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Title: out of control..
Post by: Frodo Baggins on May 16, 2005, 10:00:54 pm

Hey srry I need to get this off my chest.. latly I'm scared like afraid. has this ever happined to three friends have gone crazy on me Sam & Merry an my nieghbors.. there doing stuff I wouldn't be doing. Bad stuff. How do I cope or what can I do?needs some comfort. Scared Hobbit here.

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: elijahs_girl on May 17, 2005, 08:07:18 am

Awww Frodo Baggins, what is it exactly you are scared of? If you tell us maybe we can help. I'm sorry that your friends are doing things that you don't want to you mind if I ask what they are doing?
It's OK to feel scared sometimes- in fact, I get scared alot, you just need to overcome the fear. I'm really sorry that you are feeling like this, but if you give us some more information, maybe we can help more :)

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: LegolasBuzzgirl on May 17, 2005, 01:09:08 pm

Yeah. Take a deep breath and write legibly and the fantastic members of a+f will offer you all the support and advice we can.

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: Frodo Baggins on May 17, 2005, 04:03:13 pm

Ok *Calm's down* What I'm really saying is>How do you guy's deal with peer preassure? For me it's more like Hobbit Pressure.. like if your friend wants you to drink an you don't how do you deal with it. Truth Cause my friends Sam& Merry are pressuring me to do stuff with them..I wouldn't even think about doing..How do I deal or cope!!!

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: Kari_Grace on May 17, 2005, 04:27:01 pm

Well ... I've never had the problem of that, before. My friends are pretty awesome, though. They're all really good kids. If you keep refusing to do things with your friends and they won't quit, I'd suggest getting new friends ... I know that'd be hard, though.

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: meriadoc fan on May 17, 2005, 04:36:43 pm

Just say no, your not ready to drink. Its your descision, they can't make it for you. They can't be proper caring friends if they want you to do something your unhappy with.

Thats my bit of advice ;D

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: elijahs_girl on May 17, 2005, 04:47:09 pm

Ok, I see now. What I think is that you should be able to tell your friends that you are uncomfortable. If they are your true friends then they should understand this.
I know its hard, but you are an amazing, intersting person who doesn't need drink, and that in itself is a very good thing :)
Let us know how it goes, and we are all here if you ever need to talk! *hugs*

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: aluap on May 18, 2005, 03:56:18 pm

Can you please pay a little more attention to your spelling and netspeak as it is somewhat hard to read. Thanks.

I can't help but think it a little odd that in all of your posts you actually refer to yourself as Frodo Baggins as in the character rather than just useing it as a screen name and now you are referring to your friends as Sam and Merry like you are a real hobbit, it was cute for a while but now I just don't get it.

Title: Re:out of control..
Post by: Sweetie on May 19, 2005, 07:38:15 am

I think something like that happens to everyone once in a lifetime.I say you just stand up for your self and say no.They can not decide what is best for you ,only you can know.Like Elijahs_girl said,if they are your true friends they will understand.I once got an offer to try cigarettes.They were like come on try it! but I said no,and afterwords I was so proud of myself.It's so scary to say no,but hopefully they will respect your choice
and drop the subject.Don't do anything you are not ready for.God I start to sound like a mum now.I'll stop :)

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