sweet guy, but a smart one, too! Though, a little partying at college every now and then never hurt anyone. ;) But it's tres cute that he blew it off to talk to you. Aww.

I don't have much to tell, really. Dave and I move off to school together in a week. I'm kind of nervous! It's definitely going to take some getting used to being up there with him. But it's going to be good, too. Yay.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 17, 2006, 07:53:47 am


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Especially when he said, "I'm here to start a career and a future for not only me, but my soon-to-be family; you."


Aww! Bless him! I actually tried to scare Andy once by doing that and he just told me he'd probably propose to me if we're still together by the end of uni anyway. ::) Lol.

Andy's birthday tommorow. I'm going to join him and his family for a chinese (I hate chinese food- it must be love!) then I'm taking him out Saturday night for real food. Which reminds me- must write his card...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 17, 2006, 09:08:02 am

Aww, Megs, that's really sweet of him.

Flummoxed, I hope you guys have a blast at uni together! ;D

We got our A level results today. I got 2 Cs and 2 Ds, and Chris got 2 Bs and 2 Cs. We are smarty bums indeed.
Means that we both got into the uni of our choice! ;D And also means that come september, we're 4 hours away from each other. :(

Still... yay! lol

Ruth, tell Andy happy birthday from the Kathryn.

Edit:

Made me laugh...

Lord Chrisius Duke III - "Miles has green teeth. says:
i am so proud of u
The Kathryn says:
aw really
Lord Chrisius Duke III - "Miles has green teeth." says:
yes
The Kathryn says:
im proud of you too
Lord Chrisius Duke III - "Miles has green teeth." says:
but remember our deal
Lord Chrisius Duke III - "Miles has green teeth." says:
u get rich, u buy me car

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 18, 2006, 10:07:01 am

[quote]u get rich, u buy me car
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Lol- innit nice the priorities that men have.

I'm dating a man. ;D Andy is 20 today. Chinese food later. Means I've got to attempt to like chinese food but meh. I got him a dragon for his collection as well as his dinner-

'Cept I made an extra 'I love you more' flag cos it's a joke ("I love you more" *Poke other person with flag like you're a general claiming a country for the queen* "Claimed!")
We is weird... Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 18, 2006, 10:20:15 am

[quote]Aww! Bless him! I actually tried to scare Andy once by doing that and he just told me he'd probably propose to me if we're still together by the end of uni anyway. Lol.
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Haha aww yeah, it's so weird because last night, we had an awful arguement. It started by my friend telling me how she doesn't care for Casey. And he said she needed to get her facts straight. I mean, she doesn't know nor see everything about us. You know? Well, he asked if I wanted a break or to just break up or something and I asked if he did and he said no. He told me he'd make things better for me, and I, out of anger, said that he wouldn't. He immediately started crying and said he was sorry and hung up. This broke my heart. I called him back and he just told me that nothing in this world is going to tear him away from me and that he loved me. So, as you can see, even in the hardest times, we come out on top. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 18, 2006, 10:32:58 am

Ick evil conversation/ argument. I hate the whole choose between mates or your bloke thing. Thankfully mine get along (Andy says he gets on better with my friends than his own nowadays).

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 18, 2006, 05:48:27 pm

Because Andy is cool! And we love him! Yayyy!

Haha, I was telling my Mum about you guys the other day, about how you're so well suited to each other that it's crazy! She found it very sweet and is very happy for you. ;D

I am so gutted. Seriously.
I start uni on the 18th September, and Chris starts on the 24th.
This means that I'm not going to see him on my birthday. Because I have all kinds of fresher/induction stuff going on. It also means that the only people I know at the moment that I'll see on my birthday are the ones that are going to the same uni as me. And that's only 2.

I was so looking forward to having my birthday with Chris. And I was hoping to be home for it. But what do they do... start my year 4 days before my birthday! F*cking gutted! :'(

I'm just going to have to make his birthday (1st) extra extra special to make it up for both of us. Duuuude. Is it gonna be gooooooood! ;) :P ::) ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 20, 2006, 08:44:53 am

[quote]Because Andy is cool! And we love him! Yayyy!

Haha, I was telling my Mum about you guys the other day, about how you're so well suited to each other that it's crazy! She found it very sweet and is very happy for you. [/quote]

Lol- Andy (he's sat on 'Halo' behind me) says thank you and does the head dance. :) I'm glad your mum is happy for us- get her to talk to mine! Lol j/k

I start uni at the same time (18th)- 6 days before my birthday. Not even a week! Tsk! I think I'll drag Andy down to see me on my bday though, whether he likes it or not! :) Have fun on Chris' bday ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 20, 2006, 09:51:55 am

Your birthday is on the Saturday. Are you not coming home for that? I am. Planning to do partytimes at uni on the Thursday (my bday) come home Friday evening and see Chris. Have a meal with the family Saturday lunchtime and go out with hometown folk on that Saturday night. Up for that? Come on!!! We have to do a Kathryn/Ruth birthday thing, because you know we're the coolest people out of our friends. Haha. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 20, 2006, 10:47:25 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=840#msg1033456 date=1155911578]
Ick evil conversation/ argument. I hate the whole choose between mates or your bloke thing. Thankfully mine get along (Andy says he gets on better with my friends than his own nowadays).
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Things are better now. We finally worked it all out. My friends have always gotten along. But things happen. It will work out. I love him so much. I just wanted to let you all know that I get to see him in about a week. I cannot wait! ;D He is super excited and he keeps telling me how much he misses me. It makes me feel good. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 22, 2006, 08:53:50 am


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We have to do a Kathryn/Ruth birthday thing, because you know we're the coolest people out of our friends

Of course we are! I totally didn't realise my bday was a Saturday- cool! Lets go out! We can have a 'ha we rule cos we're older than you all *except Andy and Chris but shh they don't count*' night.


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I just wanted to let you all know that I get to see him in about a week.

Glad to here things are going better for you. Hope you have fun!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 22, 2006, 11:57:51 am


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Glad to here things are going better for you. Hope you have fun!


Thanks! ;D I can't wait to see him again. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 22, 2006, 12:10:48 pm

Aww yay, hope you have fun too. Hehe.

Hoping to see Chris tonight.
We're going to see Cars tomorrow after work. It's our new thing. We go in for the Orange Wednesdays (BOGOF to you non-Brits, which I believe is most of you) thing. Saw Nacho Libre last week.
Anyone whose seen it will understand mine and Chris' new MSN farewell of xxOoxXoXXoOxOOOxxXxoOXo ;)
Those who haven't... never mind. :P

He is now unemployed. He worked at Morrisons (supermarket) for 3 years, and his last day was Sunday. Hopefully he still has money for Kathryns birthday present ;)
Anyway, can you believe, they didn't buy him a farewell gift?! 3 years he's worked there, and not even a CARD!
I think that's terrible. I worked at a place for a year and got loads from them when I left. I feel like going up to Morereasons and making them buy him something. lolol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 23, 2006, 12:48:20 pm

I'm going on holiday with Andy!
(Yes, again.)
Nowhere as exotic as America this time- just three nights in Blackpool. But still excited. It's the week before I go to uni, so it'll just be a nice thing to remember when I'm all lonely at night...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 23, 2006, 03:00:47 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=840#msg1034225 date=1156351700]
I'm going on holiday with Andy!
(Yes, again.)
Nowhere as exotic as America this time- just three nights in Blackpool. But still excited. It's the week before I go to uni, so it'll just be a nice thing to remember when I'm all lonely at night...
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Girl you are soo lucky! My parents would never let me go on vaca with my bf. It's great that you get to spend more time with him though. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 24, 2006, 08:07:34 am

[quote author=>>The Black Pearl<< link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=840#msg1034257 date=1156359647]
[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=840#msg1034225 date=1156351700]
I'm going on holiday with Andy!
(Yes, again.)
Nowhere as exotic as America this time- just three nights in Blackpool. But still excited. It's the week before I go to uni, so it'll just be a nice thing to remember when I'm all lonely at night...
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Girl you are soo lucky! My parents would never let me go on vaca with my bf. It's great that you get to spend more time with him though. :-*
[/quote]

I kinda told them and never mentioned it again until yesterday when I did the 'going on holiday it's booked is that ok?' thing. (Although, it isn't booked yet oops.)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on August 24, 2006, 01:23:09 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=840#msg1034098 date=1156263048]

Anyone whose seen it will understand mine and Chris' new MSN farewell of xxOoxXoXXoOxOOOxxXxoOXo ;)
[/quote]

Hahaha, that's my absolute favorite part of that movie. Heehee. I stole a Nacho poster from my theater. It's so going up in my dorm room!

Speaking of dorm rooms, I leave tonight, move in tomorrow. Eeee, it's sort of exciting. I'm very much ready to go back. I think this year will be much better than last year was.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 25, 2006, 07:36:45 pm

I hope everyone is doing well. I really don't feel like spilling the whole story but Casey and I need everyone's prayers!!! I have never meant this more than ever. All I can say is, you never know what all you really have until it's gone. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 26, 2006, 03:05:11 pm

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If you need to talk don't hesitate to drop us a PM hon. *hugs*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 26, 2006, 04:33:24 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=855#msg1034756 date=1156619111]
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If you need to talk don't hesitate to drop us a PM hon. *hugs*
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Awww wow, thanks so much! :-\ :-* *hugs back* I really appreciate that. I think we are working it all out.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on August 27, 2006, 05:19:10 am

I got a job, shocking. Morgan came and visited me on my break and bought me lunch. Smile.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 27, 2006, 01:01:48 pm

Aw Megs. I wish you and Casey all the very best through whatever it is that is going on. Be strong.

Congrats on the new job Sarah.

Chris bought a sofa the other day for his room.
Haha, it's so cool. I love his room, he has everything in it! ;D

We're going to an 18th birthday party tonight. Ruth and Andy are joining us too. It should be superly funtimes! lolol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on August 27, 2006, 04:36:57 pm

Thank you Taf! We were definitely strong through this. I can happily tell you all, that everything has been worked out perfectly. I got to spend the afternoon with him and we had a great time! He came over and we just talked and held each other for awhile. Then we went to the pool with my family and had a good time. Everything is going to be okay. :) We tooka bunch of pics! I will share some with you all. ;D







;D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 27, 2006, 11:24:56 pm

Yay Meg & Casey!

Well... Men are very bad things.

Went to an 18th birthday party... and my boyfriend, Jef and Rob were trying their best to get me drunk.
Now, I am a bit of a lightweight (haha, shh) so it wasn't exactly difficult. But I made a bit of a fool of myself. Dancing solo on the dance floor.
Funtimes. Haha. Funtimes.

RUTH!!! Send me pictures you took! I need to inspect them! lolol

Chris took me home (his house), and we had some fuuunnn... before he took me home (my house).
Apparently it was for me to sober up a bit before facing the parents... but ended in me wanting him to take advantage... yes... I think I should be quiet now.

I should probably mention that this is 4:25 ish am for me right now. I've slept a bit, but I'm awake. So I am speaking to an Australian on MSN, who I don't really like. He's a dick tbh... anyway...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 28, 2006, 12:46:15 pm


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RUTH!!! Send me pictures you took! I need to inspect them! lolol


I will do when Lucy gets home and I can steal her camera as a card reader. I honestly couldn't say that I'd taken pictures but I have a vague memory of laughing at you as I did. Hmm. Did you get any with me on? I doubt I have any of me. Mind you, I gurn in photos and am ugly, so no-one ever seems to want to point a camera in my direction.

I still can't sleep two in a f-ing single bed. It's really p*****g me off now. The rents are away for ten days so Andy's basically moved in. Mind you, wrong time of the month so he'll be kicked out to my bros old bed tonight anyway.

He's sleeping off last night on the sofa atm. And I'm cooking for him. He may die. :)

My tummy hurts- I don't take alcohol well...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 30, 2006, 05:27:16 am

Chris bought a sofa bed. It's lovely. So nice to cuddle up on as well. Mmm...

It's his birthday on Friday. He's 20. Gosh. What an old man.
Going for a meal with his family on Thursday night. It should be goodly.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 30, 2006, 08:34:42 am

Isn't it nice when your freinds reply to a direct question? :P Kat- Did you get any photos with me on?

It seems really tsrange saying your blokes 20 dunnit? Although, it'll take me some time to not feel all cool when I say I'm dating a man not a teenager now. Lol.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on August 30, 2006, 04:27:23 pm

Haha, yeah, I'm a cradle robber. I'll be 20 this fall (EW!), and my boy will still be 18 for a couple months. Blah, I feel old already.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 30, 2006, 05:40:25 pm

Lol- you're the reverse of me and Andy exactly hon.

We're watching 'Meet the parents'. Why does TV insist on having a 40 minute news and lottery break during films though? Stoopid! Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 30, 2006, 06:49:50 pm

Haha, me and Chris were watching that! ;D
We played on the XBox360 in that news break. lol
He just bought a racing game and extra controller especially for me. ::)

Yes, I got photos of you. I shall get them all up soon as I can. Til then, I just love this one of you and him.

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/Untitled-12.jpg[/IMG]

Haha, Ruth, me and you are the same. Andy and Chris are days apart in birthdays, as are me and you. Scary, no? ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 31, 2006, 02:37:42 am

Jezuz- how many had Andy had at that point?! And heres me falling for his 'I'm a solitary drinker- I like to sit in the corner and watch people' line! Lol.


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Haha, Ruth, me and you are the same. Andy and Chris are days apart in birthdays, as are me and you. Scary, no?


I was thinking that the other day too. Plus, you've dated a Tom (briefly) an Andrew, and a Chris- and so have I (If we count infant school claims which probably no- lol). You havn't had an Oliver you didn't tell em about have you? Lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 31, 2006, 05:49:56 am

No... but I did have a Dany. lol ;D ::)

Edit:

Ooooohhh! Chris started going to the gym a bit ago. It's early days, and you wouldn't expect much of a change so soon, but he is beginning to look a lot more toned (is that the right word?) than he used to. I wouldn't let him put his shirt back on the other day because he just looked so sexy. lolol ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on August 31, 2006, 04:02:30 pm

Lol- bless. In comparison, Andy is stood behind me munching down on crisps. So much for the diet... :P (no I say that- he's lost a stone and looks mighty fine. Love you babe. Don't leave me cos you're reading over my shoulder in a very rude fashion oh now you're laughing at me. wh*re.)

I cooked real food for us today- chicken and potatoes and carrots. I rule. Lol

(Ps- Andy says he isn't being rude he's being interested.)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 01, 2006, 06:23:37 am

lol, hey Andy. How are you enjoying my birthday present to you? ;)

It's Chris' birthday today! I'm going over to his in a while to deliver presents from me and my parents. And to eat cake. I hear there is cake, I am there! ;D

We went for a meal last night, was eventful. His Dad asking me weird questions, like why my parents don't pay for my phone for me, and stuff like that that make you think "eeerr.... what?"

This is after before going out he squeezes my bum... and a couple of days ago he was trying to get me to sit on his knee in the car...
Yes. I am very scared. Chris is very apolagetic for him. The old perv. lol

Might be going out tonight with his brother, but I don't know if we will be. I'd quite like to, but I don't think Chris is keen. He doesn't really like going round town.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 01, 2006, 04:06:45 pm

I hope everyone is doing well! Sorry I've not been around this past week. School has been crazy! I get to see Casey next weekend and I can't wait! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 01, 2006, 06:11:58 pm

Say happy bday to Chris for me Kathryn- I myspaced him but just tell him lol.

Andy's left me. Not left left me, just gone home after crashing here for a week or so. Lonely now.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 02, 2006, 08:46:24 am

I will tell him, when I next see him. :)

I got a new phone yesterday, so I was playing with it whilst at Chris'.

Himself
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/Chris22.jpg[/IMG]

And myself and Jasper, who is just too cool for his own good. He was being really cuddly with me this day...
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[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/Jasper2.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 02, 2006, 11:36:26 am

Aww cute kitty he has there Taf! :-* I really like Chris' hair. Tis cool. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 02, 2006, 04:44:05 pm

lol, thanks. Chris thinks it looks too pointy there. But his hair is never right for him... ::) men, eh? ;)

I hope you and Casey have fun next weekend. Are you doing anything special? Or just chilling?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 02, 2006, 05:32:38 pm

Sorry the idea of someones hair being too pointy just makes me giggle!

Cats rule.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 02, 2006, 07:07:48 pm


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I hope you and Casey have fun next weekend. Are you doing anything special? Or just chilling?


Thanks! We will probably just hang out, but he tends to insist on taking me out ot dinner and stuff like that. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on September 03, 2006, 02:49:21 am

Work is so much better when Morgan comes to visit me in his breaks. He always buys me lunch, I feel so guilty. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 03, 2006, 05:23:11 pm


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We will probably just hang out, but he tends to insist on taking me out ot dinner and stuff like that.


Ooh have fun babe whatever you end up doing. :)

Sarah- I know what you mean. I love Andy meeting me at the end of work. Mainly cos he comes in in his sexy suit straight from the bank *drools*.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 03, 2006, 09:47:02 pm

[quote]Ooh have fun babe whatever you end up doing.
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Oh...thank you. But, I don't think he will be coming home. What you all are about to hear...you will not understand. After 7 years, my beloved Casey has fallen into what he has always loathed about himself. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 05, 2006, 02:39:47 pm

Parteeee tonight!
I want to sleep at Chris'. But I'm required to sleep at a friends.
Plus, I think there's a random strange man sleeping in his room.
Something tells me he might want to join us... lol ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 06, 2006, 02:58:27 am

No! What's Casey done now?! If it's anything that'll involved hurting you we'll go round and do the girl thing!

Going on holiday in half an hour! see y'all on Saturday!


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 06, 2006, 01:36:07 pm

Megs, what ever it is about Casey, I hope things work out.

Ruth, have funsies! ;D

Chris is just brilliant.
I stayed at a friends house last night. One of my friends got really really drunk, and it got to the point where we just had to send her home. Chris gave her and another friend a lift home so they didn't have to walk (I swear she wouldn't have made it if they had walked... she was walking around flashing her boobs at every available moment) so yeah, that was very nice of him.

And then this morning, even though he was feeling unwell he came and picked me up and took me home.
He's just too nice to me, all the time. lolol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 10, 2006, 01:09:25 pm

Kat- PM me and tell me who it was. I'm all intrigued now... Did her name perhaps begin with T..?

Back from the hols! Had a right good time. It feels really weird now to not be seeing him all day long. Aww- university is gonna ne hell!

Have to share some pics (sorry lol)-
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v282/lbg/photos/Blackpool%202006/Andydragon.jpg[/IMG]
Int he luvvly? I'm dating a five year old!
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Aww
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v282/lbg/photos/Blackpool%202006/stewieandeeyores.jpg[/IMG]
Look what Andy won me- a lil mini Eeyore, AND a 2 foot tall Eeyore! I won him the Stewie doll (except he put in the money and pressed all the buttons. I tried but failed. lol)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 10, 2006, 01:17:58 pm

Tracy? lol, no. Tracy was completely sober.
It was Sarah. Bless her. So funny.

Looks like you guys had fun. Yay you! ;D

Seeing Chris tonight. I've avoided going round when the Grand Prix is on, as always. I hate it when he doesn't tell me it's on and has me sat there bored out of my mind.

Should be doing a lot this week. As it's our last week together before I go to uni next Sunday. Sad times? Fun times? I'm looking forward to it, and I'm not... Gah!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 11, 2006, 05:16:07 am

Well Sarah would've been my next guess. :)

I'm scared s***less about leaving Andy and heading off to uni, even though we're not half the distance away you guys are. Plus he's totally pesimistic about the whole thing, which doesn't help.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 12, 2006, 04:04:47 pm

Aww! That is cute that he won you some Eeyores, haha! I looove Eeyore! ;D

Okay everyone. This is really going ot shock all of you I think. Casey and I are no longer together and I am not sure how likely it is that we will be together again, as we hope. If he can defeat this problem, then perhaps we can have a future. Casey is gay. He is coming out to everyone now. I am very heartbroken. He is still my best friend, however. I am going to be here for him always. I am working on moving on. After a year and 8 months of devoting your life to a love you thought was invincible, it is pulled away from you. It could not be more painful. But I believe my faith in God is getting me through this. My friends and family are also a great help.

I have a new special someone, as of Friday. Casey is glad to hear I am dating again. His name is Bryan. He is a very kind and understanding gentleman. I will post a few pics later. He plays football for our highschool, so I enjoy going to the games to watch. He is a great friend and a huge help through all of this. God bless you all. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on September 12, 2006, 11:02:05 pm

I'm sorry to hear you and Casey arn't together any more megs! I can't imagin how hard it must've been for you!!! However i admire Casey for being true to himself, it must've been really hard for him, especially because it meant hurting you and it sounds like he does genuinely love you!

I hope things go well with Bryan and he helps you through it!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on September 13, 2006, 12:05:55 am

Meg, I'm so sorry to hear about all of that! That's just... wow, I don't even know what to say. As Anna already said, though, I'm glad Casey is being true to himself, even though it's obviously hard for you both. I mean... you've shared so much together; I know it has to be incredibly hard.

I'm glad to hear you have Bryan to lean on, though. Someone who understands is so great during something like this. And if you need any more support, you know we're all right here for you, too.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 13, 2006, 05:16:25 am

Wow, that is a shock, Megs. I am so sorry for you, I can't imagine how hard it must be to go through something like that. But you sound as though you are being strong, which I really admire.
It's good that you're supportive of him, and that you have your family and friends by your side to support you. It can't be easy, for either of you.

Keep smiling kidder, and, as has been said, if you ever need to talk, then we're always here. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 13, 2006, 09:54:14 am

Wow- that was a shock. Glad you two are being so mature about this though. Good luck to Casey figuring himself out and with coming out and everything. Although, how someone goes from a 20 month relationship into being a fully fledge batter for the other team does confuse me.

Make sure you're not rushing things with Bryan. Though, good luck to you both and it's great that you have someone to help you get back to sorts.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 14, 2006, 07:49:10 am

Me and Chris went to the cinema last night to see Beerfest (eh, his choice... it was crap, lol)
We had the whole screen to ourselves. It was quite spooky really. But really nice at the same time.

We then went round the corner to Toys 'R' Us. Which is one of those things we do everytime we go to the cinema in Wakefield. Was loads of fun. Playing with samples, and just being stupid.
He got me a little Eeyore thing to go on my phone. And he got a Pooh one, because Pooh came out the machine first, but I didn't want it. ::)

I'm gonna miss days like that so much. Just running around and being silly and random. Damn you, higher education! >:(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 14, 2006, 05:31:54 pm

Hello ladies! Thank you all soo very much for your support! You really have no idea how much that means to me. I really do love you all. I am healing more and more as the days pass by. I do still talk to him and we are carrying on. And about Bryan, trust me, I am not rushing into anything. If things become special, then they do, but right now, it is going good and slow. He is not just a rebound, trust me.


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Lila_ Loamsdown on September 14, 2006, 09:15:53 pm

Wow, how did I miss this thread?

Megan, I know that I don't know you, but I just wanted to let you kow that I am sorry for what happened. ((Megan)) Talk aobut rough. but you seem to be handling it like a trooper. :)

I was just remarried last January, to my dear and wonderful Mr. Oooh-la-la. He is French Canadian, with blond curly hair and the bluest eyes I have ever seen. We have been friends for many years. We were part of a group that met regularily for Bible study (I was the teacher), and the gang of us became quite close. When my first husband left me, Mr. Ooh-la-la (who either wasn't ooh-la-la then, or at least I never noticed) was a great support to both my husband and I. He is sweet and strong and funny and he thinks I am funny and beautiful and smart, which is amazing! He has a big, booming laugh, and I make him laugh all the time. All the odd, peculiar little things that I always try to hide from people, he has seen them and loves me even more for them. His accent is adorable too, and I love to listen to him talk french. Tres romantic. :) Plus he loves my zoo. When we first got together, I would bring my old dog, Annie, to his house when I came to visit. First he said she couldn't go on the couch. Then once we caught her on the couch, he was, like "oh well, she's so old, leave her there. It's more comfortable." And when my daughter's rat had 11 (count 'em!! 11!!) babies, he fell in love with them and didn't want to give any of them away, and he coos and plays with them just as much as we do. He is protective and smart and has a very strong faith, and he respects me. Yup, I am definitely in love!!

;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 15, 2006, 10:40:05 am

Aww bless (re. the rats thingy lol). And French- hope it's true about the common stereotype of French men and romance ;)

[quote]And about Bryan, trust me, I am not rushing into anything. If things become special, then they do, but right now, it is going good and slow. He is not just a rebound, trust me.
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Thants good to hear. Best of luck to you both.

Going for a meal with Andy tonight as off to uni tomorrow. Will get to see him once a week, which is much better thansome people get, but it'll still be hard and strange not seeing him as often. Especially on tuesday nights. I predict a very large phone bill!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 15, 2006, 06:16:21 pm

Aw, Lila, your Mr. Ooh-La-La sounds like a very lovely man indeed. You're very lucky to have found such a catch.

Chris is coming over for a meal with my family tomorrow, as my farewell/birthday meal. (I'm at uni on my birthday, and my parents are on holiday next weekend)
I feel sorry for him, I really do. I just hope no one puts him on the spot. I know my family isn't the largest of familys (can count all members on just my hands) but he's not met anyone other than my parents and my brother before.
Could be interesting.
Going to leave earlier anyway, so I can go back to his. Be left in peace, and have a nice Chris and Kathryn night in, before I move to Lincoln on Sunday.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on September 15, 2006, 11:35:44 pm

Aww, everyone is leaving their boys this weekend. :-\ Sorry, girls. But I know you'll be okay; I have faith in you. Enjoy your dinners!

I myself have a weekend full of marching band and homework ahead of me. LOTS of homework. Bleh. But, on the upside, at least I can still see Dave a bit. I really like having him here with me. It's very nice. Probably won't see much of him this weekend outside of band, but oh well. There's always next week. And next weekend the band is going on a weekend trip to Montreal to perform! Should be fun.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 17, 2006, 08:03:45 am

Had my final Andy time. He came and joined us on the family meal out last night, and then we've gone to our favourite cafe this morning and wandered round town. I move in a couple of hours, and he can't fit in the car to come with me. :'(

Gonna call him tonight, and possibly freak out down the phone. And then come home on Friday for a pre-birthday meal, and a birthday round the town trip on Saturday! Lol. So I'll see him regularly, just not a regualrly as I like. I probably have no right to be morngy and worried, but I'm going to be anyway. :p


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 18, 2006, 05:47:56 pm

Things did not work out with this new guy. Honestly, he cares about me a whole lot more than I can him. I still love my Druey. That won't change.

Speaking of Casey, he came over to my house yesterday. It was the first time we'd seen eachother in three weeks and the first time we had seen each other since the break up. It was so heartbreaking. As soon as he got into my house, he started bawling. And of course, that made me cry my eyes out. :'( Actually, we just held each other close. Just as we used to. He told me that he loves me so much. Also that he prays everyday that he will be able to defeat this soon. He is afraid, however, that it will be too late when the time comes. But I know I will never love anyone like him. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on September 18, 2006, 11:01:52 pm

Wow, Meg. I'm really shocked. What do you mean he "prays everyday that he will be able to defeat this soon"?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 19, 2006, 12:51:53 pm

Aww, Megan, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. It must be so hard. :(

I'm at uni now. Just set my internet up, so I am back online fully now! Woohoo! lolol
Not seen Chris since Saturday. Feels like ages ago. But I keep talking to him on the phone, which is really nice.
Last night I called him at a rediculous hour, to have him say "You're drunk, aren't you? You only call me at this time when you're drunk!"
Actually, I was just on my own, with nothing to do and wanted to hear him. Aww.
We never used to be phone people. I can see this changing.

Having a blast at uni though. Despite missing him very much.

I'm going home on Friday, and I'm gonna stay at his house that night. I can't wait. I get my birthday presents too. Which makes things better! lolol ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 19, 2006, 06:16:28 pm


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Wow, Meg. I'm really shocked. What do you mean he "prays everyday that he will be able to defeat this soon"?


He means that he hates being the way he is. He wants to be with me. And sadly, I want him more than ever. :-\

Taf, thank you dear. I've never felt such pain in my entire life.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 20, 2006, 06:33:09 am

I got shit faced drunk last night.
Left a message on Chris' answer phone.
Can't remember what I said.
Flat mates say I told him about the guy who wanted to sleep with me.
This could proove interesting...

Yay! Freshers week! lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on September 20, 2006, 07:58:40 pm

Haha! Sounds incredibly exciting Taf! ;) Everyone, remember the guy I said I was beginning to see? Well, I really care for him. I have this special bond with Bryan. Wish me luck with it! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on September 21, 2006, 11:20:02 am

Mark and I are still together! A year on October fifth! wahoo!! This is our second relationship for both of us and our longest! I'm happy! *trying not to jump up and down in class* I'm goin through some rather rough times right now and Mark's been excellent support. My dad died last Thursday and he's the first one I called. His mom brought him over and let him stay until 8:30. Yeah, but that being said, we spent last Saturday together. That was fun! Got to spend time with him and pet his dog. Then we met up with my friends on Sunday and hung out for a while. Monday was rough, but we managed. Anyway, I got to go. Class is almost over. Take care girls!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 22, 2006, 09:31:46 am

Bainca- sorry to hear about your Dad, but yay for you and the bloke!

Megs- Is Casey actually full on gay? Is he sure he isn't bi? Because he sounds very confused. How longs he been 'gay' does he think? Cos everyone goes through a phase of fancing someone of the same sex apparently (I'm sure I read that somewhere...).

Kat- Chris is gonna start worrying about you something rotten. Lol. Is he coming tomorrow?

I've been at uni a week, had one guy grab my ass on the bus on the bus and get an elbow in the ribs for his trouble (thank god for small, balsy new friends!), had one very teary phone call with Andy (plus many non-teary) and am finally going home to see him today! It's my birthday tomorrow, so he's taking me out for a meal. :) Can't wait to see him. I'm not missing the sex as much as I'd expected, but little things likes hugs and sweet kisses are what I miss most. Plus, I ain't going out getting pissed every night to combat it, as a) can't afford it and b) don't have the inclination to.

I made me and Andy on Sims 2 for a laugh- and his biggest wnat is to make out with three other people! Barsteward! Lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 23, 2006, 12:58:23 pm

I came home from uni yesterday. Spent all night with Chris. Went to the cinema with some of his friends, who didn't talk to me at all. Didn't really enjoy it to be honest. But...

Stayed over at his house, and then we went into town today and did some shopping.
Was a very emotional farewell, as this time it's both of us who are going to uni tomorrow. Had myself waving to him at the door, crying my eyes out as he drove away.

This is so hard. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 24, 2006, 08:14:13 am

lol, arse grabbing.
Yes. It is so annoying. But it happens to me so often that I just don't bother even turning round any more. Just walk off... lol

Chris bought me the most beautiful watch for my birthday. I'll post a photo of it when I can (camera is at uni, I am not)

He's just moved into his place at uni.
He's living with 5 girls.
Hmmm... yes. ::)
Told him he must behave.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on September 24, 2006, 11:35:12 am

Wow 5 girls and 1 guy, that's not very fair. I was with 5 random girls last year and it wasn't much fun to be honest. I think I'd have prefered a mix group. It wasn't so much the fact they were 5 girls though but just who the actual girls were, I never clicked with them. Most boring year ever. This year in the past 2 weeks has already been 100x more fun.

I'm used to guys grabbing at me and usually ignore it but when your stood at a bar and can't just walk off right away it is a bit more of a situation. After we'd got our drinks I drunkenly announced really loudly to this guy I don't know very well "those guys were grabbing my arse!!!" but he didn't really do anything, not sure whether that was for the best or not. I suppose it was.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 25, 2006, 11:49:38 am

I know, I really feel for him, poor guy.
He said today to me "these girls may pose a problem", so I asked why, and he said "They are girly girls, and I am a man!"
lol bless. ::)

Edit:

This is what Chris bought me for my birthday!
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Misc/watch.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on September 26, 2006, 10:05:28 am


Quote:
Why do guys think they can just grab at a girls arse whenever they feel like it!?

I hate it me- even when it's Andy doing it. Had another lad on Saturday night grab mine, even though I was blatently with someone. Andy just laughed- it was one of the other girls who did the threatening swearing! Lol.

I think I'm sorta half getting used to the me and Andy being away thing. I mean, I'll see him twice a week- I'll get to spend the night with him once a week when he comes up to uni- so I don't know what I was really worrying about.

Although- I was reading a book at like 1am the other night (could not sleep) and for 200 pages, you think this guy has beat up his wife and sodded off- then you find out that he's been dead the whole time after he took the brunt of the force of a carcrash they were in! Freaked me out totally (sleeplessness plus major hormones does that) so I ended up having to text Andy and tell him to try not to die, be hospitalised, or get very ill while I'm away vefore I could sleep. Silly huh? ::)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 27, 2006, 08:53:52 pm

Just called Chris 3 times in space of 15 mins just to tell him I miss him, I love him, and I'm going to bed now. Night night. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on September 30, 2006, 03:50:49 am

Some random pictures of me and Morgan. I love him.





Ahaha, arse-grabbing. It was so funny the other night at a pub this guy came up to me and was like "I just had to tell you that you're cute, hot, and very sexy." ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 30, 2006, 07:57:34 am

Aww, cute pics Sarah. :)

Missing Chris so much. Nothing new. lol
I'll probably get to see him next weekend. If my workload isn't as much as it is this week.
Who knows.

I've been calculating when I'll get to see him (haha, how sad...) and it shouldn't be too bad really. The odd weekend during term time.
Then I have a week holiday (sort of) next month. 3 weeks at Christmas. Then back to the odd weekend. Then 2 weeks at Easter. And then 3 weeks after that it's the end of the uni year.
Works out quite well really... should be bareable. And I do so like talking to him on the phone as often as I am.

Got to talk to one of his flat mates the other day, and she seemed quite nice. Said they were taking care of him and teaching him how to cook. So next time I see him he's gonna make me a lovely meal. Haha. I don't see it... ::)

Oh, and I don't think I posted this...
But, one of the many photos taken before leaving for uni...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 02, 2006, 03:44:53 pm

Wow this place is dead at the moment.
Are any of the people who frequent here actaully still living in the same town as their other half? lolol

I'm going home on Thursday, as I have no classes on Friday. So I get to see Chris for 4 days. I can't wait! I haven't seen him in 2 weeks!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on October 04, 2006, 10:58:54 am

Bloomin eck Sarah- Morgans changed since I last saw a photo of him. He looks more grown up.

Aww- poor Kathryn with the pouty shot! He'd better make you that meal.

I want a boyf who'll pose for random photos. Andy's fine when he's out somewhere, but he won't let me take photos when it's just him and me!

I'm really glad I'm lucky enough to see Andy every week. He's coming up here on Friday, so I'm on a misson to buy him Barbeque beef flavoured supernoodles lol. That was what he requested! He's got a transfer to another branch at work closer to his home which is good as it means he'll be able to get to Huddersfield sooner- had to cancel last Friday cos of his work. :( Although, I went down to his and stopped the night, so not too bad. I was just looking forward to showing him off is all!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Kim on October 04, 2006, 11:12:36 am

I've been seeing someone for a little over two weeks and right from the start it's been very intense (I knew him as a friend for about 4 weeks before). His dad's very ill and I knew about this before we started dating but now he's taken a turn for the worse :'( So it's not the best time atm but I do feel very strongly for him

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on October 04, 2006, 11:29:25 pm

Whee, I'm at school with my boy. I just feel bad bragging about it in here, since I know what it's like to be where you're all at, too.

The year actually got off to a really rough start. We fought for like the first week over some stupid stuff. But we got over it, and I think we're both adjusted now to being here together, and all is well! Yay.

It was my birthday yesterday, so after lunch Dave and I drove out to WalMart and he bought me the Little Mermaid on DVD! He also got me a Beatles calendar last weekend. And then he helped my friends surprise me with a cake last night. Mmm. It was fun.

He then went out to drink with some of his buddies, which I was sort of upset about (I mean, it WAS my birthday!). But he came over to my room not long after (after I think a few of my friends yelled at him.. haha) and spent the night with me. Yay cuddling. Too bad it's my time of the month, though, or else the night probably would have been even better! Heh heh. Oh well.

I have two pictures of us from our marching band's trip to Montreal (Canada) two weekends ago.

Here's us in our super cool uniforms.
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Amaleen/bandos.jpg[/IMG]

And us out at a bar. I love this one of us.
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Amaleen/us1.jpg[/IMG]

Dave is leaving me this weekend, though, so he can go home. I can't go home though (have to be here for a class) which makes me sad. But oh well. I get him back on Monday!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on October 05, 2006, 09:49:38 am

Flummoxed Dave looks like Dom in the second picture i reckon! good for you! ;)
It's a shame you've been fighting! but good to hear you're back on track! it's probably hard to kinda redefine the relationship now it's not long distance

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 06, 2006, 07:48:16 pm

Aw, you guys are so lucky to be going to the same uni. Cute pics too. Hehe.

I have a flat mate whose girlfriend goes to the same uni. But they never see each other. It proper winds me up. They've been together for a year and a half, and they're rarely together for any length of time. I've not actually seen them be a couple in public before.
What is up with that?
I would love to stay so close with my boyfriend.
I don't mind that they are together, I just wish they'd be more 'boyfriend/girlfriend' than they are being!

lol

Anyway.
Spending all weekend with my man. Haha.
Loving it.
Spent all last night with him, and we ended up sleeping through most of it (travelling takes it out of you) but it was still nice.
Went shopping with him today, and went back to his.
Tomorrow he's coming round to watch lost (oops, I already watched it without him, shhh...) and then we're going to a wedding do in Sheffield. Not staying long though. I'm not spending my last night with him in public, at some strangers wedding do, that neither of us are bothered about anyway. Haha.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on October 10, 2006, 04:23:18 pm

AH I have missed you all! ;D How is everyone and their loves? Good I hope! I haven't been around because honestly, I've not had anything to gush about. I saw a new guy for a few weeks on and off but he turned out to be a complete jerk. On Sunday, Casey, yes, my dear, sweet, Casey came over. We wanted to remember what we had. Please everyone, keep us in your prayers. To have him come back into my arms would be a true miracle. And now, it is a possibility. So, I thank you fine ladies. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 12, 2006, 07:34:44 pm

Megs, sorry that other guy was a jerk. Better you found out sooner though, eh? :)
Good luck with things with Casey.

Loads of couples I know are splitting up. And it's really rather scaring me. I know of 4 break ups in the past few weeks, and some of them have been so dramatic and upsetting that it's beginning to get to me.
Now I have no intention at all of ending things with Chris. I think we are doing really rather well in this whole long distance thing. But seeing others not make it, it's not that pleasant, especially when they're your good friends, and you thought they were a really strong couple.

Ho hum.

I don't know when I'll get to see Chris again. I don't think I'll be able to visit him for the week on my reading week. As I have SO much work on you would not believe it. I have 14 full designs to do for next week, including research and brainstorming, test designs, etc.
This course is so full on.
It's really pissing me off when people say "I wish I could do your course, it's so easy work!" whilst they're sat there moaning about having to read a paragraph in a book for tomorrow.

I just want to see my boyfriend! And I can't! :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on October 13, 2006, 10:08:28 am

Thanks Taf. An old friend and I begant alking recently and last night, I know this sounds stupid and cheesy, but we held hands and I melted. Haha I am such a loser. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on October 15, 2006, 12:29:26 pm

Glad to hear peoples are doing well.

Kim- hope your blokes Dad is ok. Whats the boyf called?

Flummoxed- good for you and Dave. Hopefully you'll be able to strike a balance between yourselves with the whole living close/ spending times with your won mates thing. Little Mermaid rules. Dave does look rather Dom like on the last pic...

Kathyrn- hope you had a great weekend. Is Chris enjoying uni? There's somany people here got boyfs in the 8 months to 18 months bracket. I hadn't expected that. Not had any break ups yet fingers crossed. Cling to Chrisius girl!!! Lol.

Megs- Is this possibility a possible posibility? (Ha- that sounds so stupid when I put it like that!) Good luck! Unless you wanna go with hand holdy melty guy. You're a very confusing girl with your men babe! Lol.

I've been with Andy for two years tomorrow. It seems ages, and yet hardly any time at all. We went to pizza hut last night to celbrate, hee. Well, we went out with his mates night before so money was scarce. And pizza hut rules.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 15, 2006, 07:15:08 pm


Quote:
Is Chris enjoying uni?


He seems to be enjoying it. Yes. Every time I call him he is out, or with a huge group of people, that I'm left with a "I'll call you later", and usually have a to wait a full day for him to do so. Sigh.
Long distance is shit. Really. It's pissing me off.

Hopefully gonna see him next weekend, which I'm looking forward to if it can be done.

My work load is really getting to me. It is restricting my social life here at uni, so opportunities to go home are rare.

I know loads of people who have been in year long, 2 year long relationships, that have ended them in a matter of weeks. Even when they're still living in the same town.
Uni does something to you. I'm sure. lol

Yeah I'm hanging on to him. I love him more than anything. Couldn't imagine not being with him. Even though, I'm actually not at the moment...
Proper confusing. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on October 15, 2006, 11:29:15 pm

Yes, Dave and I are adjusting and settling in at last. We did have a bit of a tiff this weekend though, as he promised he wouldn't drink too much and would then come over to stay with me on Friday night. Buuut, he drank A LOT, and ended up being really sick in my bathroom, which meant I stayed up with him. And I had to get up at 6:45 the next morning for marching band (so did he), which meant like maybe 3 hours of sleep for me, him, and my poor roommate. I was not a happy camper, to say the least.

But it's okay. Now I'm just making fun of him, and telling him he can't stay here when he's that drunk anymore. Lol. I'm not much of a partier myself, so him getting that drunk annoys me; I never get that bad, and never plan to. But he's promised to practice a little more self control and moderation from now on, so all should be well.

He ended up staying with me last night again (minus being drunk), and it was much much better. Yay cuddling. And then after work tonight, I was really tired and still had a lot of homework to do, so he took me back to his room, made me some coffee, and we watched Desperate Housewives.

Aw, love. He is so cute when he is not making a mess of my bathroom. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on October 20, 2006, 11:15:11 am

TWO YEARS!!!

And how I love him

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on October 20, 2006, 11:21:10 am

Congratulations, Ruth. That's really awesome. Morgan and I are approaching that date soon. December 16th. :)

I've been so busy at school, so he walked to the shop and bought me a feast! All the things I wanted; Pringles, chocolate and energy drink. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 20, 2006, 12:06:47 pm

Come home to see Chris again.
It's great. Though slightly weird.
And there are issues... I need to talk to him.
Fun. I think.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on October 20, 2006, 12:19:50 pm

Congrats, Ruth! Whee.

Dave and I are approaching our year and a half... crazy! But nice. I love him lots. ;D

Last night, we were over at a friend's apartment, and he was making fun of me (jokingly, of course, but in that asshole-ish way that is his personality), and my friends started throwing things at him. Haha, it was hilarious. So then he was cuddly the rest of the time there (aww), and we ended up going for a really long walk at like 10 at night. *Sigh.* What a lovely evening.

Taf, I hope everything between you and Chris is okay!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 24, 2006, 07:47:15 pm

Ooooh dear. Tricksy one. Hope it all works out the better for you. I have no advice really, I've never had that kind of problem, so wouldn't really know what to do. Plus, I'm crap at advice. lolol
Good luck though ;)

I miss Chris so much. And I'm ill. Which makes me miss him more. Because all I want is a cuddle. So simple. And yet so hard.
Sobsobsobsob.

He asked me the last time I saw him "Why couldn't you have chosen Edge Hill?"
I ask myself that all the time.

Jeez.
How soppy am I?! Hahaha!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 25, 2006, 01:22:49 pm

Yeah, he had a year off in the middle of his A levels, which is why he's a year older than me, and only just starting now. :)

Apparently Edge Hill is a really nice uni. When my bro found out he was going there he was really jealous. Because the area is so nice, or so he says. lol
I don't know, I've not been. But I plan to as soon as I can.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 25, 2006, 04:12:49 pm

lol, yeah, Chris is doing Film Studies at Edge Hill, I'm doing Graphic Design at Lincoln.

I've not seen the advert for Edge Hill... gonna go looking for that now. I've seen the one for Lincoln on the website, looks pretty cool. Haha.

Just talked to him on the phone for half an hour. Was nice. Not had a long chat on the phone like that for a while. It's usually 5 min convos, or just the odd text. Made me smile. Which I really needed at the moment. Yay Chris! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Kim on October 26, 2006, 01:27:24 pm

[quote author=LegolasBuzzgirl link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=915#msg1044146 date=1160929766]
Kim- hope your blokes Dad is ok. Whats the boyf called?[/quote]

His name is Rich :)

Unfortunately his dad is getting worse and not expected to get any better, the doctors said he could live for another year at the most :-\ He's spending a lot more time with his dad thus spending less time with me but I'd rather it be that way, I can't stand in the way can I? I'd feel awful!

I went to see him at work today aswell because I was really hyper from having my first day at work which went fantastically and couldn't actually wait to tell him. So I ran into the shop like "RIIIIIICH omg I've had the best day!" lol. He said he wants to go out with me again anyway and held my hand so I think we're on the right track! I've been happy all day ;D ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on October 28, 2006, 01:32:52 pm

Hello ladies! Wow, I miss this thread! ::) And you are asking yourselves, "Does she have something to gush about??" And the answer would have to be... yes! ;)

A close friend of mine, Kelvy, and I have been talking for quite some time now. Well we began talking more and more. Last night, when he came back from college for the weekend, he came to my house! It was so great. After we sat at my house and talked for a little while, we both went to my friend's birthday party. We couldn't keep our eyes off of each other. Do you all know h ow long its been since I felt butterflies in my stomach by looking at someone? Yeah, most of you do. But once again, I felt those butterflies, hehe. ;D When he had to leave, as I was spending the night with a bunch of girls at the party, I walked outside with him. As we were standing on the front porch, he hugged me tightly and as if it was in slow motion...he slowly kissed me!!! ;D Oh my goodness, it was so amazing! It was like...fireworks! ;D Eeee! Ladies, I am most happy. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: eLijAhZpuMpKiNlOvE on October 28, 2006, 09:42:47 pm

Aww, congrats Meg. Glad you've found someone new. I love the butterflies feeling! :)

I'm not going to see Moggin for two weeks. It's going to be so sad! We've never been apart this long before.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Kim on October 29, 2006, 05:24:02 pm

Aww! I love that feeling too! Infact speaking of butterflies, I had some when I looked at him a couple of days ago and it had never happened before. I do REALLY like him but the feelings are progressing slowly as I get to know him more, and a couple of days ago I seen him unexpectedly and it felt like I'd been punched in the stomach or something!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on October 30, 2006, 07:21:37 pm

Thank you ladies. :-* I am hoping this goes somewhere.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 31, 2006, 08:54:55 am

Aww, all the best Meg. :-*

I'm seeing Chris this weekend!
Only Friday to Saturday though, which is pants. Compared to my usual Thursday Friday Saturday. But I have something to do here on Friday morning, so I can't leave Thursday afternoon like I usually do. Sux.

Probably won't get to see him for 3 weeks after that either :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on October 31, 2006, 05:16:42 pm

Thanks love! :-*

Aww, I know that totally sucks to have to wait so long to see him. :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 31, 2006, 09:38:37 pm

FRIDAYS gonna be GREAT

Just phoned Chris whilst very drunk
He loves it when I'm with him
He never sounds impressed when I'm not

Gay
He doesn't drink
I still don't know why

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on November 01, 2006, 09:29:02 pm

Haha, aw taf. You and Chris sound so cute. I'm glad things are still going well! Enjoy your weekend. ;)

Last night I stayed over at Dave's. His bed is tiny (like, even smaller than mine - boo dorm rooms!), and it was a bit awkward. I guess that's why we usually stay in my room. Haha. So, I know he probably didn't sleep much or well last night, but I still kept waking up to him cuddling me. Ah, it was so very cute. He'd just snuggle up to me as close as he could and put his arms around me and just stay there. *Sigh.* I loves him.

The other night he took care of me when I woke up with super bad cramps and threw up. He's such a cutie. I'm pretty sure I'd marry him tomorrow.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 05, 2006, 01:55:10 pm

Went home this weekend to see Chris.
Had a bit of a go at him at first, which wasn't fair of me. But all is good now.

We went to the cinema with 2 of his friends from home, and 1 of his friends from uni. Unfortunately to see Borat. They all loved it. It wasn't my thing. Plus the fact that I'd already seen pretty much all the jokes on YouTube already... kinda took something out of it. Anyways...

We went to the park for Bonfire Night, which was nice. If very very very cold.


We then met up with more of his friends to set some of our own fireworks off. A rather entertaining night.

Ended with watching QI at his house, and me crying on him just before he drove me home.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on November 11, 2006, 07:45:50 pm

Eeek! Taf! I love your avvy and siggy! Tis wonderful! :-* ;D

Also, a very beautiful picture of you two!

Good news ladies... Megsie has a man! :o

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on November 11, 2006, 07:53:22 pm

Hey girls! What's up? Mark and I are still together and we keep gettin closer, and, closer. It's great! We're goin to Christmas Formal at his school year. That's in 3 weeks. Oh, we've been together for over thirteen months! I'm so happy!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on November 11, 2006, 07:57:58 pm

[quote author=<*>Officially Panic!-ed<*> link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=945#msg1054805 date=1163292350]
Good news ladies... Megsie has a man! :o
[/quote]

CONGRATS!!!

I'm still waiting, unfortunately. :P :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on November 11, 2006, 07:59:04 pm

Thanks very much love! No worries! He will come in time. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 12, 2006, 03:59:28 pm


Quote:
We're goin to Christmas Formal at his school year

Aww, congrats on 13 months, and I hope you guys have fun at the Formal. :D

Megs! Hooray for you! Do tell us more about your new man...?

Denarii, you will find the right guy. Don't worry. There's no rush. You have plenty of time! :)

I've been through quite a lot of emotional stuff with Chris recently. Which I can't share here. But you should know that we are still very happy. If missing each other lots.
It's our 1 year on the 15th of December, which is on the week of end of my 1st semester, so I'm going to see him at his uni, because he has a week extra to do. Should be good. I'm really looking forward to it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on November 12, 2006, 04:34:36 pm


Quote:
Megs! Hooray for you! Do tell us more about your new man...?


Hey Taf! Hehe alright, alright. Well, it was great because he asked me out the night of the big concert I was heading to. So it was a super awesome night! ;D

We have a ton in common and we're into alot of the same things. Our styles are the same, if you know what I mean. Like it's funny hehe, we look like we should be together. ;D Get this! He's taking me out to see Happy Feet next weekend!! ;D He's very cute! I will get pics asap! :-*

Hope all is wel; loves!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on November 12, 2006, 05:45:55 pm

Aw, yay for you, Meg!!!! I'm glad for you both. Now you need to take pictures and show us! Heehee.

Dave and I are still good, as well. Just passed the 18 month mark a little over a week ago. I can't believe it's been this long! He bought me a really cute stuffed penguin. :D

We had a bit of a fight this past Friday, but it was more about me being unhappy with myself, moreso than anything he was doing. So we talked it out, I cried, and then we spent the night together, and all was well. I love spending nights together, especially after something as emotional as that.

I hate fighting, but at the same time I'm almost glad we have these disagreements. Because at least we get everything out there right away; that way it's easier to clean up and get over!

I love him muchly. We have a little over a week off for Thanksgiving starting this Thursday, and we're headed home, which will be nice. We'll be able to spend time together in our own homes!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on November 12, 2006, 06:13:18 pm

[quote]Aw, yay for you, Meg!!!! I'm glad for you both. Now you need to take pictures and show us! Heehee.
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Hehe thank you! ;D And I will get a picture of him and I tomorrow at school! ;D It's great to hear you and Dave are doing so well. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elijahs_girl on November 12, 2006, 07:52:16 pm

Awww guys I love reading this thread! Feel a bit of an intruder but ah well! You all sound so happy and I just can't wait for something the same. I'm sure it will happen...any day now! :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on November 12, 2006, 09:04:49 pm

[quote author=Little Snow-White link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=945#msg1055210 date=1163379136]
Awww guys I love reading this thread! Feel a bit of an intruder but ah well! You all sound so happy and I just can't wait for something the same. I'm sure it will happen...any day now! :P
[/quote]

An intruder!? No way! We love seeing more and more people come here. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on November 14, 2006, 04:03:59 pm

Speaking of, Happy Feet, I made a deal with Mark last year, that if we were still together when it came out we'd go see it. And we are! So, we're goin on Friday! And I'm goin to teach him how to play JA Titan. I can't believe how long its been!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on November 14, 2006, 07:24:16 pm

[quote author=Bianca link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=960#msg1055752 date=1163538239]
Speaking of, Happy Feet, I made a deal with Mark last year, that if we were still together when it came out we'd go see it. And we are! So, we're goin on Friday! And I'm goin to teach him how to play JA Titan. I can't believe how long its been!
[/quote]

That's really cool to hear! :-*

Wow, are some guys jerks or what? Yeah... that one didn't last too long for me. Eck. There was nothing there.

However, I've been talking with a close friend for quite some time. We hung out after school today and I had a blast! This is quite promising, for real, ladies. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on November 15, 2006, 06:43:42 pm

Ah, I've thought of this too, but no worries love. I am keeping myself open. Not getting overly serious. If I find something better than what I lost, then so be it. But I am not going to let the loss of him keep me down. I'm too strong for that, I've decided. Know what I mean? I expect there to be several jerks I'll date, or it just won't work out, but I am keeping my heart open. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on November 15, 2006, 11:53:40 pm

Hello room of happily dating ladies. :D

What do you make of this?

I am currently interested in 3 people. One of whom is significantly older than myself (and is my current math teacher), another of whom is a very good friend that I met online, and another one who is my friend from my Italian class. I like them all for different reasons (physical attraction is a factor for all).

The teacher is primarily for looks, but also for the way they laugh. :D I would like to get to know them better ('course, I'd have to wait until the semester's over because of University rules). The second, because despite our differences (we don't necessarily agree on everything, although for the most part we do), we have opened up to one another a lot, and can enjoy each other's internet company (we've planned to meet before, but things always seem to get in the way). The third, well let's just say we went out to lunch today (as friends) and stayed in the Student Center for like six 1/2 hours, lol. :o Just talking and laughing ::)

However, I don't think the teacher knows I'm attracted to them (and wouldn't dare tell them at this point, cuz they're still my teacher, lol), the second one (online friend) knows I care for them in that way, but I'm not 100% sure they feel the same (I've gotten hints that it's possible, but *shrugs*), the third definitely doesn't know, and I don't know if they are attracted to me. :-\

So, if you were in my situation, what would you do? ???

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on November 16, 2006, 06:11:06 am

I would pursue the italian class guy denarri, he seems like he knows you for you the best of all of them, and because he knows who you are, may have identified some faults (i'm not saying that as an insult but we all find things we don't like in people, i don't like everything about my best friends but i still like them if you get me) and is still sticking around to enjoy your company.
The teacher i personally wouldn't dare go there, too many legal implications, he's much older, most probably much more experienced and in a totally different phase of his life. You only know his personality in the confines of the classroom which may be very different to who he is socially.
The online guy, again i personally am very skeptical about online romances, you don't really have anything to loose by revealing the attraction, but still he may not be who he says he is, he hasn't met you on those occassions, possibly because he isn't what he's portrayed himself as and neither of you know eachother properly, there isn't the spontenaoty (cannot spell!! hahaha) of face to face contact, you can consider what you're saying and how you come across when typing.
Anywho that's my take on it. Plus the italian class guy can whisper italian in your ear! hahaha :P the maths teacher can always whisper complicated equations i suppose... but it depends if you're into that :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 16, 2006, 07:10:45 am

I agree with Anna on everything she just said.
I don't think I have any more to add to it. lol

On another note.
I get to see Chris this weekend!
I get to see Chris this weekend!
I get to see Chris this weekend!
I get to see Chris this weekend!
I get to see Chris this weekend!

*Dances some*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on November 16, 2006, 12:15:31 pm

[quote author=*ANna* link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=960#msg1056164 date=1163675466]
I would pursue the italian class guy denarri, he seems like he knows you for you the best of all of them, and because he knows who you are, may have identified some faults (i'm not saying that as an insult but we all find things we don't like in people, i don't like everything about my best friends but i still like them if you get me) and is still sticking around to enjoy your company.
The teacher i personally wouldn't dare go there, too many legal implications, he's much older, most probably much more experienced and in a totally different phase of his life. You only know his personality in the confines of the classroom which may be very different to who he is socially.
The online guy, again i personally am very skeptical about online romances, you don't really have anything to loose by revealing the attraction, but still he may not be who he says he is, he hasn't met you on those occassions, possibly because he isn't what he's portrayed himself as and neither of you know eachother properly, there isn't the spontenaoty (cannot spell!! hahaha) of face to face contact, you can consider what you're saying and how you come across when typing.
Anywho that's my take on it. Plus the italian class guy can whisper italian in your ear! hahaha :P the maths teacher can always whisper complicated equations i suppose... but it depends if you're into that :P
[/quote]

*giggles*

Now you see Anna, this is where it gets complicated. :P

The three people I mentioned?

They are all female. :) Yes members of A+F-I am bisexual. 8)

Can you now see what the issues are here? I disguised their genders (and I could say more on that, but that's not what this thread is for) just to see what kind of feedback I would get.

The Italian girl, #1 she's probably just as good at Italian as I am, so no whisperings in my ear. ::) Most importantly, my Spidey senses are telling me that more than likely, she is straight. :P So just revealing my "true" feelings is a bit more complicated than "Oh I'm too shy". ::) Also, the online girl (who is also Italian by the way, lol) knows me probably better than the girl in my class does (for several reasons). As far as the math teacher (who is from Israel actually), if I were to, I would not pursue her until after my math class is over-which is in about only a month. Therefore there would be no legal ramifications. I can date a professor, s'long as I'm not actually taking their class (those are da rules). :) Of course, age is always a factor, but I've never seen a problem with May/December relationships, s'long as the two (or more) parties involved are comfortable where they are, and can relate (which is possible, despite the age difference-not speaking for me specifically, but in general). As far as her sexuality, I'm not sure. ??? 'Course, I can't find out if we are compatible without getting involved somehow, but that's with ALL relationships, regardless of age, gender or ethnicity.

The online girl I know for a fact is bisexual as well-I met her on a support site for bisexual/bicurious women (and if anyone reading [whether you're a regular poster in this thread or not] would like a link to that site, just PM me. You must be at least 18 years old to join :D ). As far as "revealing" my attraction-as I already said in my initial post, she already knows. I wrote a poem for her and sent it to her and everything. :) We've only planned to meet twice. The first time she ran into family problems (she has a weird living situation), and the second was because we just stayed online talking. ::) I trust her for several reasons (as she does me). The problem is, not knowing whether she's attracted to me or not. ???

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on November 16, 2006, 08:16:07 pm

:-\ tricky tricky. Maybe with the italian class girl you can test the waters... have one of those classic girl talks like 'so interested in anyone at the moment' 'have you ever thought about being with another girl' etc. but i suppose you might need to just hang out a bit more before you get to that stage.
The teacher- i still believe what i said before, even if there isn't legal implications i think it's a bad move. However, being a girl it might be easier to get to know her outside the classroom environment if that's what you decide to do.
The online girl sounds like you're pretty comfortable with her. All i can suggest is that ask her straight out. I would assume if you are writting poems for eachother and organising to meet etc. there would be some kinda mutual attraction.
But it is a tricky situation since you only know the sexuality of one of the women.
Good Luck. My only other advice would be take your time with the italian class girl, if she is straight it might be really difficult for her...
Anywho.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on November 16, 2006, 09:06:49 pm

[quote author=*ANna* link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=960#msg1056555 date=1163726167]
:-\ tricky tricky. Maybe with the italian class girl you can test the waters... have one of those classic girl talks like 'so interested in anyone at the moment' 'have you ever thought about being with another girl' etc. but i suppose you might need to just hang out a bit more before you get to that stage.
The teacher- i still believe what i said before, even if there isn't legal implications i think it's a bad move. However, being a girl it might be easier to get to know her outside the classroom environment if that's what you decide to do.
The online girl sounds like you're pretty comfortable with her. All i can suggest is that ask her straight out. I would assume if you are writting poems for eachother and organising to meet etc. there would be some kinda mutual attraction.
But it is a tricky situation since you only know the sexuality of one of the women.
Good Luck. My only other advice would be take your time with the italian class girl, if she is straight it might be really difficult for her...
Anywho.
[/quote]

Okey dokey. Although "internet girl" (lol) has never written me any poem, and I've only written her one. But she's said certain things that make me wonder. But they're never concrete enough for me to say deffo. :P It's just she has a boyfriend. She's not opposed to having relationships outside of him (s'long as he's okay with it, which he probably would be), it's just I dunno if she's ready to make that step, ya know? Being in a poly relationship is complex.

[quote author=*ANna* link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=960#msg1056555 date=1163726167]
The teacher- i still believe what i said before, even if there isn't legal implications i think it's a bad move.[/quote]

Why? ??? Not trying to turn this into a "debate" over age differences ('specially considering this is a thread about gushing, lol). Just trying to understand why.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 17, 2006, 09:52:24 am

OK.

So I might not have a reason to come here any more.

Shit scared.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on November 17, 2006, 01:52:47 pm

:oTaf!!! don't give up!!! make sure chris give's ur relationship a fair go! you owe that to eachother!!! I hope everything goes well! (bare in mind my judgement is severely compromised at the moment! i'm impressed at my ability to type given the copius amounts of alcohole i've consumed) But you and Chris have sounded like such a good, open couple and whatever has happened, i think you need to demand he give you a chance if it's him that's the problem!


Denarri. i just don't think it's a recipe for success and i don't think it's worth risking the reputation of the teacher or my own state of mind. Particularly because i don't believe in a one and only someone i think there will be opportunites to meet other people who have different qualities that satisfy different needs. Not to mention the fact that students and teachers are at totally different phases of thier lives. You're meant to be irresponsible and care free in college not babysitting you're partners children and talking financial investments with their friends,

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 17, 2006, 07:26:42 pm

OK. I'll give you the short version for now.
We are ok. Ish. Better than yesterday anyway.

I will tell more details later on.
It has been quite traumatic...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on November 17, 2006, 07:48:48 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=960#msg1056812 date=1163809602]
OK. I'll give you the short version for now.
We are ok. Ish. Better than yesterday anyway.

I will tell more details later on.
It has been quite traumatic...
[/quote]

*hugs* :'( I was nervous for you.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 18, 2006, 06:57:11 am

Thanks :)
I was f-cking terrified.

Right, basically what happened was this.

I came home from uni on Thursday. Got back at about 6 o'clock. From lunchtime Chris had been calling me saying "Are you home yet" and was doing the same when I got home and had my tea.
I went round to his, and he was really quiet. This was when I got scared. Normally we come in and potter about, get things to eat, watch TV, mess around a bit. But this time we just sat in his room, and that was it.

It took me a while to get him to talk. And all I could get out of him was "I can't say what I need to say" and things like that.

Eventually he managed it. After I had already figured what it was going to be.
He didn't think he could do the long distance relationship any more.

We struggled to talk for a while. But I made my views clear. I thought we were doing ok. If he needed to see more of me, then I was happy to start travelling to Ormskirk as well as home to see him, if that's what it took. I wanted more than anything for us to stay together and try and make it work. But if he wanted to end it, then there was nothing I could do. I wouldn't force him to stay with me if he didn't want to. It wouldn't be fair on either of us.

His view was this, and he said these at random points throughout the night.
He loves me.
I'm the best thing that ever happened to him.
He's not met anyone like me.
And he doesn't want to lose me.

But, the trouble was the distance. He said he needed me to be there. And whereas he knew I was. And just a phone call away. It wasn't enough. He said that he'd prefer me to be not there at all, than for me to be there, yet not. If that makes sense.
Of course it does.

We left it at a "Lets go to bed and think about it"
So he took me home, and I spent all night crying my eyes out.
Woke up, and did the same.
I wanted more than anything to know what was going to happen. But I wouldn't get to see him until 5 o'clock. (He had a hair appointment, and I needed to go to the Doctor)

I went round. He was a little more cheerful than the day before in the car. But I didn't know how to react.
We got in, and he put the TV on, and talked about general issues before we got to the matter in hand.
He asked me what I wanted. He knew what I wanted.
And he suggested giving things another try, and see how we get on.
I agreed, and was so relieved.

So things are better. But nothing like 100%. We're really going to have to work hard at this if we want it to work.

I am absolutely terrified of losing this guy.
You have no idea how much I love him, and how much he has changed my life, and me as a person. All for the better. I can't imagine not being with him.

So yes, we're going to have to try really really hard for it to work.
Hopefully he was just having a 'freak out' moment, like I had a while ago. I really really really hope it was just a moment like that. Really.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on November 18, 2006, 08:19:26 am

OH Taf! That's horrible! bugger distances! I don't think breaking up would work either, is he really going to be able to cut off all contact? Sorry if that's a bad thing to say, it's my skewed way of saying i think you guys'll get through it and let's hope it was just a freak out moment after a bad week or something.
Good Luck Taf!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 18, 2006, 09:30:42 am

I highly doubt that he'd cut off all contact.
We'd stay friends, and we've always said that. It's been said more these past couple of days.
If ever we break up, we're not allowed to lose touch, and we must stay friends.

Things seem to be back to normal now. I think. It's a bit weird still, seeing as 2 days ago we were both crying our eyes out over each other, and then all of a sudden we're sat cuddling and laughing at Friday night TV as per usual.

I don't know. We'll see what happens.
It should be ok. I'll see him in 2 weeks time. And then we have about 3 weeks together over the Christmas break. It's gone so quick, that I think before we know it it'll be the easter break, and then summer...

Yeah. We'll see.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on November 28, 2006, 06:32:08 am

i got a new boyfriend! he is soooooooo awesome i can't believe it! lol he has BLOND long hair! just the kind of guy i want BUT blond ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 28, 2006, 08:02:55 am

Hehe, I love blondes.
I was never too keen on them until I met Chris... ::)

Congrats on the new blonde boyfriend. But, do, tell us more! ;D

I'm seeing Chris again this weekend.
Things have been weird the last couple of weeks. It's been a struggle, and so I don't really know what to expect to happen this weekend.
I'm scared :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on November 28, 2006, 08:25:38 am

tell you more...mhhh what do you wanna know? there is so much to tell!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 28, 2006, 05:25:01 pm

How you met?
How you got together?
General things about him?
What you like best?
Etc etc?

Guys, I have nothing to gush about. At all. I feel things really are taking a turn for the worse with Chris. I'm not looking forward to this weekend at all. :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on November 28, 2006, 09:24:15 pm

Awww, Taf. That sucks! Been through that and hated it. Make you a deal. I'll have some extra fun for you this weekend at Winter Formal. Sound good?
Anyway, things are goin very good! Mark's gettin over one of his nasty migranes. I was really worried about him, and still am but not as much. I so lost at pool on Saturday when we played. But, oh well. We're goin to hang out Friday, then Saturday while he's doing Community service for his IB clases, I'm goin to make him a stuffed monkey from Build A Bear. hehe. He has no idea. It's goin to be an early Christmas present. Then we have Formal that night. I'm so excited! This is our second Formal together. We've been together almost fourteen months! I'll be home without wisdom teeth on our fourteen month anniversary. So, that's what's been up.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on November 28, 2006, 11:39:00 pm

I'm glad everything worked out Taf. I would never wanna do long distance (my roommate is doing that now-we're in New Jersey and her boyfriend goes to school all the way down in North Carolina...and he's FROM California, which is even farther, lol). Long distance *shudders* I hope I find someone local, lol ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on November 29, 2006, 01:38:44 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=975#msg1060103 date=1164752701]
How you met?
How you got together?
General things about him?
What you like best?
Etc etc?

Guys, I have nothing to gush about. At all. I feel things really are taking a turn for the worse with Chris. I'm not looking forward to this weekend at all. :'(
[/quote]
sooo we met at the b-day party of my brother, we went out sometimes, he's teaching me playing guitar. so we were togheter almost everyday and the sparkles were flying sky-high. mmhhh he very slim, tall, blue eyes, always blak clothes when not at work (lol metalhead of course) and the typical male things; fast cars, beer bla bla ;)
he such a great listener and he always has to tell something or some great ideas i never get bored. altough he is 1 year younger then me i don't care. he is very mature. but he also freaks out from time to time and does something so stupid and silly you could thing he's about 5 years old! but: do men every grow up?! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on December 01, 2006, 03:30:16 pm

Me and Chris have split up.
I knew it was coming.
It hurts. But it was for the best.
I'll tell more later, can't say I'm in the mood to talk about it right now.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on December 01, 2006, 04:52:02 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=975#msg1060872 date=1165005016]
Me and Chris have split up.
I knew it was coming.
It hurts. But it was for the best.
I'll tell more later, can't say I'm in the mood to talk about it right now.
[/quote]

:o :o :o :o NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

:'( :'( :'( I'm sorry...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on December 01, 2006, 06:23:44 pm

Awww Taf! You want to talk message me on here on Myspace. I'm always open.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on December 01, 2006, 06:32:05 pm

Thanks Bianca, but I have so much support here, that I think I have too many people who are wanting to be there for me. My family and friends are amazing, I don't know what I'd do without them.

I knew this split was going to happen. So I was prepared for it. The lack of communication between us since our last conversation about us told me that this weekend would bring the end.

It was a good end though. Not as much tears as last time. And I'm not angry at him at all. I totally understand why it had to be done. We still love each other, but it can't work with the distance. It put a strain on things, and we weren't enjoying the realationship like you should.
We're going to stay in touch, and stay friends, we both agreed this. We're too close as friends to lose each other completely. He seemed to be really scared that I would be angry at him, hate him, or want to cut him out of my life altogether. I couldn't do that. He's been a huge part of my life, and I'm not letting him go.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on December 01, 2006, 10:12:52 pm

Aw, taf, I'm so sorry! :( That makes me sad.

I'm glad that you guys still plan on staying in touch, though. That always helps, as long as it actually happens. I'll cross my fingers that it will for you two, even though you guys seem very close, and I think it will.

I wish you luck, and I'm really sorry. I'm not going to offer anything else, because you don't really know me and probably don't need it, but I'm still sorry. Ending a relationship is hard, especially when it's one like yours. I hope you're doing alright.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on December 02, 2006, 08:38:44 am

Thanks Flummoxed :)
I am doing ok. Having a few teary moments, but I'm generally holding up pretty well.
I'm going out with my friends tonight, and getting very very very drunk. Because I need it.
If it's a good turn out, then my brother said he may join us. Which would be great. Had a huge talk with him the other night. I'm so glad I have my big brother to be there for me. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on December 04, 2006, 01:29:33 am

i am with you taf...it's really tough i know... i hope you'll get over him quick cos this world if full of great guys...i know these words are easy to say but very hard in reality! *hugs you*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on December 04, 2006, 05:59:59 am

Oh taf i'm so sorry! It sounds like you have a great support base and i know you'll get through it.
There's nothing so comforting as knowing your big brother really does care i think! and it sounds like the case for you!! :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on December 11, 2006, 10:16:21 am

This thread has been so quiet lately... I hope everyone is doing okay!

I have a bit of gushing to do. Dave and I went home this weekend for his grandpa's 90th birthday party. It was... well, the party was awkward, because Dave's out-of-town half-relatives came in, and nobody really knew them. Haha. But getting to spend the weekend at home and hanging out with Dave was fun!

This Wednesday is Dave's b-day, and I'm excited! I'm sneaking into his room to decorate while he's in class. Mwahaha. And then we're gonna hang out at night once we're both all done with classes. It should be lots of fun!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Haru on December 12, 2006, 06:00:06 am

Oooooh, I didn't know about this thread ;D

Okay, my boy is from the other side of Australia from me and his name is Trent. We've been together for 3 years (He got me a ring in celebration!) and he's coming over to stay for the Chrissy holidays!!

Our relationship is really strange, when I say we've been together for 3 years, it's more like on/off. We've never hated each other, we've always been friends, it's just kind of hard when he's so far away and we're both really busy all the time. I think we're kind of drifting apart, which is sad because I really...*headbutts wall*...I'm so confused, I think we should just be friends, that way I can still love him but I won't have to be so lonely all the time.

But I just needed to get that thought out of my system ;) PHEW! Feeling relieved now...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 12, 2006, 07:10:57 am

This thread is great ;D Then we don't have to annoy people in the other threads :)


Well, I've been together with David for some weeks. We're the same age, and we're going to the same school :) So.. Hm...


Aaaawww *Hugs Haru*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on December 12, 2006, 07:33:07 am

@marit
sounds like it fits perfect!

@haru
distance in relation is a complicated thing but if you trust your feelings you'll know what to do!

edit: damn i can't write english anymore! i make on mistake after another..sorry folks....

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Haru on December 12, 2006, 08:18:21 am

Awe! Thanks guys! :)

I think i'll have talk to him, even though I normally don't do that because I know that guys sometimes really hate the whole, 'let's sit down and have a nice long talk about our emotions' thing. I really do love him...he needs to move!!!

THAT'S IT!!! ;D He can live under my bed! I don't care if he fails school or misses his family, lol!

But seriously, he arrives in a few days, so i'll let you guys know what happens :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 12, 2006, 08:20:48 am

:D Good luck!

So... What to buy David for christmas?

What are you all going to buy yours?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on December 12, 2006, 08:26:09 am

Aw, Haru, I wish you the best of luck with that conversation. It won't be fun. But I think that in long distance relationships you do need to talk about how you're both feeling about the situation.
As you probably read, it didn't work out with me, and it sounds as though your situation is very similar to the one I was in (except the widthways opposite side of England is nothing compared to opposite sides of Australia, lol)
Anyway, I hope things work out for the best for you guys. If you're both willing to work to keep the relationship going, then I think you'll have no problem. :)

I was going to buy Chris a directors chair with his name on it for Christmas. He is doing film studies, and loves being the director. Always has, even when we did media together last year. I don't think I'll do that now. It is a bit expensive for someone who is now just a friend. Don't know what to buy him... Don't know if I should or not. This whole staying friends thing is really confusing. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on December 13, 2006, 02:25:48 am

ElleJay i hope for you that you'll figure out what to do!

today i have nothing to gush about tom he freaks me out....don't wanna see him today

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 13, 2006, 04:24:45 am

ElleJay: I'm sure you'll find ouy what to do :)

Taz: Why don't you want to see him?



David is coming over to look after me today ::) I'm sick and at home, so he's coming to check that I don't stress around like I always do ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on December 13, 2006, 04:32:26 am

@marit hihi sweet, looking after you...i wish my sugar would do that

i am in a pretty stressfull time and very much down..tom knows that but he rather spends time with his friend than saying hey to me! he didn't reply my sms yesterday...i went to be crying..sounds kinda stupid i know but my life is so f***** up right now...all i wanted from him was a hey and how are you...just 5 minutes...on the phone would haven been enough but it seems like he doesn't even care....

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 13, 2006, 04:38:03 am

Aaaawwwww, I know that feeling... Maybe you should try to tell him how you feel about that? Maybe it's just a misunderstanding?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on December 13, 2006, 06:19:58 am

i'll definitly tell him can't keep for myself...maybe i am just overreacting cos i don't want to be alone these days...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 13, 2006, 06:21:48 am

Maybe, but it's still smart to talk to him ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on December 13, 2006, 06:24:28 am

yeah i think so too. i am very extraverted so it would be a problem for me not talking to him...he would sense it straight away no matter what i would pretending...
i don't want to make trouble..he is such a great guy...one in a million

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on December 14, 2006, 06:40:43 pm

Whee, yesterday was fun! I woke up a little peeved with Dave, because he'd gone out drinking on Tuesday to celebrate his birthday and didn't invite me! How rude. But oh well, I got over it.

I decorated his room and gave him presents, and we spent most of the afternoon together. Then at night we rented Gangs of New York and he stayed over. It was very nice. I love sleeping with him. Yay.

Today was nice, too. The weather is actually fairly nice here, so we've been just chilling here and there. Got dinner together and such, too. And it's good.

I love him so much!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Tamara on December 15, 2006, 01:55:41 am

so everything turns out as a big misunderstanding and everything if fine now again! to the movies tonight and then spending time with me! i love him!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 15, 2006, 04:18:28 am

Yay for you Flummoxed! :D

That's good to hear Taz! :D Good to hear that it helped to talk to him :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Haru on December 16, 2006, 05:57:17 am

Bad news.

Trent came over from the other side of the country, turns out for the 3 years we've been together he's been sleeping with one of his female friends for 1.

It happened a few days ago, I don't know what to think. I went down to this town nearby and got lots of Christmas presents so that was good.

A and F is helping me get my mind off things because everyone's so nice here ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 16, 2006, 06:28:46 am

Aaaawww, I'm so sorry to hear that Haru!

So, you're not together anymore?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Haru on December 16, 2006, 07:50:26 am

Nope...I'm now looking for a re-bound boyfriend LOL!

It all seems really surreal, i'm waiting for it to hit, i'll probably start the 'Haru has just been dumped and is going to post pics from depressing romantic movies here' thread, LOL!

I'm keeping positive, I had some good times with him and i'm hoping I won't get so bitter and angry I forget about all the fun we had. I guess it's a nice release though, I'd suspected for ages and I liked that he confessed rather than me finding out. But still, he waited a year to tell me...that's one whole year of him lying to me, maybe i'm better off.

Oh well, best not to think too hard on it! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 16, 2006, 07:54:19 am

You can always cry on my shoulder if you want to ;) Feel free to PM me if you want to ;)

And I agree, it's good that he confessed ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on December 22, 2006, 07:44:07 pm

MY LOVES! ;D Wow, I certainly have missed this thread! :P How is everyone? I hope all of you lovely ladies are well and looking forward to the Holidays. :-* I have the GREATEST news for you all.

Those of you who have known me for quite some time know of my almost two year relationship with the love of my life. Due to trying times, we were not together for about 4 months. It was the hardest, worst, and most trying months of my life.

Just tonight, he picked me up and took me to a local coffee house to see me. We never made it inside the coffee house. We stayed in the car instead. I began to cry, and he asked what was the matter. He told me it would be alright. But, I told him through tears that it wouldn't be. I had my head turned out the window. And he said it would and then told me to look at him. There in his hands, he has the promise ring he gave last Christmas. He slipped it on my finger. And I could go into elaborate detail on everything, but as of now, our secretive promise again, must be kept secret amoungst our relations. Until I turn 18 that is. Which is about a year from now. Oh girls, I am SO happy! Truly, I have never been so happy! ;D :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on December 22, 2006, 08:43:19 pm

Are you back together? What about him thinking he was gay? Well anyway, I'm glad your happy ^^.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on December 22, 2006, 08:46:06 pm

[quote author=ElleJay link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1005#msg1066086 date=1166838199]
Are you back together? What about him thinking he was gay? Well anyway, I'm glad your happy ^^.
[/quote]

Yes, secretly for now, we are back together. He re-promised his love to me. It was terribly romantic. He believes that he is bi, however he swears he could never love anyone, no matter the sex, as he does me and I him. He swore tonight that I am the only one. :) And thank you love! :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 24, 2006, 06:23:31 am

No more gushing for me...

David broke up today (or, tonight) over msn...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on December 24, 2006, 09:26:10 am

[quote author=Marit {DA} link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1005#msg1066266 date=1166959411]
No more gushing for me...

David broke up today (or, tonight) over msn...
[/quote]

Oh Marit, I am so sorry. :-\ If you need to talk about anything, we're here and also, you can PM me anytime you like. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on December 24, 2006, 12:03:28 pm

Thank you :)

He keeps on sending messages, trying to call and everything. He wants me back. I'm not sure how I feel...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on December 24, 2006, 12:55:51 pm

Ah! Well I hope it works out for the best. Follow your heart. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on December 30, 2006, 12:48:28 am

Hey girls! Haven't been on in a while, so I thought I'd given an update. Mark and I are still together. And closer than ever! So happy! He's been highly supportive recently, because someone in my dance class started rumors about me. I told him when I found out and we both think it's the same person. Anyway, I got the most gorgeous earrings for Christmas. They're Mother of Pearl and very pretty. He also got me, How to Live With A Neurotic Cat! That book is so true. Speaking of promise rings, I've had mine for a while. Mark asked me something during Formal. Bet you can guess what. Only one of our friends know. No one else knows! If anyone ever needs to talk send me a message.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on December 30, 2006, 01:15:40 am

Aww, Bianca that is great! I just love reading about fellow member's relationships. It's so awesome things are working out so well for you too love. :-*

As for my relationship, ah, perfection. ;D I am just so happy! We've promised the rest of our lives to each other. There is nothing more passionate, nor more beautiful than knowing you love someone so much and that they love you just as much in return that you would promise them the rest of your life and beyond. :) Call me a hopeless romantic. Haha, but I am in love. :-* I am so happy! Today, I got my driver's license so now I can go see him whenever I please! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on January 05, 2007, 02:10:41 am

Hey girls! I'm so happy! Mark and I just hit 15 months today! yay! I spent New Years Eve with Mark, his parents, and, dog. It was great! He so beat me in Twister! If you can't tell I'm really happy! And no one aside from two of our frineds know about the other question he asked me last month the second. No one else is going to know for quiet sometime. Probably at least a year or two. That's goin to be so hard. When I'm with him it is hard not to smile. (even on days of pms) I feel great and I know Mark does too.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 05, 2007, 10:44:33 am

Ah, glad to hear everyone is so happy. The holidays are a good time to be happy.

I'm happy, too. Dave is still amazing, and I love him lots. He bought me a sword for Christmas. Haha, no one seems to think that's very romantic, but I loved it. It's Arwen's sword from LotR, so it was so... just perfectly me, and I found it very sweet of him to feed into my obsession so willingly, even though he doesn't share my love of hobbits and elves. Lol, he's such a sweetie.

We're back at school now, and things are just sort of meandering along. Nothing bad to speak of; we're just at a good place right now, and we're happy. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on January 27, 2007, 04:33:34 am

This thread needs reviving!

So, I'll start.

Magnus and I are in the same class. So I met him for the first time in August. Since that, we've been very good friends. But the last weeks, things started to happen between us. And then, yesterday, we became a couple ;D

He's seen all the James Bond films, and read lots of books, so he knows exactly how to make a girl feel well (in a non-sexual way. Don't know how he's there :P Going to wait a bit with that :P). He's a great kisser, dancer, friend and everything! ::)

Ok, done for now ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 27, 2007, 01:22:59 pm

Aw, yay for you, Marit! I'm glad you're happy. And good luck with the new boy! ;)

You are right... this thread does need reviving. What happened to all the happy, gushing people? Lol.

Dave and I are still good. I've been working backstage at a theater production this past week, and it's been really long, boring, and hard on my feet. He's been very sweet when I see him after rehearsal, giving me back rubs and plenty of cuddling. *Sigh.* Yay being in love.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on January 27, 2007, 06:34:00 pm

I'm still here! Been meanin to post actually. So, things are goin very well. Sixteen months on the fifth of February! yay! But anyway. I turned eightteen on the twenty third and Mark got me a great present! The card's great too! I got a really pretty bracelet. I've been asked if it holds real diamonds. Not sure if it does. The card, that's a story of its own. Last night we went ice skating, then went back to his place and watched, Cars. I fell asleep in his arms for a few minutes. It's all good. Currently, I'm lookin for his Valentine's Day present. I fibbed, I already know what I'm getting him. I'm goin to him the second movie of, Bill and Ted! I have something else in mind too. Oh yeah, both of our school's have Winter Homecoming this week. We're going to my school's Homecoming basketball game. We decided that on the fact it's easier to get him into my school functions opposed to me getting into his. So, that's what's up. Hope everyone's doing alright.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 28, 2007, 04:58:16 am

I have an interest going on...

Who knows whats going to happen...

We shall see...

::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on January 28, 2007, 07:11:30 am

[quote author=Flummoxed. link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1020#msg1074821 date=1169922179]
Aw, yay for you, Marit! I'm glad you're happy. And good luck with the new boy! ;)

You are right... this thread does need reviving. What happened to all the happy, gushing people? Lol.

Dave and I are still good. I've been working backstage at a theater production this past week, and it's been really long, boring, and hard on my feet. He's been very sweet when I see him after rehearsal, giving me back rubs and plenty of cuddling. *Sigh.* Yay being in love.
[/quote]

I work in theatre production too so I know exactly how you must feel! It's very time consuming and even when you get home you're tired. I think it would put pressure on any relationship, but it souds like you two are doing just fine :D

As for me, I haven't got anyone to gush about :(
I could gush about my most recent crush, but he's gone back to London now and we turned out just being friends in the end. But he's awesome - we keep in touch, he's just such a great guy that I still got teary when he left. He looks like Elijah does when he's wearing glasses too, and he's a music geek. *swoon*

So - I'm on the hunt for a new guy to hold my interest!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 05, 2007, 07:13:02 am

Aaaaah!
New boy new boy new boy new boy!

Who knows.
Kathryn may be making a return to this thread.

Early days.
But I'm sat here with a stupid grin on my face at the moment.
;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scroll on February 05, 2007, 12:09:20 pm

I just wanted to gush a moment about my man.

We went to the big city of Charlotte last Friday to pick up a printer, computer keyboard, and mouse that he had won by accident on a radio station. Well we went there and it is about an hour and a half from where we live now. As we started into the city he told me to lock my door. Because they have homless people and alot of crimes there in the certain part that we were going through.

That is what makes me gush about my man. He tells me to lock my car door when we are going through certain parts where we live. It makes me feel protected and safe. That he doesn't want anything to happen to me.

If we are going down the road and stop at a stop sign or stop light and someone is walking around he asks me to lock my door. I know it sounds stupid but it to me it makes me feel like he does care and loves me enough to keep me safe and it works.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 05, 2007, 04:34:45 pm

Aww, Scroll, that is really sweet. A lot of times, just the little things matter the most. :)

Ooooh, taf, do tell about your new boy! I've missed having you around these parts!

Dave and I are still doing well. Valentine's Day will be... interesting. Lol. I didn't have much time or opportunity to shop, so I just went the boring, predictable route and got him some cologne. I've been poking fun at him because the most romantic thing he could think of to get me was a set of satin sheets for my bed. Haha. I guess it is sort of romantic... in a round about way. But yeah, this is kind of a weird holiday. Neither one of us likes the commercial feel of it, yet we still feel the need to celebrate. So oh well.

Other than that, I've been really stressed lately (though, after last week things are much better), and he's been putting up with me. I really appreciate him putting up with me. Lol. Even when I've been being ridiculous, he still tries his best to cheer me up.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 05, 2007, 06:45:48 pm

Aw, so glad things are still going good for you two ;D

Ech, Valentines day. It really is far too commercialised now.
They're having a valentines ball at our student union. Charging £15 for tickets. Pah! Balls to that! lol

New boy...
Hehe.

Well, he lives with my flatmates girlfriend.
It was on the night that I went out dressed as Mrs Incredible (see beautiful ones thread) and I got a little drunk...
We were in downstairs Scream, and he was playing pool with his friends. And I decided I wanted to play. So just went up to him and invited myself and one of my flatmates into the game. I completely ruined it for him. Potted the wrong balls, and made a tit out of myself. Ended up talking to someone else and forgetting about it.

Later, when we were upstairs in the club part of Scream, Elle (his flatmate) gets a text asking for my number if I'm single. I let her give it to him.

He texts me later on, and we add each other on MSN. Talking for AGES! It was rediculous! We just clicked it seems.

Seen him a few more times since then, and he has now seen me sober. Which I'm glad about.

He has told me he likes me. (Eee!) and I must say I do like him too.

Everyone is asking if we're an item yet. But it is too early days for me. I've only known him for just over 2 weeks. It feels longer, because we can talk all day every day. It's mad. I've never talked to a guy like this before. We just can't shut up.

I have more to tell about him... but I'll leave it there for now. lol
He is a really nice guy though. Puts a smile on my face. :)

Oh, and he's called Adam. lol ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on February 09, 2007, 09:28:11 am

That sounds great taf ;D

Two weeks with Magnus now ;D

Everyone tells us that we fit very good together ::) ;D It's a bit funny, we can sit and just talk Norwegian, and then suddenly switch to Engilsh, and even German! ::)

Going to a LAN-party at his house this weekend, sooo looking forward to it! ;D

I'll get some pics of him too ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 10, 2007, 10:25:29 am

Aw Marit, sounds like your very happy with your new man. Good to hear ;D

Me... I now have a boyfriend.

Went out for drinks on Thursday night with everyone, and I didn't get home until just now (Saturday lunchtime) haha. I've lost a day, but it was worth it ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on February 13, 2007, 03:26:59 pm

I really am ;D

Yay for you taf! ;D

So, valentine tomorrow. Anyone doing anything special?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on February 13, 2007, 05:59:22 pm

I am! I'm going over to Marks at 5:30 for a few hours. Yay! I got him, the second Bill and Ted movie and a wipe off board with monkey's on it. I know he'll like the board. And I got him a pretty cool card too. Things with us are going really good actually. We've been together sixteen months and we've never had a major fight.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scroll on February 13, 2007, 06:42:01 pm

I am so happy for you Bianca. I hope all still keeps going good and someday turn into something more.

Again I am happy for you sweetie.

I am so happy for you too Marit and the same for you as for Bianca.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on February 13, 2007, 08:49:49 pm

Hey this thread is a year old now. ^_^ :D Just thought I'd point that out, even if I am about a month or so late. ::)

*still waiting for a Prince or Princess to sweep off feet* :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scroll on February 14, 2007, 10:09:39 am

Oh Jordan don't feel that way. You will find someone when you least expect it. I am sure of it sweetie.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 14, 2007, 11:21:20 am

Adam's coming over in a bit... I'm making him dinner. Ooh err... lol...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scroll on February 14, 2007, 11:34:28 am

I am so happy for you Tafika. I hope your dinner goes well and good luck my friend.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on February 15, 2007, 07:00:41 am

He made cupcakes for everyone in our "gang", is that cute or what? :-*

I also took lots of pics of him, will post them later ;)

Yay me ;D Mum said that it's ok that he sleeps over here from Friday to Saturday ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scroll on February 15, 2007, 07:31:07 am

That is so sweet Marit, him making cupcakes.

My hubby came home from work yesterday and had our 8yrd bring me in a cupcake with a heart on top telling me that was my Valentines gift.

He then came in a bit later and while I was cooking in the kitchen he pulled out a plastic bag and tied it to the chain of the cieling fan in the living room. For me to run into and see it.

He went back outside to do some work so I went in and took the bag down. Inside the bag was a small box. Inside the box was a sterling silver necklace and earings, with a real ruby stone in each of them surrounded with diamonds.

It is so pretty. I love them.

We didn't go out. I cooked hamburgers and tater tots for dinner. He is taking me and the girls out Friday night to the movies and dinner. We are going to go and see the movie "Gohst Rider" coming out in theatres Friday.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 15, 2007, 01:02:05 pm

Aww, Scroll that is so sweet of your husband! ;D

My Dad got my Mum 12 white roses, bless him.

I made Adam fish fingers and chips (come on, I'm no chef, haha) he loved it. lol
He got me a bag of Peanut M&Ms, because they are the best sweets in the world ever.

We went out for his friends birthday. We both got very drunk. He was buying me drinks all night, and I probably spent about £3 all night... lol

Was a good night. Ended up staying at his. Him making me pizza, and in the morning sausage sandwiches.

I am stupidly happy at the moment.

He is really amazing. ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scroll on February 15, 2007, 01:06:21 pm

Oh Tafika it sounds like you had a cery swwet, loving, romantic night. I always love it when my hubby cooks and serves me for a change like I always do him.

Anyway I love it that you had such a wonderful time yesterday and lastnight.

Thanks for your kind words about my hubby. He can be a bit romantic (sometimes). Still would love to have flowers once in a while though.

Oh I forgot that my hubby had the girls to clean the kitchen and the dinner dishes after dinner lastnight. Their Valentine's gift to me from the girls. Since I am the one that always does all the cleaning around here. (Except for our 8yr old. She sometimes does help when I ask her to).

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 15, 2007, 08:47:33 pm

Aww, it sounds like everyone had great Valentine's Days with their significant others! How sweet.

Mine was not so exciting, but still nice. Due to a big blizzard that came through, classes were cancelled on both Tuesday and Wednesday this week. So Tuesday night Dave and I went out to a party, and then he stayed at my place for the night. Yesterday we spent a lot of time together. I bought him some cologne, and he got me a set of satin sheets (although they aren't here yet, but still) for Valentine's Day. We both made each other silly cards, too, with crayons. Haha, crayons are fun. His is very sweet.

We didn't do anything else fun or exciting because we are still mildly snowed in. We just kind of hung out all day. We cuddled up on his futon in the evening and watched way too many episodes of Law and Order. Haha. But it was a nice, relaxing night. I love him so much. :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scroll on February 15, 2007, 09:23:42 pm

Ah Flum that all sounds so romantic to me sweetie. Sometimes it doesn't take much to have a romantic time. Coloring with crayons, now more romantic can that get?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on February 16, 2007, 02:37:33 am

Sounds like everyone is having a great time ;D


Ok, so I promised you pictures, and here they are ;D

My great boyfriend, Magnus ;D
[IMG]http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f380/tiram90/People/P2140052.jpg[/IMG]
[IMG]http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f380/tiram90/People/P2140047.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on February 16, 2007, 10:21:02 am

[quote author=Scroll link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1050#msg1079404 date=1171592622]
Coloring with crayons, now more romantic can that get?
[/quote]

Haha, definitely not much! It was indeed a fun time. Though, most of our time together is enjoyable. :) Which I'm glad for.

Marit, don't you also have red hair? You and Magnus would have amazing children. Lol! But seriously, he's cute, and I bet you two look adorable together!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on February 16, 2007, 10:30:21 am

Yes I do ;D We've been asked if we're twins a hundred times ::) ;D

We probably would ;D But, we're only 16 (turning 17 this year), so it's a long time before stuff like that :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 24, 2007, 08:35:37 am

Aw Marit, looks as though you two would make a really cute couple! ;D

My brother came to visit the other day, him and Adam got on really realy well. I'm so happy about that. ;D

He's gone back to his home town for the weekend.
Went on Thursday morning, and doesn't get back until Monday night :(

I have his apartment keys though. So on Monday I'm going round to watch Neighbours, because I miss it, and I don't have a TV. lolol
He wanted me to wash his sheets for him. But that is not going to happen. lolol ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on February 25, 2007, 02:00:56 am

So, Valentine's Day was fun! Got a big fluffy white monkey. It is so cute! And instead of buying me a card (couldn't find one that said what he felt for me), he wrote one for me instead. It is so sweet! I got him, the second Bill and Ted movie, a dart board with a monkey on it, and, a little stuffed dog from Build A Bear. Got him the dog last month, but hey. He liked it all. It's all good. We hit seventeen months next Monday!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 01, 2007, 12:09:53 pm

OMG I am so happy you would not believe it!!

I've spent pretty much all my time with Adam these past 3 days. It even began looking like I'd moved into his room. My towel, toiletries, clothes, glasses, contact lenses etc all over the place. I even put my shopping in his fridge! Haha!

He's made me my dinners, and breakfast in bed twice.
He took me to the cinema last night, wouldn't even let me buy popcorn!

It's been amazing, I've felt so spoiled. Finally come home cos I need to do some work, lol.

I'm going back to my hometown this weekend, and he's just asked me what time I get back on Sunday so he can make me Sunday dinner! :o

He's spoiling me I think.

I'm so happy though! Things are going great! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on March 08, 2007, 03:31:41 pm

That's really great Taf! :D It's good to hear that you are happy! ;D


Magnus bought me a single red rose yesterday :D He's the first guy who've ever bought me a rose! And I love roses! ;D

It's just so great :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 08, 2007, 05:35:58 pm

Aw, a single rose, that is so sweet ;D
I've never been given any flowers before.
Would love it. lol

Oh.
I got a good photo of Adam. Found it on his sisters Facebook. Haha. Theivery! ;)

All photos I take don't look like him, so couldn't really share, lol :(

But
This is a very good one ::)
[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Adam.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on March 20, 2007, 05:46:10 pm

Magnus has gotten a haircut! :o He looks really handsome without glasses now ;D

Some people still thinks that we're twins or something ::) Scary people :P


Hm... Taf? Has the picture dissapeared? Or is my computer f*cked again?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 21, 2007, 03:36:36 pm

Marit! Twins! Oh no! Haha! That's terrible! I'd be weirded out if someone asked me that, lol. Funny though. ;)

Sorry, don't know what happened to the picture. It just disapeared ???
Anyway, here it is again. Hope it stays put this time ;)

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Adam2.jpg[/IMG]

he goes home for the Easter break at the end of next week. For two weeks. While I stay at University. (I can't be bothered to go home, don't really want to, and know I'll get loads of work done here with no distractions!)
So he says he's going to take me to pizza hut one night next week (because I wouldn't shut up about how nice their side order mushrooms are the other day, haha) and then on to the cinema.
Gonna miss him for those 2 weeks.

Summer is going to be interesting too, as we live in different towns. Him near Birmingham, me near Sheffield (if that makes sense to anyone :P)
But we'll see each other I'm sure.
We're going to see The Feeling play at Lincoln Castle in June. That should be good. I bet a concert like that in a castle grounds in the summer is really nice! :D

Yeah, things are going really well. And I'm really happy.
He left his jacket here this morning, and naturally I'm wearing it. Hehe.
Love boys clothes ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on March 25, 2007, 07:07:43 am

Aaawww, Taf, he looks really sweet! :D

Sounds like you two are doing great ;D

LAN-party at Magnus's this weekend :P Really interesting :P But he's really sweet, and insists that I join their games, even though I've never played them before ::)

Had to sleep in his bed again :P (I didn't really mind ::))

Random fact: I love being woke up by someone stroking my hair ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 30, 2007, 09:58:38 pm

[quote author=Marit ~GLEAHD~ {DA} link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1050#msg1084571 date=1174820863]

Random fact: I love being woke up by someone stroking my hair ;D
[/quote]

Aww, that just made me smile. But it really is the little things about love that are the best!

I haven't much to report... Dave and I are still doing well, but I've been sooooo busy lately, and plus we're both poor - so that doesn't add up to much cute couple-y-ness. We do hang out plenty, but lately our alone time has been minimal. Planning to change that, though, now that the weather is warming up! Walks before bed are the best.

And taf, the new boy is super cute! Good on you!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 31, 2007, 05:41:35 am

Good to hear things are still going well Flummoxed, I'd wondered where you'd got to, not seen you around in a while :P

Aww, I love being woken up like that too, hehe. ::)

Well, Adam has gone home for Easter for 2 weeks. I'm still at uni. All on my own. It's so quiet around here, it's really rather creepy. lol

I spent the last couple of days with him.
We went out on Thursday night for my flatmates birthday. We were dressed as geeks, it was really rather funny.

He's doing the Clark Kent thing. lol

I stayed at his that night, and then on Friday we went into town to buy tickets to see The Feeling play at Lincoln Castle in June. Woo! Can't wait! ;D
We then did a bit of shopping, me buying him another Easter egg (I ate the first one - no self control - lol :-[)

Went to the cinema that night to see 300. Then to McDonalds. Came home and tried to watch V for Vendetta, but fell asleep. Haha.

Had him packing for home around me this morning, until I was thrown out of bed so he could leave. lol

Oh, for Easter, he got me 2 Eggs (Mini egg and Buttons) and put a big bag of peanut M&Ms in each box! ;D Was so sweet of him. He spoils me, and won't let me return the favour. Really rather annoying. lol

Eee, I could go on forever... but I won't ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Nutella Sister on March 31, 2007, 03:32:00 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1050#msg1083952 date=1174505796]
Marit! Twins! Oh no! Haha! That's terrible! I'd be weirded out if someone asked me that, lol. Funny though. ;)

Sorry, don't know what happened to the picture. It just disapeared ???
Anyway, here it is again. Hope it stays put this time ;)

[IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v490/tafika_web/Adam2.jpg[/IMG]

[/quote]

Oooh taf! He is so Cute and I'd better say Handsome ;) I like his name very much.. Adams is one of the names I like..I always thought that's a Hot name, don't know why? ??? ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 01, 2007, 02:24:08 pm

Hehe, thanks, he is very handsome ::)
I like his name too. lol ;)

Missing him already :( it's very lonely at university when there is no one around.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 01, 2007, 08:49:57 pm

Aww, that stinks that your boy is gone for two whole weeks, taf! Stinky. But that'll just make the homecoming that more exciting. ;) Haha.

And yeah, I haven't been around much; I've been soooo busy lately. But things should quiet down now; the year is almost over, afterall. It's gone by so fast! Having Dave up here at school with me is so awesome.

Speaking of Dave, we cooked dinner together last night, then ate ice cream. Afterwards, we went over to a friend's apartment for a bit, and then I spent the night in his room, since his roommate was gone. It was such a perfect night. *swoon.*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 08, 2007, 07:11:40 pm

I bet having to share rooms makes having a boyfriend/girlfriend rather tricky at times, haha.

I'm fortunate to have found someone who has one of the best student accomodation ever... double bed, en-suite, and in the lounge - cable tv, leather sofas, dishwasher...
Crazy posh. I live in a hole in comparison. lol
I've practically moved in, haha, can you blame me? Rather attractive boy lives there too... it's not just for the furnishings ;)

He's been gone a week. The week has really dragged... maybe because I am actually all alone... who knows, lol. Another week to go...

Doubt I'll see him much when he comes back though, we both have assessment dates to meet with work, and we're both a little bit behind.

We have 2 weeks to do what we like after that, I can't wait! This city is so pretty now it's getting into summer. I see us spending the week on the quayside sat outside the bars ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 14, 2007, 08:05:50 pm

Double post, but don't care

Just been talking to Adam on MSN, he was wasted. Always funny to talk to him when he's pissed. lol

He comes home to Lincoln tomorrow ;D I can't wait! He's taking me out for Sunday Lunch, and then I'm spending the day with him.
Yay!!! ;D

I was on the phone to my Mum today, and she commented on how my accent is going "posh". Made me laugh... there's only one person who can be blamed for that! And that's my posh boy ;D haha!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on April 15, 2007, 01:14:55 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1065#msg1088112 date=1176595550]
I was on the phone to my Mum today, and she commented on how my accent is going "posh". Made me laugh... there's only one person who can be blamed for that! And that's my posh boy ;D haha!
[/quote]

Hahaha, niiiice. I don't really have to worry about that... I live in Ohio (and not southern Ohio, or the Cleveland area), so I don't really have to worry about accents. In fact, a lot of TV broadcasters and stuff start out in mid-Ohio so they can perfect their "regional diction." Ha. Always thought that was interesting.

Anywhoo... getting back on topic, Dave and I are great. We had a really bad time over Easter and almost broke up. It was not fun... But we talked it over, cried a bit, and then decided we could work it out. And now things are good again. Dating a younger guy sucks. Lol. The whole thing started with me bringing up the whole "so, where are we headed" question. Bad move, even after 2 years of solid dating. Haha, oh well. All's well that ends well, right? I'm just not allowed to bring up marriage again for at least another year. ::) But I can live with that, 'cause I love him.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 03, 2007, 12:04:58 pm

Aw, I am glad things worked out. Can see how a huge thing like that could put a tension on things. Seems you guys are strong enough to work through anything tho from what I hear. :)

Not seen as much of Adam as I'd have liked recently. We both had deadlines for work. Mine was last week, and his is tomorrow.
So lots of last min busy busy busy going on at the moment.

This Saturday I'm taking a few of my friends from Uni over to my home town for a night out. My parents are away, so we have the house to ourselves. Got my 3 girlies, and Adam coming. Meeting one of the girls boyfriends there as well, since he lives in the same town (small world).

My best friends from the home country are really looking forward to meeting Adam. lol

Aww... just been talking to him on MSN.

[quote]kat says:
doh willy face i am
ad says:
says it on fridge :D
kat says:
what???
ad says:
it did say "kathryn is perfect"
ad says:
but when i came bk i changed it n put "kathryn is a knobhead"
kat says:
i prefer the first one
ad says:
lol
ad says:
:P
kat says:
i bet it didnt really say that :P
ad says:
did, rick put it
kat says:
did he?
ad says:
yh cuz he asked me "if u cud change sumat about kathryn, wot wud u change"
ad says:
n i said nothing, so he put that on fridge lol[/quote]

Awww ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on May 03, 2007, 12:42:49 pm

Well we've been on two dates, and before I go back home we'll be on our third.

He's been so busy with work. :( :( But it's all good-at least I know he's still interested, lol. :D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 04, 2007, 01:40:49 pm

Oooooo, how have these dates gone? ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on May 04, 2007, 03:41:55 pm

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1065#msg1090717 date=1178300449]
Oooooo, how have these dates gone? ;D
[/quote]

GREAT! We just talk and laugh and talk-last date we went to a Japanese restaurant. Mmmm miso soup, lol. Our next date is set for Sunday 5:30pm EDT. :D Don't know where we're going as of yet. It was supposed to be yesterday, but he got called to a meeting unexpectedly. I'm excited. 8)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 05, 2007, 01:30:39 am

Aww, good for you, Denarii! Have fun!

Yes, taf, Dave and I do seem to make it through a lot. Which is definitely reassuring. :D

Yesterday was our two-year anniversary! It's so insane that it's been that long! Of course, he is currently extemely drunk and passed out in his room, so I am not exactly happy with him at the moment... hahaha. But I'll get over it; he's such a silly drunken boy. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 05, 2007, 05:22:10 am

lol, drunken boys... tell me about it.
Taking my drunken boy to the homeland today, along with some other friends for a night out. Should be good. My best friend from home is looking forward to finally meeting him. ;D

When he is drunk, I am usually far drunker, so we don't really have an issue with that lol.
Apart from when he was less than impressed with me hovvering around his bathroom for a good 12 hours after a particularly good night out.
I do think I am worse than him for drinking, or handling it anyway... lol ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 06, 2007, 12:46:28 pm

Me and Adam had our first fall out on Saturday night.

He made me cry twice in one night over different things, scared me, and had me so worried at one point.

Not fun.
I'm so emotionally drained from it all.

I think we are ok though. I hope.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on May 06, 2007, 01:28:40 pm

Aaawww

I hope you two are ok taf!


Magnus and I are good ;) It's been over three months :P New personal record for me :P He's so sweet, but at the same time really annoying some times :P No wonder people tell us that we act like an old couple some times :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: JordanRiver12881 on May 06, 2007, 05:01:33 pm

I hope everything's alright, taffy. :D

Well guys, he hurt his back, so no seeing each other today. :( :(

He promised he'll see me before I leave though. :) It was nice just to hear his voice. :-* *insert cheesey music here* ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on May 06, 2007, 10:37:40 pm

Aww, that's stinky, Denarii. I hope he's okay!

And I hope you and Adam are okay, too, taf. Fighting is no fun, ever. Especially when you wind up scared and crying. :-\ I hope everything works out!

Yay for you, Marit. Three months is a nice solid amount of time. Lol at the old couple comment... Dave and I get that a lot, too. We are very rarely ever cutesy in public; we usually make fun of each other more, and our friends find us rather funny. ;)

Dave survived his night, thankfully. Haha, wasn't very happy in the morning, but that's his fault. I don't really drink much myself (just not a fan of the taste of anything... lol, I suck at being a college kid!), so I'm always making fun of him when he spends the night with his head in the toilet. Heh.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on May 09, 2007, 05:44:54 am

Good luck with your guy Denarii, and everyone else


Magnus and I broke up today... The relationship just floated away, we were more like friends. Hopefully, will we both manage to stay in the "friend gang" we both are in at school.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 12, 2007, 06:54:33 pm

Me and Adam are fine. We were both very drunk, and the night was very dramatic. I had 5 people staying at my house that night, and me and Adam had an argument, so did 2 of the girls, and another of the girls and her boyfriend.
The house was one big shouting match, at 3/4am... bet the neighbours loved us. lolol

But yes, all is good now.
I basically moved in with him this week, stayed at his from Tuesday until today. I've come back to my flat now because he leaves for home tomorrow. I'm not going to see him for 6 weeks. And even then it's only for a weekend :'(
Gonna miss him so much.

Sorry to hear of your break up Marit, it sounds like you made the best decision though, and it's good you can still be friends. Keep smiling kidder :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on May 13, 2007, 12:12:54 pm

Oooh yay, I have a boy now! Well kinda. We've only really just met so I haven't known him for long, but it feels like we're going to be together and we definitely hit it off well.

I met him at a bar last Saturday, we got talking, went to the dancefloor, and pashed. Then we went to find a quieter bar, which we ended up getting kicked out of for kissing too much! The security guard not-so-subtley told us to get a room.

We ended up staying in his hotel room, and then the next morning we had breakfast at a nearby cafe. Then I was feeling sick so I went home for a while, and he came over in the evening and we watched the soccer, made out on the couch, then went to bed.

The following night he came over after work again, we went to a nearby bar and it was lots of fun. We sat there drinking and talking and getting to know each other, and trying not to pash (can't have PDA's at yr local on a Monday night!). He stayed at mine again.

The next night was his final night in Melbourne, we went to see The Science of Sleep at the movies, which is the perfect film for a date! And of course, he stayed at my place.

It's so cool, we got to spend a lot of time together - his hotel was right near my work, so we could even catch the tram together in the morning, and we were pretty much always either hand-in-hand or arm-in-arm or snuggling or making out. We decided to keep in touch and that we'll see each other again, so fingers crossed it all works out!!!

We've texted since, sweet things have been said, he makes me smile. Apparently he might be coming down again at the end of the month, I'm so excited!

The fact that he lives in another city is a bummer, but he travels a lot for work. Plus, he's too good to give up on because of a little reason like bad geography :P All the little things about him make me smile, he's cute, sweet, and oh so f*cking hott!! ;D I really hope it works out, he's the sort of guy I wanna be with.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: scheherazade on May 20, 2007, 03:24:42 pm

Coz, don't worry about the distance, if it's meant to be, it'll sort out.

Once upon a time, I met a random guy on Myspace. He lived 225+ miles away from me. Bazillions of hours on the phone, lots of long drives, and both of us moving later....we're married and couldn't be happier.

So don't let anyone tell you long-distance relationships (or online ones, for that matter) can't work! :)


As a side note....I haven't been here in AGES. So funny to see that some people are still here...hehe.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on May 21, 2007, 11:47:27 am

Thanks scheherazade :) I'm glad things worked out well for you.

It's going perfectly at the moment, so let's hope it stays that way! He's coming down next week, yay!!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on May 24, 2007, 07:45:19 pm

Oooo, sounds like good stuff with you and this new boy Coz, good luck ;)

Long distance is a good way to judge whether the relationship is meant to be in my opinion.

If you can work it, then you know you have something good going.

If not, then... you haven't. lol

I tried it last year when me and my ex went to different unis.
We'd been together a year, but broke up 3 months into the first uni term.

I've found someone much better now though...
And 3 months later, it's the summer holidays! And he lives a 3 hour train ride away :( sobsobsob.

3 months until we're both living in the same town again. (OK, what's with the number 3, lol)
I can't wait. Miss him so much already :'(

Seeing him again for a few days in a months time! ;D

Guess you can't win when you go to University. You're either long distancing it during term time, or during the holidays. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on June 11, 2007, 02:19:40 am

Sounds like everyone's doing pretty good! That's always good. Here on my end, very good! Mark and I are still together. We hit twenty months on the first Tuesday of this month! One of the best parts about it, we keep getting closer and closer. The one thing that helped, we grew up together. Still haven't had a fight yet which surprises some people. This fall though, is going to be pretty rough. Mark's going to college up north in the parts where I'm from. Me, I'm staying put. For now anyway. I'll probably be moving back to my hometown here in the next year or so. I was wondering if I could get suggestions for how to keep things going this fall?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on June 11, 2007, 12:33:09 pm

Hey everyone! Glad to hear you'll all still doing well. That's a good thing. Dave and I are still great, too. We're home for the summer, but both working a lot. I'm interning at a newspaper, and so I work 40 hours a week, 3-11pm on work days. That makes it really hard to see him much, but we're making it work. At least we're still in the same city! Haha.

Bianca, as for your question on how to make it work - first of all, realize that it'll probably be hard. Dave and I did the long-distance thing my first year of college, and, not gonna lie, it was rough. But it sounds like you and Mark have a really good thing going, so I think you'll probably be okay.

The biggest thing is, talk. A lot. Get online, call each other, text, e-mail, and even send real snail mail to each other. I know the mail might sound silly, but if you do it as a surpirse, it can be really cute. For a while, Dave was sending me letters every couple of days, and it was so sweet.

If you can, make efforts to visit each other at least every couple of weeks. Dave and I would usually see each other about every 2 or 3 weeks. Just looking forward to those weekends together made the time in between a lot easier to cope with.

I wish you guys luck! And if things get hard, don't freak out about it. You may end up fighting, but, it happens. If you really want to make it work, it is possible!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 11, 2007, 01:45:22 pm

I don't have much advice on the long distance relationship. I couldn't do it... and I don't think I could seriously again (ok, me n Adam are apart for 3 months over summer... but we're together the majority of the year, so it's ok)

Everything Flummoxed said sounds good though. And yes, if you both really want it to work, then you'll be able to do it. :)

All the best!

Eeee! I'm so excited! (/scared) I'm going to see Adam next Thursday (hopefully)... instead of seeing him in Lincoln (our uni city) I'm going to visit him in his home town first, and head on to Lincoln together a couple of days later!

I can't wait to see him again. Miss him so much.

The scared part is... uh oh... here comes meet the parents! :-\

OK, I'm blessed that Mothers do tend to love me... but I'm still scared. All other Mum's I know are Northerners! And they're all Southerners... don't know how to deal with them. lol ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on June 13, 2007, 12:52:37 am

Thanks for the advice. The talking thing we've got down now. Our cell bills are goin to be interesting this year. Anyway. I already right him alot now and we only live a couple blocks apart. The catch is, going up to see him is going to be a ten-twelve hour drive. I know it's going to be worth it. Mark's already said, "I'm not letting you go any time soon." That's reassuring. I've already got a couple of guy friends that said they'd drive up with me for safety. I'm crossing my fingers!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 13, 2007, 06:36:15 am

Eeeee! I'm going to Adam's on Wednesday (next) instead of Thursday. So I'll be with him for a whole week instead of the 2 nights that were originally planned! OMG I can't wait!!!

Apparently I'll be joining him and "the lads" on their Thursday night out. Oo err... I think this is slightly scarier than meeting the parents. :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Aisling on June 13, 2007, 10:07:31 pm

I only just found this thread.

My wonderful husband, who is mentioned in my fanfic (as "Neil"), comes home from basic training tomorrow. I can't wait; I've missed him soooooo much!

Some of the other posters on Page 1 mentioned their guys remind them of Sam. Mine reminds me of a combination of two of 'Lij's characters: William from Bobby and Patrick from Eternal Sunshine, especially when we first started dating. Adorably shy, a bit awkward and geeky, but so sweet and gentle!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on June 19, 2007, 09:08:25 am

Wow, so many long-distance relationships on here!

I find doing the long-distance thing remarkably easy, I think the main "trick" is to be trusting and to communicate lots.

Me and my boy are going so well - he's been down twice again since I met him a month and a half ago, so we spend lots of time together, and he's the most sweet, thoughtful and adorable person ever :)

Anyway, here's a picture of him in his cute scarf, so y'all know what he looks like:

[IMG]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f50/cozska/allan2.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on June 19, 2007, 09:23:00 am

hehe he looks cute coz! glad to hear things are going so well!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 19, 2007, 03:12:15 pm

Agree with Anna, he does look cute.
::)

I'm going to Adam's tomorrow!!! EEEEEEEEEE!!! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on June 19, 2007, 03:24:23 pm

what a nice pic, I see you like the long hair, hey Coz.

Glad things are ok

Elizabeth

;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on June 29, 2007, 06:24:33 am

I'm back from my week with Adam. And I was silly.

There are a ridiculous amount of floods around the UK at the moment, particularly in the Yorkshire and Lincolnshire areas, so rail travel has been increasingly troublesome as more and more lines are flooded, and so routes cut off.

On Wednesday, we went to the station to go home, and it turned out my route home was cut off, and there was no way at all for me to get home by train.

I phoned my Mum to see what could be done. And just as Adam's train set off she told me to go home with him and spend a couple more days with him in his home town (as he had suggested) and she would pay for the travel costs for me getting home that way.

I'd said no originally because it would have meant me spending £40 getting home that way.

If only she'd have said it earlier, then I would have had time to get my ticket and get on the train.

Miss him already :(

Had a great week though. In Lincoln it was raining so hard at some points. We got caught in town in the hugest downpour. We had to walk home and after a while of being soggy and miserable, we soon turned absolutely drenched, seeing was difficult from the amount of water that was going in our eyes (I had the panda look when we got in lol) we stopped fast walking, and just took a leisurely stroll through the rain, him singing stupid rain related songs, and both laughing our heads off.
So much fun, lol.

Everyone was staring at us and giving us weird looks from under bridges, brollys or as they ran past with coats over their heads. We just found it all too hilarious.

Simple things... ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on June 30, 2007, 12:44:39 am

Tafika- Sounds like you had fun dispite the weather! That's always good.

So, things are still good here I'm happy to say! Spent the day with Mark today and that was fun! My aunt had suggested seeing if he could help pick up a few things for my grandma's birthday. He could so it made that much more fun! Did spoil him a bit, bought him lunch before we picked up the balloons and cake. A balloon did pop once we got it in the van. Thankfully, it was only one. Wednesday, we spent a few hours together. That was fun too! Right now, we're looking forward to our twenty one month anniversary!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Faerie in Combats on July 01, 2007, 01:26:59 am

Scott and I have bad fights but today he said that he would marry me even though he never wanted to get married before.
But we aren't engaged (I havent graduated high school yet!)
It was just nice hearing him say so.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on July 01, 2007, 01:13:55 pm

[quote author=Faerie in Combats link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1095#msg1097578 date=1183267619]
Scott and I have bad fights but today he said that he would marry me even though he never wanted to get married before.
But we aren't engaged (I havent graduated high school yet!)
It was just nice hearing him say so.
[/quote]

That's so sweet, that is ok him asking it shows he want's too in the future, that you are the one for him.

;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Faerie in Combats on July 10, 2007, 03:25:03 am

Well TOnight Scott and I have been talking for four hours straight. It's pretty nice talking to him. We talk about comic books and the like.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on July 10, 2007, 03:33:24 am

[quote author=Faerie in Combats link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1095#msg1099939 date=1184052303]
Well TOnight Scott and I have been talking for four hours straight. It's pretty nice talking to him. We talk about comic books and the like.
[/quote]

It is good when you both have something in common to talk about ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on July 10, 2007, 06:31:58 am

My boy is coming down tomorrow!!! I'm so excited to see him again, we haven't seen each other for three weeks now and we're bursting. Some flights were diverted or delayed today because of thick fog though, I'll cry if that happens tomorrow :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on July 10, 2007, 06:33:09 am

[quote author=Coz link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1095#msg1100006 date=1184063518]
My boy is coming down tomorrow!!! I'm so excited to see him again, we haven't seen each other for three weeks now and we're bursting. Some flights were diverted or delayed today because of thick fog though, I'll cry if that happens tomorrow :'(
[/quote]

Oh you poor thing I pray for his flight to be uneventful and arrive on time for you my friend :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on July 11, 2007, 06:50:59 am

Thanks :) The fog has cleared and his plane would have just touched down in Melbourne 5mins ago. Oooh, I can't wait to see him!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on July 24, 2007, 03:25:30 am

my partner mark is off now till 3rd september so I get to spend good quality time with him, I love him so much and hate to be parted from him. Love you mark my sweetie :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Laura on July 24, 2007, 09:00:30 am

Please refrain from double posting. If you have something else to add please edit your previous post.

May I suggest re-reading the rules:

http://always.ejwsites.net/YaBBSE/index.php?board=25;action=display;threadid=15027

Thank you.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on July 24, 2007, 09:39:46 am

I have deleted my double posts that I found here and elsewhere and will refrain from doing it again, thanks :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on July 28, 2007, 12:02:18 am

It's the strict neon bird moderator! That bird scared me ellejay :P

My boy is coming down again in 2 1/2 weeks time (I'm sure it would be much cheaper and easier if he just made the move here once and for all, lol ::)) and like always I can't wait to see him. Last time he was down we hired a rental car for the weekend, drove to the mountains and then to the beach - how romantic! And then he met my parents, they all like him which is good and I'm very proud of him for being brave and talking to them and stuff because he's usually very quiet and shy around people (everyone except fro me :)).

Last night I dreamt that he was trying to kill me though :( :'( It wasn't my fault, I can't control my dreams but when I told him about it he went all quiet and seemed pretty upset. And I seem to have a lot of bad dreams about the relationship, which is sad and confusing because we get along so well, we're like the perfect couple! What can I do to comfort him and make him understand it was just a dream? How can I stop myself having these stupid dreams?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on July 28, 2007, 04:19:21 am

oh sweetie what horrible dreams to have, just keep reassuring him they are only dreams and teling him how much you love him :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 26, 2007, 08:50:55 am

[quote author=Coz link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1095#msg1108444 date=1185595338]
Last night I dreamt that he was trying to kill me though :( :'( It wasn't my fault, I can't control my dreams but when I told him about it he went all quiet and seemed pretty upset. And I seem to have a lot of bad dreams about the relationship, which is sad and confusing because we get along so well, we're like the perfect couple! What can I do to comfort him and make him understand it was just a dream? How can I stop myself having these stupid dreams?
[/quote]

This is so weird. I have had the exact same thing.
Though slightly different.

My dreams are always really vivid, so when they're not too bizzare I wake up wondering if they really happened or not.

I once dreamt that Adam got run over by a train, and was killed. (He found this hilarious when I told him) I got so upset over it, I had to try hard not to ring him to make sure he was ok. Because I know he would have taken the piss for weeks afterwards, lol.

Another, I dreamt he told me he cheated on me.

And another was him proposing to me, me freaking out and ending the relationship.

I always wake up and have to think really hard about whether it was real or not. Sometimes I really hate having such vivid dreams. They really freak you out.

As for your guy, I'm sure he realises it's just a dream and has nothing to worry about. It's just one of those things that would naturally make you feel a bit weird, lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Lyla on August 29, 2007, 04:55:02 am

Can you help me?
Don´t know what to to cause some people say I better shouldn´t make that and some tell me that I have nothing to lose...
2 months ago I met a nice boy.We phoned and mailed every day.In my holidays I visited him a lot cause he doesn´t live in my hometown.We talked about a relationship and said how much we like each other and all the stuff you know.
My holidays ended and there came some mails but no more calls.When I called him he promised me to call back 2 or 3 days later.But I´m still waiting...
So what should I do now? I just wanted to know the reason and why he changes his mind so suddenly even he was at the beginning the one who were afraid of being fooled by me he said.
It´s so confusing me...And he never were angry with me or something like that.We had such a great time together and now??? :'(
Should I call him the last time to ask for the reason?
But he was so honestly to me the whole last weeks. He was always there for me...But I need to know why!!!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on August 29, 2007, 09:12:48 am

maybe leave it a few days. there might be something going on in his life preventing him from calling. You could email and be like 'i've missed talking to you on the phone. Is anything up?' or something.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 29, 2007, 12:08:45 pm

I agree with Anna, leave it a couple of days, and then contact him just to make sure he's ok.

If he claims to be fine, then I believe that you are entitled to know why he's being a bit funny with you, and you should ask.

But yes, making sure he is ok first is a good idea. You don't want to be rushing in and accusing him of being nasty to you in case there is some explanation to his behaviour.

I hope it turns out alright for you :)

Edit:

5 more sleeps til I visit Adam again! I really can't wait! It's his 20th birthday on the 4th, gonna be great! ;D
I'm staying with him for 3 nights, and then I come home to pack up my life and move back to Uni!!!

Weeeee! Loads of things to look forward to! ;D

Just need to finish my summer project now :-\

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Lyla on August 30, 2007, 06:20:34 am

Thanx Tafika & Anna for your help!
He really has a bit trouble now.I asked him yesterday. He said it has nothing to do with me.
In the evening he mailed and called me then again
He said he tries to phone me again today.
I´m really happy that he wasn´t angry or something like that!!!
:)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on August 30, 2007, 06:52:05 am

Aw, well I'm pleased that you figured out what was going on. :)
I hope everything goes well for you guys!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on September 10, 2007, 02:43:33 am

Sounds like everyone's doing pretty well. That's always good. Yeah, Mark's up at college ten hours away! It bites I'll admit. It's not the same without him around. Growing up we only lived ten minutes apart and now it's ten hours! I thought I had adjusted but I'm not quite sure. We do talk every day despite our hectic school schedules. I'm working too which makes it even rougher. We've been together just about two years now (two years next month) and we do know we love eachother. But, there's this little section of me that doesn't completely trust him because of what my ex did when he moved away. Mark's given me everything I could possibly ask for and more. But still. I'm not sure how to handle it. Mark's seen me cry over the webcam somewhere between two to maybe four times in the past week alone. I need suggestions and advice. Please?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 10, 2007, 06:16:17 pm

ADAM IS MOVING INTO HIS NEW FLAT NEXT WEEK!!!

OMG!!! He's just across the road from me! And I'm so excited to be living in the same city again!!! ;D

A 4 months summer holiday is tooo long! I've missed him sooo much!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on September 10, 2007, 07:04:43 pm

Bianca, i've never been in that situation, but i wonder if it's worth just trying to always be positive when you do get to talk to eachother. I think it's important to be honest but you also don't want the little contact you have to be revolving around how much you miss eachother only. You guys already know you miss eachother. I would suggest just trying to be excited about Marks new life too so that he knows he can tell you about the fun he's having even though he's missing you... I donno... i just think it's probably more likely to suceed if you can focus on the positives of your life? I know i just get sick of having the same conversation and having to constantly comfort people.
I can't comment on the trust thing, it sounds like he's never given you a reason not to trust him though.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on September 10, 2007, 11:16:12 pm

Thing is I love hearin about his time up there. I've also been told about his roommates who are....interesting to say the least. They're the reason I worry about him so much. We grew up together and time apart was mainly highschool. Which is also when we got together. So. I'm doing my best to stay posistive. It's hard at times but it is possible. To help myself out I've taken to listening to music again and writing when the inspiration strikes me. But we both know we're going to make it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 11, 2007, 06:03:43 am

I've been through the long distance relationship thing. But, it didn't work out for me.

What I find is, that during this time, you will learn if the relationship is meant to be. If you can work it through the distance and the emotions that that brings up for you, then you know that you will be able to work through most things.

My relationship didn't work, because the distance made us both realise that we weren't really that bothered about making it work. Him more so than me. He didn't want to come visit me at uni, and he would make excuses when I would suggest visiting him. My comments of "I miss you" would be replied with "I know". And little things like that made it fall apart.

It sounds like a harsh thing to say now, but the majority of long distance relationships usually fall apart in their first year.

But, I do know people who are going into their second year of uni, and being in the same relationship, and are still a very strong couple who are very happy.

All I can say is, it will work out if you both want it to. But it does take work. Visit each other every other weekend or something. Call, but don't be overly clingy with calls and texts just because you're far away. There is nothing more irritating than recieving 5+ texts a day saying nothing more than "I really miss you".

It sounds a bit nasty in the way I've said it, but I'm sure you already know that it will not be an easy ride. But, there is every chance that it works out really well for you, and I hope it does :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on September 15, 2007, 02:13:15 am

My long-distance relationship is working out perfectly (four and a half months so far!) but I never lived closed to him so I never suffered from a huge feeling of seperation. It's always sad when we've been visiting each other and then one of us has to go home, but we can handle it because we love and trust each other, and we're not overly stressed about cheating and stuff. Besides, pretty much every moment we're not at work or out with friend or family, we're texting or talking on the internet and phone.

My boy is great ;D He paid for my flight up to Brisbane so I could visit him last week, and we did heaps of romantic stuff like driving up to the Sunshine Coast, going to Mt Coot-the so we could look over Brisbane at night, getting take out and wine and watching movies on the couch, and of course spending heaps of time in bed.

At the moment I'm planning to dedicate a lot of time to making a garden on my balcony, I've planted heaps of seeds and stuff, and he listens to me crap on endlessly because he knows it makes me excited, even though it probably bore the hell outta him! He's just always sweet like that.

We've also made loose plans to move in together, we don't know exactly when it's going to happen yet but I can't wait!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Nutella Sister on September 17, 2007, 01:24:41 pm

[color=Purple]My love life,is gone. He left me in nothing.I don't know..he diteched me or he really had the problem..his dad..wouldn't let him to continue this firendship, maybe it wasn't a relationship to him but it was to me. He always said you're my dear firend but he was a prince charming for mr..the one riding a white horse and surviving my little heart.
He left me without a soul. I'm not the Shayda I was before,I can't be.I died last night,I was going to kill myself, why didn't I do that? I'm gone, dead, destroyed, melted, burnt..I have no soul..like a crying body without anything. Let them think I was weak to face this, let them think whatever they want, but I wasn't. He was weak, not having the courage to tell me the truth.
I still love him, and will love him till the very end. He's in my heart forever. I'll never forget him..
I hope someday he'll find out how much I loved him and how much I will, just hoping it won't be too late..forever and ever, I'll love him from deep my heart.

I was nothing, in my nothing he meant everything to me..[/color]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 17, 2007, 04:55:28 pm

Aw Shayda, I'm so sorry to hear that.

But don't think like that, I know it hurts now, but you're young, and everyone goes through things like this at some point. You will find someone else, this isn't the end of the world. You have a lot going for yourself, don't lose confidence over this.

I reccomend getting some girlfriends together, a bottle or two of wine, some cheesy girly films, and you'll feel a lot better ;)

Chin up hon.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Nutella Sister on September 18, 2007, 03:20:34 am

[color=Purple]tafika, I love him very much, I now there's no one like him anymore, no one better than him..I can't believe this, life without him is like hell..I can't sleep at nights, I'm feeling awful and so depressed..my eyes are watery all day..I can't stop crying..

Lj, the only thing I can do is to cry and think of the wonderful times we had, even though it was a very short time..I love him and will love him forever..I wish this wouldn't happen..I'm really thinking of killing myself..really but..how?my life has end..nothing else left..[/color]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 18, 2007, 06:32:49 am

I know it feels like that now, but eventually you will realise that there are others, and he isn't the only one for you, he isn't "the best". I promise you. I've felt like that before, and felt like I wouldn't be able to move on. But I did, and have found someone who is so much better, and so much more worthy of my time and feelings.

Just don't let this get you down too much. Don't let it beat you. You're stronger than it, I know you are :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Nutella Sister on September 18, 2007, 09:47:45 am

[color=Purple]
I feel awful, still crying and Yasmin my frrend is with me whenever she can. I had an accident yesterday while my driving lesson, I was so down and couldn't think. it was my fault, the accident I mean..
I still love him, I can't think of not loving him even a minute, love him forever...How can I not love him? I was happy when he was there for me
..no this is just a nightmare..I can't believe it..at all!!![/color]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on September 20, 2007, 09:42:43 am

Shayda, taf's right you know. I bet you love all the cute little things about him, the way he talks and the way he acts, I know it feels like he is the best boy in the world and you will never find somebody like him... but that's human nature. Everybody is unique, including your ex. But the thing is, if you give it a little time, when you find a new boy you will realise that the new guy has a whole other set of cute little habits and things about him that will make you fall in love all over again. It will put a different perspective on things. Give it a chance, because it will stop hurting one day.

And if you feel like killing yourself, get counselling! I suffered from severe depression when I was a teenager which I had counselling for, and I have since suffered Post Traumatic Stress Disorder which I also got counselling for, and it really does help. I used to want to die, now I'm so happy with my life. And once you start, you'll realise how common it is for people to get counselling - if you get put into group therapy you could even meet a few cool people who undertsand what you're going through.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Nutella Sister on September 22, 2007, 10:04:56 am

[color=Purple]Coz, taf, Lj, I'm still waiting for him..everyone thinks it's all because of his dad and he'll return after a while..I'm still waiting for him, last night one of my sister's friends was IMing me and said" he's not mad to leave you Shayda!" I asked "why?" and she answered "You're beautiful, kind and innocent" I don't know..."but just let you know if beauty is all the matter for him, then he doesn't worth it..he can't have someone better than you!"
I was so blushing and hoping for this to happen :'( [/color]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on September 24, 2007, 02:34:13 am

[IMG]http://i187.photobucket.com/albums/x262/elizcoffey/DSC_0825_2.jpg[/IMG]

Me and mark at hobbiton in august just gone, isn't he cute ;D

Hope you are okay Shayda feel free to PM me sweetie :-* :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Lyla on September 28, 2007, 09:30:10 am

Awww, wonderful couples!!!
Want to be happy, too... :'(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on September 28, 2007, 10:17:20 am

Adam is the best.

Yesterday I had a really hard day at uni. Was in all day for nothing more than breifings. I had 4 more projects given in one day, and I got home and just broke down.

Adam let me go round to his to get away from the pile of work, and just sob on his shoulder for a bit, until he had me laughing and not thinking about how little social life I'm going to have this year.
I don't know how he does it.

I am so lucky.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Nutella Sister on October 08, 2007, 05:12:26 am

[color=Purple]Mohammad is back!!! :D (the guy i told you about him)

Long story but we are friends again! it's not like having a relationship but he mean everything to me, I love him more than anything..he knows that and he acts like we are only friends but...well who cares? firends or boy firend he's MINE!!! 8)

My life is back!!! Aww...how much happy I am since he's back to my life.. :D ;) [/color]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on October 08, 2007, 12:35:04 pm

Glad to hear your happy Shayda :-*

Hey taf, yes its good to have a shoulder to cry on and even better when your partner can make you laugh, like my Mark ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 21, 2007, 12:33:40 pm

Erk.
Had a huge argument with Adam last night.
I was drunk, he wasn't, and we both managed to be pretty nasty to each other, which led us to sit at opposite sides of the room in silence for half an hour, until we felt a bit silly, and sorted things out.

We argue a lot when one of us is drunk. lol

Not nice :(

Going out for a meal on Tuesday in an attempt to do something other than sitting in and watching a film, lol.
There really is limited things to do around here.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on October 21, 2007, 12:46:49 pm

You same as us taf, so dont worry..here we can either stay in and watch film, go out for a meal, a stroll, or to a pub, thats it really we dont do nightclubs :P Is nice to just snuggle on sofa together though ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Aquariusgirl_87 on October 24, 2007, 05:30:18 am

I'm still a happy single soo can't really participate here ;D
But who knows what future might bring ;) *keeps fingers crossed*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on October 25, 2007, 11:06:24 am

sorry to hear of arguments taf... but at least you guys sought it out quickly! :) don't really have anything more to contribute...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on October 26, 2007, 10:04:02 am

:( had another fight yesterday.
Worst ever. I actually thought we were going to break up.
He turned his phone off, went offline, and locked me out of his flat.
I was stood outside banging on the main door shouting and screaming to get him to let me in. Everyone walking past me staring.

Got in and it was horrible. He wouldn't come near me for so long. I was sat on the floor just crying my eyes out. I was so scared we were going to break up.

But it all seems ok now. As far as I can tell. I spent the night at his and we were the same as usual. Laughing, cuddling and being stupid.

Still a bit worried in the back of my mind. Hope we can move past this and it doesn't raise it's horrible nasty mean old head again. :(

Never want to go through that again. I love him so much.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Kate06 on November 07, 2007, 10:38:20 am

Tafika, I don't know the whole story, but I'm very sorry that it was so stressful for you, and I hope things work themselves out for the better. :) *hugs*





OK...I guess I can put this here, but....I just started seeing this guy, Chris. He's 25 (I'm 19), and I met him at the Starbucks where he works. I go occasionally before school, and one of the girls that used to work at my Starbucks works there now, and she was the one who asked me for my number to give to Chris. We've gone on two dates so far, the last one being on Sunday. We're going out again this Sunday when he gets off work. And OK.
I'm kind of worried. This is like....I mean, if it progresses into an exclusive relationship, it will be my first. And my friend Danni said that he's probably going to kiss me on Sunday. So far he's just held my hand during the movies, and he has hugged me, but that's it. And her reasoning is, is that he was working up to a kiss.
Which makes me semi-nervous, because I've never been kissed. And I'm just worried about a bunch of things I guess.
*sigh* I don't know.......can anyone calm my nerves for me? :( :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on November 07, 2007, 12:41:46 pm

Thats great news, please do not worry about your fist kiss he will probably feel as nervous as you..trust me everything will be fine..tell me how the date went after ok sweetie :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: I_LOVE_MY_BOYZ on November 07, 2007, 05:24:08 pm

Hmm, my partner. *gushes* lol. ::) yeeeah. I like him. he makes me happy. ;D I wish he didn't live so far away... but, yeah. he's still pretty awesome. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 08, 2007, 10:32:40 am

[quote author=Miss Kate link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1125#msg1125624 date=1194449900]
Tafika, I don't know the whole story, but I'm very sorry that it was so stressful for you, and I hope things work themselves out for the better. :) *hugs*[/quote]

Thank you :)
Things are going rather well now. Seems like things are back to normal almost. Yay yay yay!
Went over last night and watched Peter Kay, avoided our ridiculously high workloads for a change, had chips and beer and funtimes! Haha!
Love nights in with him. So simple and easy and daft and nice.
"Chair spinning should be a sport!!!" What a dickhead! Haha!

[quote]OK...I guess I can put this here, but....I just started seeing this guy, Chris. He's 25 (I'm 19), and I met him at the Starbucks where he works. I go occasionally before school, and one of the girls that used to work at my Starbucks works there now, and she was the one who asked me for my number to give to Chris. We've gone on two dates so far, the last one being on Sunday. We're going out again this Sunday when he gets off work. And OK.
I'm kind of worried. This is like....I mean, if it progresses into an exclusive relationship, it will be my first. And my friend Danni said that he's probably going to kiss me on Sunday. So far he's just held my hand during the movies, and he has hugged me, but that's it. And her reasoning is, is that he was working up to a kiss.
Which makes me semi-nervous, because I've never been kissed. And I'm just worried about a bunch of things I guess.
*sigh* I don't know.......can anyone calm my nerves for me? :( :(
[/quote]

Don't be worrying yourself about your first kiss, I'm sure it'll be fine. If you think about it too much then you'll just worry more, and make yourself nervous.

Just chill, and let things happen as they happen. And let us know how you get on! ;D

I love the beginning of relationships, they're so mysterious and giggley and fun. Enjoy yourself! I'm sure you will ;)



Adam had a job interview today at a pub. I really hope he gets it because he wants it so badly. He finds out tomorrow. Fingers crossed for him!

I want him to get it because it will also mean he'll be able to come out with us more! Yaaaaay!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on November 09, 2007, 07:57:20 pm

Miss Kate: Don't worry, and don't think. The first kiss is always scary, but most people survive ;)

Well, I've been together with my Marius for... Seven weeks or something like that. None of us remember when we said "ok, this is a relationship", but we've been flirting/dating since August. I first met him two years ago, on the café I used to work on. And he's really, really, really great!

He's 21 (I'm 16, 17 in November, so he's four years older than me), tall, dark (got brown hair, light skin and blue eyes) and handsome, drives a car, got a great sense of humor, films, music, he think's I'm the most beautiful girl in the world, he is the biggest geek I know, and he's just great!

It was really weird in the start, 'cause he's the older brother of a very good friend of mine. But now that's ok again, but it was really weird the first weeks!

So Marius is the reason for me not being so active on here anymore, him and a bit school, but mostly him. We've been really good at forgetting the time, so I've come home as late as 5.30 in the morning, thank God mum and that trust him ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 10, 2007, 02:12:13 pm

Wow, sounds like your Mum really does trust him. My Mum wouldn't have let me stay out until 5:30am even if I was with my brother when I was 16! lol

Sounds like you're very happy. Good to hear things are going well :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Nutella Sister on November 11, 2007, 01:47:20 pm

[color=Purple]Aww..I'm sorry to hear about those things taf but seems that everything's ok now! ;) :D I'm glad!

Omg!! Kate..sounds very interesting and exciting! ;D how did it go?

VJ is almost 21 (7 more days! :D ) years old and I'm 19. as he said we are really good friends, but not like boyfriend and girlfirend. But honestly I know he doesn't have one so it's not a biggie to me! ;)Aww..I'm so thinking about him every minute! ;D :D :-[ 8) [/color]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Kate06 on November 11, 2007, 08:11:47 pm

Well, last week he didn't kiss me. Hahaha, he gave me a hug, but that's it. We saw an incredibly awkward movie, so that was.....hahahah. Awkward. ::) He just got off work ten minutes ago so we're going to see another movie. Hopefully it will be better this time. ;D I will let you all know how it goes.


I'm worried though because my mom wants me to invite him in and talk to him. :o ::) Poor guy. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on November 12, 2007, 05:43:10 am

Meeting the parents is always scary! The first thing my dad said to Marius was "Do you like chopping wood?" Poor guy, he was frightened to death, but has finally discovered that my dad isn't that scary :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 12, 2007, 08:29:35 am

Oooh, meet the parents is always fun.
Though I was more nervous about meeting his than him meeting mine.

He thought my Dad would give him the "what are your intentions with my daughter" speech, but they're nothing like that at all. lol
They're really laid back, and they loved him.

They didn't meet him til we'd been together 6 months though.

Awww... Adam's poorly at the moment. I'm going round tonight and we're going to watch Spiderman 3. Hopefully I won't get sick too. lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Kate06 on November 12, 2007, 10:37:32 pm

The date went really well. Even though I thought he was going to ask me to be his girlfriend and/or kiss me, he didn't. Oh well. ::) We went to Burger King since he was hungry, hahaha, and I had already eaten (oops), then we went driving for a while to kill time before our movie started (we saw Hairspray) and then we went to the theatre. And yeah....I think I left my phone in his car, hahaha. ::)

Which isn't good because apparently my manager called to tell me that our 'mandatory' staff meeting tonight was cancelled, and I didn't find out until I showed up for it....yeah. >:( Fantastic.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 13, 2007, 06:54:20 pm

:( Adam's poorly. Feel so sorry for him. He's such a moaner, lol. Typical man. Hope he gets better soon though :-*
He starts his new job on Thursday.

Spent last night with him to try and cheer him up. Watched Spiderman3, and ate sweeties. Cuddles and laziness and yay.

Pic of me and him from a night out last week. Really like it for some reason, even if he does look a bit funny, lol.

::)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on November 16, 2007, 06:21:17 pm

nice pic taf! it's been a while since you've posted photos! haha hope adam gets better! looks like things are back on track with you guys though so that's good! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on November 17, 2007, 05:35:57 am

Yeeeaaah! I think we're all better and back to normal now. Which is just fabby ;D

He's got a new job. Hope it doesn't mean he's going to have to spend less time with me :(
If it does... think I might just have to go and visit him at work... have a few pints to keep me entertained... hehe ::)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Bianca on November 17, 2007, 11:16:29 pm

I'll deliver the good news first, Mark's back home! Til next Sunday, yep. So, that's good for now. We had a couple really nasty fights before he got back home though. One in involved politics which well, to say the least...didn't go too well. Got very nasty. The only things we can agree on politiclly are wanting Stephen Colbert to run for office and aborition. Other than that, forget it. The fights set aside, I did get to see him for a few hours yesterday after he got home. Now, I'm just waitin to see how much longer it is til I see him again. My next couple days consist of work and school. And lots of work. The only good thing out of it is the cash. Beyond that, not a whole lot of good. The good part of it though, is we've established that if the other ever needs to call at night, we can eachother's phone whenever. And I mean whenever. So, that's where we are for now.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on December 04, 2007, 04:22:02 pm

;D

... ;D

I'm sooo looking forward to Thursday.

Me and Adam are going to the first night of the Lincoln Christmas market (because you can always walk around it easily on the first night, whereas all the days afterwards you end up queuing up Steep Hill just to get to it), then he's taking me for a meal (won't tell me where, but he's booking a table), then we're going for a few drinks, and then going to see a film.

How lucky am I?!

;D

I can't wait, will be the perfect end to an incredibly stressful week! (3 deadlines, and dissertation blech)

;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on December 05, 2007, 03:52:00 am

that sounds grand taf! hope you have a great time!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on December 05, 2007, 05:43:30 pm

Wonderful taf, a christmas market followed by a meal, drinks and a film, tell me how it went!! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on December 10, 2007, 07:55:25 pm

Had a really good time at the market the other night, and took me to Ask afterwards, which is an Italian place on the quayside. Really nice. But the weather was just dreadful. We had to run to the restraunt because it was raining so hard. Still a good night though :)

The weekend wasn't so good though. Had an eventful night carrying one of my friends home from a night out, and managed to piss Adam off somehow (I seriously don't know how I do it :-\)

But he went out on the Sunday, got a little drunk and decided to try and wind me up. So I turned my phone off.
Bad idea.
I woke up to 7 missed calls, 6 answer phone messages, and a text.
One of the messages was him breaking up with me.

He didn't mean it though. Apparently he was stood outside my flat for an hour trying to get me to let him in :-\

All is ok now though.
We just get so argumentative and pathetic when one of us gets drunk without the other. It's really bad. The fights are just spectacular, and horrible :(

Thankfully we sheepishly sort things out when everyones sober.

My god I sound like a right alco here, lol. I'm not really :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mayadeprei on January 26, 2008, 06:01:19 am

I can't believe I would ever post in this thread, but I have a boyfriend! Yay, since Wednesday! I'm totally head over heels :). It has been so nice...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 26, 2008, 06:26:35 am

Artanis... I am very sorry... but I'm afraid we need a few more details than that...

Gooo ooonnn...

Who? When? Where? How? Etc...

In other news, yay you! So happy for you! ;D lol

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mayadeprei on January 26, 2008, 07:15:00 am

[quote author=tafika link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1140#msg1131047 date=1201346795]
Artanis... I am very sorry... but I'm afraid we need a few more details than that...

Gooo ooonnn...

Who? When? Where? How? Etc...

In other news, yay you! So happy for you! ;D lol
[/quote]

LOL Tafika ;D

Well let me see, his name is Björn and he's 25 (I'm 22). He's actually a collegue of mine, but that doesn't really matter, as I have more than 75 collegues...

So I met him at school but we soon started seeing each other outside school. We started dating in November, but he was first a bit reluctant. But then last week we went to the cinema and he just took my hand and kissed me. so WOW :).

And now we're both totally in love, never thought I would ever feel this. It's just goosebumps and butterflies everywhere...

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on January 26, 2008, 02:34:30 pm

Awww, how sweet! I'm really happy for you. Hope all goes well :)

Things with me and Adam have been improving. And I think I know why.
I recently fell out (big style) with my flat mates. I decided I didn't want to live with them next year, so they decided to make my life a living hell this year. Rather childish if you ask me. They would pile bins against my door, steal my food, make comments about me on facebook, etc. Basically they were bullying me. They're 20 years old, and were acting like 12 year olds.

So Adam was a really great support through that. And I think he's realised that I'm not like them (they were what you can only describe as slags, cheating on their boyfriends, sleeping around etc) so me leaving the group was a great relief for him I think.
I moved out last week and I'm now living with 3 boys. Which I think made him feel a bit uncomfortable. But I think he's getting used to it now.

But yes, since I've walked out of that other flat things have been absoultely fantastic between us. Lets hope it just keeps getting better and better ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on January 27, 2008, 06:34:06 am

Yay you Artanis! Is he Norwegian or Swedish or something? At least his name is. Anyway, congratulations!

Well, Marius and I have now been together for about four months. Wow, time flies by! I love him. He loves me. His family like me, and my family likes him. It's just so great ;D

And the weird thing is, even though it's four years between us, it doesn't feel that way at all. We're soulmates, best friends, lovers... Everything for each other ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on January 29, 2008, 04:08:46 pm

Aw, yay! Glad to hear everybody's so happy. And congrats on the boyfriend Artanis!

Dave and I are still doing well. We don't see as much of each other outside of class lately, simple because we're both so busy (being and English major suck right now...). But it seems like we're both okay with that, so things are still going smoothly.

We're coming up on 3 years in May, which is mind boggling to me. Haha, that seems like such a long time!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 03, 2008, 06:17:01 am

Yay, i'm glad everyone's doing well! keep up on the updates girls so us single ones can live vicariously! haha

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 04, 2008, 03:07:13 pm

Wow, 3 years, congrats!
Glad everyone's happy :)

Me and Adam will have been together a year on Saturday. But he's going to be in Stockholm then :( so I won't get to see him.
Oh well, it's valentines the week after, so I guess that will make up for it :)
This is now the longest relationship I've been in. Very happy.

Still have no idea what to buy for him for valentines :-\
Might have to settle for a default prezzie... in other words... man perfume, clothes, or something DVD/technology related... lol

He bought me flowers. Obviously feeling guilty for sending me a text which got me worrying about things last night. Yes he was drunk...
Maybe we should both stop drinking, it's what causes arguments... lol

Anyway, very pretty flowers, no ones ever bought me them before. So I had no vase. They're sitting in a pint pot until I can go out and buy one tomorrow. Very classy. lol


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on February 06, 2008, 04:03:46 am

ooo yay Taf! very nice flowers! congratulations on your year anniversary!! Maybe you should put a ban on text messages when you're drunk! i don't know how you're meant to enforce that one though :P

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mayadeprei on February 06, 2008, 06:00:26 am

Waw Taf nice flowers! very nice!

Flummoxed: 3 years, that's really incredible. So glad you guys are still so happy!


Marit: Björn is indeed a scandinavian name, he was named after one of the singers from ABBA. But he is Belgian, just like me :). I'm so happy for you that everything is going well with Marius, he sounds like a really sweet guy.


Me and Björn went on a trip to Bruges this weekend. It was the most romantic trip of my life. So cool 8). We visited some musea, we went for a stroll along the beach and we had dinner in some great restaurants. I'm more in love then ever :). Tonigh he is meeting my friends, so I'm quite excited!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on February 15, 2008, 05:23:16 pm

Me and Mark have been together now for nearly ten years now and married for 4 years and 8 months, I love him so much :-* for you my little bubba

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mayadeprei on February 17, 2008, 10:46:23 am

[quote author=Miss Sixty link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1155#msg1132461 date=1203114196]
Me and Mark have been together now for nearly ten years now and married for 4 years and 8 months, I love him so much :-* for you my little bubba
[/quote]

Waw ten years, respect :). So great that you guys are still so happy, that's really special!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on February 17, 2008, 10:57:06 am

[quote author=Artanis link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1155#msg1132593 date=1203263183]
[quote author=Miss Sixty link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1155#msg1132461 date=1203114196]
Me and Mark have been together now for nearly ten years now and married for 4 years and 8 months, I love him so much :-* for you my little bubba
[/quote]

Waw ten years, respect :). So great that you guys are still so happy, that's really special!
[/quote]

thanks Artanis, it feels ages since we first met but can remember it like it was yesterday

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 19, 2008, 04:50:30 pm

Ten years? Wow, impressive! You've been together since you were my age then... heh, could be me and Adam in ten years... That's a scary thought for me right now. lol

How did you and Mark meet?

Things with me and Adam are getting better and better. We went to see The Hoosiers last night, had drinks in the bar to avoid queuing in the cold, and had a few games of pool, then when the concert finished we had more drinks and more pool.
Was such a fun night. The tickets were my valentines present.
We were just so daft it was hilarious. Loved it! ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 19, 2008, 06:04:46 pm

Hey everyone! My goodness. It has been forever since I have been able to post here. But, now I can say that I am in an amazing relationship with a wonderful guy. It has only been a little over a month, but a fabulous month, at that. We had been talking for several months until we decided to date. So here we are. His name is Toulee and he is quite the gentleman. He always knows how to make me smile and laugh. He holds great ambitions and believes in me so much. He is truly a blessing. :) I just thought I'd share that little bit of information. :-*

And I am very happy to see everyone carrying on wonderful relationships of their own. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on February 23, 2008, 05:45:11 pm

I've not been this happy in a long time. I'm bouncing off the walls, even though I have sooo much uni work to do, I'm just so hyperactive and happy all the time.
Adam you bad ass :P lol

Congrats on the new relationship Megs. Hope all goes well for you both :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on February 23, 2008, 05:52:56 pm

We met when I worked in a newsagent he would stare at me when he left so knew he liked me then he asked do you have a boyf then for my phone umber and here we are ten years later

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 23, 2008, 07:12:59 pm

Thank you Tafika! :-*

ANd Miss Sixty, that is wonderful. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on February 24, 2008, 10:27:10 am

Thanks megsie, hope your relationship lasts as long as mine

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 24, 2008, 11:57:08 am

Yes. I have an excellent feeling about this. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on February 24, 2008, 12:26:30 pm

You have a winner there megsie, someone who can make you smile and laugh is worth holding onto

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Frodo_Ubsessed on February 24, 2008, 04:08:13 pm

I'm glad you think so. Thank you. :-*

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on February 27, 2008, 03:03:58 pm

Congratulations Megsie!

Marius and I are still going great ;D

We've been together for about five months now. Wow. Time flies!
He became 22 this Monday, I bought him a shirt, a Stevie Wonder CD, The Jason Bourne Collection DVD-box, a paperbin and took him to see Jumper. He was soooo happy ;D

We went for a walk last week, with a friend. Still snow some parts of Norway :)

From left: Our friend, Marius and me ;D His face looks kind of weird here, but never mind that ^^
[IMG]http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f380/tiram90/blogg/Bilde118.jpg[/IMG]

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on February 27, 2008, 04:26:40 pm

Oh you look so cute together Marit, he tall like my Mark ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Billswife on March 16, 2008, 08:39:14 pm

What a great thread. Ok, my husband was standing over my shoulder less than 10 minutes ago laughing at me for being in here.

He's a musician, lead guitar, death metal and he races motorcycles (as hobbies). He sells motorcycles and bike parts for a living. I'm not a fan of his music, or motorycycles.

But I am a fan of him. He's got dark brown eyes. He's a great cook. Very supportive. He's a very strong person in every sense of the word. He's my rock in many ways.
We've been together for ten years. He is cute. I think so. I thought he'd be mean at first (he looks mean). But he isn't, he's wonderful. And very funny.

He's got a great beard, he's kinda rugged, he's loyal.

I guess if I had to compare him to an LOTR character it would be Aragorn. Of course, bad me, I'm in here. LOL. :-[. FORSHAME.. (giggle)

And WOW the Irony. I'm in an Elijah Wood forum posting about a "crush" on my husband. That might be one of the wierdest things thats ever happened to me. Too funny. ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Billswife on March 16, 2008, 08:41:59 pm

[quote author=Miss Sixty link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1155#msg1132461 date=1203114196]
Me and Mark have been together now for nearly ten years now and married for 4 years and 8 months, I love him so much :-* for you my little bubba
[/quote]

Congrats to you Miss Sixty. Ten years. :)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on March 20, 2008, 09:58:09 am

Me and Allan are nearing our 11months now... soon it will be a year since we got together - ooh, excitement!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on March 21, 2008, 12:04:12 pm

hey coz! congrats! i can't believe it's been that long!! i remember you talking about meeting him like it was only 3 months ago or something! hahah! glad to hear things are going well!! is he still living in sydney?


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on March 21, 2008, 06:56:13 pm

Thanks Anna :) He still lives in Brisbane, yeah :( still waiting on his stupid work to transfer him.

It doesn't seem like we've been together that long at all, it still all feels so new and exciting. I'm so happy!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Lanta the Gemstar on March 22, 2008, 10:12:15 am

I'm originally from Brisbane and met my hubby there but don't live in Bris-vegas no more :(

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on March 23, 2008, 06:26:52 am

Whereabouts in Brisbane did you live? Where do you live now?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Lanta the Gemstar on March 23, 2008, 09:40:44 am

Mostly around the Mt Gravatt area in Bris, now in Central Queensland.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Lanta the Gemstar on March 23, 2008, 09:42:28 am

My family lived in Melbourne for years but before I was born. We still have relatives there and in Gippsland Coz.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 24, 2008, 10:42:58 am

My brother lived in Brisbane for a year, when I visited I thought it was awesome! Wish I'd had the chance to see more though.

Good to hear everything is going well Coz, sounds as though you're dealing with the distance quite well, which is a very good thing :)

Me and Adam are still doing well.
Do you remember a while ago when I was talking about an issue of trust we were having. Well the other night he told me he trusts me so much more now I moved flats and stopped seeing certain friends. I was over the moon when he said that, hopefully this will mean that the up coming 5 month summer holiday will be easier (turns to a long distance relationship in the summer term, which is stupidly long :()

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on March 26, 2008, 05:20:09 am

Oooh Lanta, if you're in Melbourne somtime we should hit the town for a night out.

I know a lot of people have trust issues with long distance relationships, I'm lucky enough that my biggest problem was that at the start of the relationship I wasn't sure whether to trust myself :-\ I've gotten through that though, I know I would never do anything to hurt Allan.

I reckon you'll get through the summer term just fine tafs, you & Adam have been together for ages and you always work things out. You don't miss seeing your old friends though do you?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 26, 2008, 07:15:23 am

No I don't miss them at all. We had a massive falling out, and they resorted to bullying me, so I will be more than happy to never see them ever again. lol
I've found out who my real friends are, and they are a lot nicer people than my previous 'friends'.

Anyway, I'm planning on staying in the city I go to uni in over summer to get a job and also a work experience placement, and Adam is thinking about doing the same, I doubt he will though... he loves his home town, lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: HobbitFancier on March 27, 2008, 05:34:47 pm

So glad the hear everyone is doing so well. :D It's been ages since I've been in here.

Dave and I are still doing good. Better than ever, actually. We're coming up on 3 years in just over a month, which is still pretty astounding to me.

We'll be dealing with the distance issue again this summer/fall. But this time I won't be just across the state from him -- I'll be across the world! :-\ I'm studying abroad in New Zealand from July-November. Not only will we not see each other, but with the 14-hour time difference, I don't know how much we'll get to talk, either.

Not exactly ideal, I guess, but I feel like we'll be okay. We're so solid in our relationship right now, and I don't think either one of us would intentionally do anything to screw it up. We'll miss each other, for sure, but hopefully we can both still have fun on our own, too.

But I gues we'll see! I'm trying not to worry about it too much. Whatever happens happens, I guess. But I'm confident we'll be fine.

And, the fact that I'm leaving in a couple of months has made him act extra sweet and adorable lately. Haha. I've been taken out to dinner and bought presents much more frequently recently! ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 27, 2008, 08:01:09 pm

Wow that sounds like a great opportunity Flummoxed!
And I wouldn't worry, if me and Adam can make 5 months apart, then I'm sure you two can as well ;) You'll just have to get into a routine of getting up really early or staying up late so you can keep in touch.
And you can get some really good mobile tariffs these days that make international calls the same cost as your usual rate :) (I have regular phone conversations with a friend in Australia myself)

Adam is coming back on Saturday! I can't wait! ;D
His parents are coming with him as he's doing a 10k run for charity on Sunday, so we have to stand at the finish line and cheer him on.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on March 28, 2008, 02:51:53 am

In nearly 5 years of marriage me and mark have only spent a rew days apart and it was awful I couldn't stop crying the whole day, cuddled the teddie he bought me in bed at night, I was so lonely wothout him :-[

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mayadeprei on March 28, 2008, 06:31:44 am

Hey huys,

glad to heae everyone is doing well. When I was single I could never understand how you couldn't miss your bf for a couple of days but now that I have one myself I totally undertsand. I can't miss him, even for a couple of days. Of course I guess when you realise that you have to, you can find a way to survive :).

I wish everyone good luck with the long of short distance realtionships!

Me and my bf are doing well. It's so amazing how we can talk about anything, Sigh, I love him :)


Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on March 28, 2008, 07:20:36 am

[quote author=*ANna* link=board=5;threadid=29474;start=1170#msg1137715 date=1206115452]
hey coz! congrats! i can't believe it's been that long!! i remember you talking about meeting him like it was only 3 months ago or something! hahah! glad to hear things are going well!! is he still living in sydney?


[/quote]

D'oh! You were right, I've only been with my boy 10 months. I got confused! March and May sound so similar :-[

How embarrassing!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tiram90 on March 29, 2008, 11:43:58 am

Wow, five months apart sure is a long time. But I'm sure you'll find a way to manage it :)

Marius and I have been together for six months today! I'm like... Wow! He's so lovely. Looking forward to spend the summer with him on his boat!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: mayadeprei on March 29, 2008, 01:49:14 pm

Me and Björn booked our holiday today! Yay, were going to Kos, a Greek island, in August. I just can't wait. Do you guys have any vacationplans with your boyfriends/husbands/... ?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on March 30, 2008, 02:07:34 pm

No :(
I really wanted to go away with him this year.
But then my friend decided to surprise me with her coming over here from Australia to do some travelling with me, so all my money is caught up in that.

I wanna go holiday with Adam :(

Oh well, hopefully when we graduate next year we can get a flat together here in Lincoln, that would be AWESOME ;D

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on April 01, 2008, 05:41:20 am

Allan & I went camping for a few nights at the start of this month, and we hope to go to NZ some time soon... I just gotta work out if I have the money to do it.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on April 12, 2008, 09:13:24 am

Flummoxed- i'm on an exchange at the moment in spain and come from australia. Two of my good friends have boyfriends back home. It's definitly made it more difficult for them to be away from home and miss home more than the rest of it but it's also brought them a lot closer to their boyfriends because they really appreciate eachother a lot more - good old abscence makes the heart grow fonder.

My brother's best mate lives in america and they talk on the phone a few times a week despite the time zones and everything. There's some really cheap phone card options in australia which i imagin there would be in NZ too. Anyway ... that's enough of a rant

Tafika- i can't belive your summer is so long! that seems crazy!! it'll be easier to catch up from lincoln though wont it if you do stay there?

Cos- i didn't realise alan was in brisbane! do you get to see him very often? At least there's the transfer option on the horizon!

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 12, 2008, 11:54:04 am

I know, it's a joke isn't it. The contract for my flat runs up til the end of August, and it seems silly to be paying rent while I'm not actually living here. Not sure how many people are going to be around either, so I may well be all on my own.

It's 2 hours train ride home from here. And about 3 or 4 to Adams home town from Lincoln, which is about the same as what it would be if I were travelling from my home town.

2 weeks of uni left to go :(

Anna, are you in Spain now?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: elizabeth coffey on April 13, 2008, 05:58:18 am

Mark is such a sweetie and I could not imagne life without him, I cuddled with him while he was still in bed and got him a nice cup of coffee when he got up. :-* He is so cute and sexy.. ;)

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on April 14, 2008, 04:51:49 am

Taf- i am in spain at the moment. three months in and got another 2 and then i'm going to travel around europe for as long as i can afford... and a couple of weeks in new york on the way home. bit crazy! thus my extreme lack of posts in the past few months... not that i was particularly good at posting any more when i was home but whatever.

that's a bugger adam's so far away... but at least it's a trip that can be done in one day has he been to your home town yet?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: tafika on April 14, 2008, 06:05:10 am

New York on the way, lol, a bit out of the way I'd say ;)
That's wicked you're travelling around Europe, me and my Aussie friend are doing that in Sept ;)
If you make it to the UK perhaps you could pay me a visit, lol, I feel I'm going to be awfully lonely in 2 weeks time.

We spent yesterday being silly. Making forts, attacking forts, making angel delight, playing board games, and just being daft. It was wicked.

Yes he has been to my home town, I've been to his more, but he's met the parents once after us being together over a year now, lol.

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Miss ANna on April 14, 2008, 07:41:22 am

haha forts... you crazy kids
i do plan to swing by the UK... probably only briefly because i feel it'll be very expensive. Where is Lincoln in relation to London?

Title: Re:Gushing about your partner
Post by: Coz on April 19, 2008, 09:15:58 am

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Cos- i didn't realise alan was in brisbane! do you get to see him very often? At least there's the transfer option on the horizon!
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I get to see him about once a month, which is really good. I can't wait till he moves though. He lived down here for a couple of months over Christmas, it was pure bliss!

Our one year is coming up in two weeks though, and I don't get to see him cos work has rostered me on to work that Saturday >:( I really hate my work sometimes >:( >:(

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